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There are no rights or wrongs here becos one size does not fit all.

According to the bible, the 2 primary roles of a man in the family are:

1. The man to show loving leadership over wife and children. Oversight of all matters in the home, both physical and spiritual. Spiritual leadership in family home Bible studies and prayers. The wife is the manager of the home, but the husband is the manager of the wife. (1 Tim 5:. When you manage your wife it means managing her resources, her as a person and the home. It means interacting with her to reach common agreement .

2. The man is the "breadwinner"( Works to make money to support family) . This means his wife earnings should NOT be considered in this matter. If she chooses to help with her earnings its a bonus but don't depend on it.

Poster should ignore all the childish advices on here and seek direction from the word of God .

It's early days in your marriage so take time to study and understand your wife so you can enjoy (and not endure) your marriage .

SEUN should ban any posts saying people are dead without confirmation.

It's very distressing for family and friends of the "deceased" to hear about such news only to find out that its not true.

Daewoods: see your foolish foolishness,nonsense.

More like your foolishness . Should they be printing unconfirmed or rumoured reports that people have died. If the victims of this shoddy journalism was one of your family, how would you feel?

Gullible people!

anataala: your are part of his problem amin

If you have nothing to say why not keep quiet. Do you have to respond to my comment.

God expose all my enemies in Jesus name. Amen

[quote author=Builder][/quote]And you will do all these in one term? Please contest in the next election and we will all vote for you.

You Nigerians love lies. You are gullible and thats why your politicians find it easy to lie to you that Nigeria's problems are solvable in 1 year.

That's why you are never happy and cannot appreciate progress when you see it. Your expectations are unrealistic.

No nations has ever achieved all those things you listed overnight . Sustainable development is always slow. It's never a miracle thing.

NL is the best place to announce the death of living people!

It's either a rumour or unconfirmed reports but NL will still publicise it.

It's a case of the child shouting wolf , wolf as a joke. When the real wolf came and ate him no one came to his aid because they thought he was joking.

Please stop this nonsense!

vision2050: Okay, we don hear. Promise without fulfil. Gej hear this if you fail to meet your target.
Something unbearable may happen to you.

I knew it was only a matter of time before Boko Haram members joined NL.

Builder: Last year, Gej went before Daddy GO for prayer, in january the man released a communique wishing nigerians a happy new year, we later learnt he spent 1billion naira on food... then the subsidy removal. heaven knows what surprises he have in store for us this year. The man na reall mumu house boi... Giringori and klarus get brain pass am

And what do you know about leading a nation like Nigeria? I take it you are an experienced ex-president .

Please tell us what YOU will do if you were made the president of Nigeria to prevent ignorant citizens from calling you 'mumu'.

Please make sure you give us miracle cures not policies that will take a few years to be embedded into the economy.

This is a new year. I can't believe people can just open their mouth and talk without thinking!

Teej: Dis is all repitition...we nigerians need action and for him to provide g☺☺d jobs for the youths

No president in any other country is responsible for providing jobs for all citizens. It's the economic environment that facilitates the creation of jobs via good security, stable political environment , water, transport etc. once the country is thriving , international companies will come and establish in Nigeria. Entrepreneurs will also be able to start businesses that will create jobs. It's a cycle.

Every attempt to do something about transport is frustrated by people like Dangote who need their trucks to be bringing them millions. Every attempt to sort out the power problem is frustrated by some corrupt members of the govt who are being bribed by the Chinese who supply 99.9% of the generator used in Nigeria.

The root of the problems facing Nigeria goes beyond what we all imagine.

I pray that God will continue to assist the President in Jesus name. Amen

All the enemies of the progress of Nigeria will continue to suffer the faith of Pharaoh.

All the enemies of GEJ will continue to eat their words because God will put them all to shame. Amen.

May The Lord protect us all from evil in 2013. Grant Nigerian roads angelic soldiers that will prevent irresponsible people from accessing the roads. May He also hold to account all those politicians who have misused their political offices to enrich their lives at the cost of the lives of other citizens becos these blood is on their hands.

In this 2013, execute JUDGEMENT against anyone who pertake in any evil of any kind. Amen

For Greek scholars only.

Jowo fi rushing se Adura yi fun ara e:
1. Ori buruku o ni di tenant mi
2. Ijangbon o ni so mi di neighbor
3. Amubo o ni di customer mi
4. Osi o ni so mi di hobby
5. Omi inira o ni di favourite drink mi
6. Aisan o ni da ajo si mi lowo
7. Emi o ni bawon mu yara logba ewon
8. Tailor to nranso iponju ko ni mo size mi
9. Iku koni ri wa gbese
10. Oloore mi ko ni fi obituary damimo. Amin.

Nigerians will always display their true colours wherever they go.

Nigerians are harsh and live harsh lives. Shouting at every and anything.

They have no compassion , gentleness or empathy and that shows through when they deal with patients. All they think about is their money and prestige.

You can survive without compassion and care of your patients in Nigeria (and even refuse to consider patients who don't have money ) but in the UK, USA , Europe et al, it won't wash!

Kzinne: Jonathan is the worst nigerian head of state ever, worse than abacha

It's GEJ fault again.

Now, He is responsible for the irresponsible behaviour of Nigerians.

Yes,he is the president but he cannot be responsible for all things in every area otherwise he will die of hypertension before his time.


You know nothing about leadership . read Exodus 18 - Jethro's Counsel to Moses

stine b: God will have mercy on your ignorance

What mercy. God will destroy all His enemies patapata !

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ROSSIKE: This whole nonsense of women supposedly dressing ''indecently'' is based on nothing but christian brainwashing, and is a gross insult to women. Who the hell are you to decide what constitutes ''indecent dressing'' for any human being?
There's absolutely nothing wrong with showing flesh. Even before our lands were invaded by christianity, we took pride in displaying flesh, and [b]God knows there was absolutely nothing 'indecent' about it. Get your heads out of the white man's bible and start to [/b]think like free people.

Which God are you quoting?

Which God are you representing? That attitude kinda gives you away but I still want to give you the benefit of the doubt.

There is only rule to a successful marriage.

It's all in the Holy Bible.

kokosmiles: It is the only option when the man will pray u dead or feels u want to kill him.Before I got separated, if I give my my husband food he will have my children have a taste of it before he eats.But when it comes to other things like my money n other stuffs he won't be scared that I will kill him but will rather beat me black n blue.

That is an animal.

God hates a violent man. If your life is in danger, then the only way is out.

OP is now the expert on single-Dom.

God help us. There are weddings every weekend in Nigeria and there will be many more in future. Even the registry is overbooked for people waiting to get married.

Life is a phase and everyone needs to pass through their own phase. Part of that is being single. Being single is not a terminal thing.

God gives to all in His own time. Anyone that believes in all these "empty" statements have themselves to blame .

Put YOUR trust in God and you will not be disappointed .

bknight: Separation is an option. It proves effective in certain cases where both need some growing up to do

... This is western ideology. It infact speeds up the route to the divorce.

What is a failed marriage ?
Why did it fail?

These are the key questions. One size does not fit all. Every problem has a solution as long as both parties are willing.

lat4real: maybe they want to seduce Jesus.

#Justsaying

I take it you have seen Jesus to know He can be seduced by people like you.

Church is a market place.

It's for everyone both sinners and the "righteous ". In time, when the word they hear grows in their heart, they will change their ways including the way they speak, dress and conduct themselves .

In my church, the ushers at the door will cover you with a shawl before you enter and speak to you after the service. No one is allowed to walk all over the place when you are late.

The worst ones are those who sit with all their knickers sticking from the back of their trousers. It's simply carelessness in my own opinion . Not all are deliberate.

Church is the best place for them.

Ripe in what?

[quote author=pimp_lucious ]This is gross display of ineptitude... What came to mind on siting this is... "we are gods and every other mortals in this state should serve us." this is crazy! is there actually a way out of all this mess we ordinary nigerian is subjected to? I can't see a sliver lining.[/quote]"Citing'

All i know is God will judge accordingly! Everyone is accountable to Him.

To all the hypocrites commenting here who themselves do worst things in their private backyard ( kidnapping people, stealing from your office, taking bribes, duping people on the Internet etc) thinking no one sees them, God will judge!

tny60: well, when did you become atheist? and how old are you?
i don't have the skills to argue with you about religion but you don't need scientific proof of God. none exists and you will not find it.

when you open your eyes and heart, you will find God.

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[quote author=omo_to_dun]I am 27 years old. I cannot remember the exact time I became an atheist. Reading the scriptures at an early age, I have always had doubts and questions about so many of its stories. However, my parents always exhorted me to accept the WORD OF GOD without question. So when I gained my independence from them, the first thing I did was abandon the church and think for myself.
Imagine if a Buddhist had said, "When you open your eyes and heart, you will find Buddha." Or if a Muslim had said, "When you open your eyes and heart, you will find Allah." There are numerous religions in the world; hence, logically, at most only one can be true. What makes your God more legitimate than others? I believe only in what can be proven.[/quote]Psalm 14:1. The FOOL says in his heart, "There is no God." They are corrupt, their deeds are vile; there is no one who does good.

Over and Out!

AmEucharia: A billion LIKES for you dear. I know that a lot of knees have not bowed to baal

Well said.

This is the worst thing about NL. There are just too many idol (and human ) worshippers on NL .