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dplordx:
My own current girlfriend for Lag even has such issues. She keeps getting calls after calls. Friends, thats what she calls them.
I recently made up my mind shes not getting my ring, and I had to recently go for an HIV test just to be sure im still safe.
Since this past couple months, Ive been sleeping with her with my condom on, and you know what: I just decided I need a better replacement.

to all ladies reading this:

if you intentionally do this to make a man jealous, i think thats an extremely wrong move. if he loves you, i think that should do.

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So!!! Labalaba, i used that website you gave honeycity for the ofada rice stew, and it came out PERFECT, My hubby is living in the pot now, till the stew finishes then he will relocate.

Mbanu!!!!!!!!!!! sumptuous meals!!!!!!!!!!! mmmmm!!!

^^^^^^^^ Ok gat you!!! keep chopping then!!!

^^^^^^^^^^ that ''suicidal'' part has completed your ''further comments''.

OracleFemi, you never see demon you don hit wall!!!!! calm down, everything is not gra!!gra!!!!. How would you feel raising your hands and letting it come down on your wife, just like that na who you marry slave?

Well!!!!!! since he did it the first time and got away with it, he can do it again and nothing will happen.

Sometimes the peace thing does not solve any problem, and there is nothing you can do without your hubby know ing what fully went down, just buy your own generator or get another place to live in, but before you leave, make sure you pour sand into that your neighbours generator, so that he will know how it feels.

A married woman, should know that there is a limit to ''male friendship'' outside marraige, if you do not wnat your husband to have female friends, then you don't keep one.

@ Poster, do not let anyone deceive you, even if you loose the weight, you need exercise to help tone your body.

GenBuhari:
Thanks everyone for your words of support.
Whatever happens will be God's will.

Thursday 1st Dec 2011
Water:

Exercise:

2 bananas
slice of wholemeal bread, with cottage cheese and peanut butter spread

Eyaah!! don't fret, just have faith, God heals any and everything. Is cottage cheese not fattening?

To Love.

ifyalways:
We initially thought along the same line but paused cos. . .Mrs Obuh is "not too fit"(not pregnancy) to handle the shop.She alone cannot man or handle the shop.
The hubby said she has hearing issues,moreso she aint the sharpest tool in the shed when it comes to counting or handling money.
So the husby mans the shop fully while mrs takes care of the homefront and assist too.We can however look into enrolling her as an apprentice to learn something else like cake making,tailoring,hair dressing . . .that is,if she would be interested.

Ok, since the woman is not capable of handling the shop, the man should just be in full charge, makes sense. But would the shop be enough for them to be paying their house rents as time goes on?

Good job guys, for all of una.

^^^^^^^^GBAAA!!!! irresponsible MAN.

^^^^ that is the problem, definitely, he has another woman on the side and he is comparing and contrasting, though i still feel strongly that he does not have feelings for her, he has been holding on to her because of the good comments he is getting about her and the ''thing'' she is giving him on the side, maybe he enjoys her kpekulogical characteristics.

^^^^^^ 2mch feelings that did not develop in 10 yrs would now develop in 3 months, naaaaaa!!!!!! it will not happen.

Whether the family like the lady or not, it is the man that would live with her.

I will not support his marrying her, it would be a living hell for both of them, they should just part ways, It is good for the girl!!! ba boyfriend ku!! oloju wonko wonko!!!, The guy don dey take mouth and body talk, she no wan know!, let your friend waka abeg!!!

Who does that? in this time and age, stick to a guy for 10 years?? no be husband faaa!!!!!!

Why did your friend waste her time for 10 years?

ifyalways:
Update. . .

We've got a carpenter to start work on the shop.We are getting them a :
Shelf/Counter
A big table
A smaller table with 2 steps
A bench
A flat board(for hanging of padlocks for sale)
Carpenter has been given part payment to get the materials so work starts tomorrow by 10am.Mr Obuh would be there full time while I and Olowotee wud pop in at different times to check on them.

Our initial plans(we and the Obuh's) was a 'provision store and small building materials' but having got the shop and studied the area(they were like 3 provision stores around already),the Obuhs suggested shifting to something else,which has low competition(in the area),high profit margin and turnover. . .raw foodstuffs ie amala flour,rice,beans,garri,ground nut etc,pure water(wholesale and retail),padlocks,exercise books,biscuits and co.

We hope to stock the shop on fridayand staurday.Carpenter,painting and washing takes morrow and thursday.Get a pastor to bless it(and the Obuhs) on sunday,declare it open on monday.

Nice work, wish i was around to help you. It is well. Am so happy for them.

Since she really wants to buy the ring, she should give the younger brother the money for the ring and leave the ''ring type'' choice to the couple.

But seriously guys, medicine is not the type of course you would acheive and just sit down at home doing nothing, if na 4 year course now, and the lady studied history or i.r.k/c.r.k or yoruba, then sitting at home is an option. Whether her hubby is well-paid or not, at least she should look into practising for a while, before concluding on not working ever.

Infact she can get her hubby to build a hospital for her, and have doctors employed, then she has her own business even if she is not working in that hospital. So many ways to be financially independent.

A person who lied would later carry his cross himself whether he likes it or not. Make the parents go sleep jor!!! they have tried their best for him, oh!!!! did he think he was decieving his parents? i laugh in birom!!! he has just deceived ''himself''. If he knows what is good for him, he should better go back to school! ''pounded yam morsel wey fall inside soup never spoil'', He should just pack or get his poo together and go back to school.

Fasting is like dedicating your entire body, spirit and soul to God alone, meditating on his words, instead of thinking about what you will eat for breakfast or lunch , just spending time with God.

^^^^^^Would be glad if it can continue, it is a great way to help. Infact i was thinking, Starting from next year, we could have an account dedicated solely to charity, where members (anybody interested in joining the group) could make monthly contributions, which would be used to assist people in need.

I am sooooo impressed it feels good to be part of this wonderful project, ''blessing another'' with the little resources you have, God has answered their (Ibuhs) prayers, i can't even imagine the nights they have slept under that bridge in tears and lament. God may yor name be praised!!!!!!!. And i thank everybody tooo that have been and are still part of this good thing. God bless us all, what a beautiful way to end the year. God is good.

Jarus:
Many thanks for the generous comment so far. We feel we should not just lament bad leadership in our country, we can also do our own quota. In the absence of a social services programme for the economically disadvantaged, our little efforts can go a long in bringing smiles to their faces. We cannot continue to pontificate on NL, we should start by walking our talks.

True, and extending a helping hand to others would mean alot also in their lives.

Dayo when you finally get married, you will realise that a hubby and wife relationship is different from a child and parent relationships. So comparing the two, truthfully do not go together, though they seem similar but are diiferent. And the ''relationship'' in both situation will determine how you would react when it happens. But, i understand where you are coming from, ''igbo''(kidding)

^^^^^^ So if the TRUST is completely broken, how long would you live in a marraige that has no Trust. What would the relationship between you and your spouse be like?


So you would start probing your spouse's actions because of N600.00??

^^^^^^ Personally i would be annoyed, but to the point of saying i do not trust him anymore, that would be a long time not to trust my spouse, don't you think?? i mean ''forever''!!!! Now how would i know, he has changed if i do not give him another chance? infact as many chances as i can give.

Dayo, yea! i will still forgive them, would i divorce my hubby or dis-own my son because of that, capital!!! NO!!!!, They are mine and would not be-little them either by announcing it to the public. I will totally let my hubby know whats up that, ''wind don blow and we don see fowl yansh'' and he will surely know am pissed. My kids will so ooooo have it, because they are my children, i can discipline them the way i want, my hubby is another person's child,