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Their marriage wasn't interesting. What they has was very strict marital roles and obligations. More like a manual

thebosstrevor1:
Those days, our great grandfather will marry 3 wives and each of them will have their own hut only when he wants to service them or if they wanted servicing will they come to the man's hut.

This infact made the marriage more interesting

Nowadays, husbands and wives stay in the same room, they see each other each day, why wont the drive die, over familiarity kills marriage.

Alright

doxijaw:
The big picture matters!

We on the same side though!

Yoruba people are on this table. The time I have spent shutting 'proud Yoruba people up'

Wittyduchess:
Moral values?

The same country that ranks high on the corruption table, scam, fraud, ritual killing, terrorism, terrible justice system,hypocrisy etc.

Which morality are you talking about? Oh because you know how to greet in the morning and evening?

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Odoogu:
You a doctor?

The thread is about parenting. Family is the basic unit of a society. What goes on in family reflects on our society. I don't care about whatever else you want to drag in.

doxijaw:
The big difference between Africans and europoids is not morality, parenting, culture.


It's ethics!

That was sarcastic. Neither parenting culture is perfect. There is nothing wrong in emulating some aspects of western parenting especially the ones that encourage independence, responsibility, and individualism (that to an extent).

doxijaw:
Western culture isn't beautiful, it's a babaric, hate fueled culture of genocide, wars, dominance hierarchy's, extreme capitalism by proxy of the gun and finance.

African culture was beautiful, but now diluted due to inferiority complex.

The African wants to be westernised, rather than copy the White man strengths, he copies his weaknesses.

Africa will remain backwards but adopt the sickness of the western man.

That's the future.

I see your political touts, cultists in your high school and universities, bandits and those rapists your society seem to love protecting agreeing with you.

You would assume the natural consequences of raising your children to be so African would be honest politicians, ethical police officers, law-abiding citizens and children that can pretend to respect themselves, others, and those they consider beneath them

Jashub:
Are you ready to see homosexuality and other vices in the life of your child? If your answer is yes. Then go for western education.

You are as wrong as he is.

No culture is perfect. There is a lot wrong with a culture where most children need to take a drastic step before their parents begin to respect them as a person.

Rukkyken71:
Notin is really wrong with our way of life when it comes to bringing up a child, our way is the best with good morals but the problem is in the education and the environment. Our leaders have killed everything here in Nigeria, no good school apart from the private primary and secondary schools and most of them in some part of the country re not up to standard, they just have nice building and equipment. Our universities are finished, honestly there is notin left of our universities except maybe the private ones which u must be well to do before u could afford it. our health care centres are zero. if u hav the money to live abroad then pls do. Don't mind people telling u otherwise.

Yeah because the Western culture is always so beautiful, so civilised and so perfect

BadRadio:
Truth is that I am African but I dispise the standards in Africa. Africa seems too primitive, naive and backwards in terms of everything... and I've usually thought of raising my kids the British or American style.


of what importance is an African parents culture and tradition in raising their children the African way rather that the British or American way?


Would it be sensible if a child is a genius in English language than mother tongue.

Are there disadvantages.

You would think these people would move Medina in Saudi rabia or Isreal if they are so particular about the stupid names.

Because she buried placenta... .

MIL, you and your wife need a good spanking.

Praise God, another motivational speaker..

Lmao. Cross-dressing for entertainment is not new or western sha.

How sweet

Some of you are very extreme sha

yusufu16:
way to go. I dont give a f***k about family pressure. My kobo no dey go to any of my family members except may be my parents. Everyone should go and hustle for him/herself. No family member has helped me in this life, so nobody should expect anything from me.

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You are rich o. DStv bills and weekly airtime

If you like don't plan for yourself, you will soon come and tell us how Femi or his wife treated you despite all you did for Femi.

From Muslim to Yoruba Muslim

Unserious people

Lmao. Please let's not talk about the casting

pocohantas:
With Annie in there?

Great wife and mother, but a very terrible actress.

AY? It is going to be another terrible one

Why is it dark?

Lmao.

Start with a thicker batter than the usual, let it rise, beat it down before frying.

pocohantas:
I no fit remember am. It has been a while, I got the recipe online.

Lets see your recipe

pocohantas:
Whatever is wrong with your bread, can’t be worse than wetin dey worry my puffpuff. Ordinary puffpuff o!

Once I try fry am, e go resemble rhombus. E no dey ever round. I have given up.

I blame the Atenujes that made him a king.

Uhn?.
What happened to his father, mother, grandfather and grandmother?

Probably another agency we don't need

Your future in japan is too uncertain. Don't fall for luck BS. It is too big a risk imo.

You definitely don't want to live like a fugitive or a prisoner for a good number of years. You can't move around freely. Friends and employers will take advantage of your illegal status, you will feel like shit. You will be forced to move around with people without questionable morals because of survival.

Freemasonry:
You kept it really brief. Please more details will be appreciated.

What about SW?

still bandits...

Freemasonry

Don't go!

I can't wait for him to fail

I didn't expect much. Some terrible characters, some good ones. It was cheesy and cliche enough.

The biggest issue was the sexism but isn't it what it is in either society.