₦airaland Forum

ReubenE:
No be lie

Even the President is not suffering any sleepless nights.
When the noise from complaints get too loud, he calls Femi Adesina to check anywhere in the world they are holding parties, then zoooom...he is off.

Nigerians should be wise enough in the coming years never to inflict themselves with this type of bad luck spinning government

Modified: Most of this government's apologists are unwell, and one can easily tell from the way they talk.

They talk of Covid, government already borrowing as far back as 2014, Oyedepo being a fake man, PDP stealing for 16 years etc as part of the reasons for the hardship in the country.

Firstly, this government has been useless right from the day it was inaugurated. There is no development indicator one can easily point to that was initiated by this government before the advent of Covid.

Secondly, whether government was already borrowing as far as 2014 is immaterial because this present government has not stopped borrowing. With over ten trillion borrowed, stifling custom duties, VAT increment, oil proceeds etc, this government has not been able to translate the above to any thing meaningful. Borrowing is never a problem when it is for economic gains. It becomes a problem when it is for burying the dead, and the latter is what Buhari is doing.

Thirdly, its quite disheartening most people don't recognize the powers of the office of Mr President in a State system. He is the embodiment of our sovereignty, and in most cases holds power over life and death.
Comparing what he can do, or ought to do with such power with that of a man of god is not only nonsensical but also stupid.
Buhari is elected and paid to secure Nigerians, make our lives better and secure better hope for the future, a future we should be proud enough to bequeath to our children. Oyedepo whether a fake man or not is none of our business. He is a business man that has not violated any known Nigerian law. Nigerians never elected him as a pastor so he is not responsible for securing the country, Buhari is paid to do that.

Me too if I have my way I no want to be bothered.

Na so one APC zombie I warned about reelecting this government in 2019, telling me even to get job or travel to get some of his documents after graduation no easy as he gat no money.

2023, I hope Nigerians learn and even if nobody can be an independent candidate to win election, APC and their monstrous governance style must not be returned to power....Nigerians were better off with PDP...
Ordinary food, Nigerians are crying...too bad.

TarOrfeeek:



When women are sincerely advice to avoid damaged, weak, cruel and aggressive Men.

They will scornfully disregard the advice. Broke shame you (the man) and proceed to "pepper you" with images of their sweet romance.

When the money finishes and relationships end.

These same pea brained fools will come to emotionally manipulate "weak men" to speak for them.

NOT ME! I shall proceed to soak Ijebu garri and fried chicken for dinner.

Snow White go and look for your 12 dwarfs. I am 6.2 ft tall, biko.

You just defined REDPILLERS..

Ixua:
So in your mind, he should be giving her the 3.5m monthly for peace to reign abi?
You see how you dey reason for this Nigeria and after now you would say you want peace in Nigeria.
You want a man to pay 3.5 million Naira to a woman monthly to get peace. Even Nigerian Police with Ak47 guns don't demand that much for peace to reign.
Which peace? Let that peace not reign abegi.
Who told you anything would boomerang against that man by his kids.
It like you don't know how this things normally work. When that man gives them a life with affluence, the kind that politician's children do have; they will forget their mother and the kind of relationship they may want to have with her, just ask Otedola's first daughter and her real mother.
If no be say Buhari don dissolve Sars, I for don say make them find you, then come blast those hands wia you use dey type this thing you just dey post for here.

You have same mindset with FFK, na una type they unnecessarily suffer well for woman hand.

I would have ignored your write up but the last lines tells me how s-tupid u are to just assume u can authorize and unleash the law enforcement on people who u don't even know in an anonymous forum like Nairaland.... Do u know if your actions will backfire grossly?... My prayer is for u to meet a woman that u would have pushed to the wall in marriage and u will really see her other side so u will know the fury u get from a woman scorned.

Nobody said N3.5m should be paid to P monthly, but I hope u know taking care of 4 kids no be moi moi, including tuition fees etc....Meanwhile, if not for God, seems FFK would have closed permanently relationship road for P, but since God is not man, it is not possible....You don't expect her to come dey suffer with the 4 kids when she isn't a widow?.

Toxic men all over Nairaland always angry when men give money to women...Deal with it because na like so God originally do it....After all in this case no be free...Having 4 kids for a man is like dying and coming back alive...

Differentiate:
Swears bro to me all women are the same.

If men have this absolute mentality about women so wetin women go come talk about grand masters in the game?

englishmart:
And who did the recording?
Cry in peace, go home and meet one of your many other boyfriends. Women cheat more just that they are usually very surreptitious and smart.

Bantilosha

Most women do not necessary cheat but have admirers...Na just to convert one admirer to new boyfriend if one slack or too slow to take the relationship forward.

Fredfr33zy:
This is the reason why my dad fights my mum till this day, he doesn't say it openly but from his complaint to other neighbors and friends that's what I deduce. He wanted her to submit all her salary to him monthly. The issue is he never created that environment, that she could trust him with her money.

A woman can give you all her earnings if she wants to but first, she has to trust you. How can you make her trust you is by showing her love and making her understand anything done with the money is for the benefit of the family. Also, when it gets better you wouldn't forget her. That's why you see some men buy expensive gifts for their spouses because of the financial sacrifice she has made.

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My father comes to mind....a direct opposite( over opposite of your dad) and my mum trusts his judgement and decisions on many occasions. Abi, how woman go travel and leave hubby with 5 young daughters( no boy then) and 2 or 3/maids and still be rest assured anywhere she is that her man is responsible even bragging about it at old age?

socialmediaman:
Why would you marry a man with such behavior? Why would you let your life be led by such a man? God gave the husband authority over the wife, why would a woman who is disciplined, organized and educated be under the authority of a man who doesn’t have the wisdom and capacity to lead her?

But many men womanize naw...she for no marry?
She will marry but be WISE...after all bible said we should be as wise as serpents....If the man however has a very good side of him of showering her with lots of love, they can plan with some of the money together.

theForth:
Tradition and rules are not meant for the rich or else tell me why chioma's family hasn't done same with davido.

Davido is a liberal, generous soul...

U know how much he would have spent and given to Chioma to leave that boy for him? Money wen fit over pass any bride price/court wedding cost& white wedding cost put together for Chioma's mind to soft and be at peace with him....He even invited her to come for Ifeanyi's birthday and I'm sure she was part of the organizers to make it a memorable occasion( more money to make again).... Besides any small monthly upkeep money so that she no go vex or depressed in leaving the boy.... Abi u no dey see her galivating and being happy?

Davido is a man even though devil dey mislead him on baby papa road as a young guy not even up to 30 years with different kids.

When a man understands women, e no dey hard for women to love him...I no mean foolish redpilling ooo....

Abi no be his first baby mama donate too to his N200m challenge and not even beefing him in anyway.

But u see this oversabi FFK, he no want P to enjoy shinshin from him even after separation so he thought he was being wise( later he go still regret)in withholding the kids, thing wen go still boomerang on him even from those 4 boys.

Channel this talk to your boss through Senate, instead of disturbing Nigerians that have long wished for restructuring.

Na small pikin dey worry Precious....Seems she no know his previous history /secret to use collect her kids fast.

Same man that couldn't answer drills of senate on his mental health.....Abi why did he run to Ghana at a time, where he met his Ghanaian wife after being allegedly cured.

His Ghana wife still love him, naim she no come dey live under same roof with him after P left? Abi which kind of marriage be that?....

Seems when he eventually goes back to his Ghanaian wife ( instead of chasing small girls) before his life & manhood go correct.

He should be bigger than this and do what is needful, at worst give 2 kids to P and keep 2 instead of allowing small girl to embarrass him with some of his secrets.
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pepperdemzombie:
Concentrated idiot, what Nationality is your foolishness? what is SE? All North na Hausa too abi? Just say all Nigeria na Igbo. Or Deh!

This is the last time I will reply a concentrated idiot that foolish pride will not allow him acknowledge the fact that INI Edo isn't Igbo....

Mind u, I'm not Igbo.

pepperdemzombie:
Where Mumu see IGBO? Does the East comprise of IGBO? Is it Hausa or Yoruba that should befriend her?

I shouldn't be teaching u geography or geopolitical zones in Naija.

East is clearly Igbo.....South/South( Niger Delta) is ANOTHER geopolitical entity M-U-M-U Dullard.

I thought taxes are for those who earn an income in Nigeria or because they find money in one's account, they just deduct taxes?

What happened to the VATS they collect in many ways including deductions from savings and current accounts, 10%+ deduction from fixed deposit (from interest accrued)and stocks (from interest accrued)!

Prime4life:
you are a wise man my brother, infact con follow me smoke this last wrap in appreciation.

I'm telling you...The best response so far..

My question to the Op is, is your wife fully a Nigerian?

Dmacqh:
The men taking over , first May, now Merkel.
You are a woman of strength. I admire you and the former President and damsel of Croatia .
Happy retirement to Merkel . You left a united Germany .

Add Presidents of Estonia and New Zealand.

pepperdemzombie:
Use your head, nothing wrong with surrogacy, your husband/boyfriend/lover will be the donor. Funke Akindele, Kim Kardashian etc did it.
Sperm donor is for couples who want to remain together but the man is not fertile, and they want children. This is done as a cover up and so that the donor will not lay claim or blackmail in future. Single women who have no partner also do it but it boomerang in the long run when it comes to Will and inheritance.
So, out of all the men in the East, no single man could collect money and cooperate?
She's even lucky it is normal bearing mother's maiden names over there. Tonto said same, see the public disgrace faced when burst.

I'm sure u are Yoruba...

Na only Yoruba go call anybody that is not Hausa or Yoruba, IGBO.

I thought he said he married his wives as virgins....See that it is no guarantee that virgin no go still cheat if what he said is true.

Anyway if true, she was only reciprocating what u too are doing: Tasting other soups.

If she maintains herself well, she can still remarry.....maybe to one richer Arab man, abi Mandela's 3rd wife was married to 2 Presidents in her life time and her name appeared in Guiness book of records because of that.....Janet J no marry one younger, billionaire Arab guy, had 1 child and still left when she couldn't blend well with somethings in the marriage even when the guy dey beg her.

Gotze1:
kettle calling pot black hahahahaha.

This is one of your fathers and your old man pastor in enugu hahahahaha

This can also happen in cases where the man initially denies a pregnancy and later changes his mind suddenly after the child is born and the woman mistakenly allows the child to live with the father.

Hairiness is the problem( lol)

In Cameroon, more ladies there than in Naija have tendency for beards....That is apart from their natural big bums.

You don't need to tell your gf anything....Just handle this issue decisively. A lot of men are in big shit...baby mama matter due to indecisiveness and iranu.

Come ooo, who is still doing long time dating of 6 years with men who are more fickle when it comes to matters of the heart?.... It means they started together when he was nothing and in between,:she has started playing wifely roles since u no free wife am.

So, now that pepper don dey rest, y not marry her and even from now u can give her a ring and wear yours so some women will know they are taking risks by doing any relationship with you.

EndBuhariNow:
To be an only son in a society like Nigeria is very traumatic , my eldest brother was victim of bullies because he was only male child of 4 children my parent had then, to extend they used 6inch nail and insert in his skull, luckily he didn't die, this made my mother to cry to bitterly and wishes God could give her 1 more son so my brother will have another brother, God heard her prayers and gave him more 4 sons in roll , we fight in pack like lions, if u find one person the rest will gang up against you irrespective of who's wrong , among the boys I happened to be the last of the boys , also the tallest, the biggest/heaviest and strongest of my siblings , I was equally bullied but I dont hold back because I will give u dose of ur own medicine , I became a nightmare to bullies and defender of the bullied , when I was in school a female friend who happens to be an orphan was moles beaten and raped , the rapist dare her to do her worst , I took up the case despite we had nothing in common just classmates, I got the boy arrested and I made sure they charged him to court, after his parent pleade to withdraw the case from court and are wiling to pay the damages, by then he has spent close to 3 months in there. They must give Sly justice

Na true u talk....So touching...

What about 1 boy surrounded by sisters...Na God be his cover from bullies...Or, only child( boy)? If only son, parents must step up physically( if need be) to deal with those bullies...

That is y schools( including private ones) that they flog students anyhow, once the parents get a new school and do their research as to whether they mercilessly flog there and if okay, should quickly relocate their kids there, don't wait till the child starts hating to go to school.

Loreettaa:
Saw this on twitter. One mumu was saying a child can't write so articulately like this.

An intelligent primary 3 child can even write this....

Op, you are right...

Seems when one joins the Redpilling gang, he starts to think upside down like BMC and reasons illogically to suit his redpilling ideology....See redpillers misinterpreting what the op said and is implying.

No reasonable man should be a redpiller who just believes in angrily bashing ladies and still remains the same (' unblessed).... Truth is you can't be better when all u do is hating someone that God created.

Redpillers are already paving the way for a sad, lonely life@ old age because all women dislike Redpilling( including their mums and sisters)....( lol)

ifytrik:
Congratulations obi nsofor, you are happy today because you did not get married to 1 of this agents of sadness we call women in Nigeria

Nigeria girls are killjoy, all of them.

If Naija ladies are agents of sadness, what will u then call their oga in crime and wickedness?

DubaiLandLord1:
Good

The school will almost be empty when it is reopen.

Na innocent teachers and staff go suffer the consequence of a few.

Marriage is for 2 willing fools not one person doing oversabi...

Jadell /patches:4-5 years duration

IUD:10-14 years

And both reversible.
*You can also steer clear during your fertile days....Also use Menstrogen pills just before... and ...after.

You don't need to insist on 1 child for him...

If u are afraid of the pains of carrying pregnancy to term+ labour pains or risk involved AND u have money, surrogacy comes to mind....

Not be must for u to carry belly to make family with hubby...With understanding and manner of approach everything u see as a mountain, will just be easily sorted out especially if the man no be wahala type and likeable.

DroppingLiquid:
What should one do in this situation? Should we train our kids on self defense?

Truth is, bullying is not limited to boarding schools or day schools but also in the neighborhood... Parents may need to stand up physically for a child even if na dirty slaps and reporting the bully to his parents.

Damilola Taylor who died in UK comes to mind( from bullies in school).

CSTRR:
If I become the NUC chairman, my first policy would be to create a strict acceptance policy for schools in West, Central and East Africa.

If you are not schooling in the top 2 schools specified by the Nigerian NUC in any west,east or Central African country, don't bother coming back to Nigeria with your certificate.

Someone that can't pass UTME will just travel to any mushroom African country, gain admission, come out with "top" grades and then compete in the same labour market.

Hope Cameroon is NOT part of the list of those countries because they have GCE O and A level exams and e remain small Cameroon no go even take WAEC or NECO( don't mention NABTEB)... but we thank God they are accepting them.

Also, its government fully regulates its educational system and ALL accredited private institutions are under public institutions to award Bachelor's degree after government awards HND(gotten after sitting for nationwide government HND exam).

Also, has professional bodies.

Aplaudez:
Reference to my previous post on the 6th November 2016
https://www.nairaland.com/3446140/journey-100000000000miles-begins-step
I finished my National Diploma after spending four and a half years .

Fast forward today, I just finished my Higher National Diploma, it isn't easy guys, I spent 9years in school, please celebrate with me .

My joy has no bound, I'm so happy.

May our achievements not be delayed.
Delayed but not denied

Orisirisi....Not even degree....

HND is just 2 years in Cameroon...

Anyway, congrats...

Even if the lady makes the first move to try to know a guy more/well, it must still be the guy that must aggressively want it( relationship) even more than the lady then, u reciprocate as a lady, especially Naija guys. Because, men marry who they love and women marry who is available (that they may be lucky to love at first sight or who they will gradually grow in love with).

All those saying Naija girls have nothing to offer...I mean Naija girls that are everything positive like their men( and not criminally minded like most of them)....do u think other African ladies are better than Naija ladies or because they are outside, u think the grass is greener....And their more mature men have not gone to rant endlessly on the internet.

Ladies must not force any man to marry them because rather than them thinking they are doing u a favor, it is instead the other way round as women shoulder a lot of pain and stuffs in marriage that could cause early death if not for God....And mysteriously most still live longer....Marry a guy that would be worth all your efforts and investment in that marriage.

May each locate their very own rib that will make walking through this journey of life less stressful.

achymmania:
. Oga there’s a big deal in texting him first oooo. Naija. Girls wey I know, as in Nigeria girls wey me know will rather commit suicide than text or call am Man First. They are full of pride and at the end of the day, they have little or nothing to contribute in a relationship

If Naija girls have little or nothing to contribute in a relationship( we are talking of same Naija girls that are as hardworking and determined as their men except being so criminally minded), what would you say about other African ladies who ain't half of what Naija girls carry( worth wise).... And their men have not destroyed the internet abusing them.

Or u think the grass is greener outside Naija?

Andyvilly:
Reason why we have so many overaged spinsters in Nigeria

For those who keep on waiting for your type....