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@op- look boy, u need to be the bad guy, girls want the bad guys. thats ow to get em just where u want em.

sex on the first date, makes me start thinking long term. i hate tight arse bitches.!!!!

u never aGree u don dey complain, agree to his proposal first, maybe then he will start calling, and if he doesnt, then u call him instead, haba!

i'm surprised u didnt say mayors' daughter. stupid dreamer.

yes right, this guy reminds me of a friend, who does the same thing. i find it hard to sleep at night, so while i'm wide eye watching , i see my friend take off his clothes and throw them on the floor, while he is still sleeping, i used to laugh at him in the morning, back then. so u got no problem man. u just responding to the heat, while u still enjoying your sleep. i will trade that for my insomnia

with the PHCN. no light situation, its normal for anyone to go crazy at night and take off their shirts cos of the heat. so they can at least sleep. u are even lucky, some peeps take off everything , up to their under wears and find them selves sleeping in the bathtub, next morning.

and wat will happen if they fly, shoot them down. rubbish!!!

@op- Men dont cheat, at least the African man doesnt, he is just exercising his God given right. a cheating woman should be thrown down a 200ft well, no need to forgive.

@op- cos they have shown they have self control, discipline and can be trusted.

idiot, u dubbed the story from the saturday punch newspaper.

no work, no degree, no profession, . no way.

Lord_Reed:
@smoooooth
She or he doesn't live with u so it can't be all the time. The thing is showing that u care enuff to do these things definitely gonna a long way to show  dat u love the person even if u don't do those things all the time.

yeah i feel u, but the OP said \\make sure there is always food'' sounds like what a wife shld worry about cos they live together.

whitelexi:
Girls come here and say "i wont do it b4 marriage oh, i wont do his laundry, i wont be cooking for him yada yada yada", wake up and smell the coffee, in naija, girls are already doing it! Its been going on for ages, they do it to show that they are well brought up and can take care of a home even before they marry. A girl will do it to send out a message to her boyfriend (and his family) to say she is ready for that next step to the next level. . . 

For those girls in the diaspora that are saying they wont do it, why do u think guys can date u and then run home to marry?  Stop displaying your yeye self pride, it didnt start with u, and it wont end with u. . .  When the time is due, quote me: U will do all of it and even more to secure your man's approval of u!

this is when the relationship has moved a step higher, like u guys are committed and have decided to get married,  cos there are 1001 cases of good girls who do all this things just to show they are decent, loyal and respectful and they get dumped at the end of the day, while the man goes for another woman that have never seen the inside of his kitchen.

i will think prolly she was born without a hymen, and move on with the relationship.  

there shld be limits to the duties/roles/resposibilities, in a relationship. most of what is listed there shld come in marriage. u rily dnt expect ur gf to cook and do ur laundry all the time, or a bf having to take your car for repairs all the time or do the calling 24/7. i hate it when ladies dont reciprocate my calls. shows the love is one-sided. though what i do most times, is when my gf calls, i cut and call her back instead. that way its okay, knowing she thought about calling.

grown up man talking bout childhood crush. i sicerely think u shld stop thinking with your d**k!

start seeing it like she is seeing it too. and guy u are in confirmation class, na wa o, u shld be focused on getting saved, not looking at yansh!

@op- tell this girl to give u your own blow J, or dnt u wanna experience what your bro experienced, and if she is not cooperatiing, just blackmail her that u gonna tell. i bet she will give u her ''magic blow J '' this can continue even after she marries your friend, andhe will never know, and she remains his decent wonderful wife. thats what u get 4 picking a wife from the red light district.

ow we take sure say the babe na virgin. all these talk with no prove. gilrs shld let us confirm first, b4 we spend the money.  

you guys shld face your studies, and forget relationship for ow,

na so una go mumu dey pursue love come make 2.2, to get work

go come hard. guy concentrate and get a 1st class, then all babes go

wan loff u.

@op- just look at their birth certificates, instead of going around squeezing every boobs in the name of age declaration!

@op-u think say na yankee u dey? this na nija! wake up.

halitosis! , work on your mouth first, then the kiss wil come, women generally love to kiss!

a manliness and a brain, and u have none.

i think i know what uju and topup want, a guy that will sweep them off their feet. okay u two wait make i go buy BROOM.

ok, on a serious note, me think they both have a point, guyz have forgotten how to treat a lady nicely, they have forgotten that ladies have deeper emotions, that needs to be touched, they no longer give ladies the deserved respect, thats why most of them can raise their hands and hit their women, cheat without care. i'm not talking about the cheap booty calls we get often, i'm talking about the real women, the decent women in our lives, how we treating them, thats a question for all guys. we shld stop putting the blame on the cheap whores, or the economy melt down, etc. its a well known fact that cows give more milk in a friendly environment, so if you treat that lady right, she will understand when the economy is down, she will love you whether u got a dollor to your name or not.

Gifts are neccessary in a relationship, they mean alot to women, i am not saying u have to spend a fortune to get them something, even the little things count, flowers, chocolates, calls, time, they are count. it only tells the lady you are intouch with their feelings, that you thinking bout them most times, like i cant go by a shop with a beautiful dress, shoe or ring on display, without looking and thinking how good it will look on my girl. even if i dont have the money to buy it then, at least i have the thought, and women can hear, and see your thoughts.

life is an echo, what u give out is what u get. guys shld stand up to their responsibilities and be real Men.

serves as a lesson to all those cheating bastards on the internet. and they shld leave the guy alone, its possible one of her psycho bf she met on the net came over in his absence and strangled d bitch to death.