₦airaland Forum

I never said women make the best bosses. Women bosses can be good or bad just like men. One isn't better than the other.

Parizz:
I've worked under female bosses before and they treated me badly. One lied against me because I refused her sexual advances

Story for the gods. If you like listen, it is your funeral.

Adamgeneral12:
Queen Amina of Zauzau na man abi?
You know how many people loose their live when she is ruling?

I work for women like four times, only one among them treated me normal
The other three women, na story for the gods.

I'm the only one that understand her and I'm the only one that can correct her if she something wrong.

Let me cut story short for you, she is still calling me to come back.

And time I find my self working with a female boss, I don put one leg for dismissal and one leg for been her worker, should be in case her head spark one day and sack me, I no go worry
So no need for you to spend your precious time dey pray for my boss to sack me.

I live in that society that encourages female leadership. I am disagree with your truth.

The truth is power corrupts. It doesn't care about gender, age or religion. That is the truth.

The truth is when you have bad male boss. You and your people don't go 'and he is a man o'. You see him as a bad boss. That is the truth.

The truth is when you have bad female boss you go 'and she is a female'. The truth is it is unfamiliar to find women in leadership position. You revert to her gender to amplify her bad behaviour. How dare a woman?

The truth is women in position of power face more challenges. There are many expositories out there for you to confirm. Yes, even in the society I live. Men and women put up more bad attitude. For some it is subconscious and for others, it is intentional.

If I wasn't telling the truth, I won't have prayed for you. I pray you occupy a leadership position in your company. Then come back and talk.

If I were a boss and you act stupid because I am a woman, I will make sure you have every reason to come on Nairaland and moan about how women make bad leaders.

AuntRose:
I shouldn't say the truth because I'm a female. You have no idea how we females in power behave

It is disappointing that this is coming from a female.I pray you find yourself in leadership position, if you are one inch a good worker. Please share your experience.

Till then, continue to be the patriarchy gatekeeper.

AuntRose:
Women in power act like gods, in my faculty the faculty dean misbehaves so much without any tangible reason. I don't know if the spirit of domination descends on us if we find ourselves in the corridor of power, that attitude isn't a nice one and should stop please

Coming from the gender that goes around screaming 'because I am a mam', you are allergic to speaking the truth.

smasher1:
What was her response?

Females like control. They want everyone to know they are in charge.

You mean the male church members that possibly comprehend why a woman should be their prophetess. Soundsike they got what they deserved! I love it.

I like that you have chosen to generalise. Before women started assuming leadership positions, we have what we called 'bad bosses' and 'bad leaders'. These were men. In fact many of them commited genocide, torture, political assassination, sack, sideline those 'the other' they hated. You are yet to write an epistle about them. If you keep this behaviour, make sure never to work under a female boss because I will be hear praying she sacks you.

Adamgeneral12:
That's the problem of female bosses, no matter how, no matter position, they will always show love to one and hate to the other

One of the prophetess I work for in the past always find way to evict any male church member that she feel she can't control.
When I ask her the reason for doing that, her response to the question make me feel some how about her.

I doubt these three know about the abroad's culture. If they appeared more western, my people will be quick to the blame western culture.

Was your mum a case study for this submission?

teeste:
Seriously, women doesn't deserve this treatment. Let her work and buy her own car. You remember this advice one day! Use the money for something else.

It could be publicity stunt

WriterX:
exactly my point, I am a script writer and I know a lot of time I get bashed lol this one is just so obvious its not right at all

If I paid a blogger to discredit another's work and they write this nonsense, they must repay my money. It couldn't have been more obvious that the review is a paid.

It doesn't mean Toyin's movie is any good. She is fond of jampacking every big names into her movies in the name of 'celeb'. At least in her last movie, she found a way to make their appearance relevant.

Blame Yoruba women

There is no reason he should still be acting the way he does.

shadrach77:
Don't mind him. His stage arrogance is just too much; overacting and speaking vulgar language. He isn't a good actor in my own opinion. He just has the grace of God on him

If he is not vulgar or says something ridiculous, he hasn't acted.

shadrach77:
I agree. I used to think I was the only one who noticed that. He talks anyhow to women and is very vulgar in his films especially his Saamu Alajo series on YouTube. I believe he is guilty of the allegation

During Covid..a simple question of 'Can I sit in front with you? turned to a snippy reply. He passed an alternative route, did not answer simple polite questions, took offence when my friend finally said spoke up.

I will still use them. Let's us be mad together.

pocohantas:
What is bad attitude? Some drivers get triggered for something as basic as sitting behind or not talking to them.

Are there riders that are entitled on top ride? Wahala wa o.

Yes. Someone that acts and talks brashly in 99% of his movies.

sanity12:
Can you listen to yourself, You are judging someone because of the Roles they play in Movies

With nonsense he says in the movies and the arrogance...there is no doubt he is guilty..

Hopefully, other states can replicate this measure.

Sounds like something an unreasonable man will do

Great! We will stick to eggs, snails, fish, chicken, goat and turkey. Better plenty chicken than loss of lives and properties.

You want our advice on how to rape a girl. It might be a common thing in Nigeria but our society is moving to that stage where if she comes tomorrow to spoll her guts, we might believe her. If we do, we will gladly ruin your life.

victooman:
There is this girl l am presently dating now ,she have all the qualities l need in a woman, respectful , intelligent , industrious and have a good character, she seems to love me too, from her actions, The major problem l am having with this girl is that she allows me romance, finge her and give me the best blow jobs of my life, but to penetrate her for full sex is a big problem, she wont let me penetrate her, l have gotten angry and try to avoid her severally but she always comes back to me each an Everytime we quarrels, she told me is a resolution she had, after been in a sexual relationship with her ex not to go into it again.
Honestly l dont trust girls , so l have taken my time to observe if she is meeting with any man and there is no evidence, she have given me the password to her phones and social media, and we live in the same lodge ,(both of us are corpers serving in the same school) is lack of penetration enough reason for me to conclude that this girl is not inlove with me,? is she playing any games with me , please my seniors help me abeg.

Yet she still married Tuface

pocohantas:
Pero that used to waylay Annie back in the days? Annie done chop beating for Pero hand na.

The students have become the masters

pocohantas:
Whoever came up with the saying “anything a man can do, a woman can do better”, was in the future.

The future is what again? The future is heart attack for men o.

His wife must be happy now.

Adams is right on this. He should have married them all.

Adult Akech is one of the biggest top model in the world today. One of the most successful model as well She was big before Runtown and she is still big after him.

Newboss:
As she date runtown for some weeks, and fleece money from him, na so she dey date other guys and fleece money from them.

Don't ever compare yourself with a lady. All she has to do is seduce men and spread her legs, and she go buy Benz. Especially if she's very cute or highly endowed.

You can't put this on Tuface though. What was she expecting?

chineloSA:
So both are not angels. They should tolerate each other. He created the situation and he needs to manage it accordingly. Feeling insecure in any relationship doesnt produce good outcomes.

Even a relationship between a parent and a child, employer and employee, etc. Insecurity creates havoc. He made the bed and he should lie in it.

The wife that knew about his baggages and still married him.

chineloSA:
So Annie is bad and 2baba is good? The same 2baba who has kids all over and can't manage the situation. He is just as bad for creating a situation that makes his wife feel insecure.

And who are you?

Munzy14:
Soon or later you will realise I said this..

This is super story

Munzy14:
No man will run away from his comfortable home filled with peace of mind...Even if he is a closet gay.

No, men can drift mad even if the home is the most comfortable in the world. Face the issur biko

Munzy14:
For tuface to be drifting towards pero intentionally or not, annie has made the home uncomfortable for him...


A woman must provide peace of mind to enjoy her man...otherwise he will drift away.

No one deserves to stay in a toxic relationship. Tuface is going through hell. I hope this outburst gives him the necessary courage to fight back and leave her.

The first day I saw someone scooped Milo for tea at uni. I almost opened my big mouth. The Milo wasn't hers o. That was when I knew ai couldn't live in the hostel.

pocohantas:
The Nigerians jumping queue in MM1, are the same ones behaving like angels in JFK as well.

I stand with Uber.