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What do you mean by smiling to the bank? What had your own senator done so far?

It is sad this woman suffered and goes she say did.

crestedaguiyi:
That would have saved us from foreigners from Sudan and Cameroon.

The Yorubas and igbos that championed the independence are foolishly at loggerhead today while the Fulani that played no role is calling the shots on all front and smiling to the bank

That is PR talk

AkpaMgbor:
Apple wasn't struggling to make a wireless charger for their devices..they wanted to create a wireless charger that can charge 3 devices at the same time while generating the same same watts across the entire charging platform...they had to postpone the product because according to them "they were still trying to find a way to make it more power efficient"...

Far from it. I am just aware.

IamZod:
Thank you.
You seem like one who's in the medical line or am i wrong?

You shall be cured!

Firebomber:
Lol. More like dumb reasoning.

1. Social Media was created for communication and interaction, will you blame the owner of social media for all the atrocity and misused that it was used for?

You Muslim are insane, why don't you show us where those company force your terrorist Muslim head slamming brother to buy there weapons by force. Such a stupidity to blame the manufacturer of weapon for your Muhammad terrorist followers. Or those vest bomb and bottlle bomb that your brothers are using to kill innocent people too are manufactured by Christian?


2. You people are nothing but a troll, why don't you show us the statistics of Muslim that was killed by bokoharam and compare it to the population of Christian in north east. You insane fellow, I would have agree with you only if you can show me any attack on Muslim before 2013,since you claim Muslim are more victims.


3. Who care about your middle east, why don't you tell us the countries in middle east that's in war, why is it that those countries are country that have more than one Islamic secs and some percentage of Christians.

We all know what you people are doing and we all waiting to see the outcome

I don't advocate for one wife one child however I am definitely against men jumping into polygamy like it is their birthright or advocating against birth control in the guise that it is against Allah's wishes or it shoes lack of faith and all other mumbo jumbo to make yourselves feel like you are better.

mutaalim:
I hear you, I suspect you are among those advocating/gospeler for one - wife - one - child.
Is high time you changed your orientation about that,
May Allah guide us right
Regards

Yes, large families were because of need for labour and high mortality rate of children.

mutaalim:
Is it because of FARMING is the reason why one is having more than one wifes and children?
Regards

The concept not destiny (Qadr) does not exclude making active choice. If it does, we can give up on salat and tell ourselves that if Allah wills it, I will end up in Al janatul firdaus.

We have more people than food/resources. That is a fact. No amount of poliices can produce enough for everyone on earth to survive on. However, if Allah does not will it, birth controls will prevent it! Shikena

Rashduct4luv:
Stop talking like one who disbeliefs in destiny. How do know how many kids you will have to cater for?

We do not have more people than food rather less policies that positively affects the masses! Every kid that would be born and their time of birth has been destined . No amount of rubber, coitus interruptus, contraceptive pills or IUD can prevent Allah's will.

It does not signify weak understanding and faith. Allah gave us choice and freewill. There are several ways of increasing Iman, having plenty wives and children is but one of several numberous ways. The ideal is not a large family. There is no farm to go to anymore, child mortality rate is declining and cost of a quality life is far higher than before.

The mentality you are talking about is the one working on how to increase food production. How about you add to your faith and helping mankind by dedicating your life to that research?

rowrowland:
I never said one-wife-one-child is a sin. I'm saying liking it because it's the rave of the moment signifies weak understanding and faith. The ideal is a large family. If Allah blesses you with wealth, health and time you should have a large family( except for some valid reasons known only to you)

50% of your worship is in your family life. Its a great act and we should all aspire for it, not the other way. Islamentality not Colomentality

Use of antibacterial causes resistance to antibiotics. Which means when you have bacterial infection, the drugs available to treat you are limited.

You don't need antibiotics unless it is prescribed. There are countries that are considering banning anti bacterial soap etc.

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/antibiotic-resistance

IamZod:
Any pointers as to why you said so?
Enlighten me please.

True but Zakat is a different ball game because there is a certain percentage of you have to give out and zakat is compulsory not a choice. It is the reason there is an argument of whether or not it should go to a Muslim.

Vulcanheph:
With all respect to your religion, I personly believe anything I give to someone in need is like giving unto God.... So there is no limit when I give or who I give it to, so I feel that there should be no religious restriction on when or who you give financial aid to.

You have a point.

mutaalim:
Kindly rephrase the word "Allah gave me control over how many children I choose to have" to Allah is in TOTAL control of numbers of children am to have.
That's why when a Muslim is asked how children you choose to have? The response should be
Whatever numbers of children Allah has destined for me to have.
Regards

@Firebomber

1) The majority of shareholders of gun manufacturing companies will be white, male and culturally Christians that is they celebrate Christmas etc
2) You can quote all the years you like. Boko Haram has killed a far number of Muslims than Christians. They have made more Muslims children orphans, more Muslim widows, more Muslim widowers.
3) Middle Eastern countries experiencing unrest have are Muslim populated.

You have got a god complex.


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mutaalim:
What is wrong?

Allah gave me control over how many children I choose to have, he can decide that I will have more if the birth controls fail. He can decide to give me more wealth, health and time to provide the best for my kids but with the little I have, it is my responsibility as a Muslim yo appreciate it and make efficient use of it.

mutaalim:
What gave you the certainty that Allah provides for you and just TWO KIDS
Child rearing is part of our responsibility
Except beyond what you don't have control over
NOT FOR THE FEAR OF POVERTY, BODY DISFIGURE Just to mention few among many others, because we do give filmsy excuses
Regards

One wife, one child is not a sin. I quite enjoy how you lots kid yourself that you have got faith and piety because you subscribe to polygamy of all things. It only goes to show that is something fundamentally wrong somewhere.


does not mean

rowrowland:
Islam too wants us to cater for our children to the best of our abilities and resources- with plenty du'aas too.
Even if free foods are being shared, that should not be the hope of a Muslim family man.

I think the main issue is that a Muslim must not develop a deformed mindset.
1. Remove the fear of poverty from your mind and replace it with piety
2. Dont desire one-wife-one-child family style because you think its the ideal; its actually a concession.
3. Replace 2 above with desire for many children who are upstanding in faith, morals and skills. And work towards it.

If after all these, all Allah permits is one-wife-two-kids, no wahala. Allah knows best.

Zakat is not any type of alms. It is obligatory that is it is a religious requirement just like tithe.

A Muslim can give out casual alms to anyone he wishes but not zakat.

Vulcanheph:
So Christians can give alms to Muslims without any strings attached ( mind you these Muslim beggars are everywhere... Markets, restaurants, main roads etc) but a Muslim can only give alms to Christians only if he wants to soften his/her hearts towards Islam, meaning that the only way a Muslim can give to a non muslim is when he wants them to convert...... Na wah oooo

http://www.ikhwanweb.com/article.php?id=24231

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/War_profiteering

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.quora.com/Does-the-US-create-international-conflicts-in-order-to-sell-its-arms-to-make-money&ved=2ahUKEwibsb6a5dvhAhXJalAKHbDZCycQjjgwEXoECAQQAg&usg=AOvVaw07uOoYZI5dPRB0zMSfhgPB&cshid=1555664715805

Now, I don't go about blaming Christians, white male Christians. Because the people who have greatly contributed to these wars are either practicing Christians or are culturally Christians despite the fact that majority of the victims are also Muslims.

Amumaigwe:
What are the real reason terrorists are out there?

I agree. If he provides me enough to cater for just me and two kids or perhaps I am the kind of person who does not enjoy child rearing. I find myself in these scenarios, they are beyond me.

Unless it is a sin to use birth control, birth control is allowed.

mutaalim:
Kindly bear in mind that is Allah (SWT) in his infinite mercy that provide our sustainace, not by work or by struggle.

Use antibacterial at your own risk. Antibacterial in any form should not be used unless it is absolutely necessary

First of all, Syria is where it is thanks to other Arab nations, EU and America.

Why do we selectively when it comes to the real reasons terrorists are out there? Let's give kudos to those who fanned the uprisings, footed the bills, manufactured he weapons and those who are living fat off it.

Amumaigwe:
If Islam truly believes that giving charity softens the receiver's heart towards the giver or his religion, how come Muslim Syrian refugees that were facing hunger, starvation and death yet rejected by rich Islamic nation's but were given refuge by European Union on compassionate grounds turned around and started carrying out terrrorism against their loving host country?
Does it mean that only Christians are wired to respond positively to acts of charity and not Islam? Please educate us more. You never can tell who you will win over.

It is not a leadership issue.

We have more people than food. Which means, if food is made free globally, it will still not go round. Many people will still starve. How many families have you fed this day alone before talking about having more kids? People should stick to the number of kids Allah has provided for them to care for.

Rashduct4luv:
if Nigeria is overpopulated at around 200 million people then China is what at 1.4 billion people?

The region is so poor yet has the richest man in Africa!

Focus more on leadership issues!

Do you think we live in a perfect world where madrasahs are run for free and markets give out free food?

I have a duty towards Allah to care for my kids that includes 'proper shelter', providing balanced diet and preparing them well for this competitive world. Which also translates to not having more kids than the wealth Allah has provided for. Even with wealth, not everyone has Allah given enough time and patience to care for kids.

You want to compound your problems abi. You shouldn't have taken sides until you and your sisters are done with your education and have gotten good jobs. I expect your mum to have told you this. In fact, you should have left both of them to their wahala and be diplomatic. The court cannot do anything about this as you are way above 18 and old enough to be a father yourself.

Also, your father's properties are not yours. You seem to have an entitlement mentality. At this point, I expect you to have understood that your dad has all the power. You and your siblings should do whatever it takes to be closer to your father even if that requires you moving in with him. You are not going to suck up to your dad forever but you have to all it takes to survive. He sounds like he had been a very responsible father until this issue. You may not like what he is doing to your mum, but he hasn't be a wholly terrible father either. Learn diplomacy. Be diplomatic amongst your parents.

It is really sad if you can't differentiate between religion and culture.

The lady mentioned two things, culture and religion. I bet in your culture, people get married very early. Fortunately, the religion encourages people to get married early.

And we know that Arabs were as bad as those white slave owners. What else?

lepasharon:
You won't allow westernization to erode your culture. But arabization is ok?

When the Arabs did worse to blacks to ppl than the whites did?

AfriCOON

They were as bad as the whites. It is a wonder people don't talk about it as much

OladimejiRufai:
The Arabs did worse to Blacks??

Can you please give me instances or examples??

Did she tell you she will stop taking care of her kids?

gurunlocker:
And who will be feeding their "family"


She's making no sense... I think poverty cycle is common in their house.

Corrupt opposition. The fight will always be one sided but it is not ours to choose because we are not part of them. They are two sides of the same coin. Onnoghen should not expect sympathy, how many of us did he call when he was receiving those monies and if Tinubu's time should come, I will have my fun.

What I hate is people acting like this is all new because of ethnic bias, Nigeria politics has always been peculiar, sad and interesting. Jonathan is guilty of several acts Buhari has committed.

pawesome:
one of the opposition.. That's it.. This isn't fighting corruption because it's one sided

Sure. It does not mean we should not rejoice when one is down.

pawesome:
So they want to tell me it's only the CJN that's corrupt? Everyone of them will get his or her own share even d dulllard

If you have money to go to India for treatment, it is better to you to South Africa.

If it is not a medical issue, his parents should be locked up.

Adults can get fat but children...it is a mystery.

True, but for those that don't she choose to deal with them.

Have you seen the episode 2 trailer, she confronted Jaime about fathers death. That babe needs a remembrall for Harry Potter. Also, the seven kingdoms is not hers by right with or without Jon Snow.

Danishguy:
Nope, I think she's deserving of them all. Her philosophy on rulership has always 'of the people and with people', what other monarch share same view.

Everything that stuck with her, does that on their own will. Jon even made a remark of her 'she wasn't like a like everyone else'

She gave them the unsullied a choice, they chose her.

As for th Dothraki, it is not fear. It is conquest.

Semtu:
Lol, not on their own will.

Unsullied army is only controlled by something like a scourge which she got from "The Masters" before betraying and killing them all. Without that scourge in her possession, she'll never be able to control the unsullied army

Now look at the dothraki army. The Dothraki army only obeys her out of fear, seeing how she killed all their Khals, so they gats no choice but to obey her.

So i really don't get the statement you are trying to make