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Neptunium:
The kid wants to come to suffer, abi? In a house full of 7 children already, where daddy no get their time.. him too busy chasing skirts, where mommy has her hands full chasing after 7 other kids ehn?

My brother, the reason why I liked a platform like this is that everyone contributes their own opinion..

Opinions expressed will be different because people were different.. and we don't have to agree... That's why we all are unique in our various ways...

The opinion I expressed is based on the empathy stand point considering the circumstances surrounding his or her conception...

I will never ask OP to take my opinion... She is wearing the shoes and she alone knows where it pinches.. it's her call to make...

I like your funny outburst though.. I don't know if it's me u were angry with, or the foetus or OP or the husband...I can read between the lines but this one is above my head.

NoToPile:
Actually I think it takes a sperm an egg and a miracle for pregnancy to occur,

The whole stuff looks so simple since we don't even see the fertilization process but it's quite complex (so we read) very extraordinary event if you ask me.

I honestly understand you.. OP said that they had a family planning done..yet, she still got pregnant .. that was why I am kind of feeling bad.. The kid wants to come, so he/ she should be given a chance to survive...

I am even feeling uncomfortable talking about if a life should be spared or be eradicated...
Body dey do me one kind now.. I guess I wouldn't say anything on this thread again because it's way out of my comfort zone

GloriousGbola:
Means nothing. Every one on this earth beat hundreds of thousands of spermatozoa in the race to the ovum.

That is also arguably a miracle on its own

Yes everyone beats thousands of spermatozoa but many were not blocked from swimming..

If you think everyone is a miracle, then this type is an extra ordinary because there are hindrances..

It's just my opinion though.. not scientifically proven though..

Klass99:
Ify Belgium . You mah, you don dey smoke weed? How can you be saying this kind of thing? The seven she has already have not wiped her tears away, neither have the two boys she clamoured for.

Shebi you saw the thread where a 22 year old user said his parents have 8 kids and narrated what their collective lives and living situation is like? I just don't understand what some people are doing these days when it comes to starting a family or building one.

Klass, this one is a miracle baby in my opinion .. He or she swam into an ocean when doctors have closed border.. No GPS or compass yet it went blindly till it finds it's destination... (He or she make a determined immigrant)

I would have given him or her a chance considering it's desperation if I am OP's spouse.. he or she really wanted a chance to come in and shine in my old school philosophy and Opinion..

Others were planned, this one isn't... Let's see what unplanned one can offer...
Though I don't fancy couples bringing kids into the world that they can't take care of... But the special circumstances surrounding this one, I'd give it a chance... (It jumped border patrols of the doctors)

Raalsalghul:
Seven children in this current Nigerian economy?
SMH!

Cti28:
I am not gullible. I will only give in to them, if my steadfastness is dwindling.
By the way Jesus is the only way.

jrusky:
Pls after locating the useless children pls is their anyway you can manage to know that pastor location and his church name pls?

What kind of love do you intend to show the pastor ..
Online Vawulence... Or in person courtesy call that involves swollen mouth

Cti28:
I am just waiting for a so-called pastor as this to cross my path.

If u are waiting for them to cross your path, it won't happen man ...
It will only happen when you were in a precarious situation and needed a way out...

That's when they will now tell u anything they want just because u were desperate.. and those desperation has led to lots of costly mistakes, Like this one now.

Rubbiish:
U were angry to want to throw something at your husband?? When he didn't touch u? If it was your father or buhari that insulted u, even in your anger will u dare throw something at them? & now u come here to ask if u should apologize again? It is very simple, u don't respect that man at all. For u to have the guts to want to throw something at him tells a lot, even if we advice u to apologize, u won't, because u feel he is not worthy of your multiple apology. If u respect & value him, u wouldn't dare throw something at him, u will talk back, not throw something at him. That is the highest form of disrespect a man can get from his wife.

just imagine her throwing Pen or office eraser at her annoying bosses in her place of work. And the reactions of HRs

TheMostComplex1:
It's wrong but most times the do, by the time you're calling the victim & the complainant the will not always be available so the matter will be dismissed.

Wow!!! That was so wrong..

ImaIma1:
After 8 children all managing in a two bedroom flat, he should never be allowed near that woman alone.

GboyegaD:
We seem very similar except for the last paragraph. I am both not daring and daring at the same time depending on who, what, and how I feel about the situation.

I understand you man.. I am glad I am not alone on this... There are whole lot of people that has the same character traits like me.. it's really reassuring

Munzy14:
Surely you aren't alone.

What is your birth month and date?

Why? Don't tell me you are into zodiac signs.. and wanna tell me my life history...Ok 30th April..

Ijaya123:
Babes will easily have their way with you i that case.

Not really.. when I was playing the field, I wasn't foolish...

Munzy14:
You have similar traits with my Dad...At a time I told him Dad you are best when employed and paid...

Business is not for him..He will kuku give out capital to the emotional manipulators..

And this kind of people when they notice your weakness, they will exploit you.

Thanks for letting me know that I'm not alone in this world based on those character traits .. Honestly, it's reassuring

LienwaltAbel:
I don't know oh. Places like England and the Netherlands that constantly deal with floods nko. Nigerians self.

I don't blame them though... When leaders neglects their duties, they got blamed for everything including natural occurrences like rainfalls and flooding