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I don't like getting into this particular religious argument however dotn you think an interesting question would be?

Why would God create perfectly healthy people and cursed them to remain unlovable and unmarried and also deny them the ability to enjoy sexual relations? They don't create themselves, do they?
They are not responsible for the gene causing homosexualism ,why do you want to hold them responsible?


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membranus:
Homophobe or not, let each of us think of our 6 feet grave when we shall breath in our last gulp of airs, and come face to face with God's judgment throne.

Are we going to ask Him why did you create me an homosexual, or a lesbian, or an adulterer, or a thief or a murderer or a drunkard. Because I have never read anywhere in His divine Sscriptures where he created anyone to be such. We are only manufacturing excuses to justify our wayward lifestyles.

Our life on earth is too short, let us mend our ways and prepare for heaven. Tom Ford's so called husband is gone now, how I wish he will come briefly back to earth to tell us how it is on the other side of eternity.

It is not right to speak for gay people.

Gay people don't molest children. Paedophiles do. You don't rape a child because you have sexual urges. You abuse a child because you can.

advanceDNA:
i think i get ur point.... someone has raised your line of thought here on nairaland before that gay people target underage like it's an indoctrination agenda.....

the truth is, The gay population isn't a very large one like we heterosexuals.....
Unlike heterosexuals that 95% of people that walk the streets are straight, gay people can sometimes find it a bit hard seeing their kind or even knowing their kind ...unless they are in a gay bar, or a gay site, or a gay dominated vicinity...

and becos they hide most of the time, they tend to live out their true-sexuality in ways that may be questionable, like molesting a young boys.. since approaching an adult can lead to being exposed or disgraced


still, that doesnt change the fact that woundedlamb is right...Heterosexuals are guilty of the same thing you are accusing homosexuals.
and i think it's even more worse for we heterosexual because we can easily get heterosexual women evrywhere...so why rape or molest underage.

This man is a curse to this world

Some women actually find polygamy very empowering for this reason especially those that enjoy their space. It is a point I can relate to. However, there are polygamous men who are not up to scratch despite their number of wives.

There was a piece on Guardian UK about Muslims women that are career driven who allow their husbands to get second wife who end up taking care of the homefront.

This is where some very foolish men would think this is about them.

pocohantas:
Some people believe in polygamy for strange reasons…

I have this woman at work that is 40yrs. She is a devout muslim with an impeccable sense of style- rich muslim women can make you throw away all your omo wobe clothes sha. All covered up but regal.

Anyway, she got married in 2019 and I was surprised, because I always thought muslims marry very early. Then she told me she went into a monogamous marriage in her 20s, but it didn’t work out and crashed in less than 4 years. It was from her I also got to know divorce is rife in the North, but we don’t hear about it. After the divorce, she picked her lessons and returned abroad to further her studies (she has a PhD). She went on to add that she has enjoyed her polygamous husband so much because his wahala is distributed among all the wives. She is the fourth and last wife, with her own separate property on the Island.

According to her, monogamous men are unnecessarily stressful and jealous, even though they will still be cheating without remorse on the side. They have too many expectations and standards and want it all from one woman. Any time they turn, they will call your name. If they come home, they will shout your name. Men who are polygamous with their full chest are different.

She closed by asking if I have ever asked myself why it is women in rich polygamous marriages that have time to attend parties upandan, travel for studies, do baby girl and go for vacations every other month? You do something with your life and have time for yourself while the man faces his other three wives.

She made a lot of sense, but I will pass…

You can hate your blackness all you like. It doesn't mean others hate themselves.

ValCon888:
Even with her takoko head he still put the ring on her finger. When it's your time, it's your time.

Shout out to all my evening newspapers.
May your ovaries never run out of egg.

Can you swear that he didn't steal our money?

This one thinks he has money because he tears tickets .

She is not willing to keep the baby, you are 19, her family doesn't seem great. I don't think your family is financially stable either else you won't be tearing ticket. Who is going to be responsible for the child while you are in school? But you want to die because of a pregnancy?

Your village people must be working overtime

Are you living on Mars?

Lmao. What she should have done since his birth.

Which is negro pepper?

Akposy:
Yes
Yaji
1 cup peanut powder or kulikuli
Onions powder
1/3 cup ginger powder
12 pieces negro pepper
3 tbsp paprika
3 tbsp cayenne pepper
5 pieces calabash nutmeg
3 tbsp seasoning
2 tsp garlic
1 tsp salt


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A good name is better than riches yet you chose to be his partner.

I hate this country

People in Israel are Jews. Many of their fathers and forefathers HATE Christians. They hate Christians because Christians were responsible for several genocide and discrimination over the years. There are still a lot of antisemitism in Western country.

Holocaust ywouod have happened and none of these Christian countries would have helped if Germany hadn't gone after them.

Stop trying to align Christianity with the Zion movement and Judaism. Oil and water do not mix.

Anieke77:
Biden is an anti christ. Jerusalem is isreal capital Palestinians can Bleep themselves . trump is far better than this asshat called Biden.

Is it with your money though? She can't use her money for she wants again abi

Nfchi73:
Is not the same Aisha that's critising the top government officials of sending their children school abroad? Now the son just graduated from a school in London.
Na wa ooo

BBL is one of the most dangerous surgery, if not the most dangerous cosmetic surgery.

pocohantas:
Same here. But I think it is getting safer now. Fatalities be reducing, except people that decided to try cheap and unregulated doctors. I don’t mind a moderate one when I am done with childbearing.

Princecanada

She is not carrying your child. Even if she is, don't take responsibility. She is very mad.

@James4358
Let your father rest in.peqce, stop thinking about the poor man.

Lucky guy, good thing he didn't embarrassed himself.

How long before he asks for another loan? He earns 75k. He shouldn't be taking unnecessary loans.

Mercychen:
See, op. He's your dad. Also remember he got into debt because of you. He meant well for you and if not for how everything turned out badly, you'll prolly be doing a 6 digit job and living large by now. So consider him and do this.

Take a 100k loan. at least you can conviniently pay back in case he defaults. Just test him with that first and see how it goes. Don't just turn him down outrightly.

That's all.

I never said women make the best bosses. Women bosses can be good or bad just like men. One isn't better than the other.

Parizz:
I've worked under female bosses before and they treated me badly. One lied against me because I refused her sexual advances

Story for the gods. If you like listen, it is your funeral.

Adamgeneral12:
Queen Amina of Zauzau na man abi?
You know how many people loose their live when she is ruling?

I work for women like four times, only one among them treated me normal
The other three women, na story for the gods.

I'm the only one that understand her and I'm the only one that can correct her if she something wrong.

Let me cut story short for you, she is still calling me to come back.

And time I find my self working with a female boss, I don put one leg for dismissal and one leg for been her worker, should be in case her head spark one day and sack me, I no go worry
So no need for you to spend your precious time dey pray for my boss to sack me.

I live in that society that encourages female leadership. I am disagree with your truth.

The truth is power corrupts. It doesn't care about gender, age or religion. That is the truth.

The truth is when you have bad male boss. You and your people don't go 'and he is a man o'. You see him as a bad boss. That is the truth.

The truth is when you have bad female boss you go 'and she is a female'. The truth is it is unfamiliar to find women in leadership position. You revert to her gender to amplify her bad behaviour. How dare a woman?

The truth is women in position of power face more challenges. There are many expositories out there for you to confirm. Yes, even in the society I live. Men and women put up more bad attitude. For some it is subconscious and for others, it is intentional.

If I wasn't telling the truth, I won't have prayed for you. I pray you occupy a leadership position in your company. Then come back and talk.

If I were a boss and you act stupid because I am a woman, I will make sure you have every reason to come on Nairaland and moan about how women make bad leaders.

AuntRose:
I shouldn't say the truth because I'm a female. You have no idea how we females in power behave

It is disappointing that this is coming from a female.I pray you find yourself in leadership position, if you are one inch a good worker. Please share your experience.

Till then, continue to be the patriarchy gatekeeper.

AuntRose:
Women in power act like gods, in my faculty the faculty dean misbehaves so much without any tangible reason. I don't know if the spirit of domination descends on us if we find ourselves in the corridor of power, that attitude isn't a nice one and should stop please

Coming from the gender that goes around screaming 'because I am a mam', you are allergic to speaking the truth.

smasher1:
What was her response?

Females like control. They want everyone to know they are in charge.

You mean the male church members that possibly comprehend why a woman should be their prophetess. Soundsike they got what they deserved! I love it.

I like that you have chosen to generalise. Before women started assuming leadership positions, we have what we called 'bad bosses' and 'bad leaders'. These were men. In fact many of them commited genocide, torture, political assassination, sack, sideline those 'the other' they hated. You are yet to write an epistle about them. If you keep this behaviour, make sure never to work under a female boss because I will be hear praying she sacks you.

Adamgeneral12:
That's the problem of female bosses, no matter how, no matter position, they will always show love to one and hate to the other

One of the prophetess I work for in the past always find way to evict any male church member that she feel she can't control.
When I ask her the reason for doing that, her response to the question make me feel some how about her.

I doubt these three know about the abroad's culture. If they appeared more western, my people will be quick to the blame western culture.

Was your mum a case study for this submission?

teeste:
Seriously, women doesn't deserve this treatment. Let her work and buy her own car. You remember this advice one day! Use the money for something else.

It could be publicity stunt

WriterX:
exactly my point, I am a script writer and I know a lot of time I get bashed lol this one is just so obvious its not right at all

If I paid a blogger to discredit another's work and they write this nonsense, they must repay my money. It couldn't have been more obvious that the review is a paid.

It doesn't mean Toyin's movie is any good. She is fond of jampacking every big names into her movies in the name of 'celeb'. At least in her last movie, she found a way to make their appearance relevant.

Blame Yoruba women

There is no reason he should still be acting the way he does.

shadrach77:
Don't mind him. His stage arrogance is just too much; overacting and speaking vulgar language. He isn't a good actor in my own opinion. He just has the grace of God on him

If he is not vulgar or says something ridiculous, he hasn't acted.

shadrach77:
I agree. I used to think I was the only one who noticed that. He talks anyhow to women and is very vulgar in his films especially his Saamu Alajo series on YouTube. I believe he is guilty of the allegation

During Covid..a simple question of 'Can I sit in front with you? turned to a snippy reply. He passed an alternative route, did not answer simple polite questions, took offence when my friend finally said spoke up.

I will still use them. Let's us be mad together.

pocohantas:
What is bad attitude? Some drivers get triggered for something as basic as sitting behind or not talking to them.

Are there riders that are entitled on top ride? Wahala wa o.