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He is useless because he takes care of his family?

Rubbiish:
God forbid!
No man would ever wish for this!
It is a curse!
That man is helpless!

Uhn

I am a woman and I won't support such advice.

spice123:
My brother, I was out of job for like 6 months and wife took care of all the bills excluding rent and school fees and nobody noticed or knew I was out of job. No negative attitude showed up and I will tell you why. A close friend gave me this advice and I will share same with you. When you get your salary or business profit, remove your t-fare/car fuel and give the rest to your wife to manage the home. I was very hard for me to do but t I summoned courage and since 3+ years I started it, I have complete peace. Infact, my wife was praising me on how I was able to pay all bills and manage funds. By the time your wife will mismange the home funds (feeding, rent, kids sch fees e.t.c) she will wake up and realize that paying for gas in the home is the least issue. You will have utmost respect bro. I have been married for 7 years now.

Call her and speak to her please

The ordinary Nigerian can't follow his passion because it is common sense to follow money when you are from a poor country.

Lucas4903:
It is because they follow their passion and not the money that their family already has. The ordinary Nigerian is a worshipper of money and will do any and everything to get money including selecting courses they feel it's gonna be a high end return one. At the end no one is actually following their passion but the money.

We assume a lot about the wealthy

Love love her

I am loving this new development.

How much is your cousin paying? Is it enough to pay for the papers, logistics and administrative costs?

kingphilip:
Is FG actually paying for the exams?

Just hearing about this because upto 3 years back I know my cousin made payment for his

A lot more average students write external WAEC than prodigies.

Martinez39s:
In sane countries, there are special classes for prodigies and gifted children. These children are even given the room to flow at their own pace as long as they can handle it, even if they will be many years ahead of their peers.

Here, they don't want brilliant SS1 and SS2 students to write ordinary waec, instead they want them to unnecessarily waste time. In this country of all places. I SMH for this country. Why not overhaul and reform the syllabi of secondary schools instead?

They can test their preparedness in the confines of their house. Their schools can hold mock WAEC for their third semester exams. FG should not be paying for these exams. It is an unnecessary cost.

kingphilip:
Most SS1 and SS2 pupils who write these external examinations at that level do so to test their preparedness for the examination.

Most of them still end up doing SS3 because before the result comes out, the next session would have resumed.

I think they should also ban the writing of Primary School leaving certificate in Primary 4 and 5 if that is the case.

This measure won't solve anything. They should let those kids be!!!

Shey they don't want those examination bodies to be posting outrageous profits ni?

And if they don't pass?

Shey no be money dem waste?

When you choose to be stupid unprovoked

DrChukki:
An Igbo female soldier assaulted an Igbo Corp member... This can hardly be seen among Hausas or Fulanis.

How do you have the mind to assault your fellow lady who speaks the same language with you and both of you are in another land...

I'm not being tribal here but I'm passing a message to my Igbo brothers...

To me, the lady leaving the state is a good idea...

My intial reacton

tonyashburton:
Slowpoke le leyi oh.Nonsense from the first letter to the last full stop.
Seun abeg use vacuum cleaner take comot this rubbish before what happened in 1982 happens again.

Older parents can keep themselves busy with activities, religious associations or charity causes. They can even offer to babysit or look after children for the younger couples around them.

Winneygirl:
Career biko.

No one was born into this world to be a spectator.
You can make something of your life.
People are talking about taking care of children. Children will grow up and leave the parents behind.
Children are not a retirement plan. Anyone thinking their children will "take care" of them in old age should ask themselves, "am I taking good care of my parents in their old age"? There are many retired parents who are still paying school fees for their children.
Do you know what the future even holds? Please build a source of income for yourself and your wife for old age. Your old age is only as sweet as your income at that time.

Career for both man and woman!!!

I understood you perfectly and you are still wrong.

advanceDNA:
If u don't understand my comment
...go elsewhere jare...

I don't like getting into this particular religious argument however dotn you think an interesting question would be?

Why would God create perfectly healthy people and cursed them to remain unlovable and unmarried and also deny them the ability to enjoy sexual relations? They don't create themselves, do they?
They are not responsible for the gene causing homosexualism ,why do you want to hold them responsible?


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membranus:
Homophobe or not, let each of us think of our 6 feet grave when we shall breath in our last gulp of airs, and come face to face with God's judgment throne.

Are we going to ask Him why did you create me an homosexual, or a lesbian, or an adulterer, or a thief or a murderer or a drunkard. Because I have never read anywhere in His divine Sscriptures where he created anyone to be such. We are only manufacturing excuses to justify our wayward lifestyles.

Our life on earth is too short, let us mend our ways and prepare for heaven. Tom Ford's so called husband is gone now, how I wish he will come briefly back to earth to tell us how it is on the other side of eternity.

It is not right to speak for gay people.

Gay people don't molest children. Paedophiles do. You don't rape a child because you have sexual urges. You abuse a child because you can.

advanceDNA:
i think i get ur point.... someone has raised your line of thought here on nairaland before that gay people target underage like it's an indoctrination agenda.....

the truth is, The gay population isn't a very large one like we heterosexuals.....
Unlike heterosexuals that 95% of people that walk the streets are straight, gay people can sometimes find it a bit hard seeing their kind or even knowing their kind ...unless they are in a gay bar, or a gay site, or a gay dominated vicinity...

and becos they hide most of the time, they tend to live out their true-sexuality in ways that may be questionable, like molesting a young boys.. since approaching an adult can lead to being exposed or disgraced


still, that doesnt change the fact that woundedlamb is right...Heterosexuals are guilty of the same thing you are accusing homosexuals.
and i think it's even more worse for we heterosexual because we can easily get heterosexual women evrywhere...so why rape or molest underage.

This man is a curse to this world

Some women actually find polygamy very empowering for this reason especially those that enjoy their space. It is a point I can relate to. However, there are polygamous men who are not up to scratch despite their number of wives.

There was a piece on Guardian UK about Muslims women that are career driven who allow their husbands to get second wife who end up taking care of the homefront.

This is where some very foolish men would think this is about them.

pocohantas:
Some people believe in polygamy for strange reasons…

I have this woman at work that is 40yrs. She is a devout muslim with an impeccable sense of style- rich muslim women can make you throw away all your omo wobe clothes sha. All covered up but regal.

Anyway, she got married in 2019 and I was surprised, because I always thought muslims marry very early. Then she told me she went into a monogamous marriage in her 20s, but it didn’t work out and crashed in less than 4 years. It was from her I also got to know divorce is rife in the North, but we don’t hear about it. After the divorce, she picked her lessons and returned abroad to further her studies (she has a PhD). She went on to add that she has enjoyed her polygamous husband so much because his wahala is distributed among all the wives. She is the fourth and last wife, with her own separate property on the Island.

According to her, monogamous men are unnecessarily stressful and jealous, even though they will still be cheating without remorse on the side. They have too many expectations and standards and want it all from one woman. Any time they turn, they will call your name. If they come home, they will shout your name. Men who are polygamous with their full chest are different.

She closed by asking if I have ever asked myself why it is women in rich polygamous marriages that have time to attend parties upandan, travel for studies, do baby girl and go for vacations every other month? You do something with your life and have time for yourself while the man faces his other three wives.

She made a lot of sense, but I will pass…

You can hate your blackness all you like. It doesn't mean others hate themselves.

ValCon888:
Even with her takoko head he still put the ring on her finger. When it's your time, it's your time.

Shout out to all my evening newspapers.
May your ovaries never run out of egg.

Can you swear that he didn't steal our money?

This one thinks he has money because he tears tickets .

She is not willing to keep the baby, you are 19, her family doesn't seem great. I don't think your family is financially stable either else you won't be tearing ticket. Who is going to be responsible for the child while you are in school? But you want to die because of a pregnancy?

Your village people must be working overtime

Are you living on Mars?

Lmao. What she should have done since his birth.

Which is negro pepper?

Akposy:
Yes
Yaji
1 cup peanut powder or kulikuli
Onions powder
1/3 cup ginger powder
12 pieces negro pepper
3 tbsp paprika
3 tbsp cayenne pepper
5 pieces calabash nutmeg
3 tbsp seasoning
2 tsp garlic
1 tsp salt


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A good name is better than riches yet you chose to be his partner.

I hate this country

People in Israel are Jews. Many of their fathers and forefathers HATE Christians. They hate Christians because Christians were responsible for several genocide and discrimination over the years. There are still a lot of antisemitism in Western country.

Holocaust ywouod have happened and none of these Christian countries would have helped if Germany hadn't gone after them.

Stop trying to align Christianity with the Zion movement and Judaism. Oil and water do not mix.

Anieke77:
Biden is an anti christ. Jerusalem is isreal capital Palestinians can Bleep themselves . trump is far better than this asshat called Biden.

Is it with your money though? She can't use her money for she wants again abi

Nfchi73:
Is not the same Aisha that's critising the top government officials of sending their children school abroad? Now the son just graduated from a school in London.
Na wa ooo

BBL is one of the most dangerous surgery, if not the most dangerous cosmetic surgery.

pocohantas:
Same here. But I think it is getting safer now. Fatalities be reducing, except people that decided to try cheap and unregulated doctors. I don’t mind a moderate one when I am done with childbearing.

Princecanada

She is not carrying your child. Even if she is, don't take responsibility. She is very mad.

@James4358
Let your father rest in.peqce, stop thinking about the poor man.

Lucky guy, good thing he didn't embarrassed himself.

How long before he asks for another loan? He earns 75k. He shouldn't be taking unnecessary loans.

Mercychen:
See, op. He's your dad. Also remember he got into debt because of you. He meant well for you and if not for how everything turned out badly, you'll prolly be doing a 6 digit job and living large by now. So consider him and do this.

Take a 100k loan. at least you can conviniently pay back in case he defaults. Just test him with that first and see how it goes. Don't just turn him down outrightly.

That's all.