rokiatu:

Different people different reasons

^^^True that, I can think of a few reasons like

Love
Money
Trophy girl/guy
Boredom
Fear of being alone

@op you can add your reasons.

Mutual love is great, it come with reciprocity I'd rather have that any time.

@OP you make a good observation, and agreed its the makes of food for thought. Question is do the varsities have bursary schemes for the derserving and the needy, there obviously has to be a sound criteria in terms of awarding such bursaries. In case these institutions do have such bursary initiatives, then I'll have to say they are doing their bit, and the rest of the population should pay for the asking.

Some of these school do get sponsors from government at least that's the case in SA. However, it must be noted that they pay for staff salaries, school/structural maitenance, keeping up with technology and not to mention getting the right curriculum at the right time. I still question a lot regarding my emboldment if I had to comapre a student from a publuc and private varsity because I am almost conviced that its not so much about the curriculum that the private institutions do differently but rather the teaching methods.

It would be interesting to hear your thoughts/solutions to your own obseravation.

SA Goddess:

I am chilling Lady, go take care of business and I will be here, parading in front of Oga, he loves that

Okay Lady be back, nothing serious. I am sure Oga loves what he saw, now dont hog the spotlight its my turn.

eeeerrrhhh! @tpia where were we

@Goddess you going nowhere Lady be coming back, got some biz to take care of, am not plannin gon spending the whole day at ma desk, now be good.

tpia@:

obviously your nigerian flames have swallowed the smelly ice cream coming out of your behind.

enjoy!!!

It wast necessary for you to tell us what your nigerian flame swallows now we know why he ran. Eeeer madam are you considering that implant yet? Or could it be times are tough since oga left?

Mr~Cork:

TPIA , just be nice to me and i swaar you MAY just have me all to your sef!!

@Mr~Cock stop breaking hearts, I beg.

tpia@:




^^whatever, madam!!!!!!!!!

just keep scouting for classless and low breed nigerian men to admire you since your own men arent tripping over your junk!

So @Mr~Cock gives you a heart ache. Why confuse issues. He is the last you were banking on and now he's seen the light it breaks your heart. Of all men in here who commented about SA women you signle him out mcheeewww you must be angry at the world.

FACE LIFT MAYBE!!

tpia@:

^^and you've said what exactly?

if not for the low breed nigerian males dealing drugs and looking for papers, [thus feeling they must curse their mamas in order to flee the witches in their villages] does anyone really give a fig about the size of your poop deck?

are nigerians the only men in africa? why arent the other countries yelling like them?

Madam I s#!t ice cream. In case its poop coming out of your backside I cant help you with that, However they use inplants to get the SA/Brazilian backside these days its the bit I can help you with.

gestapo:



See, when SA females comes to open their dirty mouth to post, you don't hear a thing, when any Nigerian lady responds, out comes the hater and flies tag, see why Tpia has a right to be annoyed And these same buncha hyprocrites woukd then turn round and say "we love Nigerians/we have Nigerian friends, pathetic beings you can go through some of their posts to see what i mean, it makes for an embarassing read

Did it occur to you that there's a possibility nobody responded because none see themselves as flies, and probably acknowledge the diabolical proportions of this thread. Now after beeing called an SA woman with HIV/AIDS in this thread I chose not to give two figs over such ignorance and decided to sift through the lines and take what I can work with.  Having done that, I've had some fulfilling discussions with some people in here.

So now tell me are you going to do the buzzing in here? Your choice.

Now get this, before I am a SA woman with juicy nyash, I am human, an individual and an African and thats the level of interaction and identity I share with my Nigerian folk. Nothing you are going to say about an SA woman will make her feel any less or more about herself, cos that's not where her validation comes from. Now go find peace within yourself I wear and tighten mine everyday.

Seriously where do people get these thoeries?

aca77:

Particularly in Africa, for real. Only two possibilities exist for the sort of man in this unfortunate situation: Stay and play the tormented meek fool, OR, stay and when you try to assert yourself as the 'head' of the house you would be accused of being insecure or egotistical. . .and live a life of constant quarreling and fighting.

It's impossible for a woman to truly love and respect a man she is more successful than. Head or tail such a man is condemned to a life of misery unless he quits. Successful women are better off single and alone (see Bola Shagaya, Florence Ita-Giwa, Arunma Oteh, Oprah Winfrey, etc).

Like I said Mr Brown, that black man lowered his standards and somehow forgot to circulate the memo. Finally here's one above accepting the shocking facts.

^^^Somebody had to rip that title away from you I mean Epesians 5 unless the plan is to sink this ship.

Damn I knew it yesterday that this resurrection was going to attract flies. @Goddess I blame you for this disinterring. Now stop it.

excoba101:


I tried inviting LOVE, it wont come if i don't send 50% 50% contract its enemy away first. I 'm so frustrated.

I think you've been doing the same mistake that most men keep doing over and over. This thing requires you to think like somebody who wants to build an empire. Step 1 think vision, step 2 is strategy step 3 is mission, step 4 is execution. Most importantly VISION without that this ship wont float let alone sail.

So for home work go work on the vision.

excoba101:

How about a year contract. Stress free, No cheating. 50% 50% This would be a full packaged DEAL. I bet. JK

Fair deal, wrong girl. You missed the part about ABSOLUTE LOVE, 100%

Ranoscky:

Now you'r talkin.

Don't even call her when that friday approaches, just stay calm and know what her faith is all about. If she calls you and tell you that she's comin, then fine, welcome her as usual and know what her visit is all about (but I doubt such visit, it's never a geniune one). But if she didn't call you, then bone her side and move on for life is too short for 'kiss and tell gals' jare!

True talk! the boning part made me laugh, guys you must stop this its wrong.

tobbybiggs:

@D-sense, thanks brof, i appreciate alot !

@ Everyone,

Thank ya'll for the comments, Its really interesting reading your different views.

At least it has given me some idea's on what step to take. Not all comments has been so right but a few made some point which i appreciate and for Mr. or Mrs. Whoever was talking bout being layed or something like dat, LMAO, ( Your Thinking Bad O! ) but hey, I don't think i needed the harsh words tho, but all the same, Thank you!


Smiles, "( - - )"

aawww!! your light heartedness is sooooo shweeeet, hope your situation works out for the best. Good Luck!

Oh! I personally wasnt being hush, just having fun on your account, you'll get used to it. it means nothing really.

L. KRavitz:

Mr cork whats the source of your story? wow i never knew he cut his hair tho interesting. This thread is fast becoming a kravitz/maxwell threat.mmm

Please dont tell me you just been introduced to maxwell now? How come you dont know that the dude cut his princely lock of hair.

SA Goddess:

Not into classics/opera Lady, maybe if I am really stoned I would, hahahahahah

Love me some Maxwell,

Okay, For entry level allow me to introduce you to Andrea Bocelli and Christina Aguilera Song is Somos Novios. Warning!!! will make your hair stand.

When the above song is done with you come and lets talk about going to the Andre Rieu concert next time he's in town. Warning!!! will take you back to your childhood if its a place you dont mind visiting for some 2 to 3 hours. Make you believe the world is a wonderful place be.

I'd also recommend Gosh Grobain for entry level, still a novice but hey he tries.

^^^I dont know, Maxwell cut his hair and I've never been able to look and listen to him the same way, never knew such a thing could happen.

SA Goddess:

I am a big fan of Maxwell and all the Neo Soul Movement, a bit of regga and rock here and there and I am good. . . .

^^^Classical/Opera

190:

^^
Witch excuse me,

What have i said that wrong with what the poster is requesting!!

He has stated that his GF wanna know his account balance and i only advised him

that it aint cool,why are you now flying on the loose around this thread with your witch little butt

or are you the GF hes talking about!!

LOL! I see your humour is frozen today, and unfortunately m too happy today so when you decided to be happy come back here and lets talk about it, okay

obinna5000:

@SA Lady
Which one is District 10 again??

@NuhuRibadu
Ije: The Journey (Its still showing at cinemas. Not yet on DVD)
Dangerous Twins

LOL! PLease dont stir trouble, the sequel district 9 that was in fine print and please you didnt hear that from me. hush now!

190:

^^
Permission from who!!

From @OP you cant just take liberty of letting your immature blah! blah! go loose in this thread, please

190:

If you read the fine print at the bottom of your bank statement, you would notice tihs;

WARNING: The information contained in this document is private and should be kept in a safe or burnt after reading. Under no circumstance should the information contained herein be disclosed to anyone at all including your friends, pastor, church members, wife, family relations or your girlfrined. Not even your next of kin. Failure to heed this advice may result in stress, loss of money, poverty, bankruptcy or even premature death. Should you need further information on how to protect the information contained in this document, please contact the nearest branch.

^^^^You should have asked for permission first before doing this.

@OP sometimes its best not to dig deeper and believe what you think best, just like you are doing in your message above in order to move foward. Perhaps the question you need to think hard about now is why you want to marry this girl? could it be for her virginity or for the woman in her?

The ball is in your court.

whaley:

marry both of them

Simple and end of story

@OP I know you asked for matured minds only in here, but please allow me to be the only immature one in here? Now get this, your girl is being chowed BIG time. No offensie, just true talk.

Yeah its about time they learn, I am tired of speaking English man. @OP Any white woman out there speaking Setswana? or am I pushing it?

MRbrownJAY:

how can that be viewed as sign of an abusive relationship?!

You are constatntly made to feel like you are not good enough and there's always the yardstick that you are forever compared to, either his mother, his first love or a friend.