₦airaland Forum

Arabiandude:
What's there that he listed that Nigeria men or most Nigeria men doesn't do?
Even before my woman got pregnant I was doing those things at home, I even preferred cooking for her and today I taught her most of the food she knows how to cook. When she was pregnant, I did more and baby is 8 months already right now.

So you ladies should stop this fallacy of Nigerian men not indulging in some house chores. Nigerian men are far better than Nigerian women. That's why the outside world prefers marrying Nigerians men compared to marrying Nigerian women

NOT TRUE that foreigners prefer Nigerian men to Nigerian women.... It is just that Nigerian women don't like to explore.... Infact , there are lesser divorces between more liberal foreigner men with Naija women than Nigerian men( traditional mindset most times) with foreign women unless the Naija man ADJUSTS fast...

Do u know the level that Asians craze for our black women especially the Indians& Paks?....Oga abeg no go there... When our women realise that they are NEEDED and LOVED more by foreigners than our less romantic Naija men( especially with all the nonsense labels and names Naija men give to Naija women) Naija ladies don't look back( lol)...
Nigerian women are as hardworking, educated, polished like their male counterparts when compared to other African countries MINUS the criminal mind of many Naija men.

That 4 months LEAST or more because women and healing process are different....

But come o, you supposed to empathize and help out with baby to take your mind off real sex but u can be doing romance without penetration... Only women truly understand the pain in that region especially if she underwent some suturing due to tearing....

Men please ooo be patient with women at this moment, don't kill person's daughter....

I still remember what I was told by a family friend who in her late sixties can't do sex anymore but her early 70s husband feels PAINED, all because she suffered some internal problems & pain during the delivery of her 4 kids and still has post birth PROBLEMS/PAIN but the husband doesn't care about that.... He is more concerned about his pleasure... Women go through a lot... God help women.

Minime10:
I hope if he lost in the election he would not go and start asking those poor widows to pay rent?
As a matter of fact, a proper "Deed Of Gift" should be executed in favour of each of the selected widow(beneficiaries) and same should be filed accordingly in Court for record purposes.
I can't trust any politician in Nigeria.

At least he gave them a house to stay... And even if later, q token is asked for, I no see any problem in it.

Let's learn how to encourage few people like this with philanthropic hearts with THANKFULNESS & GRATEFULNESS, not doing ITK untop of their money.

This can also be replicated in Nigeria BUT, the Naija man must first drop his oversabi/redpiller sense to make the woman risk all.

Truly, it takes 2 fools to marry.

johnkey:
who cares? shove your opinion deep down your wide asshole.

Oga redpill neither do I care....My own be say ' pot should not call kettle black'
This is what men like u tried to make Jesus label the woman in the Bible as an adulteress... But Messiah not being a man told any of the men who had NO sin to be the first to cast a stone...

Jesus go dey laugh for him belle say, see this idiot men wen I dey see dey branch brothels in their localities ( which many of una still dey do) and still have the effrontery to call innocent women who no do half of una crimes a sinner....

I tell u, more women go enter heaven than u men since you don't even believe u are going against God's will unlike women that will sin small and be confessing even the one dem no ask her...

Unless men are NON LIVING THINGS before I go agree dey no get body counts( lol).

johnkey:
yen yen yen... aunty wey mumu I've slept with over 500 girls in this life and still counting, I've disvirgined 5,the recent one just last week... but I will never marry a girl who is not a virgin, and before you think with your asshole, not all of us craves marriage, infact I'm against the idea of marriage but for my mama sake I fit marry virgin... if I no see virgin I go for babymama, you can argue with your keyboard.

Your life... Your choice.... You can go for or virgin in your village but definitely not a white or Westerner....

Make sure u agree with who go be your baby mama so that curse no go follow u

Theoutsider:
I didn't even read all this..

MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.
-Not mentally
-BIOLOGICALLY
- We dont have the SAME VALUE ADD IN THIS WORLD

WOMEN CAN SELL SEX RIGHT?
MEN CANNOT SELL SEX - Not a the same level
Therefore the more sex a women has --- the value drops -
A man value is HOW much he can produce with his hands and mind.

I dont expect for you to understand this.. your fem training runs deep. Good luck to you!

Get educated - sister and top thinking men and women are the same

You already started a feminist and you will suffer the fate as a feminist

That is y I believe that since' what goes around comes around'... Most of una hypocrite men shouting body counts up & down will ultimately end up with the deadliest of sluts u think u are avoiding, they will just be pretentious...

Okay, who una wan leave the girls u disvirgined or slept many times with( lol)... Accept it as nature's way to pay back...A girl may have dodged being raped from birth, but fit no fit dodge deceptive tongues of men so u are think dem no go still marry? Na lie, women go marry wella, and the funniest part is that they get the best men while the broke boys on Nairaland keep on lamenting...Some go come stupidly say they want foreigner wives( lol) after some of them have read your very traditional mindsets online.

Men were even the first to practice homosexuality in the Bible when they tried to sleep with angels that visited Lot's family and they are here still having the guts to condemn women? ( Lol)

I repeat, no man has ANY RIGHT to condemn ANY woman because they are GUILTY as charged( lol).

*FYI: I do NOT subscribe to NONSENSE redpilling and feminism....u will only succeed in missing your RIB.

* What stupidly makes some men think that ladies who condemn their childish talk of body counts are sleeping around? Anyway, the same shallow reasoning that makes them talk of body counts as the only criteria that defines a good wife is what is making them talk nonsense.

* I now see y black men are in the lower cadre of those who reason properly, all because they have misplaced priority... I hope the curse on black men in the Bible is not playing out already... The black men I respect( including my dad) are those who are polished and exposed.

* If na beta( better) man go take care of me WELL, why should I be bothered?...It actually takes 2 FOOLS to marry: this I learnt from my parents.

From all I read, black men still have a LONG wat to go...

It's amazing that few men like the Op exist on this forum... Ladies may not want to comment on threads like this, but trust me, they are on the side of very mature men like the Op...

So, men too don't have body counts? While we know many are sex addicts sleeping with different ladies each week... So, men do not have problems of erectile dysfunction( and all that comes with it), STIs/venereal diseases/ HIV?...Na dem spread am more pass.

Men pretending to be holier than women... If woman preach morality to me and Bible, I will believe her more than men who can sleep with fellow men, chicken, goats etc if women no dey...Men should be very GRATEFUL to God for creating women: I'm talking to those boys who say women are never good( including their mums& sisters).

Both men and women should be responsible for their bodies though.... Women at times sleep with men thinking by doing that he will marry them...apart from those who need money...unlike men who sleep around because they are addicts...

If na fellow woman dey slut shame another woman though it is bad but at least still understandable NOT public toilet which most men are and trying to slut shame a woman.... As far as I'm concerned, NO MAN can dare that as I no get their time.

Women, stay strong... Better men dey that will value u, no too put mind on Naija men sharing same mindsets as the ones in Nairaland....Men plenty, just believe in yourselves( no matter your age) and learn to explore outside Africa...At least to help your future generation- if nothing u gain in this, u will gain another citizenship and very intelligent children who think maturely and out of the box.

*I'm TOTALLY disappointed with men in this forum, I hope majority of Naija men don't think like this though...Anyway, I may not know because I will NOT give them that privilege ( lol)....

ItzProspero:
pa. Oyedepo is a man of wisdom, full of wisdom. Am sure this will never happen in his demise. Never. That church is deeply structured to the core legally. Nothing is left to chance

TB Joshua's death came shockingly suddenly, he had no time to put things in order legally...

Anyway, other men of God will hopefully learn from this.

Usually, when the guy in the family is the youngest and such succession things come up( even in families), his sisters knowing that they have only 1 brother will stick out their heads most often and allow him lie low ( at the background).

habeeb246:
So sad he doesn't have any older Son, see Oyedepos

Na did one worse.... They will fight him tooth & nail as male ( heir)... If it doesn't lead to his untimely death.

For now, their mum is still alive and will speak for the family, coupled with older daughters( wen no go gree for their dad's sweat to go like that).

AlabiKILLER2021:
Trash as usual

If u are really truthful to yourself, u will know that men are sex addicts

africaflozy:
I think this is a good idea .
Can you recommend a school in Cameroon where I can have the HND in nursing. Do you have idea if the tuition and how many years is the HND?

Can I dm you?

Cameroon has more than 260 private institutions... I can recommend any to u...

Tuition is fair

HND can be two years if u are hardworking +,1 session top up BSc. You get Cameroon Nurses Association license.

Dm to my Whatsapp number

africaflozy:
Please, advice is needed...
I will appreciate your advice here. Thanks!!!

I am 30 and I am about to enrol for BSc in Nursing. Four years program in phillipines.
I want to know if I should go for it, like considering my age. I am Married and husband is very supportive.
Is there any reason why I should not consider phillipines and if yes, kindly recommend any other country.

Note, I don't have science background to apply to any school of my choice in any country that's why I am considering phillipines.

Cameroon: Start with HND which u can use to work...later travel and work then run BSc( online/on campus)

Cameroon doesn't look at your background ie whether/not u have Science background... If u plan to do MLS then, they will check if u have a Science background maybe Chemistry or Physics

So because it seems Nairaland is full of boys, they have tagged having STIs a woman's thing when we all know na men dey waka waka pass...

Many women do sex more because of money and sometimes love in a bid that the man will love her back and possibly marry her.... But men love sex and aren't usually in their right senses when their crazy urge starts.

Sometimes I laugh when I see men accusing women of being olosho when we ALL know it is a man's thing but they will never tell themselves truth....

Andre looking very much like his mum daily...

I hope Tonto will begin to respect herself and date more mature men especially if they are not Nigerians ( lol) make dem no replay what she would rather prefer to forget.

Name matters too, how person go say him name na Kpokpogarri and I will be attracted?

I guess she must have learnt her lessons by now.

Nairaland is Nigerians own Facebook and Seun Osewa is Naija's own Mark Zukerberg( in terms of Naira, at least for now.. .lol).

I come to Nairaland in between breaks or at my free time to relax, learn and laugh on different topics....

I do share something's I learn here with my closest allies/family.

It has been a wonderful experience for me though I wish there could be more bans for people who don't respect others tribes and those who vomit rubbish about the female gender...

Some of the derogatory words used especially by some guys against women can be so embarrassing that I cannot just allow some categories or levels of the female folk that I know to just register and login to read stuff here, so I just expunge out some interesting stuff and show them.

MALIGNANTGuest:
They were never designed to have superlative senses or wisdom as men naturally do have.
Have you heard of a woman invent anything apart from pregnancy & nagging?
IF such was the case, no MAN will ever convince a lady to bed her.
They are meant to acquire common sense by correspondence through MEN.
All these are in the ANCIENT BOOKS.

That's why they are not even authorised to speak at Religious gatherings.
They are not authorised to address men at all, not even in the villages.
But what we have today are STUPID MEN who have allowed pussy envelope them.
Those days our forefathers served same PUSSIES as Kolanuts to visitors, yet God treasured them.

You must be the dullest person in your household for insulting women's reasoning capability/ies.

Myhusband:
you're completely dumb, I married a Lady from the city, a virgin at 28yrs. you think na all ladies loose like you


Sharon at 21 no brain, big pússy entrance. wayward girl

As u married a lady of 28 years as virgin have you been given an award? Did it completely make u a better person, because I doubt with your words....

I hope u too were a virgin for picking that your wife if not, u simply don't deserve her.

So, by my moniker u have hurriedly calculated your assumed age for me and summarily concluded I'm wayward, abi?..

Na una type dey easily dey carried away by your physical senses instead of u to walk with God in all u do including picking a wife... I hope u have all u want in your virgin wife because Satan easily brings for your gullible type his candidates.

At least, minus 1 from Nairaland boys castigating hard working Naija ladies and looking for foreign wives. Foreign wives when dey read all the rubbish ur archaic minds put online on Nairaland as if virgin wife guarantees a successful home...Nonsense!

Myhusband:
the Jane lady might have bought her husband to marry because if not for fame and cash, what will make a sane man settle for this over used Nigeria car




as little as the value of Tokunbo, I can never marry teared pussy, your hymen is not tear then we are good, your pussy can't be in a bad situation and expect me to marry you together with your past that I didn't enjoy with you



in fact na thunder go fire you and that your past including those featured inn, nonsense

Okay ooo...But u MUST go your village go pick wife....

I no wan see your moniker asking to marry a foreigner at any point in time which una Nairaland boys prefer to Naija girls...Unless in your dreams na white and other foreigners be virgin....

Also, I hope u are a tear rubber for wanting same, if not u are a hypocrite.

OgunLaakaye:
If God gives you the grace to avoid women, you are forever blessed and guaranteed of long life in good health.

If you can, please do.

It mostly ends in tears…

S-A-D-I-S-T

So, what will your advise now be to women who are mostly hurt by men in relationships?

Abi u no know say some ladies have found themselves in psychiatric homes due to heart breaks from men!

elonmuskbaby:
the family lack wisdom.theyre trying to destroy the nose to spite the face not knowing that in their bid to get at Annie both tuface and his kids will be affected in all of this rubbish

Same yeye family that could not caution their brother when he was going rogue with women and having babies up and down just because they are feeding from him and cannot bite the finger that feeds them...

Where is Tuface's mum in all this sef? E be like say na only Tuface star shine for that house, poverty, shame on u!

Simeony007:
Congratulations!!! Bros, You don blow ooo

Just find correct Lawyer

Something of such happened in Lagos here 9 years ago, the tenant rented an half plot, I don't really know how much he pays then for the rent, but he wasn't paying very well. He was owing the landlord a year rent.

He built a restaurant and bar on the land.

One day, Landlord got angry and arranged boys to destroy the man's shop. They destroy the walls without going inside not touching anything. The man told me this himself because I was going to rent part of the the land for my viewing center business that I wanted to open at the area then.

He reported the case to the police and got himself a lawyer because he was educated and an Ebo man. He took pictures for evidence and told the Judge that he left 5 million naira in his bar, his lawyer asked him to say that.

They charged the man to court and he explained what led to his actions but the Judge punished him by asking him to pay 8 million for damages or he can forget the land, and it belongs to the tenant until otherwise.

The man begged his tenant but he refused and got stroke. So, his children went to the man to beg and he asked them to go and bring 3 million and he will drop the case. Till today, the tenant has been using the land as he likes and renting it to other tenants like he owns it. The owner is late now so and the children never see 3m.

This happens at Aguda Ogba Lagos.

Congrats again

Very foolish friend of yours with his yeye lawyer....

I see y in Cameroon, when lawyers die, in some traditions dem go bury the lawyer facing down simply because in his life time he told so much lies( lol)....

If ur friend calls this WICKED and MALICIOUS act, 'smart Naija sense', he should know that his waterloo is in front...

Let him keep on renting the man's land, a man he virtually led to his death and see how him go die...Jeez, people don't fear God at all... The Bible is right by saying ' the fear of God is the beginning of WISDOM. Nonsense!

solidmyk:
This is where I always have issues with y'all with lil or no knowledge of the Redpill.
Based on your claims redpill teaches to hate the female gender right can you be specific which of the teachings?

You claimed it also deviate one from God's creation
So you mean it's bad to be aware of people's manipulation
Y'all just go around spitting rubbish upandan

The only person typing rubbish and spewing nonsense is YOU.

At this stage in life, I cannot allow any nonsense movement mess up with my mind and head as I need a clear mind and head to make headway in life through divine connections God bring my way as 'our helper no get gender'.....

Bitterness due to previous heartbreak and displaying unruly behaviour to ladies online and offline will only make u quickly self destruct.

Women sef wen more men don jilt no come Nairaland behaving like cry babies like many Redpillers on threads, looking for any available opportunity to bash ladies, even ladies wen no be their mate in anyway.

Una wen hate Naija girls, hope say the virgin oyibo una want to embrace can tolerate una redpilling because na gun go end am( lol).

I rest my case.

Come does it mean Redpillers who hate women don't sleep with women, abi dem don throway their urge ( and over urge as men have more sexual urge and drive than women)?...I laugh in Spanish.

A hustler who wants to make it faster in life no supposed get time for nonsense movements- Feminism or Redpilling...

Right here in Nairaland, do yourself a favour by being flexible and teachable... All these movements, na later the practitioners will see the damage they have done to themselves.

Redpilling makes naturally unromantic African man to be more repulsive to women... Op u are right, don't allow anyone win back your heart to foolish, childish, hateful movements that abuses women's femininity and capability to think intellectually.

God did not create man and woman to compete with each other in an unhealthy way rather to partner with each other for progress personally, in the family and nation.

Let us not deviate from how God created us( uniquely) as the physical strength men have which women may not have is exhibited in her being strong within and can withstand pain more( even live longer despite wear and tear of child birth and work as many women are even bread winners in their homes[quote][/quote]).

Me sha, I cannot hate any man or woman but rather to learn from each and progress with such knowledge.

May what Op wrote be the beginning of a change in mindset and attitude for many converts to Redpilling and for newbies who may want to be showing interest in what they know know the head and tail of... I sha can't be misled by anyone( male/ female).

God bless the giver of the laptop to Op.

See why we shouldn't be bringing up issues that generate tribal and gender wars as your helper may be of the opposite gender( even that supposedly weak, unintelligent female or evening newspaper u call names insulting both their feminity and intellectual prowess)....

It is good to be well mannered online and offline as you will not know who is reading comments....

*Not all Nairaland members are Nigerians.

Cameroon will take you for professional courses: Nursing/health courses, Computer( Hardware or Software) etc.
2 years= HND

Davash222:
Only a senseless man will stoop low to argue with a Nigerian girl.

You always tilt everything to hate on Naija girls..

Kukuma marry virgin oyibo which u can only see in your dreams.

I wonder if na Japanese woman born u? That is y someone rightfully said your WAHALA too much.

Get sense, how old are u sef?

You want to take this attitude into marriage? I bet u, even if u mistakenly see a foreign woman, u will still transfer this hate for Nigerian girls and female gender to the person. unknowingly, anyway na still Nairaland u go still come ask for marital counsel.

E be like say u get paid to start gender war? And your type wants to marry and get peaceful marriage in your dreams abi? You better drop this childish, redpill mentality that disgraces u in public after u go occupy front page typing nonsense like a teenager. I'm not even sure the women u are hating on, u half intelligent like them as u always type rubbish about the female gender.

Na only the females in your family u love and think u can insult females in other families?

Every time, tilting your write up to put women in bad light.

Continue, even the virgin oyibos u think will love u may just be on Nairaland reading all your nonsense which portrays Nairaland men generally as no good in relationships or u think u are only giving yourself a bad name?

Anyway, common sense is NOT always common. A word is enough for the WISE if at all u are one.

Igbos are copying people doing lockdown/ghost towns, unknown gunmen with their people foolishly praising them.

They did not ask those places implementing such about the aftermath of their actions: Shoot at sight/stray bullets killing innocent ones, people deserting their houses, IDPs in neighbouring regions and outside their country.
Now these ones are earnestly calling for peace and Igbos still secretly praising IPOB, Biafra nonsense.
Anyway, like those places, soon no more schooling for YEARS....
Igboa must get sense... You can't be burning federal presence including looking for trouble burning Police stations, burning soldiers or their vehicles and expect no concrete retaliation.

Anyway, if u people like continue... Already, zero sympathy u will get from other regions who have watch how u guys used YOUR OWN HANDS to destroy your region.

Las las, getting independence is the greatest scam.

MSGAMBLE9:
when a woman calls dude "real men", then know you are a "Big Wimp"...


Nonsense.

To your type, nonsense alpha males.
You better drop that nonsense redpill mentality if u plan to own a peaceful home unless u want to remain forever single BUT una urge in men won't permit it no matter how u want to belittle women.
No be today we know women own homes and if u bring that nonsense redpill stuff into marriage na your type will remain maritally unhappy.

I thank God that the men I know who are even greater than the Nairaland boys that don't know how to manage themselves not to rltalk of a home due to bitterness or whatever, help their women including my DAD.

UCHIHAmask:
I don't care much about the OP's story but your statement got me....
Your wife cooks and you clean the kitchen,is she pregnant?do you leave outside Nigeria?do you watch lots of Hollywood?
That isn't a way to play romance or show your care,it's a bit unmanly if you do it for reasons outside the one I mentioned, believe it or not,you are spurning subconscious negativity in her,there are things we see as meaningless that might have subtle implications in a long run(psychology)..
I tell you,no normal woman in this world wants her man to be unmanly,you should help out only when situation calls......
Liking cleanliness isn't a thing,some wifes wouldn't even allow you do it,I love cooking and I do it for my roommate whom I 'm far older than but when I go home I don't cook for my own junior siblings because,you know why!! and when I do cook,I mockingly let them know that It just for fun,yet I'm the best brother in the world..

Wrongest mentality... Women even see men who help out a lot as being more sexy...
Funny enough na men of no class usually carry this issue of helping women for head.
Real men don't argue this even when they are the BREAD WINNERS.

sisisioge:
It's the pussuyy at work.

Biko return to her work place and warn her again. Tell her the next time you notice she slept over, you would call the police and ger her arrested as an intruder and report her at her office.She no well at all.

As for your son, start making the house hot for him. If he wants to behave like abroad pikin, he should complete it. At past 18yrs, they are either contributing to the bills in the house or completely moved out. He should be very guided.

She doesn't even need to involve the Police, let her just report her to her boss...shame alone go make her leave him or at least respect herself and his parents.

She can still be a good wife material if she behaves appropriately.

There are some things u do to appreciate those higher than u in life ( cash/kind--- as many rich people hardly sees who gives back to them apart from those trying to get from them) and u quickly climb up in life and remain there with the high/quality class people in life.

Pride, envy etc are not good for someone hustling and trying to make it faster.