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okunwaye:
Another catfish

No cap

Sablexxxtoons:
I pity u

Same here 😂

lhordspy:
Nothing here to see. Just a girl acting by the script, playing to the gallery . It is all part of the play.

This Chef hilda's vs Chef Dammy's brouhaha has really opened my eyes to how an average Nigeria thinks and operate as human. People, most especially Nigerians; the social media peeps are automatically wired to social media influencers and artistes. They cant think for themselves, they are like sheeps, gullible zombies who only likes what the influencers like, move in the direction they follow. They only appreciate and cheers on what the popular influencers and artiste like. So anything other than that, outside the validation of this 'higher humans', is condemnable and unworthy to them.

Hilda capitalised on this well. She played the game very nice. She paid big influencers and artiste for publicity before going into the cook-a-thon. They publicised and promote her to their gullible followers whose only existence in life is to reflect, to mirror their validations. So any other person outside that circle, is seen as opportunist, a fake, or as someone not worthy of been cheered or champion.

Just like the case of Chef dammy. Most of this gullible followers criticising and attacking her, see her as fake, as unworthy just because the 'higher humans'; the influencers and artiste which they worship, havent given her their validations. So the followers see nothing good in her quest for recognition. To hell with her ! They say.

Senseless human who cant think for themselves. Who cant make decisions for themselves unless they are been influenced. You see them with big phones, speak and type big grammar, but have the brain as small as a single grain of sand divided into four places...

This your vawulence reduce am small na comrade

UyaiIncomparabl:
Double standard my ass.

Because I didn't join in the parade of bashing the OP or advising him to cancel the marriage? It's not new. You all only know how to scatter and maim things, not fix. Sigh. If it were the other way round, you guys would have told her to forgive and forget. Phew. I don't take you people seriously.

Claim the prayer I just made for you miss fixer. Or Stfu

UyaiIncomparabl:
Swerve jor. Enemy of progress.

May your brothers and sons end up with a fiance like the Op's. Now claim it if you not a useless hypocritical, double standard mf.
Spits

UyaiIncomparabl:
Uzomamakanaki,

Forgive and forget, please. She's just having mood swings. Remnants of the pregnancy hormones are still in her, so be easy on her. Try to shower her with more love, attention, and kindness and trust me, she will change. Always kill unreasonable people with kindness.

I know some agents of darkness and enemies of progress will quote me and say rubbish or will tell you to disregard me. Look, when you met her, was she always like that? No, right? Good. Now, search yourself inwardly and think about the wrong things you must have done to her. Sometimes, we wrong people and don't know. Just forgive and forget, please.

Also, she was right when she said she can't be pregnant and working. I know some obi akpo women that like to form hardworking women and good women will quote me and the isi aki men will also quote me saying trash. I care less. But see ehn, a pregnant woman isn't supposed to stress herself jumping buses. You should have at least offered to give her your car to take off the stress so she can be driving or employ a personal driver for her. As for me, I can't be pregnant and be working sha. Even if I will, there must be a car or personal driver. So, I understand her. Pregnancy isn't a plague, but abeg, less stress for the woman. You should have agreed to place her on a salary. Now, see what you have caused!

Lastly, don't call of the marriage. You have come a long way. Forgive and forget. Tell to tame her mouth when talking. But, I believe she will change since she wasn't always like that. Continue providing for her and giving her all she asks of you. Biko, nnam, disregard the advice here asking you to break up with her. Most of them don't have relationships and lack love and are bitter. My advice should be the last advice you read and delete this thread immediately.

My regards to your beautiful wife. Tell her to be a good girl o! Good men and women are hard to find. More children will come. Biko. Tankio!

You no be better person.
I believe you won't give this kinda advice if it was your brother or son. You will be the first to advice he walks away. But here we are.
Women and double standards. Tueh

uzomakanaki:
bro why will you beat a woman? Is it not better you guys go your way?

Why can't you leave a woman that aborted against your wish and still disrespects you in public?. Is it not better you go your separate ways?
Werey no fit handle common gf na married man he wan con advice. Deh play

Morgan9:
Take anything from a woman but not disrespect..

I can even forgive a cheating partner.. but u see disrespect..in public.. I don't take it lightly at all.

My wife I married 2yrs ago started disrespecting me of recent.
I scolded her about it .. she promised to change only to resume again..

One night I beat her black and blue..
Called her father to come and Carry her daughter that I am no longer interested in the marriage..

Na pleadings and plenty abeg them take settle us with stern warning that such disrespect won't happen again going forward..

Guy

fadilaMaikiriki:
I love this combo below so so much. It is my cocaine. I love it so much. If three days go by without taking this I won't feel alright. I can cross seven rivers and seven seas to go get this. That's how bad I love it.

Who takes this combo too? Who has tried it before?

This is;
Tiger nuts (aya),
Dates ( dabino),
Coconuts (kwakwa).





Attached below is a picture of the combo;

Make we meet smash you no gree. Na so I for deh buy you the combo steady

OJEEMAH:
SNEIJDER 2010
Seria A: 4goals and 8assists
UCL: 3goals and 6assist
World Cup: 5goals and 1assist

Seria A winner
UCL winner
Copa Italia winner

MESSI 2010
European Golden Boot
UCL Top Scorer
Club World Cup top scorer
La liga Player of the Year

La liga winner
Copa Del Rey winner
UEFA Super Cup winner
Club World Cup winner
Spanish Super Cup winner

If Sneijder was exceptional and also behind the success of Intermilan and Netherlands, how come he was never voted the best in atleast one of the competition he participated?

In 2010, Sneijder did not win UEFA Player of the Year. Milito did.

In 2010, Sneijder did not win Seria A Player of the Year. Milito did.

In 2010, Sneijder did not win Intermilan Player of the Year. Milito

In 2010, Sneijder did not win Golden Ball at the World Cup. Forlan did.

LEWANDOSKI 2021
European Golden Boot
Broke Muller’s record
Bundes liga winner

MESSI 2021
Copa America winner
Copa Del Rey winner

Copa America Player of the Tournament
Copa America Top scorer
Copa America Top Assist
La liga Top scorer
Top Assist in La liga

You don’t care about Sneijder nor Lewandoski. You are just a typical Ronaldo fanboy working so hard to discredit Messi.

If it’s about justice, why did you omit 2013 and even 2014?

2013 was the first time a player was crowned without leading his team to a single trophy.

By your logic, Ribery and Neuer should have won 2013 and 2014 respectively…. Guess what? both awards went to Ronaldo

You deh mind that sentimental retard lol

obembet:
By the word robbery it simply means that a certain player had worked very hard and won the hearts of football fans who were disappointed to see someone else who has performed less better win the award.

Here are the three biggest robberies, according that u can remembe[/b]r

[b]The first one was Robert Lewandowski in 2020:

Most football lovers and pundits agree that the Polish striker was robbed in 2020 after the award ceremony was cancelled the very year he should have won it.
And instead of giving it to him the next year, it was rather given to Lionel Messi. A Lewandowski victory could have been uncontested like the Benzema triumph last year.

Goal reported that the organisers cited the COVID-19 pandemic as an excuse, but every sane football fan knows it was Lewandowski’s award for the taking.

Another one was Wesley Sneijder.

The Dutchman was snubbed in 2010 even when most football lovers had tipped him to claim the individual gong. His Ballon d’Or snub sparked a lot of controversies, as the playmaker was involved in every trophy his side won

So To All my great Nairalanders football lovers, kindly share your view

By obembet

How about 2013 that Ribery was post to win but was given to Ronaldo. I don't understand how some people ended up as Man Utd fans sef. Dem suppose deh support Chelsea. Cos that's the home of pettiness and cry babies

ArewaNightmare:
Why are they always like dat gosh bcuz it's like a general identity 🆔

Na their way. Just like it's a way of the fish to swim

At least he tried. Some people will forget you in less than 2 seconds.
Especially our Nigerian girls. Don't Send her money in 2 days and watch her forget you like you never existed.
Spits

HacheNoire:
Headache!

The National association of pharmacist just released a publication about the high rate at which people have been consuming pain relievers after the just concluded election.

Statistics showed that sale in South-East has skyrocketed to over 300%, with people even using pain relievers as seasoning and sweeteners

Guy

Penguin2:
Maybe 200k is a little too high.

For me, realistically, minimum wage should be non-negotiably 150k.

YA 200k is too high. Might even result to inflation if they don't do it right.

Wordsfrombimpe:
If you are that cheap does not mean others are

That’s the essence of this thread

What a community preek eew

Dumb

spagettiluv:
you had better go sell gala and buns inside holdup ,our kids are waiting for you to run after our cars

Guy

Double date and don't do pre marital sex


Bitches open mouth waa and say things even themselves can't do. All in the quest to deceive naive men. Tueh

OloyeVIII:
When people wey no get HIV no reach 10, wetin you expect.

This is stereotyping.
But if na white man make similar statement now y'all mfs will scream racism even when it's not.
Happy Sunday

Zonefree:
See that mumu on suit with flower

Ahswear 😂

Kalatium:
Bro wtf.

What kind of nonsense prank is this.

Pranking you about Cheating on you and being pregnant?

Bro she is either planning on doing that or she has already done it but guaging how you will react.

Do a background check on this girl.

Exactly. No woman will just wake up and drop that typa prank. It's either she's done it or she's planna do it like you already said. Nigga is dealing with a hoe.

codemaniacs:
Working out only improves stamina and muscles. It doesn't do anything to sugar.

Stop spreading false information.

Taking soda drinks is deadly whether it's regularly or not.

It does lol.
Show me where you got your info from and see mine below. Unless you the type that just love showing off your ignorance online..
If that's the case then don't even bother replying.

Werey said it's deadly even if you don't take it regularly. I don't mean to digress but according to your statement even if you take it once in a year it's still deadly lol. I'd advise you work on your thinking before typing

suffering:
I exercise a lot so no fear.

This thread means nothing to the average Nigerian. Many of us consume water majorly. Soft drinks are at most three times a week. Go outside the country and see people consuming these things with every meal. Their water tastes boring and cold, the only reason you’ll drink it heavily is if you’re into sports. To even hydrate daily I had to mix two litres with Ribena.

Well most these don't affect people that work-out steady. It's people that ain't into any kind of exercise but taking soda drinks regularly it affects in the long run.

MrBrownJay1:
why are you bringing a 17yr old having sex with a 16yr old to this discussion? its irrelevant to RAPE, AGE OF CONSENT or the SUBJECT OF THIS THREAD.



of course, because a 17yr old having sex with a 10yr old is considered RAPE.



you are the one who seems confused, i brought homosexuality to this discussion because it is EQUALLY a crime in Nigeria... and you were quick to claim that what adults do behind closed doors is their business.... while completely failing to understand that children are also raped by homos and lesbos. so i guess when your gay pastor rapes your 17yr old boy, it will be A) ok if the pastor is a woman and/or B) ok because it is sex between 2 adults (as you stated), abi?!
BWAAAAAAAAAAH!

Guy you get strength o. See who you arguing with lol

Hahaha who go tell am?

My girls always the ones begging sha.
It all depends on how she sees you. Date or marry who is sexually attracted to you. Na you go tire for sex.

Wodu89:
Caution yourself. It's a public forum and everyone is free to express themselves.

He should be cautious but you look at the question you asked op. Abi you lost caution then. Werey

Sonnobax15:

Sexxx sexxx sexxx . What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? . The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination . Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

So the wife that wants to scatter her marriage by starting on not fulfilling one of her marital roles is the good one huh?
Orishirishi

Vinnie2000:
Lolss, all diz BabyMama drama.

They are so Entitled .😒

Dat's why I too like My Man Wizkid.
Him no send Any of his BabyMamas. ☺️😎

After refusing Serious men and deciding to be a BabyMama to a superstar,
u start looking for Wifey rights.

No mind these hoes. Always wanting to eat their cakes and still having it lol

chuksville:
Women are awesome! To carry another human being is not easy at all.
Women will still carry pregnancy and be:
-doing house chores.
-going to the market.
-preparing meals.
-washing husband's clothes.
-going to work.
-making love to the husband day & night.
-having mood swings.
ETC...

Women I twale for una oo!!!

When they say fear women this also na one of the reasons

sukkot:
See at this point I don't understand most Nigerians anymore. Every time I offer a helping hand to Nigerians they turn to your enemy. I don't understand the dynamics behind it. The whole interaction just gets very awkward after that . It's like they hate you for " humbling " them. It never fails.

But the ones who have a pure friendly relationship with you? Are the ones you haven't given anything yet. So in my everyday life person to person I try to do charity because charity covers a multitude of sins and givers never lack.

So this is a recent case study. This young guy , a security guard was sent by the company to guard the house I stay. I would say about 19 years old. One night I went grocery shopping and I was going through the gate he runs over from across the street and told me he was hungry. So I said what does he eat ? He said he likes indomie . So I went to my place and brought out like 5 indomie and 3 soft drinks and 2 sardines and gave it to him. He thanked me.

Every 2 days when I go out I would do small grocery shopping for him. Indomie and biscuits and soft drinks sardine or bread. A few times when I go out to get bottled palmwine for myself I would get him palmwine or orijin beer he likes. But I started noticing his entitlement behaviour like on the days when I don't buy him anything he would time when I Am coming home and sit beside my door when he sees me carrying my own groceries and he would be looking at me like he is depressed. And he would Always be watching me to see if I am going grocery shopping and he would hang around the car to see if I would come out with grocery.

Let's just say this guy got ridiculously stalkerish and so I called him up 4 days ago and asked him has his salary being paid yet? He said yes. Because am thinking all these things he is doing because he is new on the job and has no money and is hungry so I put up with it for like a month.

But once he told me yes that he had being paid, I in a roundabout way told him I don't tolerate the stalking. That he doesn't need to be following me or waiting on me. Anyway since that day this guy just turned into an enemy. Someone who I have been buying groceries for for almost a whole month just turned hostile like that. Now all that time I was buying him grocery he would do ass kissing stuff like when I drop my black trash bag outside my door he would take it to the bin outside for me but since that day the guy just bone my trash bags lol.

Anyway the point here is this ? You create an enemy unknowingly out of those you help - not family members- because I think it is humiliating for them and they despise you for it, so if you are going to offer charity don't offer it to people you have to see on a daily basis. Just find a beggar in the street that you would never see again. Nigerians are funny, they beg you for money but they hate you for giving them that money especially if it is not a life changing amount.

It's like a guy I gave 5000 naira one time and he thought it was an insult, just a regular guy who I don't even know like that, God is my witness, which 5000 is no money but it was just for him to buy beer for the weekend, you can get 15 beers with 5000 when I gave it to him.

So out here on these streets you have to be savage. No more mr nice guy ooo lol. basically if you are not offering guys over 100k just forget it cuz they would hate you. look for a real beggar who would appreciate 5000 or 1000.

Oga na you cause everything. Did he beg you for more food aside the first day?
Una go create problem for una sef still con dey complain