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ShyCypher:Chicago is a city just like Detroit. MI is Michigan not Miami, a city in Florida. It is Detroit, MI. Chicago is in Illinois. He got the spelling of Detroit wrong but your errors are worse! |
Practice, practice, practice. You have already taken the first bold step by accepting the issue. Now how do you resolve it? First, get yourself a large mirror. Every morning, think of a good topic or report, look into the mirror and talk about it for about 10 minutes. You should find this awkward initially but it will start getting more and more natural. After about 2 weeks start recording your talks on your phone and listen to it later. Spot your errors and keep correcting yourself. The confidence will come in no time. Also, while at it pls get a basic English textbook and rebuild your foundation. You will get there with full confidence! |
madridsta007:This is incorrect and has been tested severally in the court of law. *Pls don't confuse your personal 'thoughts' with the constitution and laws of the land. |
So what's the way forward? There is no time for buck-passing as 2015 was a horrible matchup with no real option. It is time to strategize & follow the plans to the letter but first, where is the acceptable candidate? It is time we join the league of civilized nations and stop discouraging real technocrats from running for presidency. We don't have to make our democracy expensive for regular technocrats by demanding from them money, bags of rice, vegetable oil etc and we don't need to recycle ex-military leaders & ex-Governors. We all know we have a big problem and we are tired of every Jide, Emeka & Waziri writing epistles about the issues with Nigeria. What we need is a real selfless movement of Nigerians otherwise we are just going to continue in this vicious cycle. Our problem is much deeper than Fulani hegemony, we need to look inwards and free ourselves from our selfishness or else several generations will leave this earthly realm before Nigeria witnesses any meaningful change in the right direction. I pray we get it right soon. |
Onyiridike:This tithe issue has shown me that a lot of people have no true regard for the Bible - it is just a tool to promote their real agenda while they serve mammon in reality. A lot of these people are very learned and they know that tithing, like other judaic laws, have no place in Christianity where it's all about GRACE but they won't admit because when they mention their god, they are talking about money, not the real God. I can't believe a Christian, not to talk of a pastor, issuing threats that will make a Badoo, Eye, Vikings or any other confraternity proud. |
Can anyone boldly say it's not God speaking through Freeze? His ways are not our ways and regardless of what we think the Saul that became Apostle Paul was a strange choice and even when he became a christian he actually asked tough questions and challenged the status quo. Threatening him won't change anything and it all sounds like intimidation strategy to protect vital interests. Threats like this can only come from an age-long source, not God. We are all created in His image, Freeze inclusive - and even if Freeze is evil the Christian approach is to pray for his salvation. Who profits from his death? Only those hurt by his tithe campaign because tithe payment or non-payment does not affect the alpha and omega one bit! |
DrDeji20:I don't care about APC or PDP as they are essentially the same but sorry we don't miss GEJ - we miss high oil price and we should have planned ahead during GEJ's time. We didn't notice the global recession circa 2009 because of Obasanjo's vision with foreign reserve but forward to 2015 we didn't have much in stock to buffer the effect of huge fall in oil price. A GEJ that couldn't do much in time of excess shouldn't be missed in time of paucity. |
You did exacly what your mama, papa and others warned you against and now you are blaming your accomplices instead of looking in the mirror and learning from the experiences to build a better future. Continue. |
zeekeyboy:Nothing special about any university in Nigeria though the likes of Unilag are better for a few reasons. |
nigeriancritic1:Vanity upon vanity. |
thebosstrevor:I did not run away bros - you sound bitter about someone you don't even know? ![]() I actually visited US once and returned to Nigeria before finally relocating 16 months later. I made a conscious decision that I am forever grateful for. Contrary to your opinion, while I accept my identity as a Nigerian for the purpose it serves in our current civilization I don't believe anyone was created for a specific country. Borders are man-made creations so when my investments in Nigeria is very stable Ghana is next. I can choose anywhere on planet earth as my home if allowed. I belong to everywhere I belong to nowhere ![]() |
thebosstrevor:No, not even anywhere remotely close from the little I know about his investments. Is Dangote's investments the standard for measuring success of investments in Nigeria? |
pesinfada:Options for becoming a US resident: immigration through a family member immigration through employment immigration through investment ($500k to $1 million) immigration through the Diversity Lottery (Nigeria is now excluded) immigration through refugee or asylum status immigration through "The Registry" provisions of the Immigration and Nationality Act immigration approved by the Director of Central Intelligence. |
thebosstrevor:You don't have to see my investments - I see my own investments, my banks in Nigeria can see them, those working for me can see them, my family and friends can see them. That is my own little contribution and I know about numerous others doing even more and those that are just starting. I do not think everybody in Nigeria is suffering because I go home frequently and I have eyes but I know that we can do way better as I see brilliant young people wasting away. America has issues and all is not well and there are poor people but that doesn't change the fact about rewards for excellence in America - and Nigerian immigrants are taking advantage of this daily alongside other immigrants. A man with a known and verified Kenyan father just ruled America for 8 years. Again, it is important that we know where we should be and stop accepting mediocrity on the grounds that 'there are poor people in New York'. |
thebosstrevor:When things don't add up, you should first question your own understanding of the issue ![]() Ok, let me break it down: 1. My cousin's girlfriend moved to the US and got a degree in Nursing (BSN) and then got a job. 2. My cousin was based in Nigeria and joined her in the US about 4 years later. 3. His girlfriend's assistance helped him settle down pretty fast and was fully on his feet within 6 months. Sometimes the issue is not with what people say but with 'our own interpretation of what they said'. |
thebosstrevor:Employment and investment are two different things ![]() I am not defending America for argument sake and it is not because I hate my beloved homeland Nigeria - I want Nigeria to work and that's why I have a responsibility to address the misrepresentations here so we know what could be for Nigeria. We can also get there but not by lying about our comparative quality of life with other countries. |
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thebosstrevor: How so? |
thebosstrevor:Yes, America is huge and we know there are 50 states but when a Nigerian in American is sending letter to the Nigerian Consulate in New York (With all their own financial problems ) then you know that the person has even bigger issues and I'm inclined to believe that those asking you for help in America are not people with work authorization in the US.Why beg in a country where 24 out of 25 employables are employed?? A country with huge programs for assistance of low-income earners including food stamps, section 8 housing schemes, etc?? You simply have no clue dude. Like it or not, you may focus on what tickles your fancy but again Nigerians in America are well-known for taking advantage of the opportunities in America LEGALLY. Go to the schools/colleges, go to the tech boot camps, request for list of licensed professionals (Medicine, Pharmacy, Engineering, IT, Nursing, Law, Architecture, Academics) across the United States, spot the numerous Nigerian names and come back here to tell me that they are doing illegal stuff. |
thebosstrevor:Yes, that was me several years ago and even when I was at that level I still had good insurance ![]() |
thebosstrevor:Actually, it does. We have such stories across America. My cousin's girlfriend was already working as a BSN when he landed in America. He settled down big time within 6 months and is doing huge things in Nigeria today. |
thebosstrevor:You are basing your argument on a specific demography that doesn't effectively capture the audience that you address. Nigerians in America are known for making the most of opportunities that America provides in terms of education and employment. Granted that those without proper documents may fall in this category that you have embraced initially but they are more or less not the main proposition here. |
thebosstrevor:Why are you focusing only on those below poverty level?? A typical Nigerian in America does not belong in this category sir ![]() |
timesup234:Just curious, do we have data of how many people die in Nigeria annually? What's the average life expectancy in America? What's the equivalent in Nigeria? |
thebosstrevor:Right but you don't have to pay the bill in full. You can pay what you can afford every month. Yes, if you don't pay anything and you don't contact them then they take the steps you described above. Do we have such in Nigeria ?? |
iboboyswag:You are right about this and this is not peculiar to the US. It is extremely hard if you are illegal and you don't have anyone to help. |
babzo:You see my people ooo ![]() For a Nigerian to be earning 12k a year I'm sure he would rather be driving a cab or Uber. Even people driving forklifts inside warehouses are earning $16 an hour ![]() |
thebosstrevor: I live in America dude.You have different categories of health service providers. If you don't have money or insurance you should ask where to go but be prepared for a long wait - they are called public health clinics and there are others too. *Different ball game if you are suffering from something really huge though but in the US you have to research very well and get your information right or you die for nothing. |
thebosstrevor:Treatment is not free but they won't deny you the treatment because you can't pay. You owe the money and life goes on. |
thebosstrevor:... true but you are given the opportunity to pay for it. That's why there is no dobale in America when bills are due and you don't need appeal fund to pay health bills, you can owe but you will get the treatment. 24 out of every 25 employable people in America are employed! |
Bhol28:A menial worker in America is not restricted to his 8 hours schedule. He can work overtime or get a second job. That's what people do abroad until they finish school/get licenses. Those who don't follow the path of school/licenses are mostly hustlers working round the clock. I know some who work 8 hours regular and drive cabs/Uber etc for extra income. I know of others who just sit at home and take customer service/technical support jobs all day long. Some of those opportunities are strictly within the US, no outsourcing. Guys in those categories who are financially disciplined and are lucky to find good Nigerians to manage their investments are able to do big things in Nigeria within a very short time. Nobody is saying that you cannot make it big in Nigeria but the opportunities in the US are no lies!!! Ask Western Union or Nigerian banks about the volume of transactions from abroad every day! Take it or leave it. |
Slaveman343:No, I think Nigerians living abroad are trying to give you a balanced view since they have lived in both environment and they get the true picture . |
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