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Ferdinandu:
You are just a Sisi. The time you would have stood your ground, you didn't, now you want to stand your ground on revenge, no. No old parent should be abandoned to die lonely, this is our African tradition. You allow your wife to have her way instead of you to call her bluff and give her ultimatum in the marriage. Don't allow the remaining old woman to suffer because you are the cause of the first incident

So if @embolden is correct then it means his wife outplayed him? Does that mean his wife sees him as a fool?
Wow

ozalogbo:
As I read some of your comments, I smiled. Let me provide some information about my mum: she was a born again Christian, a genuine one. She belonged to those holiness preaching denomination. She was a peaceful person. When I stamped my feet and said no! she would be the one to say no, my son.
She would be the one to say, 'What God has joined together, let no one put asunder'. And she would quietly take her leave, against my stand. That was a big problem. She would say, instead of there to be trouble in your home because of me, I better leave. She was TOO peaceful

So you saying you even had a brawl with your wife cos of your mom in your mom's presence.
OK wait lemme rephrase. You mean your wife wanted your mom out to the extent that your mom heard about it and had to leave your home?
So because your mom was cool headed you let your wife had her way with her?
Wow my guy you weak o. Sure say no be you be wife for that house?

Take a few minutes to read the story below and lemme know who is the simp in the story

https://www.nairaland.com/7630118/experience-sisters-rich-boyfriend


As for me the rich guy is the simp. Why? Cos he is about to wife an already used product. A single mom. A washed off product. How can you be so rich and be like that? Typical characteristics of a simp.


To those calling the family gold diggers they just wanna dig a simp. I don't see any crime there. Let the simp be dugged.

As for the first guy he was being responsible. If he had left the bitch he'd be tagged a deadbeat dad. He just played his role so his babymama will have something doing and be able to take care of basic needs including his son's welfare. IMO I don't see anything wrong in what he did.



Well who do you think is the simp in this story? Let's hear from you guys

anthonyuncle:
it's funny how people change forgetting the basics.

your family should remember that if the 1st guy didn't give your sister the start up capital, she might not have met this current guy.

Talk about upgrading a woman's SMV.
You wan dey whine hypergamy?

like it did to my mother and my two elder sisters.



Women and money. Smh

eroticecstasy:
Where can we find the virgins?

Even Nigerian virgins some of them are useless. Their virginity has eaten up their senses. They always think cos they virgins the world revolves around them hence most of them end up with the most crooked character/behavior.

Fahvvy:
Isn't that the same thing y'all Broke Nigerian Women do? ... Looking for rich men to leach on all in the name of "take care of me" ...

When in reality what y'all really want is a messiah to end y'all's poverty lineage ...

With absolutely nothing to offer the messiah

No fucking cap.

Multiply that times 5. That's 20 hours a week. It will be more for those that also work weekends.

Now come multiply 20 times 52 (number of weeks in a year) you will get approximately 43 days. That's a month and thirteen days you spend in traffic in a year, as a Lagosian.

And that's just on average. Choke

Come on 1k sef you couldn't send to the poor man but you fast to bring it to nairaland tagging him a scam. If you see scam sef you go know?
Werey

Capital NO.

No sane man will marry a non-virgin Nigerian girl

IyaebeTheGreat:
How did you come up with this? Some of you lie here through your nose. So much lie on someone you don’t know. I bet you don’t even measure up to my shoulders.Please stay off this thread, it’s very personal to me.

Zzor werey dwarf dey play

19-24

Anything short of that no no.

Try give us update how the matter ended sha. So others will learn 🙂

For a Nigerian girl I will always be in for sex and dump her ass as soon as I'm tired of the pussy.
Just like they are also in for the money they will be getting from men

A dwarf avoiding albinos. Lmfao

I am not the type that got time to watch series but the few times I'm gonna be watching this particular series I will be updating y'all from time to time.


I'm still watching this reality show titled "Perfect Match" on Netflix and this rugged looking tattooed guy called Dom is just crying over a girl like a child. I don laugh tire.
If you judge people by their appearance especially a man you may be wrong most of the time.
One girl called him a baby in a big man's body 😂
Women are a million times more cold and brutal than any living creature. Like cut throat💀
Even if you don't have time try to watch from episode 3-5. There is so much to learn.


I'll keep updating y'all as It goes tho. For those of you who have enough time to sit and watch series this one is a good one for you. They are so many lessons to learn for both genders

Vicfacebadoo:
If she is not remorse, she if for the street

Even if she is, she's for the streets.

NewestNigerian:
Absolutely, that's one hell of a good advice.

Ain't a simp as many here imply it to be. I'm just a man of my own principles. I fucke.d up in the past where I expected a second chance but was denied.

I believe in people and improvement, reason why I remain for that duration of time.

But I disagree with the bolded. She knew am a Starman and a Success. She's only trying to cling on me cos she knows the Universe is my abode.

Even if I dash her the Restaurant, she'll never run it well, like if am in the picture.

I know what am talking about

Sha just know she's a useless bitch. Useless girls are only meant to be used for fvcks till they realize and move the fvck on. I currently have one I'm dealing with. By the time she realizes, better cold fit catch am.
You post to be the one using her from the onset and not the other way round.
The moment you found out she was useless by refusing to drop her phone to help when you lost yours, you could have known how useless she is and placed her where she belongs. Cut off all kind of commitments and just keep her for fvcks. But unfortunately you already housed her so that was going to be difficult. You shot yourself.
You have learnt tho it's left for you to make use of the lesson well now.
One more secret for you. Women are naturally attracted to evil and selfish men.. That girl you have good intentions for is the one that will fvck you up. You gotta mix evil (80) and good (20)if you want to get the best of women. Ciao

eazzzy1:
Well, how do I know it was just a dance? Am I sure she didn’t go to the hotel with him or she wouldn’t have gone if he asked.

I would breakup If it’s a girl I like, obviously I had higher expectations of her. If the emotions aren’t high with her then we can continue playing till she gets tired.

Sharp guy.
Useless girls are meant to be toyed with. You use them till they realize themselves and move on

virginprincess:
If she doesn't want you then leave her alone but I think you should look for a way to tell her to leave your house.

But I don't blame her sha,you Nigeria men can never be trusted maybe she has the feeling that you just want to chop and clean mouth.

OP na woman type this o.
This is the advice she will give her brother. She gave you for free.
Women always tell their brothers the truth. They tell them to avoid things they wouldn't like another girl to do to them cos they know themselves.
A word is never enough for the fool, but for the wise

Itidicious:
Lolz, the guy don Japa leave the thread. He's chilling with the lady

NewestNigerian:
Una go hear am

If you go back to that girl your loss.
All that crying and tagging your friends and relatives is cos of what she stands to lose; The benefits. Remember I didn't say "You" but "the benefits".

So it's left for you to accept her back and let her play a better game this time and send you where you never expected.

And if at all you simp back to her just as I am predicting, which is what will likely happene.
Please ensure it's just for fvcks and set boundaries as clear as crystal. You can even tell her when to call and not to. Be the one setting the rules. If she fails to adhere you cut her off asap.
Lastly don't live with her and do not meet/fvck her at your home anymore. Do it at the hotels or motels.
If not it won't take a week before she reverts back to her old ways with a better game that even forefathers can't fathom.

Their types (broke bitches) don't deserve to be fvcked at home sef. They are always looking for a man to trap with pregnancy especially when they see you are doing great.
Na men dey do themselves.

Dshocker:
Oga calm down, na so you go dey brag up and down.

If you see her now, can you have the courage to approach her.

No dey come online dey form crocodile, meanwhile na lizard you be for real life.

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How much the man fir give am wey for be enough. Some people sef

IyaebeTheGreat:
Allow me be hypocrite in peace please

Ok biitch

Saintinoo:
She has started it already, bringing up many tactics to reach out to be, blame tactics.

Hahaha. I'd advise you swallow the redpill as much as you can. That's the only way you can handle ladies like that.
I have been there severally and currently still there. But this time I already see through her gimmicks and counters it before it escalates. Woman matter no hard na man dey do himself.
The rule is simple. She gotta submit 100% or you move to the next available chick. If that one too doesn't submit you move to the next till you find what you want. They are more women than men in the world.
Go to malls, parks, resorts, churches etc you will see tons of them.

Also rrmember at a time in your life you didn't know anyone like her existed and you was doing fine. So what makes you think you can't do better if she's not in the picture. She's like that cos she knows you can tolerate it and there is nothing you can do about it cos you can't afford to lose her. That's what her brains tell her.
Like I said men are the ones doing themselves

IyaebeTheGreat:
He's right , premarital sex has never been good, it'll mess you up as a lady and you won't be able to know the right man for you. Premarital sex is the major reason why most women end up with bad men.

Say that to yourself
Chief advisors online. Hypocrites offline

QuinModah:
Parenting these days ehn! I weep. In Benin, they have association of yahoo boys mothers and they all drive Highlander

Shey you dey whine me ni

fadilaMaikiriki:
Haba! Why did you say that? What made you say that? What did you see or noticed?

Answer my questio first