₦airaland Forum

ronkebp: ^^^^^^ Taryour what is funny?

dayokanu: Abi.

The same DIL that were complaining 30yrs ago, have now become the wicked MIL of today, In the next 30yrs the victimised DIL would then become the wicked MIL

I have even heard girls pray that their MIL dies before they get married and I tell them hopefully your DIL would pray you die too before she can marry your son

mutter: it is simply wonderful. Even when my son was like three I would still marvel when I look at him, "So this is real! I am really a mother"".
On the last count i think i hear the word mama about 2 times every minute when my kids are awake and I can tell you that it is not always fun.
Mama,Mama! Mama!! Mama!!!!!!!!!!!
He pushed me, I need this, he does not want to give me... he is laughing at me, can I .....

Tgirl4real: My baby called 'memmmi' wen she was around 9months. She stopped and later continued after some time. Now she sings it.

dayokanu: What I say in this is that I solemnly pray that the way you treat your MIL is the way your own DIL would treat you in the coming years

Hope I would get an AMEN to that this time around

Cos I rarely see ppl complain about Father in Laws, its always MIL vs DIL

ekina: Helo NLs,i nd ur advice on dis isue affectn my family right now;my family is facin some financial crises n d only way out of it as said by my fada is 2 sell his landed property,my mum is strongly against it but my fada sees it as d only alternative,he's into automobile bussines but money is nt flowin in dis season.he asked abt my view on dis isue 2nite on fone as he is nt in d Nig presently n i told him i wuld reply 2morow,so pls post in ur views should he sel his property or waits til he sels d goods.

Tgirl4real: ehn ehn BB,

one man to 4 wives neva do abi? mtchewww

Abeg, as anyone noticed a change on NL? Friends have become followers .. .

Na only followers, what about disciples? heheheheehe

Tgirl4real: Busybody, would u go back and get that cake ready

Where d party at o? Me neva chop for 3 days o

ifyalways: I don't see where you went wrong,your woman just have to chill out and relax some more but you guys have to work on the communication lines;keeping it open,sincere and flowing at all times.long distance marriage/affair always comes with the communication challenge so what you are facing now ain'T strange .

btw,are you thinking of coming back to naija now?i would suggest that before you do,start now to hunt for work,your wife is here,what a really nice woman that wants her husband close to her ought to do is to start networking,checking out firms,telling friends and family and handing out your cv just incase something comes up. . .
coming home on vacation with some change in the pocket is entirely different from living here oh. . .big difference so don'T just rush home.do your homework well,factor in the high cost of living 'averagely well' here before you relocate.

rokiatu: Ok I am being told by some people...ok not some people my stupid friends that you can smell sex on a man after been intimate with another woman. Some are saying that he will hit the shower as soon as he comes home. By the way I am not doubting my hubby or anything but they are already advising me to look out for signs like those as you can not trust men. But can you catch a cheating partner just by their mere scent?

chrizfasa: though, i was told by a woman friend that the reason is because of the pains, like in the afternoon the pains conbime to the sun and so many noise and side talks can make the mother to lose her life and the childs own.lol but is this real?

sophy09: So my fiance and I are thinking of having a destination wedding after the whole engagement wedding. We both want to get married either in st Lucia or the Bahamas

with both parents included or excluded. Both parents are against it because they feel it is going to be expensive for everyone family members which include

grandparents, aunts uncles,niece, nephew etc to be there. We informed them that no-one needs to be there since we are both adults and we have done the engagement

thing in which all the family members were involved. We gave them what they wanted which was the engagement. Now the two parents are pissed off, they want the

marriage to be done in Lagos where everyone and anyone can be there. My fiance and I are ready for the destination wedding but we do not want the whole family to

feel bad about not being there. There are side talks already about how expensive it will be, my dad having to give me away blah blah which is starting to be

annoying. So my fiance was like we should give them the wedding in Nigeria and have our destination anniversary next year, which to me is going to be expensive if

we do it that way. So my question is to should I go along with my fiance or should I stick to our plan of destination wedding.

ronkebp: HMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mollytinrox: I'm trying not to be bitter about this, but my mum keeps blaming my dad for not allowing her continue her education after marriage. She had her OND when they got married and couldn't continue cos my dad wanted her to stay home and look after the kids and all that. Now, he's been dead for like five years and things have been kinda rough, but we've pulled through. My mum uses every slight opportunity to tell us it was my dad who kept her where she is today. I've been keeping quiet all this while but one of these days I may just have to give her a piece of my mind! My dad was responsible, wanting the best for his family(kids and wife). He had his shortcomings but what human doesn't ? I have two siblings that were 7 and 4 when he died, and my mum's picture doesn't help their thoughts of my dad. Pls what do I do? People who had their masters back then will still find it difficult to raise five kids in today's Nigeria. Pls how do I tell her? Yet she says she loves my Dad. It hurts me to hear her say my dad ended her life.

Yomieluv: why hmmmmm,is it not possible? I promise to love my wife,come rain,come sunshine.