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Stupid people..no one is interested in listening to how you moved or didn't move your billions.. EFCC should first go after the Kano Governor with overwhelming evidence before looking for who to witch hunt.
Even buhari that stole billions or dollars from Nnpc for his campaign what had happened to him?noise makers.

PresidentBuhari:
Dear Nairalanders,
I am planning my wedding on the 18th december and i would like to invite Davido to peform and Basket mouth to be the MC.

I am not sure how to go about contacting them to know their availability, money is not a problem. But i would still like to know how much they charge.

Does anyone here have an idea how much Davido will charge to come and perfom his song "FIA" on my wedding as my wife wants to hear the song. Also, how much could basket mouth charge to do the MC for the whole wedding. I will invite two Nairalanders to the wedding and pay their flight, hotel stay and give each N25K.

Suggestions is welcome.

Hmmmm Oga..and your name is president buhari..it had better be true ooo.

spiritedtete:
My wife is me ... I am my wife... We share absolutely everything.

Apart from side chick lol

Lol..very funny.why can't share side chicks?you are one after all.

tamethem:
OK you have won

I'm even tired of writing...I won you though.

Everything you will advice us to do..you no dey write?

spiritedtete:
Trusting and investing in people and their businesses

Lost 1 m USD
80m naira
30m
16m ... And the least goes on and on down to even 150k.

Never will I trust anyone with my money Never not even my Father (even when I know his is a good man)

This thread just brought the anger in me.

Awon oloriburuku!!!

Hope you will be able to trust your wife sha?you sound so pain.sorry about that.

tamethem:
You are not far from being right

but it seems you are taking sides which is unfair. You talk as if the Lady is the one at fault . By doing what exactly?

Siding ones wife when she's wrong against ones family is wrong but how are you sure Lola was wrong.
She is older than the husband is that being wrong?
She's Yoruba is that being wrong?

I will like to know her offense.

you already taking sides

welldone

From my post did ever see where I accused of anything..did you see me talk about her being older that the husband a bad thing or she being Yoruba a crime?did you also see where I said Lola didn't make peace for them so it's wrong?what I said was the wives and no one in particular.
If you check what I wrote I didn't side anyone but you are the one who is siding Peter by calling Paul rude for saying something when he has never said anything all the while his brother has been opening mouth up and down.
My dear leave what you saw on social media and talk about what is at hand..in this recent fight..being Yoruba or being older is not the topic and no one mentioned that and I still instist that the wives have a very big role to play and if they are not doing then they are indirectly supporting the fight by siding their husband's.

tamethem:
Sist.
The common story about this feud is that Mama didn't want the girl in their family because she's Yoruba. No problems. Parents are like that. Its left for the guy or lady in question to convince his/her mum or dad.

But the most disappointing thing is Paul and Jude joining in the "No Yoruba in our family" syndrome.

They are at least educated and more exposed than Mama.

No matter what the outburst of Paul in reply to the Lady's birthday wish was stupid. No wonder he named himself Rudeboy . He was very rude and crude.
Now for people to be praising him is more crude and uncivilized.

Peter is a true gentleman because no brother tries that with me. I will put him where he belongs. You can insult me and I will keep my cool but not my wife and kids.

Lastly you saying you don't need a man that would fight his family because of you is pure hypocrisy. Every woman wants a man that would defend them in any situation. Why yours is different is a mystery.

Remain blessed.

I have seen all you wrote and I still disagree with you..you heard the mother never wanted the woman in question..how do you know this is true?
You call Peter a gentle man and Paul the rude one?since the beginning of this problem have you heard Paul say anything..Peter have been the one discussing his family every where he went to..

I will not also support my mother if she rejected my brother's wife to be just because of where she is from..I have been a victim and it hurts so much..it's totally wrong..
I will not also support my husband to fight his siblings for my sake when I'm wrong..when I'm crossing my line you call me in and call my attention to the things I wasn't doing right and when your siblings are messing up you warn them not to disrespect your wife and that settles it.

Ugosample:
it's not a taboo

it's actually good

But my point is that IT IS NOT YOUR DUTY
We have elders to settle quarrel between siblings and cousins

tho a good wife reaching out is a good move, the elders have that role to play too.

When you see a family in a scatter scatter position, you know that the elders are not playing their role

The wives have to do their best first but when it seems too big for them to handle then the elders in the family can come in not village umunna

You people should do something more than warning..you have been warning for long but they didn't listen..after rigging the election we will start complaining as usual.

Ugosample:
it is NOT the duty of the wives to bring peace to a family, that is where we often get it wrong

We have "umunna" for a reason

And they are there to ensure that all squabbles are settled amicably.

What does the wife want to do?

call a meeting?
or sit them down to talk sense ?


Umunna (or let ne use the world elders) are there to summon aggrieved parties and thrashing out issues

Not only umunna..the president too.your wife is the closest person to you..the only one who has the key to your heart and your private property.. someone you wouldn't let just anyone get to..you will even leave your wife with the keys.its the wives that can bring peace to the family and no one else..why can't the wives call a meeting?or talk to their husband's midnight to tell them how the problem in the family is affecting their own happiness.i called a meeting between two men that were having issues for years and other men were involved too because one of the men his wife was adding far instead of looking for peace..I was the only woman there and I called the meeting to make peace for them so why can't his wives call a meeting?is it a taboo?

tamethem:
Judging by your Monika you are a Lady. I bet, if eventually you don't get a husband like Peter then you are not lucky.

When a man stands up for his woman even when his family is full of hate for her, that is what I call being a real caring man.

"Lola splits the family" "Lola separated the family"

With what?

with a cutlass?

If being a Yoruba ,IBO or Hausa Sister in-law is an offense then let the Family be separated as long as the husband loves his wife .

I always said this, No one tells me who to marry. Neither Mum or Dad talk less a brother. I won't take that kind of shit.

My wife is my wife whether from India, Somalia or Afghanistan. As long as she respects me and gives me joy anyone can go and die if they are bitter about her color or Tribe.

As a woman with this kind of stand sist, you disappointed me

Oga you disappointed me the more..all these you just said..how did you find out it's the reason for their problem?what do you mean being Yoruba and Hausa?did Paul ever say that or you read it on the Internet thesame way I did?
I don't need a man who will fight his family because of me..what do you know the problem is..how did you know it's because she is Yoruba they are having problems apart from the fact that you read it online same way I did?as a man when you get married name sure you call your wife to order when you feel she is crossing the line and no man can tell you were or who to marry.

If you know me well you will know I don't support injustice..you can't maltreat your wife even if you are my brother and your wife cannot maltreat your siblings when I'm aware..you don't no anything about me.if they are having issues because he married Yoruba it's bad and if the wife is having issues with the brothers because she is older and feel they should respect her or honour her then she is wrong but in all these..who knows the truth so what are you saying?

I have nothing to say to those saying he acted like a child for what he wrote..didn't you people see what Peter wrote on their anniversary?abegi..I don't even trust what ever Lola is writing outside because I have one witch in the house who goes to morning mass every morning but has slept with all her husband's cousin brothers.. politicians..small boys..now she is a knight in the church after she help her children keep guns that they almost killed my uncle with..she is sleeping in the church morning and night..more reason why I don't respect any pastor or priest..I. sure she is fucking the parish priest now but people will think she is going there to pray...the more you look the less you see.

godfatherx:
This guy is an idiot. Not on your birthday, not to your SIL, if you have issues with your brother, deal with him, never his wife nor his kids.

The lady could have sent birthday greetings to her husband alone and ignored you, she didn't. She's the bigger person here.

So what about what Peter did on their anniversary..what do you call him? double idiot?

IamD18:
Rudeboy is arrogant and disrespectful.

I'm beginning to think the hatred he has for Lola who has stood by them is the major factor that engineered their splitting.

I don't know Lola personally to know if she's a good or bad person to judge, but publicly shading her indirectly shows you have no respect for your brother, his wife, your wife and your kids.

Peter not being able to shade your wife all this while doesn't make your wife a BETTER woman, it only shows how matured he is and respect he has for you and your family. Kindly grow up and stop being a disgrace to sensible twin brothers, husbands, fathers and uncles out there.

One needs to quit hatred and tribalism to be successful in entertainment industry.

I stand with PETER!
His family over P-sqaure.

So now that you are standing with Peter..what do you know the problem is..I have a very wicked aunty who just succeeded in killing the husband..it was so bad with the man that I'm happy he is dead..atleast he is rest now but the wife will always open her 36 anytime she sees anybody.. trying to make people see her as a good woman.after dealing with us inside and we starting for her to leave us alone she wouldn't say a word so people will think she did nothing and we are just shouting.
I still maintain that it's the duty of the wives to do everything possible to bring peace to that family just the way it was before they came in..
You can only not be bothered when you see the brother is after your husband's life but aside that..preach peace.. continue preaching peace and never stop preaching peace until the peace is restored.

Not hating but I wouldn't pay to watch that.

bixton:
..,you say government is frustrating your efforts to get loan?
...are you sure you have a geninue company and reason for financial institutions to give you a loan?
..because if you have all the necessary it should be easy to get one.

I didn't say the government is frustrating my effort to get loan..never applied for one..and what do you mean I am sure my company is genuine?if you have seen a fake registered company before I haven't.i mean the present government is frustrating what I do..I wouldn't say how but it's legal.

henchamb:
What's the proposal for job creation
Restructuring is nowhere to be found after prof burst the empty restructuring mantra.
I think we need buhari to continue. The entrepreneural drive of this administration is worth it.
Most guys now have corporate accounts as a result of cheap and easy CAC registration. Easier to access loans and consular services (if you know)
Kudos to pmb, his investment in security worked hence it's not in Atiku's agenda.

Oga..having a cooperate account doesn't mean wealth..I have my company but thesame government have been frustrating my efforts..where do you even see the loan?

Nelbless:
I write this with tears in my heart.... and almost a confused mind.

I recently met woman back in August this year who is also in my line of work, oil and gas......she is a Nigerian/Canadian as I learnt just last night, mixed root.

at first I was captivated by her stunning beauty/drive for excellence.....before I knew it we both had clicked .....understanding each other very well.

she is a Sagittarius and am a leo......meaning we both in some ways shares same thing in common 'workaholics/honest/generous'

I was helplessly in love with her....

NOTE: SHE RESIDES IN ABUJA WITH HER PARENTS WHILE AS AT WHEN WE MET ONLINE I WAS IN LUXEMBOURG HOLIDAYING.....CAME IN RECENTLY AND HAD SCHEDULED OUR FIRST MEETING COME 23RD NOV BEING HER BIRTHDAY.

Having shared her odeal with men and how she was abused by her last fiance for years and her resolve never to date again.......upon my recommendation she began taking classes that would help her mindset on men as she hates men atleast i suspected.

now we both are deeply in love..... HOWEVER LAST NIGHT WHILE ON PHONE I SHARED MY AGE WITH HER (34) AND GOT THE SHOCKER OF MY LIFE WHEN I HEARD HER SAY SHE IS (45)!!!!

I COULDNT BELIEVE MY EARS COS SHE LOOKED WAY YOUNGER THAN THAT AGE ..........

AM CONFUSED.....

I know hence I love her am meant to overlook her age and etc.....but this lady is authoritative and rude though I cautions her from time to time , bug then I fear if I proceed with this I might be her puppy above all am just confused.

PLEASE I NEED SEASONED ADVICE FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN IN SAME POSITIONS.

WHAT ARE THE CONS AND PROS IN THIS SITUATION!

AM 35 ....SHE IS 45!!!

The age difference is much..I doubt if she will ever submit to you as the man of the house.t he age is just too much..3/4years would have been ok.for the fact that she is far older and well to do will never let her submit..she will always see you as her junior who should not order her around..
Not even a must she gets married at this age or if she must let her find someone who is 50..for now it looks beautiful but I don't think it will be later.

Topmaike007:
who told you,SDK don't base in Nigeria she blog from Germany to tell you that she don't spread fake news to put food on the table and don't forget Linda was taken to court early this week for Putting false allegations on one man she claims to be the owner of instablog.........

Linda and poke nosing are 5&6

Oh ok..the Stella blogs from Germany..may reason why she is very broke and hungry.

You people are just jealous of her success and you can't hide it..10 of you can't even amount to 1 of Linda ikeji

revolt:
Wasn't this guy in gpd 98 set in imsu ?!!

You are very right..he is..he was in same department with my brother's friend..they were busy sharing imo state money and collecting lands.

Trying everything for buhari to notice him and make him the flag bearer any how..even if it means breaking the law because he knows him as a law breaker..igbo's didn't endorse atiku..we are still behind buhari..as if anyone Sabi you..who are you to speak for the igbo's?so you are our mouth piece now?any.

Not only pastor.. anybody that opens a gathering to steal people's money they will start calling the person a pastor.

Hungry people.. buhari will soon call them and they will all jump there..2face can never be found in this kind of place.

People can actually do anything for money..money they would have rejected on the spot.i feel disgusted seeing our youth do this for money.your lands sucked in blood and you are stepping on the blood of your brother's..sisters.. children..fathers and mother to do this just because of money?
Even though buhari and his men has never killed anyone in my village but if I vote for him,the blood of innocent Nigerians that have been killed over the years will not let me sleep.

mtngloetiartel:
real men abhor ur type.

Mumu..real women abhor your type.small boy claiming a man.i will never tell any man my secrets..let him also keep his.whats the use?the break the relationship when we know secrets are not pleasant to the ears.

Gbere ga ba.

So why did you ask in the first place when you knew you can't handle it?Mumu girl and she was even answering with all sincerity thinking she was with a matured man.

I can never play such game..you can play it with yourself.everyone has a past and secrets..these things are never pleasing to the ear so why ask?

Oga that girl is not the right one for you..the right the for you to do now is to do your best and make money..leave the country if you have nothing going on for you here but when you finally make the money again that guy should not be in the picture.now she knows how to advice you to travel back so you will be sending her money from there but she couldn't advice you to start up something good with the money you came with but she was busy spending it.the way things are going you might make the money and still go back to her..what do you mean you were frustrated when you broke up with her?we're you waiting for her to have sex in your presence before you leave her..why would she be giving out her contact in your presence so what do you think the friends will see you as?a dummy?
You broke up with someone for disrespecting you and you still went back to beg?Oga forget her and move on..I would have said you should look for a girl to distract yourself with but from the way you sound you can't even afford T-fair to go see any girl..go back to your base..it even looks to me that you came back to Nigeria because of this girl.

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

Hia..what is this one saying?