Yeah. U have to let us have an idea of how much it is BEFORE we express interests

If u av an offer then u would know already.If not, why in the world do u need dat info?

@topic

its good u r doing dis but i suggest u get a website up and running showing sample works u av done;pple work based on profile and referrals.
so get a website wit ur pictures uploaded soon;its a good start.

fantastik:

I've got the voice, I can write poems but how do I become a musician?
who knows where I can enroll for music classes? Please somebody with the answers help!!!

what exactly do u want? to learn music professionally or to adopt skills in an instrument? u can approach MUSON center if u want somtin on the high-end side;its affordable and proffessional. However,if u r constrained by funds, try some by-the-road side music tutors;that will be within a small budget.

I want to appeal to us all to be in a sober mood, hopeful for the presidents health.The reports "filtering in" cannot be pushed aside;even the honorable minister of information wasn't convincing enuf in his little speech about the No 1's state of health.Its sad enuf dat we can't have a country that will know the true state of Yar adua's health,,,,dats shows how under-developed we still are regardless of perceived progress.
All the secrecy is probably to prevent destabilizing the polity,,,,

The truth is this: He underwent a critical surgery over the weekend and was "near death". It is still unconfirmed wat state of health he his in at the moment.

If u r religious,begin ur prayers o,,,
And if u'r not, be hopeful,,,nobody wants a dead president,

@topic

have u tried bribing her with gifts? gals equate dat to niceness and hence love

_{Dat makes d two of us,sugar.}

when u love someone,somtimes u dont do tins dey like but dat doesn't mean dat u dont love them;it means dat u r human and can fail them,,,,

Ujujoan:

I see . . . But what about fornication. Does it mean you don't love God?? That you value your spouse more. Thats sth that a no no for God and a yes yes for your spouse.

dats wat i mean,dorling. when u love God,there are some things u wouldn't do like fornication. Even if ur spouse says if u dont have sex wit him b4 marriage u dont love him then dats HIS own definition of love not what shuld be,,,,
Infact, if ur spouse really loves u, he/she wouldn't accept dat u do sometin u dont like to do;if loving God(and obeying God) means a lot to u then it means that if ur spouse loves u then they will respect ur decisions accordingly,,,,,
See, love for God and man are in some ways intertwined; the problem we have is dat most have a twisted definition of wat love really means,,,and dats awful!

Brash!:

u mean un-tampered with toto or un-screwed toto?!

LMAO!! i guess dis anoda thread LOL

bigboyslim:

I'm not saying i hate how nigerian girls talk oh. ruby don't push words in my mouth. Naija girls talk okay apart from the phonet forming ones. I can not stand fake accent. if you are talking to white people you can speak phonet but when you start speaking phonet with your fellow nigerians, then that becomes a problem. i simply hate fake accent

Concur! I ^{totally like} hate d fake accent! U simply cannot speak berra than ahmuricans,,,

@spiked

i wonder o
wat if na friend?i know couples who have friends of the wives staying wit them,,,,d thing is dat shit can happen when it wants to,so its not about blood relationship but the deep ugliness in (us all?)

We are saying the same thing, my dear. U see when u love God it will reflect in d things u do;ur actions will show. I think dats d underlying msg in d bible. So is also love 4 man and kind;it will be followed by certain actions. Fundamentally, love implies d same thing, but when u wanto practice it (act) it comes out in different ways,,,,
but d truth is love for God and man are not mutually exclusive;u cant put any of them on scales and say this or that is best or not


i better keep shut b4 my post goes to the religion board,,,LOL

OMO IBO:

AAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
one more awwwwww and i'll slit my wrist.

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Dont get it twisted; they aren't one and d same: for example u love God so u worship him,,,but do u worship d man u love?
So get it straight when u say this cos loving a man like u and loving God fundamentally mean the same, but practically imply different things.

@okija-juju

well, there's really no sane way to answer ur idiocy;i really dont know wat to be more alarmed at: ur dementia or illiteracy

Ujujoan:

Poster it’s wrong for a woman to love her B/F more than God, but it’s a pity that’s what most of us do. The moment you put the needs of your man before that of God, you are loving him more than God. So for all of us who go about committing fornication – we are taking our bodies (God’s temple), away from God and giving it to that no good guy.  For those of us who would rather spend that time with our Husbands than with God, we are loving him more than God.

We should be able to acknowledge God in our lives and love him above every other being. Why? Because God is love. And if we put our love in him, he’ll never disappoint us, he’ll never hurt us and he’ll never cheat on us.


Dont be daft, this is not a place to display your folly. You can go start your own thead on you aetheistic views _{mumu like you}

i never read anything in this thread about a "no-good guy"
D truth is many of us don't know wat loving God implies,,,,how many even know wat love means,eh?
Dont get it twisted

Sisikill:

See, this is how people go about looking for trouble.

They are happy
She has a reasonable job (no boda buy me phone card naaaaw)
She cares a lot about him
She supports him in every inconceivable way
Both families support them
But most importantly. . . She is HONEST.

And your friend wants to throw all this away because he has not heard “I Love you”?

Can you please tell him that one girl on Nairaland says she PITYS HIM, NO BE SMALL.

my sentiments exactly

hmm, d way i see it if she doesnt feel that anything for him,she's not obligated to hookup wit him.
but from the way i see ur story, she DOES feel alot for him and dats wat matters. u say she's a BA xtian;my experiences tell dat its probably because they've not had sex( or not )

topup:

I don't think you'll like the sound of any advice you will read here.

From my point of view, it seems to me that you do not truly love your fiance, and she has every right to know, especially if you know that this will affect your relationship in future, because what you have to lose now, is far less than what you will have to lose if you marry her and go on to have children.

Everybody learns some way or the consequences of being selfish or short sighted.

I don't know what advice you want to hear but I don't feel it's in my place to judge or condemn you. You already know the gravity of what you did, now which path you choose is up to you. I think it is a little fickle to believe that this can be corrected, as such. I think the easiest thing is to try and treat her the way you would want to be treated, and if you found out she cheated on you with a brother or best friend how would you feel, what would you want out of it.

If you feel your love is worth fighting for please fight for it, but ultimately only you know your fiance.

@ topup
must u take evryone seriously?

@poster
u r some piece of work. while u spend ur spare time trying to defraud pple thru their messenger ( i was one of ur past near-victims ), u use d rest of ur time to post silly threads to attract attention to urself.

get a life,bro!

menix:

Well female Dogs are called "Bitch"

otokx:

why did the woman allow her sister to stay in the same house with her shameless husband? Never give "room" to the devil; he will take your house also.

haba! so now its bad to av a family member stay at ur house now?

@poster

there's somtin u r not telling: for example, did he see u drinking alone?

but really, d guy must be a toddler to leave u for taking an apparently harmless drink of stout and yogurt, i mean there r obviously worse combinations in life: coke + garri, rice + ogbono soup and so on

Beg her to say I love you all day, even when she doesnt mean it or feel it. Works wonders o

", His hands searched her wet and glistening body like a probing mechanism; both lovers defying the pouring rain that stormy night. His kiss was as she used to know it: hot, earnest and insistent;his touch still caused shudders to course through her like lightening bolts. She looked up into his eyes and said, "Please don't leave me again; I cannot live without you", He didn't need to voice an answer;his eyes said all he felt and more, "

Hmph! Let her have a taste of ur sugar o LOL

Say am crazy,say am jobless but i kinda stumbled on this ma thread and i thot,wao!its being 2yrs LOL
Ok,maybe its still relevant so lets get it moving?whos ma threading partner?

@poster
The fact that u av been dumped by 3 different gals shows that if dem give u chance to "hit" u no go fit hit sef!

go join a monastry abeg.

Hey guys! i have an idea; how about a plato-romantic relationship?

How about i sell u my package on " How to start intelligent threads on Nairaland"?

Not Cheating: To have sexual relations with other people especially with your partners consent

hmmmmm