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Yeah. She shouldn't worry about people who made her feel suicidal. Meghan must be some superalien even Clark Kent was quite emotional.

redsun:
Uneasy is the head that wears the crown. She should be thankful to mother nature for who she has become in life and stop worrying about flimsy things that can't make any difference in her life.

Whiteman will always be a white man in thinking that he's superior to nature, while the black man on the other will always sulk up to him for self-approval.

Exactly! Good day to you

SegFault:
Okay ma. No need to argue, I have realised that arguing with nlers is a waste of time.

Another self hating black man on the loose. I am pretty sure you once wished your mum was white, with freckles, pale skin, blue eyes and long straight Blond hair

Another British Royal Slave

shadrach77:
This woman is tremendously heartless. A big schemer and social climber who I see dumping Harry later on, say like in 5 years time and then use the kids as leverage to settle herself financially. Only then will Harry return to his senses.

Though the Royal family may be racist and all that but she knew what she was getting into before going in.

The truth of the matter is that she and Harry know that they can never be the star couple or the centre of attraction cause as far as the British royal family is concerned William and his children will always be above them by virtue of birth and this realisation is the cause of the tantrum they are throwing now

They wanted to leave the royal family and they've achieved their aim so they should just keep quiet and move on with their lives

The British Royal Slave

anomaly20:
An institution of hundreds of years should bend the knee because of a black woman? or rather a woman who will have not add anything significant to the future of the British royalty.

Yes if you are not self hating.

It is logic but if you are a self hating black man, you would think it is emotional.

SegFault:
Must everyone side with her. This is real emotional blackmail sister.

Did you miss the first part of my sentence? What exactly did Meghan do? The same code Kate was also 100% perfect at?

You still remain the British Royal Slave

tutudesz:
Royal slave status You think marrying into royalty is simple even Nigeria self hard There is a code to everything, from dressing, eating, etc and if you can't keep up with such life, you start looking for fault in such system.

Watch this thread

Most of those against Meghan are going to be our self-hating black brothers

That babe has always been drama free even at the height of her acting career. But you have to show your Royal slave status anyways

tutudesz:
You don talk the main thing. She wanted to be the Hollywood royalty, forgetting there is a code governing them

Says the British Royal slave

anomaly20:
Meghan thought marrying into the royal family will afford her the opportunity to have her own Keeping up with the Kardashians royal version

Lol. It depends on her job and creditworthiness.

MrGoood:
I am a businessman and the thing is I am in for money in any choice I make. I made around 22 million in savings last year. Though I cut family and girlfriends off my life to achieve that and am in Nigeria.

But seeing the doings of people outside The country, there was an America based lady that spent over 12 million naira on her mother's burial. For her to spend that much I believe she will have 20x of that amount.

At least for an upright thinking fellow, I feel like am making less so am thinking of relocating. Can I make over 22 million yearly in savings in USA, If no how much can I save? Talk from your personal experience pls, Let stop deceiving each other pls, How much did you save annually in USA? Please let be sincere.

Afi Jesus Junior

Westerners are also very tribal as well.

WoundedLamb:
Taking a look at the Nigerians on this thread, I don't really see how Africans are any different from the way the white people perceive them; just a bunch of tribal people.

I don't understand this relationship. She is not your family or gf but she has asked for money and it doesn't appear to be a one-off event.

How did this happen?

How about you wash the toilet before they come knocking?

oweniwe:


I dey us am

But neighbors coming to come knock your doo when your sleep is sweetest early morning to come wash toilet/bathroom is one hell of an inconvenience.

If you want to piss, you have to go outside the house

If you want sheet you have to go outside... Every time, every day.

I only stayed 5 months there before I moved to self contain room and parlor.

Growing up, I am used to having whole house to Myself alone. I only decided to manage the face me I face u when I needed accommodation when I got a new posting in new town so I wasn't prepared for the drama

You no dey use the toilet.

oweniwe:
Most annoying as a young man staying alone there.

Imagine neighbor's wives/small daughter knocking on your door... "Uncle O, come and wash the bathroom and toilet"

Wakanda nonsense is that?

This is a good list

chatinent:
1. When you cook with less or substandard ingredients, you'll keep covering the pot and hiding them. When you want to fry egg, you'll bring everything outside.


2. All the low budget Rihannas entering your home without invitations.


3. I Pass My Neighbour generator is your muscle.


4. Too many slippers at your neighbour’s door when there is no light is a bad news.


5. If NEPA interrupts the light and your neighbour has it, let all hell loose till democracy is achieved.


6. Wives are girlfriends to neighbors. If you know you know.


7. SlayQueen putting their custard for urine under their cupboard.


8. There must be one womaniser always playing loud music.


9. There must be one woman with multiple children and an irresponsible husband.


10. Where two or more women are gathered and you pass with a friend, forget it. It's YOU 101.


11. The army of beggars. If you mistakenly borrow them ₦500, they'll never leave you and will keep coming back.


12. The female children of other neighbours wanting adventure coming to your room.


13. The problem of washing bathroom and toilet.


14. There's always sb who will use the toilet and leave Abednego floating for others to see.



What is more?


That's the worst place to be.

Madam, where is the Nkwobi I ordered?
M ga-echere ruo mgbe ebighị ebi?

Of all the issues plaguing SW

Exactly. Two people made some hard and difficult decisions. I doubt it was easy for the brother to record his mother or the op to disown their mother.

Their mother's hatred is on another new level I can't fathom. One can wish the mother comes to her senses and the issue is resolved.

aroundtheearth:
I'm sorry but none of that makes any sense. What you've done there is make the MIL out to be the victim when she isn't.

1. The brother was right to have recorded the mother because it would've been difficult for the OP to believe him without that proof. I reckon the OP is aware the mother didn't like his wife before this situation but he would've still had difficulty believing she would make such statement towards his wife, especially after losing her baby.

2. I doubt the brother set out to record the mother for any ill intention. He was probably pressing his phone at the time and for him to have gotten those words recorded meant the mother must've said them a couple of times beforehand /before he started recording.

3. He (the brother) was likely in shock himself at what he was hearing their mother say, hence the need for him to record her, kinda like, "Did she just say that?".

Idk why you're blaming the brother when he did absolutely nothing wrong. I bet if the mother had said she wanted to kill the wife, you would still blame the brother for recording her. The brother is not the problem here at all.

When I was a teenager I had an Italian neighbour who kept having miscarriages. The husband's mom would sometimes visit and I would see her embrace the wife and they would gist outside. I actually didn't know about the miscarriages until the wife told me. She ended up giving birth towards the end of that year. I'm just recalling this story because the MIL never showed any animosity towards the wife, ever, and because what any loving MIL should do in this situation or least upon hearing about the wife losing her baby, is to ask how she's doing and feeling, if she needs anything ― anything to console the woman ― not utter such hateful words. As a woman herself, she should've known better.

Yes, the mother should've apologized to OP. Idk why that's even up for debate. Her refusal to do so shows she isn't remorseful and that this was an intentional statement. It takes a hateful heart to wish someone dead, especially after such a traumatic experience. It's like kicking someone when they're down, which is no surprise because according to her own words, "she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend".

All your scenarios do not reflect the reality of Nigerian homes and many homes outside Nigeria. Many homes are too poor to survive on a single income. If women don't spend according to your concocted fact, we should be richer. What else would we do with those extra cash?

Plus when women earn low, it is either because of her family commitment or the society's or biology.

Maybe it is time you ask your mum how often it was her money many times she told you your dad gave her money or your dad sent money to you?

Ikjosh04:
A Nigerian financial stable woman is different from the norms.


99.5% of Nigeria financially stable women living in Nigeria and even to some extent in the western world hardly contributes their own quota financially in the relationship.

Imagine this 3 scenarios.

Family A: Both hubby and wifee earn 12 million naira annually respectively but wifee still expect hubby to be financially responsible for above 50% of the family day to day financial activities.

Family B: Hubby and wifee earn 12 and 9 million naira annually respectively but wifee still expect hubby to be financially responsible for above 60% of the family day to day financial activities.

Family C: Hubby and wifee earn 12 and 5 million naira annually respectively but wifee still expect hubby to be financially responsible for above 70% of the family day to day financial activities.

Which of the family scene will you want to be your reality when you get married?

As for me, I'll go with family C cause, I'm sure of total submission from my wifee and I prefer paying above 70% of the bills. Every man loves peace of mind.

The Bible said women are our helpmate but only 10% of Nigeria girls from age 22 to 30 have the virtues and are willing to be helpmate. It's quite disheartening!!

Btw, i think Benue states still have decent girls cause I've met quite a few and the vibes I'm getting from them are different from the norms of Nigeria girls.

Why?

The5DME:
Their lesson teacher will be the one to hande that.

Godly status on top homework

WoundedLamb:
@bolded: lol... African men their excessive desire for a godly status.

As for me, I wouldn't like to make it anyone's task or even a workflow (like yours where it arrives on your table after wifie's failed attempts); it's my home and not an office with SOP's. I'd let anyone available do that. If I see anyone I can't solve I'd either claim to be busy and ask them to go to wifie or ask them to come back later and then quietly ask wifie to help. I'd expect her to do the same if she finds anyone too hard to solve.

'people that instigated civil war'

This man is definitely crazy!

They probably have better lecturers but the Nigerian in you must find an alternative explanation to hardwork and brilliance. I wonder what is stopping you from switching to those courses in UNN..

vickydevoka:
In unn is mathematics n civil engineering is de easiest department to make first class.

I could remember in a class of 30 I mathematics there where 8 first class.
Na so 2 of my class comot with 2.1 that year, I begin de lag am

Lmao. One out of a million. Still a gamble

Randy91:
What a motivation !

This is one of the reasons why you should NOT think of SUICIDE no matter what you are going through right now !

Stay motivated !

First class in Mathematics isn't a joke. I wish him the best of luck.

At the expense of many lives?

Ermmm, I don't know of anyone that considers money cake as an alternative to actual cake.

You have overanalyzed this issue.Calm down!

Peterobi90:
Job can be defined as employment, work or occupation, it is a person's role in society. More specifically, a job is an activity, often regular and often performed.

Jobs are not created from the blues, they are created via our daily specific activities.

They are coined from our daily habits alongside country policies..

The main purpose of this thread is the new habit of money cakes in place of actual cakes.. some might call it bluff, but its becoming a trend and gradually becoming a norm.

The activities that involve cakes are diminishing daily..

Weddings are on an alltime low, Birthdays are barely celebrated these days. How then do we want the bakers to feed when we deliberately kill jobs with trendy habits.

Of what use is a money cake to the society, what economic gain has it added to the economy?.. zero/zilch, but has taken food out the mouth of millions from that created through cake-baking.

Please let's be cautious, our money cake trendy habit kill jobs, our economy is at the brink on employment.. we cant keep harming ourselves. Coming from our so-called celebrities goes to show most dont think beyond their noses.

Note: I am not a Baker, just a concerned citizen.

Your babe is too complacent :

Why are they using 'we' though? Does that include the middle belters?

Are witches and wizards synonymous to vampires as well?

galantjoe:
That is what I used when I had my first child. Yes, prayer is very powerful but spiritual ointments and sacramentals are still important.

As you know that witches and wizards don't like silver and cross. So make those things near where you keep your child.

The second one to the last paragraph describes my baby brother.

pozehnani:
I'll start by tackling constipation in children.
If you notice a child can't poo due to hard stool, and he won't take veggies by mouth, pump him through the anus with some herbal solution ( I can't remember what it is called in English) to prevent pile from forced poo.

Then make sure he takes a lot of fruits specifically pawpaw and orange. You can juice and bottle it for them to take to school. That way they'll never suffer constipation.

As for how to get them to eat without being abusive or hard on them. Get some chewable multivitamins ( they are quite expensive). This will induce hunger and make them eat very well without being forced. Its also very good for their skin. A 250g size of the chewable multivitamins goes for like 30k upwards.
Alternatively, you can give normal multivitamins syrup.

Now, there are some children who defy this multivitamins and still won't eat. Just try to find out what what such a child likes and let him be having it pending when he begins to eat very well. Every child has what they like.

Never force a child to eat what he or she doesn't like.

Many terrorist organisations were able to find their activities through hostages. These monsters won't stop, they will continue to be inhumane and hold the country to ransome. We need to start creating a world kidnap victims would be seen as matyrs while their loved ones make peace with it.

At this rate if I ever become a victim of one. I would rather commit a murder suicide. No chance in hell a group of morons get fat, buy more guns and kidnap more people because they have me.