₦airaland Forum

Can we see a picture of your mum?

kenzysmith:
The wife no too fine and she is too old for shina, anyhow sha am happy for them

Good question!

Reno, that won't be Christlike at all

Nigerians are usually unruly on Turkish

There was a video of the incident earlier this year. I saw that and agreed with the soldiers. I don't know how others saw that and were still claiming that the soldiers killed people. I found that shocking and interesting.

There was a tweet from David's cousin that claimed the government have ordered the soldiers to all means necessary. No one is questioning that one.

That night presented a good opportunity for evil to bring Nigeria to its knees and they almost succeeded.

If not money, What else would be the reason to marry Ronaldo?

It is really not. If the wife were her husband, it would be easier but you see, she isn't. She has to make do with what she has. That is why the male gender is different from female folks

ajericho:
See,cheating is different from nursing another persons child

Exactly, men are polygamous in nature

That is a lie

How did the victim become the wicked? That is the mum's concern, she should have thought of that.

Everything the money can do. If he cares and he wants to do it, he will do it.

Officialgarri:
All because of Ego.

I still don't know what a man can do for a child in the absence of their mother's care and attention.

Ok fine, he gets the child and then what? Hand them over to another woman...

I would gladly leave children with their mother except she's abusive or promiscuous

You can't be more wrong even if you tried harder. Divorce rates are high because women can't be bothered to keep the peace or pretend to. For some, they earn enough to not stay in a depressive relationship . I am not condoning the former.

JESHAL:
That's why the foreigners are divorcing at 50% rate, we now have reversing of gender roles there, Their men are becoming Faggotss because their women are devoid of feminity, no man wants headache, you sweep and cook, nurture,give me sex, we want peace not trouble

The same 5m they won't be able together as loan to send a family member to better school or even buy a land sef

In this capitalist world, the roles aren't cut and dried anymore. Back then, in ile Yoruba, women worked and still took care of the home. The roles are clearer with the rich. I once read an excerpt (it was on twitter) of a book and they mentioned that one of the reasons the slavers took your women was also because you worked them like men . Think about that for a second. A child on her back and farm produce on her head after tilling the farm with you. The interesting part is you will still see this form of madness in Nigeria.

A lot of married Nigerian women have always paid their own bills. We know them. The ones working in schools, banks, ministries, even market women. The complete separation of roles where the man is 100% responsbile for bills is a foreign concept. The foreigners have even left that behind a very long time ago. Your average Nigerian man is too poor to foot his bill and his wife's bills.

That house chores you don't want to do, you will do it by force

Yoruba movies can't pass on ridiculing albinism or people with disability.

Mariangeles:
The way they even portray them in our movies make matters worse for them. Like an object of ridicule not worthy of any respect.
If stares could kill, no albino would exist.
Then, there’s a Nigerian tribe that has this superstitious belief of a pregnant woman most likely to birth an albino child if she stares too much at an albino.

According to some reports, they’re are even hunted and killed like animals for some kinds of ritual in some African countries.

I can't stand bigotry in whatever form. What is wrong with people?!

Personality, lifestyle and the type of people around you play a big part in how much you end up spending. I am a big believer of cutting my coat according to my cloth. A million should be enough.

You two should discuss how you will resolve issues.



In Nigerian's dictionary, hot temperedness = abusive.

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Modernizer:
well, i really need to settle down, and im really not the type that eadily gets into relationships. so im wondering how long it would take me to reach this extent again with a new person

No you don't but isn't it convenient you chose a time like this to make a cas for R Kelly.

wordbank:
Sometimes judges behave like junkies, especially on female related cases. As much as women has sworn your downfall, judges will definitely dig their pit in between their legs.
A lot of innocent men have been penalized over consented affairs, but for the fact that he is an alpha, pussy judges will sway just to hit the simp way.

Na that hammer go kill dem nonetheless I don't support rape or any sort of abuse

This is the reason. How is that hard to fiigure out? @op.

InfernoNig:
It's not easy to cook soup and go to market all the time. Them dey tire ni. Beside soup things are expensive.

Mompha?

The people that have been to hell and back

Emotionally intelligent but you were bonding with lonely full time house wife in her house

Transfer your salary to your wife so she doesn't
nag you.

I say don't transfer your salary so she doesn't nag you. What exactly is the problem?

The idea is not bad I would rather it depends on trust, their financial and marital goals and the partner that isore financially responsible.

Kobojunkie:
You are still suggesting that a man should be the one to spend the money on behalf of the family rather than the woman here.

Also, what issues are there to avoid that are avoided when the man is the one spending the money for the family?

Motigbo

Dapcity007:
Feminist will always be a cancer to society,we are the antibiotics for them

I don't have time for redpillers. Believe what you will. We can't mix.

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Lmao. It is going to shock you that many western families still have the same traditional roles with a modern twist. Many wives and mothers still cook and do most of the chores. Blame divorce rate on women's access to 'ego' and in other cases, common sense .

Dapcity007:
That's why western societies with equalist relationships are divorcing at 50% Marital rates and Marital rates are declining, except a man is in charge,that marriage will fail, these was a know fact for most of history in every civilization and era, divorce was so rare and family values were sacred until mordern day Feminism via Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideology

No. It is because it doesn't make sense to me. I have had my fair share of budgeting for the family at a very young age. If the man is responsible, he can spend his money for the family without giving all to his wife 'to avoid issues'.

Kobojunkie:
Because you don't believe you are capable of handling such responsibility in a marriage?

Whatever rocks your boat moonpie

Rubbiish:
Lol u can't speak for your brothers
It has nothing to do with masculinity!
Just like a man wearing a G-string even the most civilized will frown at it! The scenario that poster narrated is not what any man would wish for.

Who told you they are not assertive . Speak for yourself mister .

They are assertive and very shameless. You will call them sir where they stand. Beta male

Dapcity007:
Shaming men as usual, nothing unexpected from a feminist, a man that can't provide and assert dominance is highly unattractive, period, women are evolutionary hardwired to seek better, wiser, taller, stronger,richer, than them, that's the only way they can be in their feminine and deffer to his authority for the relationship to be successful,

I still won't support it.

Kobojunkie:
It wouldn't work in every marriage ofcourse.

My dad? No

My brothers? 100% yes. You think everyone's masculinity is as fragile as yours. . They are every Alpha male as well of that is what you are looking for.

Rubbiish:
You are a lady & won't understand!
Take that post to your brothers or dad!
No man will ever wish for such, that is not how a man is expected to care of his family! Any man in such condition is just helpless!