Girls pack everything that you think you might need for a weekend visit with bf. A suitcase for the weekend. You never know what might just come up.

In fact I love the narcassistic look on the man's face when you arrive with a suitcace for the weekend, you know when he actually thinks you are moving in, only to find you are just there to look smashing all weekend long making his azz look crusty. All of a sudden he'll be the one who wants to take you places and not to mention to all his friends to see. See what happens when the weekend is over and you pack your shyt to go back home next thing he's the one asking you to stay longer because he cant get over how shweeeet you look and maybe there's more to look at in that suitcase.

Oh guess what happens next, nigger wants to buy you clothes as a surprise because he cant forget how good you looked in this and that. The sad part about this is that he'll buy exactly the thing you wouldnt be caught stiff dead in and from exactly the wrong store mcxeeeewwww!!

eish! my bubble just got burst. I opened topic with excitement just to do this kikikikikkkiiiikiiii thinking this had happened to the actual poster, oh well.

^^^I just think @poster and wife should switch roles, wife must now approve of the mechanic, plumber, gardener and so forth. Sorry people I just think this is nosense , really there's things to fight about and there's things that should just be left alone.

@poster, and you think for us to look as good as you like it so you can have something to brag about, its only a matter of wash and go

mcxeeeeew!!!

Actually you are lucky there was only one bag, it should have been a shoe bag, toiletry bag, make-up kit bag, clothes bag and jewelery bag

lerato1:

NO NEVER!!!!!!!

I will never cheat.

It is not right at all. I am too good for that kind of nonsense.

I was only tempted by a guy i really liked but i never allowed it to go far. He tried every thing to make me sleep with him but i refused.  He only entered my v, g, na half way but then i came back to my senses and pushed him away from on top of me, wore my cloths and i ran out of his room. I have never gone back there since that day.

hhhmmmm

@poster really are you having a contest with your wife about house help really When men first took over the mirror I thought it was a minor issue, then they took over the house furniture and now its house help? m afraid whats next

@poster this is mere house help for pits sake let her have it for crying out loud, its in times like these where its okay to yield. and once you've done this come back and tell us how much of yourself you've lost or gained.

@topic eeerrm! eeerrm! scratching head, I better shaarap 

@topic

ah! madam I am watching you both  . HAPPPPPPPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY! Have a great one girl and stay blessed infinitely.

@Mrs Eve your friend still doesnt know the difference between truth and lie yet. She is therefore disqualified from being member of the dating community. Please ask her to stop insisting on it.

^^^^^Damn deluxe, me still.

Mrs, Eve:

Will the [size=22pt]REAL HOES STAND UP?[/size]

LOL! Seriously m not a ho, but Mr/Cork's theory makes sense.

I honestly think that both men and women equaly go through hell in the name of Romance. Lets be honest girls you know a woman batter before he even strikes, you know that jealous control freak and you think its love. Unfortunately some women cant run out of it.

Now lets think about the hell our men go through,

1. Guy thought he found an angel until the witch decides to visit some juju man for love potions.

2. Guy slept with a virgin until he found out from a friend of a friend that Marry has been around the block, and probably Zuma has already tapped in there.

3. Guy breaks his bank balance sending girl to school. Wait and see what happens once you give a black girl some education. The amature psychologist will not stop telling you you werent brought up well, which she didnt think so while she was pocketing your money.

4. Just because you told her she's pretty now she thinks she's the newest Halle Barry and sleeps around with the so called uncles and cousins, guess what the clumsy mumu gets caught all the time. Just becouse Whoopi Goldberg slep with white men only she thinks she can pull it off.

5. Still on being told she's pretty, ugly betty now expects the man to worship the ground she walks on, and little does she realize that the poor guy was just trying the love thing and who knows just yesterday he had Kim Kardashian in his bed.

Just my observation.

Had to read the post again just to be clear, is her selfishness what caused the divorce in the first place?

MzDarkSkin:

Saw this on t.v. on Divorce Court A lady has two bank accounts. One she shares with her husband therefore the pin number is shared as well and the other she has strictly to herself. The woman does NOT work as the husband provides money for her. Her high-end clothes, all three of her cars and he ability to go shopping when ever and where ever is all thanks to him. Due to his job as a Real Estate agent they live VERY good but because of the economy at times he comes up short. Her hubby has no access to the money in her private account and he is not allowed to inquire or borrow from that account even if necessary. The thing is, he gave her the 'ok' in the first place to have her own account, but bawled in court that she was selfish! Do you agree?

[size=5pt]I don't.[/size]

@MRbrown C'mon have a look at the emboldment. Now does my husband really need to ask even when it is blatantly clear that times are tough? Why cant she offer to assist? especially knowing that the hubby is not allowed to inquire or borrow from that account.

Shy-One:

I don't know what to say to you

You are a breed that has never crossed my path before

[b]Do you hear yourself?[/b]

@emboldment, between you and I, I really dont think so but we both should understand, and from here on this is what we both need to do 

MzDarkSkin:

LMFAO! Amen! Hallelujah!

LOL!! you guys are a trip o! LMFAO! so they take the shapely and gifted babes as souvenirs eh?

@MzDS been trailing your bakasi since my awol, you been busy clawing around I see mmmmmm! just who you've sold out lately I'm afraid. So where's your big bakasi headed this holiday. I hope your plan is not to hang in here with @Mr Cock, guys got so much loose ends to tie up. Please call me when there's fun in here.

@poster it turns out that Monique is truly happy in love than most fine azz girls out there.

So @poster, what do we say about that?

WOW! @poster congratulations

But I dont understand though, why wont you take on @keyne's advise? and please send us the pictures once you've tapped in there too.

keyne:

so what makes you think/feel yhu r above his status?

^^^Maybe this is the question we should be answering.

hackney:

If there's disparity in wealth (say, she comes from a destitute background), it shouldnt affect our union at all.
However i can imagine having problems if she is a stark illiterate; you cant converse intelligently or  take her on
double or triple dates, she may have nothing to teach the eventual kids etc.

Its even worse if the man is the stark illiterate; his girl's friends wont let it go as they will look down on him.
On the other hand if she's the one that is dumb but shapely as f.uc.k, the men wont really mind as long as he has money to take
care of everything else.

Agree absolutely, just on the last sentence, this will most definately backfire. It always catches up. Its a problem because there's some places you cant take her to or people you interact with that you may never expose her to. Everytime she opens her mouth to speak in company of your friends you'll be gasping for air. Money doesnt take care of everything.

How many shapely as Zap litirate women are out there? plenty.

@poster for real, its this thinking that I dont get. Lets use Oprah as an example she met her life partner at 39/40yrs if am not mistaken. Now that is quite grown and lets face it Oprah, has never been a beauty by all means. Yes her money is pretty, but have you seen Stadman?

So now what do we say about this case? What's beauty and age got to do with it?

SA Goddess:

Sounds like you are nice and busy Lady, enjoy and don't forget to apply lots of sunblock, don't want you coming back char-grilled, want that beautiful caramel complexion in tact!

As for Cock, I give up on you!

Nothing compared to your itinerary, please ngwana aska tlhoka diaparo tsa christmas since o mo rometse ko koko. As said I just got back and m here for now till my next awol, this means no time for cell phonies and lap toppies.

So what's in PE. What do people get up to there during a season like this.

Scratching head!!!, okay I've never been one to date men for their pocket, however I am a sucker for brainy men, but unfortunate;y not all of them know how to put the brains to good use, and this is a sad fact of life. Anyway! I will date a man below my class only if he is ambitious, has a grand plan on how to lift himself up, and is putting a lot of effort in making things happen for himself, than to pay lip service about what he wants to achieve.

The thing is we attach ourselves to others in order to remain inspired. I was checking my phone bill this month and honestly people life is costly, so who the heck on earth still wants to carry on like a hippy in the 60ties living for s3x, drugs and alcohol 

As much as there's play, there's also bills to be taken care of.

mmmmm! still in my bikini and sipping on cocktail, came in here to read what the boys get up to and the latest stunts. Boys more stories for reading pleasure, please. I promise to

Me_Aboki:

Very selfish woman (even if husband initially agreed to the second exclusive account) what happened to the fundamental agreement in marriage i.e. for better for worse, as in now that the man is financially down.
Abeg, this is simply a parasitic relationship not based on partnership where the woman is clearly taking advantage of a foolish husband.
The black widow spider, known for devouring her mate during love making, comes to mind - trust a woman to want to have her cake and eat it.

Gbam, very selfish woman with a mumu husband by her side.

@Poster its a season for giving, maybe you could buy her a nice perfume and bath set, scented body lotion, shower gel, bath salt, you know the works.

Mygoldie:

POINTLESS

No not, must announce come backs, where to be found and what you up to.