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MyExpression:
The main problem is their INCOMPATIBILITIES.
The man was sincere to point this out but it seems a bit too late.

Same issue I'm having with my girlfriend.
Just last month, we discussed bout our incompatibilities and I expected that to be the point where we would let go, but she pressed on on how she can do this and do that. I still wasn't satisfied coz my needs are still not being met.

She is a good gurl with good character but our difference in ideology is boring us out in the rship.

I don't know how to handle this.

This man's case just put fear in my mind...that might be us in some years time.

She's 29yrs; I'm 32, and it would hurt her to just break up like that.

It's just relationship, you had seen the red light on. Since her positive does not outweigh her negative to you, one will eventually dump the other.
It's better you are man enough to call it quit now and be happy later than to manage it on and live in depression. You both deserve to live a happy life. So, call it quit now, it may be painful but it will worth it.





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I perceived they are too brilliant for the Dundee's holding sway to handle.
Or were uncompromising and stood aloof when cooking the Democratic coup of 2015, or choose not to be against the Nigerians in the insecurities ravaging the masses.
Well, what do I know? But, I'm sure they were against some dirty games going on in the top echelon of military, presidency and APC.






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MiztaDynameek:
Better.
I walked into a hotel and after going through the menu, I ordered some food. After about 20 mins a group of guys and ladies walked in & ordered theirs. To my dismay, these folks got served first. I watched as they began to eat& laugh heartily. I even overheard one of them bragging about how connected he is to everyone in the hotel and I felt mocked . I decided to leave. Unable to take it anymore , I called the waiter. He calmly told me: "yours is a special order, being prepared by the chief chef himself. Their orders were prepared hurriedly by students on attachment because the top chefs are busy with yours Sir. That's why they were served first. Please have some juice as you wait". I calmed down & waited patiently.
Shortly after, my meal was served by 6 waiters. Unknown to me, the owner of the hotel (who happened to be an old long lost friend of mine) saw me when I entered and decided to surprise me. She changed my simple meal to a five-star meal. The party at the other table were shocked. They couldn't stop staring. Suddenly they were the ones murmuring, asking why they didn't get that kind of service and meal.
Such is life! Some people are ahead of you and are eating now, laughing at you and talking about how they are smarter, wiser and better than you, how they are well connected, blessed, have money and are enjoying life . You are waiting tirelessly wondering why it's taking so long to breakthrough, You endure mockery and humiliation. Maybe you have contemplated suicide, gone throughout depression or suffered severe mental anxiety. Do not worry! The owner of the world has seen u & doesn't want u to be served a simple meal like those making a mockery of you. You're waiting long because yours is a special meal. It takes time to prepare. And only chief chefs prepare them.
Wait for your meal and relax . When it comes that laughing party will be silenced for good.
Stay Blessed and enjoy your day. This is my word of encouragement to you so please share to encourage others.

You made my day.
Thanks.

Treasure17:
Central African Republic for heaven's sake. Ole is better than Rohr anyway.

Please, if Ole is a PE teacher, then, what is Right?
Asking for a friend!!!

kennybabs1980:
True, absolutely true even though it came from a politician who happened to be one of the problems of the nation.
Bukola Saraki became governor at 41, Orji Uzor Kalu at 39, Ayo Fayose at 43, Dr Kayode Fayemi at 45, Sani Bello of Niger State at 48, Aminu Tambuwal at 49, Gabriel Suswan at 43, Sanni Yerima of Zamfara at 39, Ali Modu Sheriff of Borno at 47, Chibuke Amaechi at 42, Yahaya Bello at 41, Gov. Yari of Zamfara at 43, Hon Dimeji Bankole was speaker HOR at 37, Senator Pius Anyim was senate president at 39, Dino Melaye got to HOR at 34, Farouq Lawan at 41 etc. Apart from Ayo Fayose and Amaechi, can anyone point to any special achievement recorded by these so-called young people while in office?
Honestly Oshiomole is very right on this.

I love your presentation of facts.
You are right

O will be glad to see posts of beneficiary soon.
This beats my imagination! So, education courses will now be hotcake in Nigerian publiyu universities?


It is well






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Marketing strategy by Mr VP against 2023.
Keep it up. Who knows what?





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What am seeing here from op's write up, there's a need for a deep discussion between them probably in an unfamiliar place for proper relaxation. I think this issue was not exhaustively discussed during courtship. It's never too late.
1: Why did she chose to be a virgin? If you meet her as one.
2: what motivates her to action generally?
3: what is her opinion and understanding of sex?
4: what does she know about sex and men?
5: ask questions concerning her growing up with respect to adults in her life and sex?
6: observe if she has any interest about you apart from you?
Get close to her mum if she still has and try engage her in discussion.
Just try and trouble shoot generally, I think there's something you need to know about her that you don't know yet. Around this knowledge your answer may lie.

Don't give up on here please, may God help me.





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I think this man just justified the intention that behind their actions which was seen by the military then, do necessitating the crack down on them. We need to be grateful to buhari for taming this man for so long.
Imagine having this man and sheik gumi free to run riot, maybe it would have been worse than this.

Southerners, wise up! Don't be a useful idiot against your people in their hands. They have agenda they are rigorously pursuing, South should not be caught in the web.







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Every action has consequence. One of the unsung consequence of sexual immorality is paternity fraud. Any society that never see reason to preach sexual discipline but glamorizes immorality like some of our TV shows must be ready to dance to the consequences.
Remember, the Bible says that righteousness exalts a nation, but, sin is a reproach to any man.






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yedoga35:
South West: OBJ (Ogun State)
North West: Yaradua (Katsina)
South- South: GEJ ( Bayelsa)
North West: PMB ( Katsina)
South East:
North Central:
North East:
Since it is the turn of the South, so South East.

I want to believe this is sacarsm, unless you didn't read through the post.

emmykk:
Because the yorubas are betrayal and greedy they have been supported by PDP to get to the presidency for 8yrs through other tribes and region in the south but when you expect them to recipocate that gestures they went and support northerns to get VP position....is that good?

Let's do a bit of history here, in 2010, it was late Dora Akunyili, the first cabinet member to speak about Jonathan becoming acting president. Now, since you want to point accussing finger, which state in Nigeria did protest and salvos to the cabals hindering Jonathan from becoming acting president started? Who were the first set of people to speak? How did Jonathan even emerged as VP to late Yaradua? Also, how many states did PDP won in 2011 in South West? I hate it when people just opened their mouth to alter nonsense when history is there for everyone to visit.
I rest for now.

oyatz:
People who aren't members of any political parties make childish comments like this.


1) Politics is about interests. Every have certain personal interests.

2) For ordinary citizens (masses) like you that don't get anything directly from the Government, your interests may be limited to having someone from your tribe become the president or preventing someone from a tribe that you hate.


3) For peoples that are members of a political party, they have other interests that goes beyond tribes.

For floor members of political parties that attend rallies from one town to another, singing, dancing and shanting party slogans , they aren't just doing all these because of tribes but for what they stand to gain if their parties come to power e.g contracts to supply wooden planks to roof the community primary school, employment slots in NSCDS, N-power, FRSC etc.

For upper echelon of the party, they will support their parties to win because they they will be in power as LG chairmen, House of Assembly members, Governors, Senators , Ministers etc.

Timi Sylva worked for APC victory in 2015 to earn a Ministerial post , despite being a kinsman and a former beneficiary of GEJ.

Rotimi Amaechi also worked for the APC despite being close to GEJ.

So apt.
Kudos

akanke79:
South west need to be pacified because the region is the economic backbone of Nigeria generating trillions of naira.No South west no money for other regions.The day Yorubas pull out of Nigeria that is when the country will break into pieces.

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middlebelter:
I fo hope all the Southerns in PDP will know that once they give the North an opportunity to distort the unwritten rotation arrangement, that's is the end of Southern states opportunity to fight for fairness. This is an affront to the unity and soul of the country. It is either you stop the north now or never. Wake up!

You are so on point!
Kudos

Imagine how South East that PDP ought to microzone their presidential ticket to been screened out of the equation just because of South West that must be pacified? But sincerely, can't PDP do without South West votes? South East needs to reap from where they have been consistently sowing and denying them PDP presidential ticket now in the guide of zoning is a great ungratefulness to them.
I think, South East states supposed to reject playing any leading role in PDP on her way to both convention and 2023 election, also, southern region ought to cede the PDP party structure to the north so as to pave way for the south to legally and morally lay claim on the southern presidential candidate which ought to go to South East.
I said it in 2017, when Woke hijacked PDP to become emperor that PDP will suffer the effect of this for long, now it has just started.
I pause for now







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[quote author= post=106117900]A better Nigeria all around is all we want.
A better Nigeria all around is what we shall encounter.
Nigeria will succeed.
God bless Nigeria.

Starboy and Zulum for 2023.
I will really appreciate if can highlight the reasons for your choice of Zulum as vice, maybe you are seeing what some are not seeing about this man.


Our own @[/b] be say : STARBOY & Zulum for 2023.

Osinbajo, The great Man.

Our own @[b] be say : STARBOY and ZULUM all da Way.

Come 2023 BGG,
STARBOY and ZULUM we dey for una.
Whether the evil ones like it or not,
Nigeria will succeed.


Our Combo is actually a well selected great Combo to move our nation forward.
That being said,,
Chief Topmaike,
We no too know about this APC revalidation tin o.
We are not actually a card carrying member of any political party in Nigeria.
The only 2 guys we love in Naija politics are our darling Daddy and his amiable Vice.
Now, Zulum has joined the rank.
We only go to the polls on election day to cast our votes for good, honest men that meant well for the nation, no matter the party they are.
And you don't have to be a party member to do that.

But in the past one month, we have noticed how all the top big wigs and non-politicians alike are all joining APC in their various Constituencies, from Governors, to Businesses owners and Entrepreneurs.
We are looking and researching about the good ones among them already.


We sane, good, honest and hardworking Nigerians will do all in our power to make this Combo work.
That is why we all must come together.

Nigeria will be great again in our lifetime


We Love him too.
Only fraudsters, criminals, thieves and losers in life don't like him obviously .
The same nuisances that do not like sane, good and honest members here.
Two time losers.

God bless our amiable Vice president Prof Yemi Osinbajo.
God bless Nigeria.

Our own @[/b] be say : [b]STARBOY and ZULUM all da Way.

Come 2023 BGG,
STARBOY and ZULUM we dey for una.
Whether the evil ones like it or not,
Nigeria will succeed.


We sane, good, honest and hardworking Nigerians will do all in our power to make this Combo work.
That is why we all must come together.

Nigeria will be great again in our lifetime

PYO : Man of the people.... Sane people we mean.
Sane, honest and hardworking Nigerians.


Now, clap for yasef


God bless you too crucial gem
You are truly a rare gem on this forum.[/quote]

We now understand really that Edo no be Lagos.




Obaseki take am easy o. 2024 is not far, it is not forever either, you will live to reap the fruit of whatsoever you sow either good or evil.


How many former governor's are still relevant in the scheme of things in their states? But we have people like Tinubu, Ibori, Lamido and some few others still godfather in their states. While some are in prison like Joshua Dariye, Jolly Nyame etc. It's a function of how they handle power when it was with them.




So, let's watch and observe as Obaseki rules Edo state and how things will play out for him after leaving the office





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osuofia2:
NICE ONE OONI BUT IT IS ONLY BABA BUHARI THAT IS A TRUE POLITICIAN HE NEVER CROSS CARPETED

Are you sure? Buhari of ANPP to CPC to APC. Then if you say that is not crosscarpeting, then you are so wrong in that your conclusion have you bothered to check the political history of people like Tinubu, late Ajimobi, Ibori, Okowa, Sule Lamido etc. Don't be biased, learn.





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With this, those of us suspecting the whole scheme have been justified after all. They know what they are giving you but, you don't know what you are receiving. They know the casualty they are injecting you but you don't know what is about to befall you by receiving it. Check the list very well, why areas with dense population of the world? Also, why third world countries? Most countries in this belt are also poor, draw the line.
Also, their structure is a platform being created for the world Antichrist mark.
Believers, be at alert and don't be deceived, end is nearer than we can imagine. Let's prepare?






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A cunny terrorist group employing an unknown media personality to start coming to lie to us about them. The job Tinubu did so strongly without headway that latter landed him in hospital after generating lots of bad blood against him.

Madam, congrat on your scamming success with this people.





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Abohboy:
APC quite literally fielded Buhari a person who had led in the past and destroyed Nigeria's economy if you actually believed that Buhari would be a good leader you are the problem for not learning from our past mistakes and most members of APC were once members of PDP or tried to be members of PDP.

Concerning the manifesto and candidates all of that should come in due time in my opinion Moghalu should be fielded as their presidential candidate and the rest like Falana, Sowore, Ezekwesili etc. Be fielded as gubernational candidates in their individual states that should be best and if Moghalu follows his manifesto we'd get our restructured Nigeria in 2 years so by 2025 we'd have a new constitution by 2024 and recurrent expenditures would be drastically reduced by 2025 as well so we'd be straight onto a path of prosperity and development.

Not ready to exchange words though, but, what can you say about Obj administration or didn't his parallel Buhari's? If there can be improvement in Obj administration as a civilian then, and Buhari was said to have become a democrat by his handlers, don't you think it will be unfair not to consider him the way Obj was considered or is what is good for goose not good for gander again?

Back to the topic I don't care your choice of their presidential candidate, I have a vote to cast, and that's the criteria to win my vote and those around me period.




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Until I see their presidential and gubernatorial candidates, the people running the actual structure of the party and their proactive and realistic manifestos, I ain't gonna take 'em serious!
All I see is a new set of elites that will brainwash us with English on the platform of empathy and scam us again.
APC comes to mind. The most destructive party ever emerge to govern Nigeria!

Let them be doing it we are watching...







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It's a family affairs, ain't gonna loose sleep on that.
Let the business continue, it's becoming interesting.
The evil you sow for others will become long enough to reach you to give you your own share of it's stuff.





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We need to sleep to wake up again after changing that evil dream in that poster.






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Glad to have a VP of this high magnitude of intelligence.
If we all realised that society contributed so much to your success, you will know you have an obligation (tax) to give back to it.
Societies evolve on the legacies bequeath on it in the writings of the successful ones who wrote their stories for others to read, learn and advance the course.
Pentecost tax, for sake of Christianity is NOT money or material things but the documented story of your battles, travails, difficulties, the process of your making... In short, the stories behind the success you have become to inspire others.
Information is still making Men!!!




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[quote author= post=105886855]Here we go again

But how can a country ever move forward with this kinda archaic and stupid mentality.

Tribalism in all sphere of life has eaten into the brains of most people.

Tueh....
Anyways,
Words of wisdom from the elders of the
Iland.......[/quote]l hope you read where it was said, this candidate came last twice in the selection exercise annulled by Sanwoolu and how he fought some persons to get her there.
BTW, I'm, not concerned about where she came from, but, her unpopularity in the selection process which cast a shadow of incompetence on her in handling the exalted office. Even though it's a state University meant for predominantly indegene of the state, merit must not supercede personal sentiment which was a reverse in her case, a case of double tragedy to Lagos indegenes.

JosephKayode060:
I wish all south south and southwest states Governors can welcome this idea...

Please mention one Southwest state that had not signed it already and is also not in their state House of assembly for passage.
Ekiti state under gov Fayose was the first to do that in the whole of southern Nigeria.

Wish you quick recovery. PL clubs need to suffer the damages you are to inflict on them.
Great kid!
YNWA.







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Man is not God, this man is only entitle to one vote or at least rig the whole of Lagos for Tinubu, but Nigeria is bigger than this man and Lagos. We shall overcome.








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Mods modify the score on time

Oluromantic:
All I can say is "LOL"

A true man of God whom God did not reveal his successor to. When God begins a mission, he tells whoever he put there who to anoint as a successor after him and the duties/tasks he must carry out. Sitting in a meeting to decide who takes up the heavy load of work of God's mission months after the founder's death already shows that God did not found the mission. God is too much a visioneer to treat his assignments like that. He even reveals to some when, how and where they'll die and what to do before then.

Moses-Joshua
David-Solomon
Elijah-Elisha(having met the tough condition to be there when God was taking him)

Even in our days...
Reinhard Bonke-Daniel Kolenda
Etc.

They were already with their predecessors before his death.

I'm not saying God did not call TB o, I'm only saying what the knowledge of the Bible tells me.

I'm my TBJ's fan, but 'knowledge of the bible 'to judge situations should be impartial.
So, who did Joshua annointed as successor? Who did Elisha annointed as successor? If Rehoboam was with the father Solomon, why did he take that stupid decision that led to the loss of ten tribes and splitting of the kingdom?