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Supreme145:
On point...shes trying to guilt trip me that I am threatening her with break up because she goes to work from my place but that's not my concern at the moment, told her to go stay with one of the numroues guys she's flirting with

Sharp @bolded.

It's better make she go stay there deh comot from there go flirt with other men. Than staying with you and flirting with other men.
And no threaten her again. As you have made up your mind just tell am to leave without looking back. She will beg and do their crocodile tears no fall for am. Unless you no deh fear std. Girl that openly flirts with other men in your presence have zero respect for you. Like the lady above said you just a side nigga for her.
It's left for you to keep her and let her keep seeing you as her fall back or stick to your decision and find a new chick. Girls too plenty.. Wetin she get other girls get am boku too so nothing dey there make your emotions no deceive you.

But wait o guy how you go even dey comfy to dey call person like that your girlfriend.
Omo una dey try o

Kingosytex:
It means you aren't reasonable.
No reasonable person has spent almost 1 month on Nairaland with a moniker created just 3 months ago.
No reasonable person has over 5k comments in just 3 months.

Omo the guy stats shock me

GanagiBitrus:
I'll also leave the woman by mistake.

Sharp

Aside frying and not tasting it I can and have done all of the above.

illicit:
Just want to make u feel like she is a prize

Exactly

Of all the girls na her friends you go date. Is tht what redpill taught you? Werey

emperor4love:
Consignment

FMT wey Don cast since na it this man still deh use.. No wonder dem nab am. He's an outdated mf

BlaqScarface:
I want to pursue a masters abroad as a means of escaping this country. I’m jobless at the moment but I’ve been saving from my former job for two years and also got a couple millions from sport betting and inheritance.

I’m confused about this while japa thing as I don’t want to go abroad and start doing useless jobs or start suffering or get depressed in another man’s land. I want stability and peace in a country with a reasonable economy.

Also, I have a first degree in English language, I’m 24. I’m confused on the path of my life to take please advise me.

That amount can't give you what you expecting over there. Your standards are too high. And you sounding like once you get there everything should just work out for you smoothly.
That's synonymous to daydreaming. I have been there and I tell you what.. You gotta work your ass like you did your job that gave you 7m.
The only difference is you get paid fairly unlike here.

With your expectations I'd advise use the money to invest on a business here instead. Or you could buy bitcoin and keep till early 2025. By then your money will triple or quadruple. Alternatively you can learn Forex trading if you are not the greedy type with your capital you will make enough profits.
My 2 cents

Guyman01:
You won't say this if you run a business under the current atmosphere even if its pure water you are selling, but I won't blame you since your work is extorting struggling bus and Keke drivers and threatening to break their side mirrors and windscreen while screaming "Owomida and Owo Shiaman"

He's actually against it just like you. He's just being sarcastic while angry

Next time if you find out or suspect your gf is cheating on you don't get insecure. Just comot your mind for her matter and move on. Alternatively you can just keep her for nacks. But detach yourself

Samantha124:
But don't you think she's trying to get you to bond with your own children as their father?

I mean, I have a very strong bond with my father because he always made time for us his children when we were young.

You always type like shiit

fyzaila:
Hmmm wetin person no go see for inside relationship?

No need to derail the thread bro. That's why there was a disclaimer. Just read and ignore if you don't need it.
I believe some of you don't understand what that means.

DADDY2or3FISHES:
Bro was this scam later resolved

no

DISCLAIMER: This thread is basically for people that just came out of any relationship they got themselves into. Your boyfriend or girlfriend just left you?
You just got out of a toxic relationship? This is for you. If you are not among the list or have already moved on from your ex and don't want them back then you shouldn't be here. Well if happens you in need of what's going to happen here in the future then you can come back and participate. And when that happens all you have to do is come to nairaland or go to Google and type "NO CONTACT CHALLENGE NAIRALAND" and join by the first link.

LET BEGIN

So guys...
I just finished a 5 weeks no contact with an ex and I tell you guys. I feel great. The plan was to ghost her till she reaches out but the funny thing is after the third week I lost everything I felt for her and now I dont even want her back anymore.
I started the no contact challenge with some guys on YouTube and i tell you guys it's been a massive SUCCESS. And I decided to bring it here to see how we can help some brothers and sisters here.

So basically I went no contact cos she became a pain in an ass and I decided to let her be.
She reached out on Wednesday and she's been begging since but like I already said I don't even have any interest for her anymore.

Because of what happened I came to realize that they are so many people out here that may need this kind of mental strength but since they are alone it may be hard for them to let go. Their emotions will always have a hold of them and see them running back to someone who ain't worth their time, hence losing all their self worth and respect.

But when they realize they are not alone the case is always different. I'm using my own case as a point of reference. If I was alone I wouldn't have gone even two weeks without contacting her. Cos Mehn her pussy and head game was really good I can't lie. But now after a couple of weeks I realized with time you can heal from the greatest scars of life.
Enough of the long talks.


So guys you are all free to begin. I want you to understand that you don't go no contact if it was you that bleeped up.. That's stupid!

So I'll make you understand few things before kick off this journey.

1. The first day you start no contact is day 1. You start counting from there. Just leave a comment and let us know how long you will be willing to go on no contact.
For example "I am going no contact on my ex for soso weeks."
We will all help you achieve that. You are not alone.

2. Under no circumstances should you reach out to your ex first when you are in no contact. If they first reach out to you do not reply until they say something significant E.g They are sorry and want to see you bla bla something like that. Do not reply to hi, hello how are you doing. That's bullshit. That's just them trying to test waters if they can still having access to your life anytime they like. I don't think you wnat that.

3. We gonna need someone who isn't going through a break up. i.e someone who is in their logical state because y'all will be going through some hard time from the start and you will need someone that will smack you out of your emotional state. That is where I and some other people like me here will come in.

4. If any one is having the urge to contact their ex all you have to do is leave a message in the comment section and someone like me will reach out to you asap.

5. If you fbck it up by contacting your ex you start counting from day 1 again.

6. The least you can go for no contact is 6 weeks.

IF there is any more updates I will modify as time goes.

LET'S BEGIN GUYS!!!

This thing you charging boys no hard na.
Na to download trust wallet and get a Bnb address that is loaded then you import to the trust wallet.
Na it werey wan collect $30. Hungry boys everywhere. They will tell you boys to learn better update una no go gree now see how it's turned out for you
$30 people deh suffer o

Athena6:
So my half brother sold a piece of my father property and I received my share which was 5M, my intention was to use the money to relocate out of naija but seeing as how things are very expensive I decided to pause and wait till next year so as to be able to add to it.
I am working so I dont need to touch the money but I need to invest the money because it sitting in my account will probably just devalue it.
So is there any business I can do and mind you I am planning on something I can easily just withdraw the money when it is time for me to relocate.
Please advice needed

Buy bitcoin and leave it till early 2025.
Your money will triple or quadruple.

You can ignore and come back to this post by 2025 and regret. Ciao

brosom:
yeah u re correct, was a victim of their bondage once.. but thank God today.

Same here. I tried twice didn't work. But for the third I did and never looked back. I assumed that I got robbed off all the money they took from me at gun point. That was the only way I could use to console myself and move. Cos if them rob you at gun point e no get wetin you go fit do na. The only option is to count your losses. Thank God you are still alive and move on.

That's why I always advise p people that are addicted to gambling or anything that drains them off financially to implement the method I used. Cos it works all the times and it makes you move on faster than you could ever move.

brosom:
Yeah bro, I'd lost a very good friend that was addicts through gamble, precisely be9ja virtual .

Dude was so frustrated after loosing a whole sum of 2m+ in a day that he wasn't aware that he'd hit the main road and a trailer squashed his Brian's out..

Damn.
I think that bet9ja virtual have ruined more lives and dreams than any drug would. That shit is more deadlier than anything I have seen in this life but most people don't know.

plenitude:
Crystal meth is deadly. After seeing what it did to my cousin’s bro heart after undergoing scan😢 it makes me wonder why it was created in the first place. I am a bit curious here, what’s crystal meth used for other than smoking??

It's just like people using codeine which is a cough syrup to get high. One spoon (which is generally prescribed for patients) won't get you high but a whole bottle (consumed by druggies) might take you elsewhere..
Na so e be for crystal meth too. It's a drug for people suffering from ADHD and some type of ailment I can't recall.
But druggies turned it to something else not knowing every drug whether legal or not has its severe effects when long overdosed.

jogojogo:
My younger brother passed on almost a month ago after being admitted for 3 month at UCH Ibadan. The young man was in his twenties who just wrote is last paper in February. He was diagnosed of aplastic anaemia and was under medical attention untill he passed on.

The death came to us with deep sorrow and pain. I have tried to move on even though it's difficult. I still cry every day secretly but my biggest concern right now is how to get my mother to move on. She has remain unconsolable as every morning I could hear her cries as early as 4.00am daily. I had to be with her in her room talking to her.

Soon, I will be travelling and I am worried she may never find any reason to be happy.

I have spoken to her in my little wisdom and don't even know what else to be telling her.

I need our advice please on how better to handle this and what can be done to effectively help the situation

Let her know your bro won't be happy that she's put herself in the place she is. That he wojdywant her to move on and be happy. He won't be happy wherever he is, seeing her like that.
So if she wants her son to be happy wherever he is she should move on. Cos for him to be happy where he is she has to be happy as well.

I just hope it helps. It is well

dwayne111:
I'm a very fast learner, just like i mentioned earlier but i don't have anyone in either lagos or abuja( though i'm familiar with both cos i'2ve once lived and worked in both)

Well you can't learn music production online. Imagine someone teaching you how to play keyboard online. How is that even possible lol. Na crap you go learn.
Same goes with music production

dwayne111:
Good morning good people of nairaland, I'm 28, i base in delta state(for now) and i'm hoping to start my career in show biz...so i'm looking to learn music production(preferably in lagos but i don't have anyone in lagos) I'm willing to pay any amount. i have passion for it and i'm a very fast learner and a computer literate.

If @bolded is true and you know how to get accommodation in either Lagos or Abuja then DM me

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Last last

At all at all na im bad

Make he wire the guy small thing

Then if the guy get sense use some part of the money carry one sure odd
Make him carry Burnley to score one goal against mancity

And na so he for just lose all him money lol

Damian911:
A guy approached me yesterday and introduced himself and pointed to the direction of few guys saying they're money doublers and I should give it a try that I won't regret it blah blah blah. Well, I already knew they were scammers but decided to play along. I started with #500 and they did their stupid abracadabra and gave me 5k that I won I pretended I was surprised and happy and told them I'll be back and getting I wanted to take all my savings but decided to take a part of it totalling #200k. I decided to play a fast one on them using psychology


Immediately I got there I told them I'm with 200k and whispered into their ears "Shh, you see this money I brought is nothing if you can double it for me, the company I work for kept #20m with me and I have access to my Dad's account and he's got #2.5m so if you double it for me I'll give you guys #20.5m and you double it we share the proceeds" They encouraged me to and quickly doubled the #200k to #500k. I pretended to be even more astonished and promised to be back with #20.5m. They encouraged me saying its my my opportunity of making it in life and utilize it well! Took the #500k and almost screamed "I Will Be Back"




Since I never go and the mugus have been calling me. I kukuma break make I have peace! They no know say if scamming was food chain I'll be the apex predator! They met the apex predator!

@Bolded got me cracking so hard damn 😂

LordErrk:
Ha ahn! Riding bicycle up and down Nigeria...it shows that guy doesn't have work or want to use life for anything meaningful.
If Davido had met him, it'll start a crazy trend of Nigerians riding bicycle to go and disturb celebrities

Exactly What Davido saw and avoided.

Hilda Baci's guinness record feat is a point of reference

Iphone 11 pro max
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Karlifate:
Yeah. I know she's "good" & all that.

You're being shit-tested here. The best way to handle it is to keep you most valuable currency, or better still, channel it to more productive ventures (and expand your social circle)


She'll come back to start forming lovey-dovey, then you can decide on what to do.


In lieu of this,

The Fundamental Aspects of Female Nature you need to know are:

••• Hypergamy;
••• Briffault‘s Law;
••• Light Switch Effect; and
••• War Brides Dynamic.


The Light Switch Effect is at play in this scenario, but only your most valuable currency will make it work in your favor or against you.


It's left for you to decide.


Sayonara! 😎

You mentioned most valuable currency twice but never stated what is it. For the light switch effect at least one could Google but the first one you just feeling yourself I guess. But if that's not the case then it's gonna be really hard for your students to understand you if you ever get to mentor anyone lol.
In a nutshell there is no way a newbie would learn anything from you.
Una Deh try o

fyzaila:
Skipping breakfast. I've tried some much to avoid it but i can't help it. I just don't feel like eating till between 11am and 12pm. And i can't force myself to eat when i don't feel like eating. 😕

Same here

Fvcking one of my ex 😑

mapist:
No, do not block her. Just focus on other productive things and let time sort it out.

Aiit bro thanks

mapist:
Dont move on! Keep calm; she ll reach out.

You mean I shouldn't block her yet?

My fellow brothers I need your opinion on something.

Me and this chick being dating like 7 months now and she been all good, zero red flags till recently.

In short lemme list her advantages:
1. She doesn't bill me. Unless I decide to just do something for her
2. I do the billing instead. Most times to test her and she Deh always drop
3. She Sabi Bleep
4. I control her like a remote. Like if I say make she show not go work for one week she won't and all that

So what happened is she had a fight with her sister and she called to hear my opinion. I told her it's a family issue let them settle it amicably.

Omo na so this girl sent me a message on whatsapp that she doesn't blame me.
I was like how? What did I do?. She didn't answer. After like 30min I called and she didn't pick. She stopped picking my call.

We was to meet that day so I told her I don't understand her behavior so there is no need for us to see again.
Na so the girl just replied with "wow nice, have a nice day"
"good bye".

Note that she's never displayed this type of behavior before. Maybe she was only pretending all this while.
But since then we haven't spoken to anyone it's been over a week now. So recently she changed her dp to one guy.

This na person wey never put my pic on her dp before. I'm thinking she's just trying to get on my nerves or play games but since I am not the type that play their games. So my mind is telling me to be more lenient and just ignore her completely like she doesn't exist. Like even act like I haven't noticed the change on her dp. But my other mind is telling me to lock her and move on.

What do you guys think?

Cc:
Pansophist
Ubunja