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Am angry my name was not added to the list   how many times would i say '' I AM INTERESTED''

I am so interested. yeap!!!!! we should have a nairaland account, where people can donate money into it, anytime and we could use that to help people, students who need assistance to further their education, orphanages, petty traders, hospitals and so on, i think this is a very good idea.

Who says we need to bear arms? the government should better concentrate on things that matter, instead of trying to wipe a whole nation out.

Money, Love and 'nice' kondo!!!!!!

Well if you kids are not comfortable with what your dad is doing, you could sit him down and have a round-table discussion with him. There is time for everything, moreso it is embarassing, some will say it is his business, but seriously!!! is it really?

If the man has the money, no need to ask who is doing what?!!!!!!!! let him buy the items that is needed, and contribute what he has for the wedding, that is not to say he should be dropping 50,000 naira for a 1 million naira wedding oooo. He should come out and say what he has in his pocket, the bride should table hers too, so they would be able to cut their coat according to their cloth. Or better still, bride's handle traditional wedding, groom's family handle everything that has to do with reception. simple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!lo baa tan!

armyofone:
funny, you cracking my ribs

you don't get that till midnight hehehe . just got tired and bored after a hard time in lab and came home one fall night, you know what you do with remote on a boring night wey you no fit sleep ba i come reach that channel o.

my sister i dey o oyinbo courses no make man pickin see road again

My dear i feel you jare!!!! , i dey stumble on dat kind chanel if my hubby no dey!!! , so how far with wedding runs, don't mind me poking my nose into your affairs , i read it somewhere that you were getting married soon, hope the guy no say na SOLDIER e dey marry,'' ''so he better recognise''

Chaircover, you always hit the nail on the head, everly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Odunnu:
I am a actively involved as partner to a number of NGOs who cater for the needy and I do know, just like I said earlier, they all cannot be helped at the same time. Point is, how about helping another family under that bridge since we've already set our hearts to it? I am confident Dupe isnt the only one there who genuinely needs help.

Odunnu, am with you on this, thought about that too.

armyofone:
how e cost for your side? do you have financing and discount? any on sale?

you should see what the e.rotica channel sell too i no fit laugh

Armyofone, your ashiri don tuu ooooo!!!! so this is the chanel you watch all day, little wonder we hardly see you online,

r231:
Thanks a lot guys for rising to the occasion.

Well it has been confirmed that the family has a property now and will be moving soon.

So do you think we should still do our bit or we should just forget the contributions?

yea, we still need to help them, especially the kid's school.

If marraige is not based on love/ affection, then that union will not last.

Idowuogbo:
Ronke let's treat dis guy as family na, d babe came bck and pacccccck o.Gal we all women ordinary boyfriend sef I will b begging like oliver twist did,pleading dat he reconsider me and forget wot my stuupidity has caused d relationship.Infact I will pray my belongings don't move from his house because when u move out it takes a pope to move u back in . Please don't even bother say she's confused because no sane woman would do that if they were begging for forgiveness earlier.In my opinion jenny couldn't have said it any better any union without affection is unhealthy

Wahlai, if it was my broda, na the same thing i would tell him, only if i don't like the chic, the lady's emotions are everywhere, only because she allowed anoda ''playa'' brain wash her, well God knows better, if they are meant for each other, they would be, if not ''deuces'' then.

I think her [packing and leaving makes sense, instead of making a fool of herself, when the whole storm calms, things might be different.

coogar:
ronkebp, how exactly did you arrive at this conclusion?
if the other bloke ticks all her boxes, she won't remember the op for one second. until the other bloke starts messing up, the original poster is not on the mind of this sheisty chic.

CG, i have known so many women to ''fuc,k the hell up'' and later regret their actions. This one is no different.

^^^^^Femostica!!!!!!! na today? the guy has dealt with her already, infact where ever she is right now, she won't be able to sleep, am telling you, she is thinking about her life right now!!!!! and would be making up her mind very soon, about the whole thing. Mr Chuks has punnished her by breaking up with her, which she did not expect at all, am sure she was waiting for him to prostrate and beg her, her life would never be the same.

ifyalways:
@Tpia,Nice points.
I would be providing the wife and boy decent clothes on Sunday,with other sundry stuffs like foodstuffs,provision,multi vitamins and blood tonics.

The clinic idea is good but wud make more sense if its done after they've secured accomodation.

[b]@Ronke,Opening the account on their name does not mean giving them free access or leaving the money for them to utilize,NO.To the best of my knowledge,it takes an average of 1 week to get a withdrawal booklet or atm.With the help of the 2nd NLder,when the money is together,we'd go with the couple,get it out and pay for everything ourseleves(Icthe 2nd NLDer and couple),right down to going to the mkt.I would find out from the couple on sunday,the biz they wud want to do and report back here.[/b]The couple really won't be touching or handling money.That was what I had in mind.

Everly on your side, wish i was home, these are the types of jobs that pumps my blood. so glad!!!!

@ Poster, your story is very touching, and i feel so much for you. it is not easy loosing the one you really loved and cared for.

All i can deduce from that babe is that she just needs time to think about her life, and i think you did the right thing by letting her go. At her age she should know what she really wnats out of life, if some guy is deceiving her with lies and fake things too bad for her, that is how women make the wrong choices of whom to marry.

I have a strong feeling she is going to be back when her head clears, and i  would suggest you forgive her and take her back (at your own time) and that is, if she comes back, which i know she will, because the position she has in your heart, no one can take her place,(am not saying you might not find someone who you will cherish more than her ), but if your heart says you should forgive her and take her back, listen to it.

@ Poster, soooooooooooo?? what do you want us to do about this your predicament??

ifyalways:
@Odunnu,I'm not comfortable with using my account for this.I would after my sunday visit go back again on monday and pick Dupe(or the hubby) and help them open an account then post the account details here immediately.Pictures of every single step would be posted here.And to keep track of who pays and when s/he pays,I can link the account alerts to my mobile/email,thatjs the best and much I can do.

Would also ask them the business they would want to do on sunday and hopefully get more pictures.

I gat you, but i am with OAM4J on this, giving the money directly to them, would not help us on this one at all. unless you want to open up a different account totally, in your name though.

^^^^^^^^^^LOL!!!!! Abi now, Ify, wetin i for talk? trying to save a marraige.

instead of you to get a job, you are looking for a ''sugar mummy'' at this age and time.

Infact, if we can get a doctor, who is a Nairalander, to give her a free check-up, just his/her own little way of helping the woman out.

^^^^ Tpia, that is a good one, that is why i hope more people would be interested in helping out (financially) at least if there is enough money on ground, then every other thing would fall into place. Once the house palava, is out, work is out, then the child's school and the woman's health should be the next thing.

H$L BROKERgat gat your thinking!! true talk!!!!!

Na true talk!!!!!!!! i saw him yesterday in balogun market, inside keke-napep (the real lamborgini) you wan try.

@ Poster, it is simple, no need to tell your cousin, but be ready because your younger cousin too will bleep your own fiancee, ''what goes around comes around''.

OAM4J:
Ifyalways I can trust.

Yep i got it from the next post after mine.

jp philips:
pls help me ask the poster whether the mistress is not a woman. I can understand a man's indifference to his family because of career but i don't understand it when another woman is involved, or perhaps the mistress has two heads, just wondering

As if, if you are eating only pounded yam, person no dey tire to eat the same pounded yam everyday forever!!!!!! the men (who are promiscuous and useless) would always try something else even if they have a QUEEN, in the house. Till the one outside uses juju on them and buries their head (men) between her thighs.

Yield:
Thanks for posting the pictures, Freiburger. And thanks for visiting the family, ifyalways - that was nice of you to go out of your way to do that. So far, Freiburger, Talina, ifyalways, OAMJ, tpia, r231 and I would like to help? Not sure if I'm missing anyone. Anyone else? Please free free to join us in this. The more hands we get, the better, so don't be shy to input, even with whatever you have. A little will always go a long way. I'm off to work now and won't be online again till early tomorrow morning. But need to read the thread more thoroughly. Talina and I are the only ones in the same country here, so maybe she and I can talk about how we will get our contributions to ify. Let's try to help this family, guys.

Good!!!! i am soooooooooooooooo, interested. God bless you and Talina.

Guys, abeg lets do something fast to help this people, what is the account number, where we can send the money to?? because the faster we do this the better for the family member and let us make sure (whoever is in charge)  the money is not stolen by a dubious person who is posing to want to help the people, because i hardly trust some of these Nigerians.

Problems with marrying virgins, if they don't have fantasies before their wedding, there would be fantasies after the wedding. Ooooogaju!!!!!!! especially between 5 and 15 years of marital life.

@ Poster, on a second thought!!!!!, you can be that anonymous guy ooooo, as in pretend to her that you are getting a man for her, first, you have to elongate your 'thing''shaaa!! with whatever! do the research and find solution. then mask up and bleep her like never before!!!! infact by the time you are done, she will never fantasize again,

@ poster, there are so many marraiges that God has not joined together, some people are enjoying their union irrespective of what they are going through only because God is the foundation of such relationships. I would rather the couples looked inward to see what joined them together, is it God or money, sex, friends, family, physical looks, unnecessary attraction. and so on. And what God has not joined together, ''trust me'' when i say, so many things would put asunder, unless they run to HIM.