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The political social and religious structures of the world have belittled the feminine gender into being seen as nothing but second to the male gender.

And we need to add that women themselves are enablers of such attitudes.

These silly miscreants need to be stopped now! It would be suicidal to trust the intellectual capacity of any African secessionist from experience. There's always that stench of madness in their ideologies. This is how Boko Haram and MEND started. They usually sell the tale of being disenfranchised (which is most cases is often true) to gullible people who can't separate the wheat from the chaff, and then you find out the methods they use to carry out their vision is appropriately termed puerile, clueless, fanatical and the communities become worse than they were. The Nigerian and eastern governments better stop this now. Who is this Nnamdi Kanu that feels he can speak for Igbo people? Who did he consult? Are eastern governments just going to keep quiet until we have another boko haram on our hands?

This is a big sensitive issue. Nobody should pressure or judge them. The authorities need to brief them or rather counsel them on whatever psychological, health, social etc risks/benefits they may incur by keeping or aborting the child and then the woman can make her decisions after weighing the risks. I don't want to be caught making such decisions for anybody. I would just respect whatever decision she makes.

^^^Mr Thorpido

Whatever makes you sleep at night! Rotflmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FrancisTony:
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Lol. I don't know why they think anyone would want something that lacks self-control and can embarrass you by getting erec.tions at any slight prodding, ewww. I show my toenails, man don get erect.ion, I make a pout, e don get erection, if I come jiggle my boobs or bum bum, na die be that, lol. The pen.is is a source of embarrassment and lacks self control, why should anyone want it? Only animals or primitive people are permitted to lack self control not humans. This is even a good reason a woman is the superior human everrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

okotv:
Its in the minority if not a lot of women will not survive or become mental cases

Minority ke? Why do you think all these years Nigeria cannot just get it right? It is because of the majority Nigerian men that has been ruling in the political front as well as the home front.

okotv:
Not all of us are that bad. Just a minority tainting our hard earned image.

Minority abi majority?

Timbuktou:
Actually, I'm not drinking tonight.

The woman's body is designed to handle just that particular type of stress, not cockhopping like it's going outta fashion. Even this recuperation you're talking about, it never remains the same does it, except in a few exceptions.

If any woman bled for seven from any orifice/wound I would bleed from she wouldn't survive, would she? In fact, your monthly cycle is to prune you lot, isn't it? Get rid of the stale and get some freshness. Madam, the anatomy of the sexes isn't the same, and this difference calls for different maintenance techniques. Tell your sisters to stop acting like they have peenise and don't bleed every month

Blah, blah, blah, we didn't say you were useless, we're only saying we're superior. Every tool has its place and so do you lot. How often does DNA verification take place in the life of any one individual? We're talking daily value not exotic services.

Prostitution is the world's oldest profession and you say a vayjayjay can't handle 'stress'? A woman can push out a 7pound child bigger than any pe...nis in the world and you still say a vayjayjay can't handle stress?
The female anatomy self cleanses itself, better go and beg God to give you the ability to self cleanse yourself. Only God knows what you guys are harboring in your bellies. Even God prevented a man's sper.m from impregnating Mary before man will carry his bad luck follow Jesus. Nobody wants your iyama pe..nis, ewwww. *Pukes*

Lol, I don't know why serial fornicators and adulterers like Nigerian men always remember the bible when it comes to women. Hahaha. God cannot be mocked o. Yeye people.

Practice, practice, practice. And also enroll for public speaking classes and elocution classes.

coogar:
that is a woman now.
cos she has masculine features means she's a man?

Buhahaha!!!!!!!!!!!! I can see his erec.tions from here o.

Timbuktou:
Male sluts are different from female sluts in every way, for starters their tools are not the same. These different tools are not subject to the dynamics of wear and tear. A male career slut has more years in him than a female would.
The requirements for both sexes in being in and keeping a relationship are poles apart, as such, the standards to which they would be held are different. I say this for the umpteenth time, men have earned the right to keep a harem.

All these nkwobi, beer parlour analysis of the human anatomy. Timbuktou, drop that beer and try again, rotflmao.
Remember the female anatomy can push a live human from her anatomy, recuperate and move on with life. Try again on the wear and tear. Can you bleed 7days in a row without dying? The female anatomy has been strategically built to weather the storm. If any gender has earned any right on this planet as the supreme being it is the female gender because when we want to trace lineages we use the mitochondria DNA and you can only get your mitochondria DNA from yo mama. Take that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

coogar:
only in scotland......and it's their tradition.

scottish men have been wearing those kilts way before women had the nerve to wear anything that short. women back then were in their overflowing gowns that looked like a parachute.

Who's talking about the Scots traditional clothes? See the people we are competing with today and no woman has told him to remove his skirt.

Darkrebel666:
You are contracting yourself ..

You said she's exhibiting her feministic beliefs by dressing provocatively and I countered saying that is definitely not feminism .but sluttiness....

and feminism is not a behaviour like you said. That's gaffe.

"Feminism is a collection of movements and
ideologies that share a common goal: to define,
establish, and achieve equal political, economic,
cultural, personal, and social rights for women"

Beyonce is merely shaking her butt for money and you say that's her own way of portraying feminism

you know what.. just pass me that akure Igbo you've been smoking lately

To be honest, I absolutely agree with this.
Nobody should come and tell me since a man is proud of his sexuality, a woman should now disturb my eyesight with her butt and boo.bs. This is akin to a man showing his di.ck on stage. God willing I will call 911 straight.
Do we see men shaking their butts on the stage? I don't get this logic. These people have made stripping mainstream. If you are happy with your sexuality be happy in your bedroooooooooooom.
The thing society needs to do is to HOLD MEN BY THE STANDARDS FEMALES ARE BEING HELD BY. O ti tan, as my Yoruba people will say.
If a man cheats, he needs to be dealt with the way a woman is dealt with by society and not a woman needing to prostitute herself because we are all now equal.
I am going to petition the Queen of England to make words like prostitute, slut, LovePeddler to be unisex, no more gender specific. That is the way forward.
Signed by Stilllllllllllllllllllfireeeeee!

coogar:
perhaps you saw the bras of their several groupies.....they were kept as souvenirs. charlie boy doesn't wear bra. which boöbs would be put in the cups?

Rotflmao. Coogar, you and I know today that women are in competition with your gender in wearing skirts and blouses in the name of freedom. That ship has already sailed. We don't stop you when you wear our skirts. In fact I saw a man wearing a skirt yesterday with braided hair. I did not say Mr.Man gimme my skirt. I waka pass. My own is that I will ban men from going barechested sha for the sake of equality, bite me. Why should women give a free-show in the name of equality? Mba nu.

pickabeau1:
good u agree there is improvement.
general enligtenment, education and better economic opportunities favour eveyone irrespective of gender

can you explain the bolded or list what you mean
are u saying in the west, there are no issues in relationships also?

The issue in relationships in the West lie with excessive freedom or liberties and substituting one sexism with another sexism. While the comment you bolded has to do with the African society. If we are empowering girls, boys need to be taught to adapt to the empowered female. The recurring theme in many of my arguments between male and female relationship is totally against excessive freedom or giving one gender power over the other. Power is intoxicating and whether in male or female, people will bastardize the power they have over another.

5minsmadness:
Honestly my post wasn't directed at you. I saw some ladies mention sexual repression/African mentality and I went "ugh!". If I want to address you I will. You should know that about me by now.


Having said that^^^^ Everything is not fight. I see Stillfire snidely mentioning me and gearing up for a fight. I'm not up to it right now.


Having an orgasm should not be your priority in life.
Your parents did well to drum the evils of early sexual encounters into your ears and look how well you turned out(pls keep your head from swelling if u can). There are many ladies out there who got thrown out of school following early pregnancies and many more who have had thier wombs destroyed from early unsafe abortions. Surely you won't place those same predicaments on the same scale as your education and honour simply because u want to experience orgasm?

Also I would be hard pressed to believe the lovingingly delivered sexual cautions your parents gave u had the same dubious effect as a German brain washing technique and rendered u Sexually incompetent for life.
Come on, so your brother was never cautioned about bringing a pregnant lady home. If your answer is yes then you guys had a very strange upbringing.


The main problem I find with most ladies is that they take responsibility for nothing. Nothing at all. It's never thier fault. They always have somebody to blame. That is total immaturity in my books. And it could be a reason why they never achieve as much as their male counterparts.

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My first girlfriend was circumcised. I had seen other vaginas before but never gone round to first base(church things before I became corrupt ). She never had an orgasm but since she was my first she kept encouraging me by making silly noises. Now I may have been a virgin but I knew she was faking it. And it pissed me off. So when we broke up I did some research(both practical and theoretical). I actually took it as a challenge . We reunited a year later and I tried it out. The genuine sexual noises weren't what convinced me I had been successful , it was the juices that flowed out of her(not pee) and the sexuaI seizures she had. We had to change the sheets repeatedly. So you see, I don't need statistics to check if there is a center of gravity or clit-stimulation or all that jazz. I know because I have seen. It isn't faith for me. It's fact.[/size]

This is not something I feel comfortable talking about anyway. I'll stop here unless there are reasonable questions.

No vex. I know when you question a man's sexual prowess, you kill his ego patapata, rotflmao. Vexing only proves me righttttttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!! So no vex.

crackhaus:
Thanks for the elucidation, history professor without so much as a diploma in History
Still made no sense BTW, but keep trying...you'll get there eventually.


So who are the hypocrites campaigning for freeing the nip.ples?
White men or your comrades-in-arm feminists?

You really think I'm one of the people you do back and forth with here. Let me tutor you a bit, so you don't go and disgrace Nigerians outside.
The argument was their society rendered nudity as primitiveness and today want to resort to the same primitiveness and not a white man vs feminist issue you want to reduce my arguments to. Don't reduce my intellect to your petty kindergarten level. Logic is not your strongest forte. Stop reading with your feet.
Using the word feminist to create a men vs feminist war (I presume feminist here represents 'females', rotflmao such razzznesssss) is not only puerile, but shows the limitations you have with grammar and your poor vocabulary pool when a feminist can be a man or woman.

pickabeau1:
You r one of the few one can have a good debate with
I agree with these topical and burning issues

Don't you think this is linked to the prevailing economic and enlightenment issues here

I mean how many middle class fathers give out their daughters out if she is not educated

This is a human issue
Poverty perpetuates d cycle.

There are many factors, economic and enlightenment are one of them as you say. I would include tradition/cultural/religious practices especially in Northern Nigeria. I would also include home bringing. In the South, we see good statistics for girl literacy but there is a reliance of men being the providers so 'me as a woman do not need to do so much.' Also if we are interested in empowering the girls, are the boys ready for such empowerment? Because what I've found out is that many women have been empowered, but many men do not respond favorably to these empowerment and feel threatened especially in the arenas of family and relationships. Female empowerment is rubbish if the men are no taught to adapt to these changes in societal norms.

coogar:
charlie boy wears bra? where?

Check his closet you would see all kinds of bras there.
He has also posed nude, because of 'we live in a free world'. Imagine giving someone like Charley more freedom. We would be in deep sh..it.

pickabeau1:
Haha
At least you articulated a stand rather than liberal gobbledygook

So while we work on reducing views of male chests, why r ur sisters advocating total lawlessness


Good..in this case
I support all women to be feminists so they can stop angling for men's monies

Because these Western ones have 'bellefull'. In Africa we have bigger female issues to fry, like how we can reduce in female illiteracy, preventing Yerima from marrying our little daughters, to name a few.

crackhaus:
Okay I really didn't want to quote you, but I can't resist.


This makes no sense whatsoever.

It was western culture for men to cover up?
Please elucidate on this, because men have always walked around bare-chested last time I checked.

Who exactly are the hypocrites? Feminists (females) right?
Because they're the ones campaigning for this as far as I can tell.


If that first part makes no sense, this part is total and complete horse-shiit.

Africa a sexual hot-spot? You don't mean it.
Is the same Africa that is considered primitive to the white man according to you some paragraphs ago?

Next time dust your history books before you ever, ever quote me.
And Yesssssssssss, White men were sleeping with the so-called primitive African women. Hypocritical of them right? Absolutely!
Africa was what we would call today as a sexual hot-spot for them, they did not have such liberties in their own societies, but took such liberties in Africa and looked forward to their expeditions because of the free sex. It was so damning to the throne that it had to be put into law they should never have any sexual relationships with the primitive natives.

This is recorded.

Timbuktou:
1. Good luck

2. Good luck, again. We all know you women like male sluts. The sluttier the man, the higher his appeal.

Iyaaammmma, this is so last decade. Sluts stink. Me no want any man with baggage. Iyammmaaa. Only God knows where he his dipped his thingy in this age of men poking animals.

coogar:
what next?
men should also wear skirts & bras? men should volunteer 5 days in a calendar month to wear sanitary pads so as to attain equality?

Don't get sentimental coogar. Some of your brothers already wear skirts and bras whether still in the closet or outside the closet, go and ask charley boy or denrele, so we have already crossed that bridge abeg. Now is the time to ban you from showing me your 39 A cup breasts abeg.

shevon:
American women secretly admiring Koma women since the days of old

Abi o.

pickabeau1:
hold your horses

Take the issue one by one

1. men's nip-ples are not censored in media unlike women's. should womens' be?


2. men can move around barechested say in a beach or pool. should women be able to do so (not nudist beach)

why advocate for less freddom when that boat has passed

3. do you believe the breasts became sexualized by the white man

This is an equality issue and as a conservative prude I really do not want to see another woman or man's chest randomly.
1, 2) Western men should be told to cover up instead rather than Western women not covering up. That was their culture, otherwise they are hypocrites for campaigning for nipple freedom since they insinuated African women as primitive for being bare-chested, unless they are now the primitive ones. Society dictates to the media and not the other way round. Excessive sexual freedom does nothing for society rather you unleash deviants with loose morals to the society.

3) Brea.sts were sexualized by societies who covered up the chest area, primarily the white man. And Africa was known as a sexual hot-spot to the white man due to the nudity in Africa. Such nude liberties cannot even work in Africa today, because African minds have been polluted already.

Nigerian men are my worst enemy sha. Tehehehe!

I haven't read the whole ten page, just the topic.
But this is rubbish!
This is the same West that ridiculed my foremothers for being bare-chested and called them primitive. Now they want to be naked. They are hypocrites as far as I'm concerned. If it were African women on this campaign, I will support them. Not these hypocrites.
Besides, as a confirmed, unabashed prude, I don't believe in the excessive exposure of sexuality. Please I don't want my eyes bastardized. Imagine seeing a man walking with his di.ck out all in the name of freedom, I will be the first to call the police.
The same old standards of sexuality women are held to, men should be held to such standards.
If women cannot go barechested, men should not be allowed to go barechested, rather than since men can go barechested, women should as well. Since women are slut-shamed, men MUST be slut-shamed! All sluts male and female are deviants to society and should be prosecuted. This is my kind of equality.

We have a slut-shaming culture that portrays any sexually active (unmarried) lady as filthy. Do you grow up like that,get married and suddenly change overnight into an unabashed unshackled sexual being? Fat chance.

Are you minding him? There's absolutely no need in feigning ignorance to this important factor especially in a Nigerian setting. Most girls don't even know what it looks like down there and think it's the man's job to unravel all the mysteries. Meanwhile many of these men have no damn clue and since the girl doesn't want any wahala because telling a man you suck at sex or his pe.nis is not satisfying kills his self esteem faster than a speeding bullet. So women just make the required sounds and let him feel on top of the world. Some have already started boasting here of their nonexistent prowess.

@topic
Normally, people generally think it's penetration that makes a woman reach or.ga.sm, which is wrong. The cli.to.ris is the principal organ to reaching orgasm. Which makes sense because the clit is analogous to the pe.nis. There's even current research questioning the idea/myth of the g..-spot. Cum.ming through penetration, is more likely the clit being stimulated by the incessant pounding on the pubis which is enhanced by having a shorter distance between the clit and vagina. And when stimulating the clit with your fingers, use a lubricant. Don't go and use your African callused fingers you have used to pound yam to stimulate it and expect to cu.m, you would only end up bruising yourself. The skin is soft, keep the area slippery or wet.

cococandy:
nne are you my lost twin?

Seriously I try not have word fights with fellow ladies on NL even the very annoying ones and those ones that hide behind new monikers to wish me and my family ill.

Na swallow and ignore mode I dey try for that side.

The guys are the ones in for it.
#sorryguys.

Lol, I doubt I have ever quoted someone like mutter before. That woman really dey write some kain thing. Where is she sef? I miss her.
If pickabeau writes half of what she writes, God knows I would have pounced on him long time ago.
Pickabeau na joke o.

Ewuro4:
Don't you just love the freewill to make your own rules??

I should get a binder for mine.


It's relative. You agree?

Our experience shapes our mentality and belief.

I'm staring at the ugly backside of what is facing you ( a yoruba adage )

Yeah experience, that is why I included it in my initial statement. I find myself in girl groups more often than not, heck I have 3 sisters, enough estrogens to last me for a millennium. The more troublesome the girl, the more likely she detests females, from my experience of course.

VictoriaBee:
She was supporting men.

She thinks licking men butt and getting validation fron NL guys would mean she has a happy home whereas, she's a frustrated housewife.

That's harsh. She can support whoever. We can all agree to disagree, that's my policy for NL women only . For NL men, they don't have such privileges, we fight to the end.

VictoriaBee:
I've dealt with that foolish girl called ewu4 = goat.

She's also a tribalist. Very hateful thing.

What happened? I didn't read the thread o. You people can agree to disagree without fighting now.