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You are mistaken. I am not looking for love and respect. Go back to the initial comment.

beardedboy:
Are you the first Muslim to share society with non-Muslims? Please learn how early Muslims related with the non-Muslims they lived with.

Compromising your beliefs will never earn you any respect or love. It will only make you an object of ridicule. Rather, your uprightness and steadfastness is what people will emulate and admire.

The most important thing is to have a diligent lawyer and a good judge and keep hoping and praying it gets resolved. If you don't, let your mum get another lawyer. You should also be parties to that case. I don't know if you can lay claim to proceeds of misappropriation, you should discuss with your lawyer.

I am a muslim FYI. It is not compromising when you realise you share a society with others and you need to trust one another. Don't celebrate Christmas and I am reluctant to send wishes but I do because little things adds up!

beardedboy:
So, you can only live in peace with Muslims who compromise their religion for your whims and desires? Such an interesting definition of peace!

His birthday is clear and we are bot supposed to celebrated it which means you won't see Many knowledgeable Muslims celebrating his birthday.


Christmas is harder because in all honesty Jesus wasn't born in December. 25 December used to be a pagan celebration.

I am genuniy curious to how that sounds to a spirit filled Christian con celebrating a lie on a day that used be for pagans. I know it is damn hard to go against the multitude on a day that has gained such prominence but do you really think it is right?.

true2god:
It seems muslims now use Christmas as a propaganda tool against christians every December. What a big shame! Muslims should mind their business in the same way christians mind their business when muslims do their birthday for Mohammed. Afterall, nobody knows when Mohammed was born and yet muslims still choose a date to celebrate him.

You live in a nultireligious society yet you have no idea of the little things that foster peace, trust and unity.

You haven't experienced racism is different from there is no racism.

Yorubas sure love to fool themselves

Yes. I had classmates that believed that a Christ filled person cannot be poor.

I am not even a Christian but the core of Abrahimic religions is about obedience to God's words and how that is linked to paradise and hell.

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Tell me how you see your mother without telling me how you see her.

meobizy:
I remember the late nineties and early two thousands when she was an it girl. Back then she graced every social event, looking “takeaway.” Now nobody send her again, there are too many young babes flooding Nollywood. Genevieve can’t cope with the fact she’s no longer in demand, that one don catch mental issues. Shakara don end, true true.

Those demons are not going to leave. There is no rape demon. There is no part in the bible where Jesus attributed deliverance to lack of insidious behaviour.

saintneo:
Oga Kobo, that cousin is not normal I must tell you. For me, my suggestions are defensive strategies, the offensive strategies you suggest might end up back-firing. I am not saying my defensive strategy is perfect either.

If they were Christians, I would have suggested taking to boy for strong deliverance. By the time, he fasts for 7 days dry, those demons and evil energies in him will flee by force.

About the dad being right - have you ever tried killing mosquito perched on your scrotum - I am assuming that you are a man (male, he, him)? The dad is caught between two devils, he is confused on how to handle it.

If there is one thing thing adulthood has taught me, the supposed elders are very useless and they use there so called 'elder status and wisdom' to say plenty of nonsense.

Your only job is to go home and make him regret his life.

I wouldn't want to blame anyone but if they are going to blame their domestic staff, they deserve to share in that blame. I don't want to ask why they didn't get a proper nanny.

onegig:
Wouldn't want to blame anyone and wouldn't want to judge without facts but if the typical Nigerian safety handling was anything to go by. We have a fair idea of how this could have happened.

Unfortunately this has led to the death of an innocent child.

We need to strengthen our laws and it's applications. DBanj had same issues some few years ago. Imagine if the child right act was applied and if any negligence were punished then? Wouldn't owners of houses with swimming pools have sat up and put in place safety measures to curtail such? Yeah it is God that guides but we are duty bound to cross all ts when it comes to safety.

But nah. We whine about the death and go back to the same ways. Until another tradegy happens and we wail about it and another happens. Cycle continues. Without any learnings , any repercussions for inaction.

When you see Job description overseas and you see things like ability to carry a certain weight, have a specific skill set we often think those are just stupid. We hire life guards without swimming experience, knowledge of CPR. Nannies who don't have basic trainings on child care, understanding hazards, basic first aid for kids. Some don't even know about peanut allergies, choke hazards etc. If you have an hazard like a swimming pool at home , you have to factor in those skills in people you want.

I just hate such type of deaths. Deeply painful that if 1,2,3 things had been done, such could have been prevented

Exactly, their fault is that they work for people rich enough to ruin their lives. How can you have 8 staffs and not a single one delegated for the little one. Even at that, the family members at home are just as guilty of negligence.

onegig:
I wouldn't be surprised the so called domestic staff they are talking about are some poor people they pay N30k to per month and give some hand-me-downs to.

Look at most rich Nigerians. Gateman 15k guarding a multibillion naira house.

Domestic staff -20k

Driver- 45k ( has poor training, drinks alcohol, lives in squalor so doesn't get the required rest) drives big Oga around the country and one day he sleeps off on the wheel and has head on collision killing the boss or boss madam or kids .


Rest in peace to the little one . Hopefully God consoles the parent.

Kids are a handful and they would disappear with those tiny legs of theirs in a split second. If you don't hear their voice in 10 seconds know they are up to some mischief or trying to injure themselves. So parents have to be on the watch 247 till they are off age. More reasons a delegated staff member when parents aren't in with strict rules and the proper training is required.

As rich as they are, they don't have delegated staff for ONE child. Now they want to ruin poor people's lives because they can't care for their child.

May you be resting in the bosom of your Lord by then

What is star actor?

More about fitting proportion than showing waist.

I would hate this woman. What is so important that she can't stay in one place and have her baby? Who is going to bear the cost of their silly decision?

Mayonnaise can separate. One of the two main ingredients is oil, a lot of it. I don't think it has gone bad

Truth234:
The one I bought two weeks ago from Shoprite was in a glass Jar. The following day, it separated into oil and whatever substance was added to it.

Funny man

Someone's future Balele

I would leave her. No ifs or buts!

Says e man that couldn't keep a wife

The name of her church is a dead giveaway. No Christ conscious Christian should attend a church that preaches material things.

This shouldn't be funny

Amala is processed yam.

Nwodosis:
Amala is processed cassava! May their souls rest in peace.

It is real interesting that you guys don't stop talking about love. Lmao. Who knew Nigerians can love like this?

Cerebral palsy is no joke. That is your whole life gone. For someone else's child with no monetary support and a father that would leave her to it, let her make a decision that is best for her and the child.

That is a very different scenario. His child isn't hers and vice versa.

JONNYSPUTE:
..,.. Lol. What if after given birth she finds out that her own child has the same issue? Wetin she go do?

Maybe drop her child with the husband and jepa her own