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Richy stop saying it is difficult for men to keep to one woman, there are men that still do it, or are you saying their kondo is made of plastic, this is what discipline is all about. I respect every other religions view point, like i said i am talking from the christain perspective. A muslim is allowed to marry as many as 4 wives, traditional is unlimited because they made it to suit themselves (men).

Am a christian and i talk and live as one, don't the muslims also have laws against women that cheat on their husbands what do you call that in islam?

^^^^^^^ iam sorry am replying late Dillydally. I personally do not think her sexual exposure is the cause or part of her misbehaviours, i think her environment and the way she was raised has a lot to do with such stuff. She might be stiff though with other men, but that has been her way of shielding her self from ''hungry men''. not withstanding, i will not advice you to expose her more into other men, women are vulnerable.

Richvkunt:
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Ronke,tell me how cheating is a sin if you are a muslim or a traditionalist.
I see that Chaircover has taken to her heels.

If you decide to marry another wife is a different thing entirely, but if you have a wife at home and sleeping with another woman whom you are not married to is ''adultery''.

Thank God. ( two words to describe him) Grateful to God for giving me ''him''.

^^^^^^^^^^^^ she is not the one holding you down, it is you that do not want to move on, she is not obliged to tell you any of her affairs, like someone pointed out you are not married to her yet, so she can do whatever!!! with her life. I can sense you are an emotional person, and that is not too good for a man, Ask Mr. Chuks that posted on here few days ago, how he is dealing with his own heartbreak.

@ Dillydally Seriously and you think the fact that you married her a virgin is causing her misbehaviours?

naijababe:
Kai, dis tin no be iyan or moinmoin na I don laff tire for this thread o

My dear this thing dey important pass iyan anmd moi-moin oooooooooooo

Thankl God for that accomodation they've got, so lets finish contributing, so we would know how much we have, that would determine what we would give him to start his timber business.

armyofone:
winter is coming and Ronke take it easy with your man o.
[s]kai, i need to get hurry make me sef chop big kondo and quench on top [/s]

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;Dmy dear the idea is ''no break''

chaircover:
Ronke That is what I was saying in one of my earlier posts. The guy lacks technique. You dont have to have a 14 inch diick before you ca satisfy a woman. Infact you can have a 14 inch diick and be absolutly useless.

Somehow the wife thinks that once she tastes a larger one, all will be well and she goes back to being wifey, but I know that the possibility of that happening is rather slim, unless the husband gets lucky and they find a man with a larger diick but no technique like himself so the woman wont notice the dfference but if the strange man is good at it then hello to extra marital affairs and the marriage eventually breaks up.

yeeh!!! you are so right, what if the woman in question have not climaxed before, she might be thinking it is her hubby's kondos' size that is not making her climax!! Kai, i am just imagining, that one naa serious sextual torture.

^^^^^^ Chaircover, the hubby no just good enough for her, and it is only because the man(hubby) is pampering her V.JAY JAY, For reasons i don't know!!!! now she wants an extra dickoo, the man gat to step up his game,( I am not trying to start a fight ooo between couples), but it should be a slap on his face, that his wife would make such a request all in the name of fulfilling ''fantasies''.

Omo!!!! the guy needs 'f.ucking' lessons!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry to sound nasty)

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=805180.msg9573027#msg9573027 date=1321480454]Do you still remember when you wrote your first love letter or when you got your first boyfriend/girlfriend or when you had your first kiss ?. How old were you and was it a good decision at that age?.[/quote]Wrote so many love letters, don't remember the first time i actually wrote one

my first boyfriend was in ss2, prior to that time, we had been admiring eachother from js3 class, we were always staring at each other and he would always pick a fight with me, then ss2, he picked up the libver to approach, and that was it!!!!

my first kiss was with the same guy, ss2, we kissed for an hour, pausing and continuing, it was the day i had longed for.

@ Poster, it is either this man loves you or he needs something from you, but i would go with the former, or else he would not still be with you. No matter how he strays he would still comeback to you. I will advice you not to tolerate that!!! utter nonsense!! let him know your stand about the whole thing, or else he would keep doing his thing and thinking you will always forgive him.

chaircover:
[b]Jenny & Ronke

There is big and there is "uncomfortably gigamously gigantic" [/b]Odunnu dont mind those nasty girls they are corrupting me too

, My dear, give me that ''gigantic one'' by the time am done with it, it would lessen.

@ Poster you cannot save a relationship that has died since forever!!!!  Put your mind at rest and look for other girls that you would care for and cherish, not always you end up with your heart throb in life.  You need someone that would respect you and give you peace of mind not a ''cheap everything goes lady''.

Dinachi, i get your points, what is wrong is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!! there is no way to go round it. Dinachi is just speaking out his mind as a christian, and that is what christians that want to live the life of Christ, should do. SPEAK OUT!!!! Whether it sits well with the readers/hearers or does not. No point justifying SIN!!!!!!!in VARIOUS SHADES AND COLOURS.[b][/b]

Kx:
why not cocoa instead of sugar cane

They can do both and even more sef!!!

The federal government would not do what the state government should do.

The governors are sitting doing nothing in their offices waiting for miracles to occur, they travel to different nations and have not seen anything positive to implement, except, sending their kids to study abroad. Our government is a big joke, and only when they stop thinking about themselves but the NATION that things would start to take a positive shape.

What annoys me most, is the trailers that park on lagos-ibadan express-way, so many lives have been lost in car accidents from having a head-on collision with a parked trailer, the State governors do not have the common sense to create a 'lot' from the land between ibadan/ogun/ and lagos state for these trailers.

chaircover:
Jaybee

MBJ the problem with these kinds of things is that there is no guarantee that it will be a one off. Besides there are some things in life that you just have to make do with. No one can have it all. If diick size was such a big deal to her, then she should have got her taperule out and measured the thing a long time ago before she said I do instead of causing kata kata 5 years into the marriage.

[b]The irony of the whole thing is that women who have gigantic diicks drilling them every day would do anything to have a smaller one. One mans "meat" is another mans poison in the real sense of it. I tire.[/b]Omo essex bawo ni I beg rest those thumbs o

Who is saying the bigger the better abeg, imagine adding size to technique!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!!!! you can never go wrong.

Johndoe, stay off the ''charity thread'' since you do not have anything positive to add.


I think guys, we should channel our energy and support to other families that need it, Mr Obuh, is not the only one that needs help, moreso, so many people are already trying to help him, lets reach out to another family, who is willing to accept whatever we have to offer.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Preach it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


The men are beginning to justify their reasons for cheating and have forgotten that it is a SIN.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^I think it has reached the stage where we would involve the law, this man is an ''unrepentant poverty stricken man'' and he is ready to involve his generations in that poverty line. I am just thinking about that boy and the unborn child, he and his wife can continue to live in abject poverty and must not continue to have children they cannot care for. Nigeria would be very lucky not to have a leader like me, because that nonsense complacency that even paupers are having, would never be there.


I wish one could involve the wife's family in this issue (that is if they are around), so that they know the situation of things.

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Richy i read your pst well, an irresponsible man would leave the wife of his youth for another woman, and such people we know how they end. Usually the opposite of ''blessings'' and they come in different forms. A man has to be very careful, the way he treats his wife and children.

My dear, i have seen sugar daddies that have been pushed around by small girls, i mean teeny-tiny girls and the men have no say, infact i had a friend in school who was doing this men for real, she would break up the relationship and the men would shamelessly come back begging her, some use charms, gbeere!!!! and so on, what do you think their aim was, to just ''ruin'' the men, there was this encounter my cousin had in OSUU, this lady charmed her perfume to have men give her money, which worked until a friend of hers accidentally or ojukokoroly used the perfume, the owner of the perfume had to take the girl that stole it to the babalawo that did the charm for her or else the girl would die. And the owner confessed about how she had destroyed some young men lives and homes, Naija babes are desperate and wicked and any man that thinks he would get back to his wife by sleeping around, is only cutting his life short. ''lIFE WOULD ALWAYS CONTINUE WITH OR WITHOUT HIM''.


In the Bible, so many men where blessed despite their atoricites because ''Any word that comes out of God's MOuth has to be fulfilled, it would not retun to him ''void''. And they all suffered for their sins, Abraham's decendants is still suffering till tomorrow, David lost the child, his son(Absalom) was after his life, his other son slept with his sister, Solomon's kingdom was taken from him (his son Rehoboam) and his relationship with God was severed. i could go on and on.

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1. SO the men do not get fat and flabby, example is my popsie, my mum is still the lepa she has been after six children, my dad is orobo, thanks to isi-ewu, nkwobi and stout/gulder, i have asked my hubby to retain his abs, this one that i have started seeing some extra folds somewhere!!!!!!!!! not even counting my uncles and friends that i know.

2. Where did you see a ''si-si'' outside submitting to the men, that one is ''a big fat lie'', i went to the university in Naija and i know how this things roll>>>>>>>>>>>wella gan sef.

3. and the karma would go on and on, the gals banging the husbands would have her own husband banged by younger girls too.

4. Men are not polygamous by nature, if it were from the beginning, God would have created ''eve and eva'' for Adam. Stop justifying evil and speak the truth, join the league of men that know the truth and stand by it.

armyofone:
maybe that's why he is asking for hardcash, to do business?.

He is asking for hardcash so that he will use it to snuff taaba!! and drink to stupor!!!! We should let the man off the 'helping case' now and think of the wife and child. lets get the roof on their heads. lets ask the woman what she really wants, the man no lomger has a say in this.

He will end up loosing big time, see person wey need help dey get choice!!!!! my concern is that his son, Nigeria has to step up their game and start collecting children from parents who abuse their children in any form, that!!! right there!!! is ''child abuse''. Any sane person, would hug the idea of getting a roof over his head by all means, especially when the money is coming from other peoples' pocket.

He is looking for the ''highest'' provider>>>>>>> he wants the money in his hands so that he can divert the money into something else.

jay bee:
How do we go about rescuing the child?
Involve social services?

Mr Obuh's case has turned into one of a beggar with choice so i don't blame him.

If they would help, that would be great, but as long as the (mr obuh and co) know that their son would be taken care of by the government. at least that is ''tout minus one''.

My people, let us not be weary of well-doing, God is counting it onto us. Let us think about his son. If he thinks he wants to continue leaving under bridge, then the son needs a decent home to grow in, better he is taken to a foster home, where there would be a roof over his head and he is sure of going to school. If the wife is still interested in a petty trade, then good for her, if not, it is their wahala. But the child needs a good home.

OAM4J thank you, got it. and on it.

Sorry guys i have seen my name on the list,

Someone!, somebody!, anybody!, should shaaa send me the Naija account number puhleaseeeeeeeeee!!!!!!