₦airaland Forum

Valerie47:
The comments am seeing here shows that most Nigerian ladies marry for the wrong reason. Gold diggers. Now I see the reason for the high rates of divorce.

Yes you're right. When fear of God is fast disappearing from the earth, what do you expect? Most men and women now have cravings for materialism over morals, hence the problems we see rampant today.

Valerie47:
As in eh, our youths are just so crazy, anytime they hear abroad, they just lose their sense of reasoning, I know so many girls that have left their home based boyfriends just to marry guys abroad, and they are now baby making machine in Nigeria, a particular lady left her fiancé when she met one man that base in UK at a wedding, unknown to her, the man is married with kids there, guess what, she slept with him and fell pregnant, now she is in Nigeria cause the man can't marry two times, while the boys are all planning to leave Nigeria, thinking their life will get better out there.

Very crazy youths; those Libyan route journey and horror stories are good proofs of their craziness. People just wanna leave without good plans, thinking anything goes As for those girls, they should roll with their misfortunes. They can't eat their cake and have it. They are the kind of people that will get to overseas and turn against the men who brought them their by taking advantage of the system negatively; eventually they may still end up in divorce since they were even wild right from time.

lefulefu:
there is a story my uncle told me about a lady that dumped her husband and two kids 4 an ex who happened to be dubai based and d husband wasnt a broke man oo

O ga o... Can you imagine.... The fact is that people are not what people used to be. Metamorphosis don take place in some people. They have turned into a strange alien breed of human beings whose behaviors are sickening and soulless . Evil everywhere! May that husband find consolation.

enemyofprogress:
Useless country, useless people


Since my neighbor saw me pressing laptop...... She stopped spreading her pant outside
Still don't understand?

Hahahaha.... Yahoo boy suspect

lefulefu:
but we being realistic here na
anyway lets pray the ex isnt an american citizen cos if d guy na yankee citizen then the husband should just forget about this lady .

Hmmmn.... Wahala dey dis life o... God deliver me from evil.

MissJoy29:
I couldn't help but exclaim @the bolded.
Just like that? You will return the bride-price? A man you claimed you loved enough to marry, you will just return the bride-price in less than a week after the wedding? Iffa hear! Let's keep lying anonymously sha on the Internet!! It's allowed only here because noone could be that rash in real life.

Besides, are you the one that will return your bride-price? What if your family doesn't't support your decision?

See you... don't underestimate the kind of people in the world today.... She fit abscond and damn bride price o... The main problem here's the abroad syndrome... That's all. Since our leaders are arseholes, abroad is also heaven. Many will do anything to go there. That delusion of utopian life over there is real and very strong. It is a prayer point of many on mountains of prayers. Many of them fit go and not be able to return in twenty years coz they live from hand to mouth. But it's just life thing. Some also go and become fruitful. It's 50/50 but people only look at the seemingly positive side. The problem here's that when some youths hear abroad, London, US, their sense of reasoning is gone. Their dream is now based in beautiful fairy land that you'll live there happily ever after.

OdiaI:
Marriage is about sacrifice and compromise most times. Keep white wedding aside, by the laws of the land, she is legally married.

Now, she is married to her husband, not her ex. If the husband doesn't want her to go and she goes, it may bring up issues later on. Moreover, if the Poland is sure, why not be patient with her husband for them to go there later. A marriage of one week old is a very young one, does she want to just end it without giving it proper thought?

If she feels taking the scholarship is best for her, let her sit with her husband and see if they can work up a plan that will benefit the marriage.

Whatever decision she takes, she should put her marriage into consideration. She is very married, put aside white wedding talks. Traditional marriage is not engagement party.

You're very sensible jare..... Chop knuckle

MissJoy29:
Lol....don't mind us sometimes. It's the emotions

It's well.

lefulefu:
gbam
the ex will be giving her various monkey styles in za oza room.just imagine she"s financially dependent on the ex while in yankee.na for d ex to turn her to sex slave be dat.

Chai... Broda Lefulefu go give the man heart attack if he's reading this o.... She will eventually be dependent on the guy at least for some time. If she'll work it may be seasonal, and if not, it's definite she won't get job immediately. Also, that $400 per month is below chicken change..... Earning $1000 per month in Yankee sef na from hand to mouth wages.... Such $400 only makes sense if it's spent in a place like Nigeria. $400 there won't take her far, it may not even cover a month's rent even though you sharing apartment with another person. I pray God help them with decision.....

MissJoy29:
Lol....if she has sense, she won't go knowing the ex is there & that she's now a married woman.

Shebi na you women... In my little experience, you people take foolish, illogical and heart rending risks and behave like super men. All she needs is a small sentiment to convince herself. Or reading some comments here, she'll make up her mind and damn everything ; after all it's about better life and abroad is "heaven" to most Nigerians

MissJoy29:
Lol....he should be anywhere but in the US o!

For where, na him go go pick her for airport and to his residence

JONNYSPUTE:
... Thank you. Funny how most people shouting she should forget about her marriage never thought of this@ I HOPE THE EX IS NOT RESIDENT IN US.

Lol.... That the ex go yansh her soon... Perhaps she will be residing with the ex

MissJoy29:
Worthy of note though: I hope the ex is not in the US where the scholarship was processed!

Where else would the ex be?

spine:
Would you be kind enough to let some of us know which part in the bible please. Thank you

Matthew 13:55, Mark 6:3

If you have listened to some new testament modern preachers that really preaches about the gospel, you should have heard James the Lord's brother before.... Jesus was the first born, but Mary had other children.

donjuviam:
Falz was only stating the obvious. But truth is bitter. By the way, baba Fela spent several years behind bars, just for speaking the truth. He shouldn't be afraid of the consequences of his action. Thankfully his father is a renowned SAN, he's also a lawyer. Even if he got arrested, vindication won't be far in sight.

4 years tenure, three years holiday, oga Bu-harry should comman rebuff this claim with valid evidences, else he should humbly relish the bitter taste of the truth.

On my way to palm-wine joint, to celebrate FTC

What's the name of the song?

trulygirl:
Been watching that video all day long. It's the basic fact about Nigeria state right now. The guy is fearless

What's the name of the song?

trulygirl:
Been watching that video all day long. It's the basic fact about Nigeria state right now. The guy is fearless

What's the name of the song?

trulygirl:
Been watching that video all day long. It's the basic fact about Nigeria state right now. The guy is fearless

What's the name of the song?

Jerryembassy91:
This people dealt with me... All the way from Okokomaiko ,I woke up as early as 5am, made my way to Ojota, all because I got a text of a job interview scheduled to hold 9am.
I got there around 8am ...i hated myself when the job interview started....
They started asking me what kind of car and house do I want to drive and live in... Long story short.
They forced me with words to pay 10k to register and be a member of GNLD... told them I want to go outside and make withdrawal, they told me don't worry we av Pos and ATM inside the compound....... I saw far that day

Hahahahahahaha....... chai, yu enter am... yu gok am for them; yu suppose take style check acct. and tell dem no money for acct. na house ya money dey. Despite the fact they wasted our time, I don resolve ma mind npt tp drop anything at all. Dem price am from 15k to 1k, many of us no gree pay o....semms na two ppl pay that day.

eaddyboy:
Nonsense people, that was how I found myself. 3 days ago listening to presentation about Neo Life International... and thinking I came purposely for Company Interview

Was so upset with myself after spending close to 3hours there!!

They texted and called me two days ago why I didn't show up for subsequent presention

in my mind - They want to be Unfortunate!
Anyways, May God help us to tackle unemployment and grant us better jobs!!

Lol....yu spent 3 hours? For Ibadan (Dugbe), me and my people spent 6 hours....come see hunger Those people are real bastards.

millhouse:
so if you are married and your wife younger sister in secondary school comes to stay with you .. is she not your sister inlaw ?? abi Na night school you go ?

Guy... I don reason with the person I quoted.... My medulla oblongata never boot well wen I dey reply am..... No vex... One love bro

Creamz:
Doesn't just show that some Nigerians are sick, it shows that some Nigerians are truly brain dead. How Buhari can be a choice amongst 180 million Nigerians really baffles me. I really wish Nigerians open their eyes and heart to reality and closes it against ethnicity and religion. Ethnicity isn't going to put food on the table, neither would religion. Only a competent hand can take this country forward and to be truthful, that's not a characteristic of the current president.

It doesn't just show that some Nigerians are sick, it shows that they are under a powerful spell and mind programmed hypnosis... The country itself is under a very powerful bondage both physically and spiritually. I don't know whether deliverance is available or not.

JasonScoolari:
[color=#CD1076]Let's put it this way, what will you call your wife sister who's not married?[/color]

Guy....e be like say na me dey see double.... my medulla oblongata no reason am .. i just dey boot must be the frustration I see this evening... I dey para ni. No vex bro One love, only if yu are not Buhari supporter sha o

Oyindidi:
I summoned courage buy gas but I never fit use am.

Wetin yu com dey use?

JasonScoolari:
[color=#CD1076]Please Domi, is your sister in-law still single?[/color]

You are high on Jamaica weed ....after seeing Sister-IN-LAW, yu still dey ask whether she dey single or nt....hw did the in law come to be in the first place?

TITOBIGZ:
sorry bro

am not a pro or geek,but have u tried recuva?

Thanks.... I have sent all necessary things and links to her including info abt ''recuva'' software. I'm trying to help her get back her files including mine. I just wanna know more from nairalanders.

Thank you!

Hello Webmasters.

I am someone who do paid writing jobs; this makes me to outsource some jobs to other writers to help me.

The person helping me on a very important work got her files erased from her phone, laptop, and dropbox/dropbox trashcan by a close vicious

friend.

She stored the files in the three places mentioned above (phone, laptop, dropbox)....Everything is gone from these places including the recycle

bins/trashcan.

She still cries because of the betrayal, but my own here is that, ''HOW CAN I RECOVER MY DOCUMENTS BACK?''

Is there a way that you webmasters have used and it worked?

Note: I have read about it online, and I have told her not to save any more documents or download anything unnecessarily so as not to

overwrite whatever will be restored. I am simply asking here for practical examples that worked for you.

Please Help Me .. Please. Thank you!!!

gaby:
Live by the sword...die by the.....

The stabber will also meet his stabee and the cycle will keep on viciously. .

No, it may be a karma completed cycle to balance the universe unless it is vengeance from oluomo side against the stabber will the stabber be stabbed again

Organs:
I disagree with you, "Ishilove".

"Thorpido" You are on Point. @Ardar, there are some details you left out. Now, why was she in a Computer school and not a conventional University, Polytechnic, etc? like, maybe you are in or attended? Also, you mentioned she ran errands for your mum and later goes to the computer school, i'd like to believe these are those low rated computer schools that people go to to get some computer education and not a realistic skill that can get you employed which goes to say she was just a househelp period. From Ishilove and Ardar's comment you will understand the average Nigerian mentality and the "help" they profess. Now, does this lady want to learn computer skills? most probably No, cos she never got to choose! Was Ardar's mum asking her questions about her progress, her concerns, relationships, dreams, ambitions etc, most probably, NO! Now does this lady have the privileges that Ardar enjoys? of course not, because she is from the village naa, and she is being helped and has to do as they say period. Now, does she feel different, ofcourse Yes, she is away from home remember, is she getting love and care from all the people around her? Now, if a man should come around professing Love, care and giving her attention, tell me why she will not be vulnerable. In most Nigerian middle class homes, the poor relation, househelp, driver, etc are just tolerated. In worst cases they are the witches and wizards, even eating the same food as oga and madam is a privilege to be grateful for. You guys should go and watch "Blind Side" and understand why we are just different from Oyinbos. A white family took in a black kid. One of the first questions the woman asked the kid was if he liked being called "Big Mike" because that was what they all called him, guess what, he does not like it at all. Now, tell me which Nigeria mother will even ask if you like the general Ekaete name? person wey we dey help......Also, watch "The Butler" and see how JFK, a President will sit down with a slave servant to understand his concerns and what is going on in his mind. @Ardar, i'll say, thank you for asking, I will say to you, this is majorly a failure from your mum, however, its not her fault. She truly does not know how. We need to change our attitude and mindset. I was lucky, (i considered it unlucky then, cos all my friends used to laugh at me and make fun of I and my siblings) in my mums house, everything was by seniority. Househelps, relations used to discipline us and order us around. It was best, however, it affected the relationship between my sister and my mum cos she accused my mum of disliking, even hating her and putting relations and househelps before her. Now, though, she knows better and it helped curb some of her excesses.

You really touched something deep here....may not be far from the truth of what happened when we look at it from your point of view. Africans are less empirical at connecting dots on issues.

CreepyBlackpool:
The lady and her mother are mad like really mad, very very mad, like super mad, terribly mad, like high level madness, customised madness, HD madness, Superior quality madness, highly durable madness

Hahahaha....take am easy comrade!

BUHARIwilDIE019:
No, they might throw u off the road b4 u get to ur destination.. use bus

Lol...both of una be mad men....Your weed was specially packaged from Jamaica

alBHAGDADI:
Same thing Jesus Christ did when Satan opposed the word of God. Jesus defended it.

In the process of evangelizing, one often comes across scoffers who preach against the word of God. You have to be well equipped to counter them or else they will not only continue deceiving people but also deceive you too.

Please shut up....
There's no commandment of first fruit for saints in the new covenant. The days before old testament (oath days) isn't a commandment for new testament Christians. You're not in line with Jesus, but you're in order of the pharisee. You block your eyes from truth and twist the scripture to suit you. Ole... Barawo