₦airaland Forum

Was Melinda Gates not right?

70% absconded.
30% foolish ones are still working.

Lock them up!
Whether they will have sense!!

Coronavirus wahala just made this my chief grow old overnight

If this happens in Rivers state, Wike will shut down the state for eternity

julieeni:
Getting married to a father of two kids from two different women , it ended in tears, emotional trauma and depression. I guess I loved the very wrong person

You thought the 2 different women were stu.pid or you were better than them?
The same way men avoid women who have been previously married..the same way women should do same..
But women dont..they can marry a man who is rumoured to have killed his 10 previous wives..hoping their case will be different

You know your wife is having an affair with another man,right under your roof.

But you can't confront her & send her packing.

Instead,you return to catch them red handed...

Still could not threaten her with "Leave my house".


Meanwhile,on social media...They will be shouting they must divorce a cheating wife.

Weak men everywhere

igbowoman:
Why all these foolish questions?Do I owe you explanations?

Lol...Illiteracy is bad!
This one didn't branch school.
So quick to spite venom.
Evidence of bitter marriage

igbowoman:
If I had listened to my aunt, I wouldn't have married the man I married .
She asked me to wait for suitors with cars but I married one without a car and without family wealth thank God my parents didnt object.
Today my parents are being very well taken care of.
A man that looks like he has nothing today can be something tomorrow.
My post is mainly for the young unmarried girls reading.Dont only look at a man for who he is today ,look ahead .If he has the drive to succeed and you stand by him he will make it .

Did you graduate from Covenant,Babcock,Bowen or Igbinedion?

What is your profession?
What kind of job were you doing and how much were you earning?

I bet if you were in the high social class,you won't stoop low.

ENIGMATIC2023:
Rivers is full of cultists who turn kidnappers later....Wickedness

Eleme to Bori...full of cultists.

I lived and worked in that Eteo community for 4 months.

I was warned that ALL the young men there were cultists.. Down to the deepest parts of Ogoniland

LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.

The story is true.
Nigerian women can tolerate anything n everything just to remain married.
That's why Nigerian men maltreat their wives.
They know their wives will be fasting and praying..and will welcome them back las las.

People will even blame women when their husbands cheat ,when they are beaten up.
The wife is always at fault.

goshen26:
Wow..... From UI


They get trained here and flee Nigeria because of bad governance.

I am privileged to work in a health sector of the state, and I know how Doctors complain bitterly about the ill treatment Nigeria system is giving them, most of them usually tell me how they intend leaving the country should any slight opportunity surface.


Even nurses are not left behind, they recount number of friends that have left to UK, and are enjoying the profession there

Leaving Nigeria was the best decision I have ever taken.
Nigeria doesn't know the value of doctors..

pennywys:
The gods are angry with Ganduje for removing Sanusi

Waiting to comment further when this hit the front page

Is it Ganduje or his family members that are dying?

Till date,I cannot forget my only sister who was shot dead by a trigger happy policeman in 2006.
She was 18

Dannonye:
Some parents need to learn how to be supportive honestly
They care true,but sometimes in weird ways

I tried to make her understand she was wrong..At least,shouldn't react that way.

Till date,almost 7 years after..My mother is yet to see anything wrong in what she did(said).
Instead,she insists she was only advising me and plays the victim

Honestly, getting close to her now is like an Herculean task.
I stay 3-6 months without reaching out to her.
I text her once a week..After I send money..to inform her.
Most times she calls me,I dont answer

SenecaTheYonger:
How can he do something like that? Why did he suddenly become rude? Is this the alpha male I keep hearing about?

The rude part is normal.
When a Nigerian man slides into the DM of a lady and is too nice, calls a lady Sexy n wanting to hook up with her,he hopes to have sex with her...If that fails,he becomes very angry and rude...
If she was a Nigerian ,he would have called her "Ashewo"...
They dont miss that.

dumodust:
Well summarised�

Thank you..
Even here in UK where the availability of PPE is good..We are scared.
Not to talk of Nigeria...I would have resigned or taken a leave this period ,if I were still in Nigeria.

My life first!
My family needs me more than any patient!!

I pity doctors in Nigeria.
I pray this pandemic doesn't become overwhelming.

The medical personnels were in order.

No PPE...Run for your life!

Every patient right now is handled as a suspected Covid-19 case.
How much more with such complaints.

Medical personnels also have families and loved ones..Many are breadwinners too.

May the soul of the departed rest in peace.

Guys,why does it look like Honda accord is cheap?
Any peculiar problems ?

Weak man...

The woman has proved herself to be a woman.

She only told him the better truth.

yahaya2014:
She is 24, but her quest for worldly things is unimaginable. She drinks acohol, love the gud things of life and all.

So premarital sex is not worldly?
Clown

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

You people like to bring unnecessary drama into your lives and complicate it.

Bad enough to be involved in premarital sex..
Foolish enough not to use condoms.
2 months into relationship, she gets pregnant.
Let's hope you are indeed the father of the child

I was 26 and not married.
My mum repeatedly embarrassed me with:

-You are a source of shame to me.
-All my mates have sons-in-law and grandchildren.
-Menopause is approaching.Its a pity
-Hope you are not a lesbian.
-Are you into prostitution that you have refused to marry?
-Your mates post pictures of themselves with their husbands and children on Facebook & WhatsApp.Where is your own? You are still posting single pictures.

And so many hurtful statements.

I was struggling in my final year in medical school.
But she was more interested in me getting married.

I got married 2 years after during my housemanship.

Our relationship has been kinda strained..especially after I relocated to UK.

I only just send her money...We don't talk much.


I have 2 kids now..Her grandchildren.
I love my mum.I miss her though but I haven't forgotten.

dobrinswizzy:
Hello nairalanders

A married man is woeing my babe o
Saying all sweet things to her, promising her different things, although the man is quite wealthy, he said he want her to be his wife

Guys what should we do?

Your girl is enjoying the attention and playing along.

When I was single... If I dont like a man,I make sure he doesn't have any means of contacting me.
Its as simple as that.

NextD18:
This can only come from a school drop out, someone who graduated with pass, someone who studied courses like iceblock Engineering or Nylon technology and someone who wasted his/her time in school without learning anything from his/her field of study.

Certificate get level incase you don't know.

Anyone who graduated with a good and presentable result with lots of knowledge and skills relating his/her course of study will never make this statement, because there's are certificates that will feed a whole kindred for 30+ years.

Dont mind him.
I studied Medicine and Surgery..My certificate will feed me all the rest of my life...Amen.

ignis:
You don't want to add another two?

No..We are okay.
These 2 are enough expenses,especially for immigrants

ignis:
Wetin una born?

2 beautiful kids(twins)
The girl will be a doctor.
The boy will be a professional footballer.

God willing.

ignis:
If Doctor marry Doctor, wetin dem go born?

Best combination.
I'm a doctor..My husband is a doctor.

executive12:
They just wasted this man. If you can afford it, any major surgery should be done abroad. Nigerians are generally careless.

Stella Obasanjo did tummy tuck in Nigeria and died...Oh..I just remembered.
Careless Nigerians

ArewaWife:
He probably had the procedure in Nigeria instead of travelling out of the country. There's nothing wrong in opting for cosmetic surgery do far you do your research well and go to a certified plastic surgeon.

Where did Stella Obasanjo have hers?
What was the outcome?

safarigirl:
I will never understand how people get married and have kids in certain conditions

OP, why are you waiting for your husband to give you money for everything? Didn't you have a means of making money before marriage?

I'm so sorry if I sound harsh, but do you people think marriage can run on vibes and Inshallah? At the end, the only victim here is an innocent baby.

Why will you birth kids you can't sufficiently care for?

At first, I was wondering why you wouldn't be with your husband, but even he, is living at the mercy of his sister, why won't your stepmother do anyhow, when she knows neither you nor your husband are capable of bringing hail and brimstone upon her?

This is the worst time to be stuck in the same house with an evil witch.

I pray your daughter heals, and I pray God protects her, from whatever harm that witch will want to further inflict on her, but you cannot protect your child, when you live at the mercy of the tormentor

They do it so that they can be classified as wife materials..They hope to testify tomorrow with "When we got married,things were so rough that my wife went back to her father's house while I was squatting with my sister..But today,we have 5 mansions and 10 cars".

Rubbish!


On this platform,you will see people advising that a man who earns 20K can marry and have kids.

I'm very sure her husband was earning very low..so that he couldn't even save.

Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?

When they advise you young ladies to have good source of income before venturing into this marriage thing,you feel its bad advise.

Your husband loses his job and next thing,your financial condition becomes so bad that you have to go back to your father's house in penury ...to the stage that your hungry child has to go eat from the crumbs that remain of your wicked step mother's bread,this making her unleash her dragon on the innocent baby.


I'm sure if you and your husband were locked down in the same house,baby number 2 would be on the way..


You just have to eat all the insults and learn your lesson.
Let's hope she doesn't poison your baby next.

Women and marriage.

No reasonable source of income...You don run enter man house,begin born.