₦airaland Forum

gonzaga:
@ Poster, this should not be a blanket generalization as there are still a few good men around. As I type this reply, I am cooking cos am on vacation and my wifey has gone to work. We have been married for 3 years and we have 2 kids and I have never cheated on her. I knw there are men also that have never cheated on their wives. Both of us are bankers and we try to help out with chores as much as time permits.

My wifey in particular is a special type. She is not the stingy and nagging type and she's always willing and ready to help even with huge financial commitments. Because I run an online masters programme, the fees sometimes throw my account into red. At such times, she just comes around and wisphers those soothing words:"I knw hw much u have spent, dont worry I will take care of the expenses for this month" This type of comment gingers me to even do well so that I can get a mind blogging offer after my masters. How many women in Nigeria today are ready to do this?

Sexually she satisfies me and even indulges my fantasies. the only thing we have mutually agreed never to try out is the BehindBased stuff. She respects, adores and supports me in all ramifications. Our quarrels have never gone physical but just verbal disagreements. I feel even God will not be happy with me if I cheat on this rare gem!

The thing is that most women fail to understand their man. A man wants to be the man, and will naturally differ to the person that makes him feel like a man! When women begin to understand this, this adultrous attitude will greatly decrease. Though it's not easy, it easier to be faithful to a woman that respects and adores u!

GOD BLESS YOU.

silvertuke:
@ Idowuogbo If him get sense na him nor go let person hear word? Abi na only him 1 don 4uck wifty b4. Or na only him 1 dey abroad. UK when people don go even tire to go na him take dey disturb person.

@ronkebp that’s why Naija babes matter tire person. U say naija babes na akpuruka. But you self na 1 of them na abi u nor be Nigerian?

One Ronkelu One Naija, everly Naija. yeah!!! so that when you are given on a platter of gold like the oyinbo's (anything goes) it is still the naija men that would insult them, saying they are cheap. e pay to be stingy, soweee!!!

tellwisdom:
romekebp, babe Do you in anyway wear G-String?? . Can i see??

Nope!!!!!!!!! only ''tailor lo ran'' designer khaki!!!

sweet30:
@plutarch: I know but i cant just help being completely honest so u guys can get a better knowledge of things. But d truth is he has accused me of posting things here b4 which i neva did so,
@kokoye: did dat but d thing just worked for awhile then back to sqr one >:
@blue: i tried talking to him countless times but he will just gimme some flimsy excuse. to God in highest i'm not a fan of cheaters but i just,

Hmm, i would rather you let hin into your thoughts, let him know you've had it to that level and you are considering cheating on him, and see what his reactions would be.

@ Poster, two years!!!! kwa!!!hmmmm, i think he needs medical attention or he is no longer attracted to you, because i really do not know what will make his ''john thomas'' not active after giving him a head. Something is definitely wrong. What will your cheating solve? it will only give you 5 mins enjoyment and your conscience will not have any rest.

So just as Bluediva has said, talk to your husband.

The poster should just grow-up, get a job for yourself and earn your own money. What if you had lost your dad long ago (God forbid), won't you fend for your family? won't you take care of your siblings and your mum. ?

@ Silvertuke, the white ladies are easier to get laid than the naija babes now, the naija babes na akpuruka!!!!!

@ Poster, so do you think the world evolves around men?? ok! we have read it. What is going to be the next thing to write about?

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=800400.msg9523676#msg9523676 date=1320941768]Ronke - Dem don slap you before [/quote]show me the teeny-tiny hand you wan use take slap me, you get liver ooooo!!! small boi wey no dey fear!!!e dey toast oyinbo!!! taaaaa!! go and sit down.

Wahala lo ko ra esi!!!!!! na you sabi, if you like do oyinbo, if you like do chinco!! if you like, follow jamo!!! no naija babe wants you, na your 'thing' go dey read meter. So na to show us your wooing style, na im you take write epistle? i bow for you oooo.

^^^^^ am leaving work, would reply you when i get home. because right now, wetin dey do me pass wetin dey do you.

Sagaman:
Testosterone is linked to drive, focus, competition and success. Men have higher levels of testosterone and hence much stronger sex drives.

Also read Triver's theory on Page 2, Paragraph 1

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/SexDifferencesinHuman.PDF

If I met you now, you will be evaluate if it was worth sleeping with me and be conducting a series of tests, despite the fact that I am hot.

Me, I will see if you are fine, and if I was single (cross my heart), I would be happy to take you to a corner, bend you down and bone you silly.

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That is what am talking about ''choice'', it is true you all have this testosterone,but you still put the fact that you are in a relationship into consideration, men are not animals, they have a choice to remain faithful with one partner and not sleep around like a dog.

@ Poster, it is the guys that lost out on the babes, who wants to date an irresponsible guy when there are so many responsible guys out there from different cultures??

Both of them should just adopt a child. I hate giving this advice, because if na the woman now no fit born, the husband would have left her for another woman.

She should shaa adopt bee! bee!!

Baby B, is cute tooo, babies are always so cute.

awwww she is so cute.

My dear, am sure you have learnt your lesson, thank God he is not a ritualist, if not that one na another tori!!!!

My son, my hubby, my siblings and my parents. hmmmmmmmm!!!! (i will add my friends)

^^^^^^^^^which facts

Are you jealous of your wife, because she is richer than you

^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Is it not better to be 2nd hand than a 'dead hand''?

Plutarch:
Noted ma. But u can only talk as a woman and i as a man. Men and women r different.

I understand your not wanting to share your hubby (no woman does anyway). You love him and love is jealous even God does not want to share us but i can just advise u to loosen up a bit about your mindset about men and cheating

Oh yeah!!!! i have actually loosened the bolts since before my wedding day , i really do not care if he does, but, it would be best if he doesn't.

^^^^ There is nothing like ''natural polygamy'', am not a jealous wife, but i hate to share my property, what is mine is mine. In as much as my hubby would not want to share me with anybody, what makes him think i would love to share him with another

Promiscuity is a thing of the mind, anybody can cheat, whoever cheats does that because he/she chose to.

^^^^^^^^^WORD!!!!!!!!

But my dear, let me not deceive myself oooo, it depends on my mood shaa!!! i don't know what i will do if i find my hubby cheating on me oooo, and i made him understand that from the beginning, don't know if i would forgive and FORGET. It might sound childish to others to revenge, but my dear, if i do eventually, ''trust me'', i will NEVER regret my actions, because i no close eye do am, my eyes are wide open.

jennykadry:
^^ A trial will conceive you, no wonder the bobo knocked me out less than 3 months after wedding. Even Outstrip sef can testify, see her beaming from ear to ear on threads, that is one way of knowing that her Naija Oga has dealt with her manually in the bedroom, all these women? I sabi them. .Outstrip used to have her pic on her profile, have you seen her chest? afraid catch me the day I saw em, Her oga must have seen them and said "naaaa these cannot end up in the hands of a non Nigerian, i need them to keep my lineage going"

Look at CC that opened thread, have you seen her brake light? Nope, she must have told her kids that hubby and herself are going to buy some more wedding dresses for the naija shops, who knows, their car broke down and they decided to call a mechanic using the room phone of a nearby motel, the rest they say is history

What of debrief nko, after you will see her here complaining that her oga does not let her rest, like say she is not enjoying it, when was the last time she posted?

Ifyalways nko?she do so they na twins the man knock her out with.

Ronke ya turn dey come.

, My dear my own, knock me up, a month after the wedding ooooo, infact, i can't have enough, , the guy too sabi something******

Go with your dad's advice, because it is obvious you girl is going with her dad's advice.

jennykadry:
^^ why won't you marry a Nigerian? If e no be naija d***k e no fit be like naija d***k, did you notice the difference?

LMAO .that is so funny!!!! i know!!!

kwuli kwuli, gari and milk!!!! you can never go wrong, i still sustitute g.nut for kwuli kwuli, and everly drinking my gari and milk.

y me:
Honey I am not going to answer that question because it kinda sound childish, no offence

You can answer that yourself and whatever your conclusion is, cool

My dear, i really do not see it as childish, seriously?? not that i support a woman cheating on her hubby, but to outrightly say it is s.t.upid to cheat on your hubby, it is that s.tupidity part i don't get, Anyways. To ME A WOMAN CAN only decide not to cheat on her hubby for religious reasons only ( because God is against it) and because of her children, anything else is nonsense reason, no offence.