ayzTIGER: Last 50 years they were screaming Igbo domination in affairs of the country, Igbos left politics for them and minded their business now their problem is Igbo apprenticeship. A system borne out Igbo personal money and struggle. Before you know it they'd task Igbos to start carrying the whole country along for apprenticeship based on quota system.
Divanona: Eight years ago, with tears in my eye, I held his hand, begged him to stay with me that we will struggle together and succeed, but he refused. He walked away living me pregnant. Now, he's back without anything.
We were friends from the University, I graduated before him because I was studying a 4years course. The very first time, we tried to take our relationship serious was after my graduation. We had s.e.-x for the very first time and I became pregnant. The truth is, the guy have always been good to me throughout my stays in school. I remembered that day he sacrificed his school fees for mine so I could be able to do my final clearance. But when I became pregnant, he walked away after convincing me to keep our baby. I went through everything all by myself. Since last year, he has been apologizing on phone, so last week, I asked him to come. He traveled down to my place. Without being afraid of anyone harming him from my family, he believed in me and came. He's around in my family house, staying in my brother's room for the past 3days. He has opened up everything to me, my family members and have apologized.
now, I'm so confused with my life.
He couldn't graduate, he had problem in school after I left and all this years, he has been struggling, but now he wants to take responsibility and be with us, but he had nothing. No certificate, except diploma which he later did from another school, no job, no place of his own to stay. He had nothing. He wants us to get married and have a family.
I feel I'm about to add more burden to my already stressed life. The only positive thing here now, is the excitement my son is having seeing his father and the relationship they're building.
A part of me wants to see this guy have a great life and have direction and not see him live like this, even if I don't settle down with him. because when I meant him, he was kind, a good person, he had dreams, vision and good plans. But living us alone all this years, with all his explanations, I'm not contented.
Another part of me is confused, afraid and I feel ishould push him away and let him go back to his life and keep moving with my son because I don't have the strength to shoulder all these.
Please matured mind in the house, what do you have to say? This is my life and it's getting more confused. What would you advise? What should I do? I don't want to make more mistakes.
Sorry for my lengthy write-up
Madam, don't marry him until he is ready. Don't make the same mistake twice.
ZIINI: HEIGHT I was given a very disgusting name in hausa I guess it a name giving to tall people in their language, look at the way you concentrate while reading it You want me to say the name but I won't.
Kosixo20: I have an issue that's really bothering me. It's bothering me so much that it's what's keeping me awake at this time of the night. I had to create a new account to post this because I want to keep my identity hidden since some Nairalanders already know my other account.
I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I've been friends with for a while. We are both university undergraduates. We've been dating for almost 7 months. I'm still a virgin. The reason I agreed to date my boyfriend is because I enjoy his company and I wanted to preserve our friendship. It's kinda complicated. I'm not ready for sex and he understands.
Few months ago, I met another guy who is also an undergraduate. He's very interesting and very good looking. I'm very sexually attracted to him. He told me he likes me, but hasn't asked me out. Whenever we are together, he is fond of flirting with me, telling me how sexy I look, touching me, and grabbing my ass. The last time we were together he even squeezed my breasts. I told him that he should stop because I'm sensitive to his touch, which is actually the case. I already told him that I can't date him because he doesn't look like the type to stick to one girl for a long time. My statement didn't even faze him and he responded that he doesn't do relationships because he gets bored easily.
He always tells me how he'll like to have sex with me and the things he'll do to me. He doesn't even seem bothered that I have a boyfriend and never brings it up. He has invited me over to his place once and I declined because I don't know if I'll be able to control myself being alone in his apartment and I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend.
The problem is sometimes this guy just ghosts me for days and sometimes he doesn't even reply my texts, then out of nowhere he'll return and act all flirty and touchy. Our friendship is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. I'm becoming more attracted to this new guy and I'm not comfortable.
I'm thinking of blocking his number and ceasing communication with him. Is this the right step to take? I'm confused and I don't know what to do.
This exactly the same thing that happened between Eve, Serpent and Adam. Adam being a godly man, decided to not eat the fruit of the tree in the middle of the garden. Serpent kept telling Eve, eat it, eat it, your eyes will open. Eve wanted to stay away from the Serpent but her fibble mind kept wanting to reason with the Serpent. We all know how it goes down............
By the time Adam eats the second-hand fruit with Eve, he will go haywire with other potential Eves.
Madam, please don't let history repeat itself in your life. Live the godly way and you will reap the divine fruits that come with it.
StagethemTUee: The Ferrari bought for DJ Cuppy by her dad was originally black when purchased. Here is a video showing how it was transformed from black to pink which happens to be her brand colour. Gelatoooooooo...
smarthG: My people from Enugu pls help me on this.
One of my brother-inlaw confineded in me on how the family has expressed no-financial-supportd if he so insist on marrying from affer Enugu.
He needs to know and have idea of what he is enbacking on since its a matter of the hearth. The place is. ENUGU SOUTH L.G.A precisely.
Pls my pleople let's show love by sharing knowledge. People from Enugu and those that married from Enugu.....................?
Bride price is an immediate family thing, so it can be managed if the father of the bride is okay with the man.
Marriage list is a kindred thing, out of control of the father, unless the father doesn't involve his kindred which is very very rare. Since the groom is not from the same village, he will have to bring double of what a man from that village would have brought.
But my concern is why not get support(not financial support) from your family?
zuma4k: Please fellow nairalanders, I need your opinions on this and if possible front page. It's quite personal and goes like this. 1. Mr Adam (my father) opens a fixed deposit account with X Bank. He subsequently submits his wife's details and makes her a co-signatory to the account with the *express mandate* that upon his demise, his wife exercises automatic access to the account and it's proceeds. Does this amount to a valid contract between him and the bank?.
2. Note that after his death the bank reneged on the primary provision of his directive, stating that a letter of administration must be procured (at an exorbitant cost). Stated Reasons bothers on the fact that under banking laws and the principles of a valid contract, a contract between a depositor and the bank terminates upon the demise of the individual thus rendering the *mandate* unenforceable and invalid. Please mods I need this on front page. Thanks.
Banks don't run their business in such a way. If your father had a will then proceed to the bank with it. If no will then you will have for Probate, and it costs money and the state will take their cut too.
Championxxx: I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity.
Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me
You need to find your way. Hustle your way out.
It's not good to be violent but stupid women will push you. Once upon a time, I slapped the shit out of my uncle's girlfriend's elder sister....story is not necessary. But you need to hustle your way out.
ValCon888: When two elephants enter a boxing ring to fight, it is the grass that suffers. China and the US are simply using Honk Kong as a pawn to settle a matter that does not concern Hong Kong in the first place.
BiafranDel: Hello guys Please I want to know if it is still possible to graduate with a first class after been in second class upper in 100 level.
100 level first semester, I had 4.04 GPA then in second semester instead of going up, I dropped to 3.53 GPA reason being that I faced some personal challenges, bringing my 100level Cgpa to 3.83
I'm just happy that I never had any carry over in my first and second semester 100level.
Is it still possible to graduate with a first class from 200level to final year, 400level. This has been bothering me because I really need a first class to source for full scholarship to further my studies abroad.
Please I need your inputs on this. First class graduates, did you start getting first class from 100level till final year?
yes, but it will be good to use your course curriculum to estimate. That's how I did mine.
Prior to 2005, I just liked watching Beckham, Rivaldo, Ronaldo, Kanu, the Galacticos, Okocha, etc; until I watched Liverpool vs Leverkusen, then Liverpool vs Juventus, then I started liking Liverpool. The Milan Baros goal against Chelsea seeing the blues cry made me smile. Against AC Milan I knew was supporting an underdog, with 3 goals at first half I pledged my loyalty to Liverpool; suddenly out of nowhere, captain Steven Gerrard commenced to the comeback; at this point I fell in love.
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