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CrimeRe: Kidnappers Kill Ghana Returnee In Aba (Photos) by ruffhandu: 11:16am On Apr 09, 2019
destiny?
The said gunnmen may be the same set of kidnappers. Mysterious world. We don't know all the details yet. It may still be a remote controlled from somewhere.
Sometimes a demon is assign to cause harm. It seeks diverse ways to achieve this until it succeeds. You can only fend it off if you are spiritually stronger.
RomanceRe: Groom's Ex-Girlfriend Crashes His Wedding In China Wearing A Bridal Gown by ruffhandu: 11:16am On Apr 09, 2019
Mehn, that ex is psychologically unbalanced. Imagine, even wore a gown. She was ready to wed him there o. But the guy should have seen the signs, she must have been begging and pestering him before that day.
Once a man suspected a angered ex will scatter his wedding, he stationed his men all around the church to watch out. The plan was, if you catch sight of her, kidnap to an unknown location and hold her till wedding is over. I can't comman loose this woman wey dey like jackpot.
TravelRe: Danfo That Almost Fell From Third-Mainland Bridge This Morning (Photo) by ruffhandu: 10:45am On Apr 09, 2019
Food don land for Kenyans
CrimeRe: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by ruffhandu: 10:04am On Apr 09, 2019
Hmn, Umuahia woman!
PoliticsRe: Deji Adeyanju: Buhari is better than Tinubu, Amaechi, Okorocha, El-Rufai by ruffhandu: 3:19pm On Apr 08, 2019
The guy looking to chop his own money, after Charly boy didn't give him anything. See how he gradually decamped from pdp, bclaimed neautral, now praising buhari, next now he'll join apc. Chai! Lack of personal values is the bane of this country. Anywhere materials will come from, no matter how dirty and degrading. Tufiakwa!
CrimeRe: Man Saves His Wife And Sons From Kidnappers In Lekki, Lagos by ruffhandu: 12:48pm On Apr 08, 2019
This kidnapping has become a scourge in Nigeria.
Let Abba Kyara ensure the arrests the rest of the gang members. They can even cut off their hand before prosecution to ensure it'll be difficult planning and executing operations through the help of prison officers while in prison. Nigeria! Some said there is hope.

What is that devil doing, I mean the kidnapper, begging? If he's begging, launch a club into his genital. Nonsense!
CultureRe: As A Nigerian-american, I Would Like Insight On Which Language To Learn by ruffhandu: 11:47am On Apr 08, 2019
SmallSimba:
Why don't you teach the children your dialect? Or Grandma is just to top up
Sure, I'm doing. My challenge is my wife is also a learner in the dialect, hers is different. It's easier when the kids are in an environment where the language flows freely.
CultureRe: As A Nigerian-american, I Would Like Insight On Which Language To Learn by ruffhandu: 11:22am On Apr 08, 2019
uchefefe:
My family speaks Onitsha Dialect. I know it's not a different as something like the dialect spoken in Ebonyi, but it's difficult to figure out what someone is saying as a learner. For example, it took me a while to figure out "achoro m" means "I want" in Onitsha when it means "I don't want" in Izugbe.

@Opiletool and @bigfrancis21
This is honestly where my concern and apprehension with focusing on the language (at least now) comes from; it's future seems very bleak. Will the language still have a significant presence in the future? I can devote all my time and attention into learning the language, but who will I speak it with once the people in my parent's generation are gone? I've never met an Igbo person around my age who uses the language regularly even if they know how to speak it.

My worry is that I'll spend all my time mastering Igbo, then when I teach it to my kids it won't matter because they will live in an environment that doesn't reinforce its value. Can I be sure they'll master the language or even speak it out of the home? Can I be sure that they'll teach it to their own children or their children's children? Maybe I'm thinking too far ahead, but I'm just one Igbo person of several million. Even if 1/4th of us value the language and put effort into preserving it, that can't counterbalance the 3/4th that don't. Then I'll end up struggling to learn another language while also teaching my children that language.



Many African Americans would love to know what cultures their ancestors belonged to. There are millions of black people on the planet that had their language stripped from them, so it's sad seeing so many that still have theirs throwing them away.

Also, thank you for the bolded. It really means a lot to me smiley



It's not just Nigerian, but unfortunately African seem to be among the worst offenders. One thing I will say that is unique to Nigerians is not speaking your language in the presence of those that understand it. I'm in a club for African students at my university. We have around 30 students with about half of them being Igbo. I've been in this club 4 years and have not heard a single word of Igbo at any gathering. Meanwhile I've heard plenty Twi, Ga, and Swahili despite groups speaking these languages being a minority.



I'd like to thank everyone for the Igbo resources and advice. I'll look into them!
'A choro m' (I want) is spoken the same way both in Onitsha and Igbo Izugbe, it's only Igbo izugbe that may say 'A choghi m', while onitsha may say "A choro m' to mean I don't want. But note that the sound of both 'A choro m' (I want) and "A chorom' (I don't want) are not the same as both 'o' are pronounced differently and that's what makes the difference. Egbe (kite), Egbe(gun) and Akwa(egg), Akwa(bed), Akwa(cry), Akwa(clothe). Knowing these is the meaning of learning a language.

I plan sending my kids when still under 4 years to live with their grandmother in the village for at least two years, or make them go spend every holiday. I don't want them to just learn the language, but my dialect. I pray to be an exception to this generation of parents who are not proud of their language, my parents did a VERY GOOD JOB.
CrimeRe: Police Officers Harass A Man, Extort N300k From Him (Photos) by ruffhandu: 10:48am On Apr 08, 2019
Is this news? Just that there is undisputable evidence against them perhaps.
But wait, he borrowed 500k, and his family rallied round for 300k, but they extorted 300k from him. I smell something in this story.

Let's also be sure the guy didn't have any wrap of Indian hemp at all.
CultureRe: As A Nigerian-american, I Would Like Insight On Which Language To Learn by ruffhandu: 10:47am On Apr 08, 2019
Did you say
uchefefe:
Hello!


Igbo
As an Igbo person, it makes sense for me to prioritize my language. I don't want to just sit there confused and lost during family gatherings, I also want to be able to speak to my grandparents who don't understand English well. That's really the only positives of Igbo though , even excluding the past experiences mention above, I've over all become disheartened by the idea of learning the language for a variety of reasons.
The bolded makes me doubt if you are truly an Igbo Person, or perhaps there is something you are yet to tell.
PoliticsRe: Retired Soldiers Stranded On The Streets Abuja, Cry Out For Help (Photos) by ruffhandu: 2:58pm On Apr 05, 2019
hmn
PoliticsRe: Wike Vs Awara: "We Will Conduct Supplimentary Election In Rivers State" - INEC by ruffhandu: 10:29pm On Apr 04, 2019
Inec please stop this joke
CelebritiesRe: Stella Damasus Celebrates Stepson, Daniel Ademinokan's 11th Birthday by ruffhandu: 2:28pm On Apr 04, 2019
How time flies
which time fly? The time you've spent with the father, or the time the boy spent with his mother?
I hope you won't talk another story tomorrow.

This one you are saying
...loved by your dad, your two mums,...
, I hope your heart is clear.
PoliticsRe: Celebration Of Wike's Reelection: Live From Government House Port Harcourt by ruffhandu:
Nice to hear. I'm sure Aba road will be a thoroughfare now. PH residents don suffer small.

But wait o, this Awara guy take style chop some popularity. His deputy might be luckier as he don join Wike for table, imagine how him luck just shine.

Wike has escaped a grand plan by amaechi and NA-
1. keep causing wahala, then use oga at the top to declare state of emergency, replace with a retire military officer. OR
2.keep dragging the matter till may 29, then knock wike out and replace him with an interim admin

Either 1 or 2, then apply ganduje's style and neatly take wike out.

But wike is more "crookish" and political than amaechi.

I'm imagining how wike was able to get Inec staff not to fall for amaechi, upon all military, tout, sars, cash intimidations employed by amaechi.

I'm also imagining how much amaechi splashed this period. Chai! I pity Nigerians, they are suffering and battling poverty while the politicians are using their money and them to do everything to remain in power and keep oppressing them. Tufiakwa!
CrimeRe: Illegal Oil Bunkering: Navy Hands Over Two Suspects, Vessel To EFCC - Pictures by ruffhandu: 3:19am On Apr 03, 2019
heryur:
Let me see how they will crucify each other... mixture of afonja and Igbo
Plenty afonjas full PH dey hussle the oil, many of them claim pentecostal clergy, I don't know why. You hear pastor this, bishop that. I tire.
PoliticsRe: I Am Ready To Make Peace With APC - Uche Nwosu by ruffhandu: 10:22pm On Apr 02, 2019
No, don't make peace. You and your father in-law will find yourselves in the same boat soon.
PoliticsRe: Prophet Emmanuel Chinonso: Why INEC Refused To Issue Okorocha Certificate by ruffhandu: 10:21pm On Apr 02, 2019
If Okorocha is not convicted by then
BusinessRe: Gtbank Clarifies Fake News Regarding Innoson by ruffhandu: 10:15pm On Apr 02, 2019
Ubenedictus:
It doesnt affect gtb as an entity, they will simply debit custom's account.
So they claim, but why tell court they'll be affected?

Are you aware of the case of illegal deductions from Innosin's accounts?
BusinessRe: Innocent Chukwuma, Africa’s Automobile Giant by ruffhandu: 3:10pm On Apr 02, 2019
Expecting haters here
BusinessRe: Gtbank Clarifies Fake News Regarding Innoson by ruffhandu: 2:35pm On Apr 02, 2019
So GTB said if they pay 8B on behalf of customs they'll go bankrupt?

They denied the news entirely before, now it only affects Customs.
PoliticsRe: Results Collation Begins In Rivers State (Live Updates) by ruffhandu: 2:31pm On Apr 02, 2019
Does it mean only PDP and AAC participated in this erection?
PoliticsRe: Results Collation Begins In Rivers State (Live Updates) by ruffhandu: 2:19pm On Apr 02, 2019
jrusky:
Pls I dey vex to even see AAC getting 5335 nah who cast these votes? I said River people must bury Amaechi the way Akpabio was buried in Akwa Ibom.

River people must kill this AAC today finally and send the coffin to Buhari and Amaechi to bury it.
APC members possibly. There are some people who dislike Wike, you know.
CelebritiesRe: Mawuli Younggod Involved In Accident, Dissappears From The Scene by ruffhandu: 1:55pm On Apr 02, 2019
It's like he wanted to sacrifice his manager and his friend, but their head no gree. How could he, as the driver be speeding anyhow, knowing fully well that he'll disappear if it happens. Don't tell me anything other than the demon he is serving requested for the blood of the other two men. He will kii himsef one day. I hate it when people snuff out others' lives, whether by mistake or deliberate.
HealthRe: How To Deal With Bad Breath by ruffhandu: 5:19pm On Apr 01, 2019
Use quality organic toothpaste, like Greenleaf product, you'll be grateful I told you. It's a little bit costly though, abut 1k. You'll maintain fresh breath all day.
BusinessRe: Access Bank Unveils New Logo by ruffhandu: 10:46am On Apr 01, 2019
I've read through virtually all the comments here, and it's obvious a lot of people don't understand the difference between merger and acquisition.

When the rumour surfaced initially, I told someone that he'll know if it's merger or the other by their logo and the name of the new entity eventually. If there is an element of each, then it is a merger, but if not, then it is an acquisition.

But, perhaps because they would always want to gain customers' confidence, and perhaps ego, this always happens this way: And that's why we can predict these like this.

UBA and STB actually merged, the reason they retained STB logo, with UBA as name. There is no policy that stops a corporate entity from changing logo or brand name anytime, you just follow a process. So, UBA and STB can actually merge and their new name becomes 'Eleja', that's for the management to decide; but we all know that's not good for business.

New mergers, especially in Nigeria, still wants to retain signatures of the merged entities after merger- a lot of negotiations actually lead to such decisions.

NUB, Inland bank, First Atlantic and IMB all merged in the early/mid 2000s to form FirstInland Bank, which later re-branded to Finbank (changed both name and logo).

Please step out to the nearest Accessbank to you and see that the new logo is a fusion of old access and diamond. The diamond logo is now made of former access thin lines and logo, and I see the green diamond colour on their signage.

Las las, in every merger, there are terms and conditions. Both brand may not maintain the equity contributions in the new deal; you will actually know this from the new value of the shares from both entities. Eg, if each of access former share may be == 1.5 of the new share, while each of diamonds old share== 0.8 of the new share, then know access has an upper hand in the merger; and vice versa.

Some mergers are actually so lopsided it is a glorified acquisition.
PoliticsRe: Akpabio Ordered To Vacate Seat For Oshiomole At Tinibu’s Colloquium by ruffhandu: 1:34am On Mar 30, 2019
He has been used and his being dumped like tissue paper, just as they did Okorocha, might have begun.
Those saying the seat was designated for the chairman my questions are:
1. So why did they let him sit on it initially without telling him it was the chairman's seat?
2. Why was no seat designated for Akpabio? Or was he not invited? Is he truly a tissue paper?
Anyhow you put it, he is being punished.
CelebritiesRe: Anita Ukah Begins Her NYSC At Enugu Orientation Camp by ruffhandu: 4:11pm On Mar 29, 2019
Is she really beautiful? Well, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
PoliticsRe: BREAKING Supreme Court Declares Donald Duke Authentic SDP Presidential Candidate by ruffhandu: 2:57pm On Mar 29, 2019
Lol. After elections.
CrimeRe: Car Owner Flees As A Bike Rider Tries To Hit Him With An Assorted Charm In Lagos by ruffhandu: 2:55pm On Mar 29, 2019
OnyeMmeri:
Oh okay. I also heard bitter kola or aku ilu is powerful against juju.
Aki ilu I hear more, but not as strong as the oil. I hope you've heard of crude oil? They say it does something close too.
HealthRe: 82-Year-Old Zambian Paralyzed, Took Manhood Enlargement Drug To Satisfy Wife, 35 by ruffhandu: 2:46pm On Mar 29, 2019
Wahala dey.
You see this life eh, if you don't configure it to suit you, then others, you will be a goner.
Now, after trying to fit into the woman's life, things went bad, and off she goes.
If he had left her and looked for a woman who will manage his libido, he would have still have his life now. He'll be lucky to get a wife now, because he may not even be able to earn a living anymore.

Look, anyone who doesn't like you the way you are, so long as you've looked your best, shift your goal post and check the next bustop, trust me, you'll get many waiting to welcome you there.
CrimeRe: Car Owner Flees As A Bike Rider Tries To Hit Him With An Assorted Charm In Lagos by ruffhandu: 2:40pm On Mar 29, 2019
OnyeMmeri:
Does the mmanu ojukwu really nullify charms?
It does. Try it. But as nature happens, some charms may be configured to not be nullified by it, that one I don't know.
CrimeRe: Car Owner Flees As A Bike Rider Tries To Hit Him With An Assorted Charm In Lagos by ruffhandu: 2:39pm On Mar 29, 2019
stankezzy:
you said d right thing and ended up with d wrong thing , mmanu ojukwu are for easthern demons , demons are territorial , it is not what worked in d West or north will work in East or south for juju or demons , yorubas even use red oil to mix their charms while in igbo land if red oil touches a charm it becomes impotent. It is only jesus name that is universal through out d whole world , his power works every where even beyond this world
I agree they use red oil for some charms, but not this one. Try it on western/northern charm someday and see.

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