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Romance / Re: Is It Harder To Find A 'good Man' Or A 'good Woman'? by SOJ(m): 2:53pm On Aug 07, 2008
both sides of a coin;
abeg if u find good woman, let me know ok;i'm a bad man. tongue
Jokes Etc / Re: Mend Recruits! by SOJ(m): 2:47pm On Aug 07, 2008
wats so funny? ur idiocy or d gullible nature of nigerians who applied? angry
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Stb-mccann Lagos - Help by SOJ(m): 1:18pm On Aug 07, 2008
@jodeci
wat else do u want my friend?evry industry has diffrent pay structures so dont compare one wit others,men, by the way over 60k is gold to some pple
Educational Services / Re: Sit The GSE For Free! by SOJ(m): 11:59am On Aug 07, 2008
waow! am hearing about this for the first time.
i just wish more companies will toe this line and do something similar. More grease to Classic Beverages
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Wanted! Marketing Executives by SOJ(m): 10:50am On Aug 07, 2008
can u give us an info into wat we will be marketing?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nestle Food Is Calling For Engineering Written Test (format) by SOJ(m): 10:39am On Aug 07, 2008
lol
all d best as u "pass thru the valley of the shadow of death, "
Career / Re: Access Bank Forces Staff To Take Cars by SOJ(m): 9:09am On Aug 07, 2008
lawless:

My people, this whole thing with Access Bank is not a joke at all. I however think we are not looking at the flip side of it.
Yes, the bank makes it difficult for ETs to leave them before the expiration of two years and the cars are compulsory, but If I were the MD of the coy, I would probably do the same. Imagine spending a whole lot to train your staff for upwards of 4 months only to have them snatched up by other banks. The way I see it, there is some form of job security here because before the bank thinks of laying off any staff, they will ask themselves how the staff is going to pay off all monies owed.
Besides, who says you cannot sell the car and pay off imediately or purchase the car of your choice. I see a whole lot of possibilities here and i say those dudes are lucky.

I hear that staff leaving the bank are usually given two steps above the normal level at other banks because of the training received and the amount of work done in a very professional atmopsphere.
I'l take the chance if i were given and join the train.

Peace

U might be lawless but u made a valid point here,men!

I second u wella!

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Romance / Re: Please People Help Me Out Here. by SOJ(m): 4:24pm On Aug 05, 2008
L M A O!!!!
MY guy na u biko o! grin
Romance / Re: The New Specification. by SOJ(m): 4:16pm On Aug 05, 2008
question
Romance / Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by SOJ(m): 4:04pm On Aug 05, 2008
jeepdity:

@ agaba123, those your questions r worth a million dollars,  jst that nobody is going to own up to d truth,
but not d sex part anyway  wink

@ poster,  my philosophy about life is that perfection is nothing(or virtual), why you r attracted to the guy is 'because he has something your guy does not have or gives you (am not talking of material stuff now) probably it's just time. But you know what , if you leave your guy(fiancee) for that pal 'because of that then be ready 2 leave that pal for someone else soon 'because the truth about life is that [size=8pt][size=8pt]there's always someone better. [color=#000099]believe me.   wink

like there's always a bigger,longer lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

tongue tongue tongue
Romance / Re: Advice Me On What To Do by SOJ(m): 3:50pm On Aug 05, 2008
yinkuso08:

First of Introduction does not give entitlement of husband or wife. However it shows a level of commitment and agreement by both party to get married.

If I were u, I'd completely stay out of it and let her know you will not be a party to this. Next time he calls u, tell him u have no idea where she is.

If she is so darn sure she is free to do whatever she wants, she shouldn't be hiding and telling lies about where she is going to. Afterall she is "free". If she isn't interested in committing to her man, then she should back out and stop her cheating ways at least she won't have to be accountable to anyone.

true dat! u shuld stay out of it o;u might loose ur fiance in return if u continue "covering-up" for her
Romance / Re: The Essence Of Romance by SOJ(m): 3:42pm On Aug 05, 2008
@poster
so artfully poetic!

do u really blive it sha? tongue
Romance / Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by SOJ(m): 3:36pm On Aug 05, 2008
lidbb2:

@ poster,
but u are partly responsible for all this.
the man made it clear from the start he wanted a relationship.
you said no but encouraged the phonecalls,and even enjoyed the chats,bla bla bla.
don't you it can easily be interpreted any the guy that you're just playing hard to get?

look at it from this angle.
a girls fancies your man right from the word go.he says sorry i'm involved,but he actively calls and encourages discussions with the lady,and enjoys the conversations.
what can you infer from the above scenario.

next time don't encourage such calls and closeness from men who make it clear they want you.



U know wat?i can relate to what u just said. recently, i had a row wit ma gal:she met a guy and the next day dis guy starts asking her out for a date.Now she states frankly enought dat she's not available and in a relationship. But the guy persists and refuses to back down;he keeps texting her and calling her.
Now i get to know this cos my gal told me about it (actually,she tells me almost evrytin wink  )
Well wat i did was to tell her to pick his calls no more since she cant stop his messages.U know wat? She gets angry and suggests dat am telling her wat to do and acting as if she IS the one encouraging the guy to keep persisting. I had to come to the terms wit it that she means well & she can handle such overtures that come her way.

There is a conflict here cos somtimes it appears the gal encourages d guy by allowing his calls and so on;it could be read as an encouragment to persist. But unfortunatey, gals dont ever see things this way. I wonder why we think diffrently
Romance / Re: Platonic Friendship After Heart Break? by SOJ(m): 3:05pm On Aug 05, 2008
ol gal poster,

most chaps just want somtin,somtin, a thing witout d commitment;how best to get it from an ex!lol
Romance / Re: Is Sleeping With A Woman Everyday Have Side Effect? Pls Educate Me by SOJ(m): 3:01pm On Aug 05, 2008
@poster

have as much as you want abeg, dem dey collect award for am now sef tongue
Romance / Re: Women: How Do You React When You Feel It That Your Husband Cheats On You? by SOJ(m): 2:54pm On Aug 05, 2008
gabrywyl:


I'll go like this shocked shocked shocked

And like this angry angry angry

And like this lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

And like this embarassed embarassed embarassed

And then I will beat the hell out of him grin

u a wrestler or somtin? tongue
Romance / Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by SOJ(m): 2:50pm On Aug 05, 2008
@tgirl

i think idupaul means dat d other guy intends to break your relationship with ur boyfriend.
i get wat he means cos i personally detests guys who attempt to take a gal they know has a steady relationship angry
Romance / Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by SOJ(m): 2:41pm On Aug 05, 2008
d decision shuldnt be difficult for you to make if u are really in an "healthy" relationship. i mean do u even talk/chat/gist/have fun with ur boyfriend(fiancee?) at all.ok, answer this;what will you call this guy - your pal or lover?
If u think your present relatinship is worth it, approach ur fiancee about this and trust me, u will get over it soon enough.
Romance / Re: Fallen In Love With Someone Else After Years Of Marriage[/b] by SOJ(m): 2:33pm On Aug 05, 2008
na person wey fall in love dey fall out of it too
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Urgent Vacancies In A Lagos-based Multimedia Firm by SOJ(m): 3:37pm On Aug 04, 2008
Please note that only FRESH GRDUATES who just concluded NYSC are eligible. Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Urgent Vacancies In A Lagos-based Multimedia Firm by SOJ(m): 2:56pm On Aug 04, 2008
A top-rated multimedia company in Lagos urgently needs the service of graduates in the following fields ONLY to apply as TRAINEE SOUND ENGINEERS:

1. Electrical/Electronics
2. Civil Engineering
3. Building Engineering/Tech

Candidates must be at least fresh from NYSC; experience in relevant fields would be an advantage. Interest in the position and the multimedia industry is very crucial. Also, an aptitude for learning and very independent nature is a prerequisite.

Apply by mailing your resume to: sojiayoade@yahoo.com stating the position as your subject.

Applications closes by 12noon tomorrow and shortlisted candidates will be invited for an interview very soon. So be alert and close to your emails/phones this week. Best of luck to ya all!

(TIP: this firm is behind a popular show sponsored by one of the 3 GSM companies)
Career / Re: My Salary Account Was Credited Twice by SOJ(m): 10:26am On Aug 04, 2008
I'm telling u o,dont let ur greedy side take over ur emotions,dearie.na d devil dey do am no be God o!
i advice u to see dis as an opportunity to show how honest u can be (cos ive been there b4!), who knows,this might be a chance to secure a God job and not make a mes of ur opportunity.let ur heart guide u;if u REALLY thot this was God doing it,u would have gone to shop at The Palms and not raise the issue here wink
So since u asked for advice, here it is!
Romance / Re: What Pet Name/Names Do You Call Your Lover? by SOJ(m): 1:17pm On Aug 02, 2008
cunt!
Romance / Re: Could This Be Love? by SOJ(m): 1:16pm On Aug 02, 2008
iice:

Goodluck because you sooo desperately need it are you in nursery or something? undecided


hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahhahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

dumbo!
Romance / Re: Relationship/sexual Jealousy by SOJ(m): 1:11pm On Aug 02, 2008
@huxley
u sabi oyinbo o! u be professor? tongue

Feministic:

@ post

I myself, would prefer an open marriage to the sneaking around that most people do anyway.
and besides, I'm not the type to be nailed to one person, seems rather limiting and inhumane in a way,
I agree that people have been taught to react too harshly to a partner's outside sexual escapades,
and such reactions cause a lot of unneeded problems in relationships.
Since sex to me does not equal true "love" or commitment, then why should it bother me?

As for the guy who mentioned it: some couples love taping each other with other people. It's called voyeurism/exhibitionism.

wat do u mean by 'open marriage' my dear? and who says anything about being nailed to one person anyway;and i disagree wit u dat it is inhumane:have u seen dogs in action atall? undecided
sex doesnt equal true love as you assert but it IS a part of love cos it is an expression of some sort, u must be really mixed up to talked about commmitment when u dont see anything wrong wit coupling wit a number of people other than ur assumed partner.
for all ya'll who have dis thinking, maybe we shuld build a dog colony for you where u can share partners indiscriminately with no strings attached.lets see if you guys wunt kill urself silly, crap! shocked
Health / Re: How Were They Doing It Before Sanitary Pads? by SOJ(m): 12:59pm On Aug 02, 2008
palm fronds and raffia
Romance / Re: Girls, Why The Protruding Tummy by SOJ(m): 12:57pm On Aug 02, 2008
Younik:

Who is surprise that our girls are having protruding tummy? Why won't they have protruding tummy when they are always fond of eating one guy's money or another. Today,if no be Mr.Biggs,2morow e go be Crunchies. Abeg no mind them jooooo!!!!!

someone's smarting real bad o!
***sniggers*** grin
Romance / Re: Cuddling Or pre-intimacy? by SOJ(m): 12:50pm On Aug 02, 2008
nowadays, it depends on wat u r cuddling, grin
Romance / Re: I Am In Love With A Married Woman by SOJ(m): 12:47pm On Aug 02, 2008
na so dos gal fine reach! haba! dis NL'ers sef undecided
Romance / Re: Help My Friend by SOJ(m): 12:42pm On Aug 02, 2008
crap, crap, and more crap!

***logs out slamming the door!**
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Uac Calling For Test On 2/8/08 by SOJ(m): 12:21pm On Aug 02, 2008
ejor polym:

can some one gatecrach

my dear,its obvious u cannot gatecrash!u cant even spell it well,haba!

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