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Y is d boy living with u? Are u married? I think you should take dat boy to his mother for proper care. Ur sister should b d one fighting d boys father and not you. If u strangle him becos of d hate u feel for him,my dear u will end up in jail. I can understand y u feel so bad but if ur sister isnt showing so much concern then u dont av much say cos i still dont understand y ur sis is living with her husband now without her son,or is she hiding it from for her hubby? Or maybe there is more to dis dat u avnt said.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ gulps

er, CC e nor easy o! Ever since hubby travelled, I've been left holding the baby & kids. Annoying thing is they say they don't really miss their dad

And my little one is teething [/quote]pele my dear, i know wot it feels like when hubby is away, me no even like am at all but wetin i wan do cos moneys must enter now. Lol

@cc how una dey and all yours? I missed nairaland too but wetin i wan do, i gas to run dis money race well o (ere owo ni mo n sa o ) plus my little charming prince was teething also. One love to u all my nairaland family...

Tgirl4real: awwww . . . . cute! someone came to the rescue

my dear u are right but it dosnt look like she has intrest in d advice.

@ Op, my dear i av been reading all tru d post and i hope u dont intend goin for d option of a stripper oo,it will do u no good n i hope u dont regret ur actions,i will nver advice anyone to do it and am sure those advicing u to be a stripper would never advice their own blood sisters to go into such. My dear when there is life there is hope,alot of pple are going thru d same thing u are facing now or even worse and yet they av kept thier hopes up. Dont loose ur pride as a woman for money cos u will never b able to buy it back. There are lots of decent things u can engage in and alot as be listed out for u in dis thread so pls av a second though and act wisely.

ronkebp: So it is my turn, will just appreciate him anyways even if he will not read it, as he does not come on NL....

This is to my Onitemi, my heart beat, my sweetness, my love, my trouble...
I thank you and appreciate you for all the values of love, understanding, patience, individuality, responsibility, integrity, loyalty, enjoyment/fun, honesty, dignity, influence, generousity, persistency, discipline, optimism, dedication and so on you have brought to our union. you are indeed a good man [to an extent though] . I love you and chrish you, even if i don't say it always....

oga oo. Iyawo..

Johndoe100: You say you are single? Are you fine?What you need is a good man. Let's hook up.

ha ha oga john,but u done marry na. Lol

ronkebp: You are right poster.....the truth {from my own point of view} is, everyday is a new day and it comes with it's own problems....do not think for once that your wife does not appreciate what you do....some women just use that line when they are angry but i am telling you, the next minute, she is on her knees praying for you....do not take it to heart, she really appreciates everything you do, no matter how little.

said it all.....

ronkebp: Naso....na your type they will beat finish and lock you up in the wardrobe, oju loro wa indeed....if the person you dey e-fight na one rugged, ajegunle, omo-tiiti---kind of chic, by the time she shows you the yams wey dey her leg...you go run...i don't do face-face fight, only with my hubby ...but anyother, ontop computer i carry go all the way...i don't want anyone to scratch my adorable face or break my nails....i spend time in the spa biko...and it cost money!!!

lol. I pity my fine face oo. Koni funny rara if dat kain tin happen,i can only begin to imagine d 4 40 race i go pik dat day...

ronkebp: Little wonder , you dey do good girl...on this forum...good wifey... , my hubby prefers to be counting money than typing.... so i am free to jump, chat, insult anybody...the day he catches me, that day,,bye-bye to NL niyen!!!

hahahahaha, me na gentle lady o,anytime anywere. E-fight no fit put money in my pocket na so wots d point getting into it,d person at d oda end of d computer sef fit be one small pikin or even dwaft,or pesin wey no get brain at all. If i go fight at all na face to face o my sister, oju ni oro wa.... Shikena!!!

ronkebp: This is part of the reasons i wished my hubby was on NL to appreciate me, i know he has millions of reasons to say THANK YOU, to the one and only Ronkelistic poyoyo!!!!any other is a counterfeit,a prototype...omolangidi!!!! ....

ol'boy see heavy laff dis early momo,ronkus don kill me with laff. Eiya pele shogbo. My own hubby dey nairaland ooo *winks*

2mch: Wrong, Debrief story states she never was able to get pregnant with her ex, who was the problem. But she was humiliated by him and called barren. So this is her story.

2mch are u sure? I cant even seem to find debrief story again,can u pls show d link,wana compare d stories..

ronkebp: Thank you oooo jare, my hubby does not care for trivial things like this, we would just enter the bathroom and do one round....lobaa kpari!!!

the ronkus ronkus!!! I hail thee ooo. Ur head dey dia gidigba....

[quote author=tpia@]Read this from somewhere,would av put d source but i cant get to do it.

A husband dropped his wife off at the airport thinking she was goin to lagos as she told him. Unknown to him,his wifey had turned back after he bidded her farewell,she went to her lover's house to spend the night. When the aircrash happened, it was assumed she was on the flight.

But the wife later came home and confessed she had been with her lover and so this saved her life. She gave testimony in church.

As a man wot would u do?

If it were me oo,i will give a testimony o to God for sparing my wifey,i would be so happy so much that i would forget to be angry to fight her for cheating on me. But then after it as all died down,we would talk to ensure such never happens again.[/quote]what fun do you find in modifying other peoples post and topics?

[quote author=tpia@]Read this from somewhere,would av put d source but i cant get to do it.

A husband dropped his wife off at the airport thinking she was goin to lagos as she told him. Unknown to him,his wifey had turned back after he bidded her farewell,she went to her lover's house to spend the night. When the aircrash happened, it was assumed she was on the flight.

But the wife later came home and confessed she had been with her lover and so this saved her life. She gave testimony in church.

As a man wot would u do?

If it were me oo,i will give a testimony o to God for sparing my wifey,i would be so happy so much that i would forget to be angry to fight her for cheating on me. But then after it as all died down,we would talk to ensure such never happens again.[/quote]what fun do you find in modifying other peoples post?

[quote author=man_j]I cant even to mention half of the wrong things I have done to my mother and my ex wife. I am on my way for another round of tests and treatments abroad, I feel I may not make it back, I didnt want to die with my pain and regrets, I only wish someone else can learn from my story and not make the same mistakes. My greatest regret is taking the smile away from my wife, her smile lights up a room, I made her stop smiling and laughing, her laugh was infectious, but I made her stop laughing at home and in public, I completely humiliated her, hurt her and broke her spirit. I am only happy that she found a good man, if i die I am happy because she is in good hands, She also has the kids she deserves, now I see her smiling and laughing again and I am happy, how hard it must have been for her those years, how many nights she must have cried those days, now its my turn to cry, yes a full grown man crying. I really hope no one gets to live this way.[/quote]U ARE NOT GOING TO DIE IN JESUS NAME AMEN. GOD HAS SEEN HOW REMORSEFUL YOU ARE,HE HAS FORGIVEN YOUR SINS. HE WILL SEE YOU TRU AND BRING HAPPINES TO YOU AGAIN. U STILL HAVE ALOT TO ACHIEVE IN LIVE MY BROTHER SO GET WELL SOON AND COME SHARE THE GOOD NEWS WITH US AS WE WILL B WAITING TO REJOICE WITH YOU..... WISHING YOU SPEEDY RECOVERY.

[quote author=man_j]I cant even to mention half of the wrong things I have done to my mother and my ex wife. I am on my way for another round of tests and treatments abroad, I feel I may not make it back, I didnt want to die with my pain and regrets, I only wish someone else can learn from my story and not make the same mistakes. My greatest regret is taking the smile away from my wife, her smile lights up a room, I made her stop smiling and laughing, her laugh was infectious, but I made her stop laughing at home and in public, I completely humiliated her, hurt her and broke her spirit. I am only happy that she found a good man, if i die I am happy because she is in good hands, She also has the kids she deserves, now I see her smiling and laughing again and I am happy, how hard it must have been for her those years, how many nights she must have cried those days, now its my turn to cry, yes a full grown man crying. I really hope no one gets to live this way.[/quote]U ARE NOT GOING TO DIE IN JESUS NAME AMEN. GOD HAS SEEN HOW REMORSEFUL YOU ARE,HE HAS FORGIVEN YOUR SINS. HE WILL SEE YOU TRU AND BRING HAPPINES TO YOU AGAIN. U STILL HAVE ALOT TO ACHIEVE IN LIVE MY BROTHER SO GET WELL SOON AND COME SHARE THE GOOD NEWS WITH US AS WE WILL B WAITING TO REJOICE WITH YOU..... WISHING YOU SPEEDY RECOVERY.

matriach: I am not sure! I have thought about it several times and with what i know now I cant say.I am reasonably happy in my marriage and have no plans of it ever breaking up so dont get me wrong.But there are definitely somecharacteristics that he has that i would rather not have had to face. The major one being his attitude to money, he works hard but is always in debt. No savings, no investments nothing to show. Luckily I work and earn a decent salary and most of all I save. Unfortunately now I have to hide my savings from him cos he has borrowed from me soo many times and never repayed. The last straw was when I fell ill and my parents had to foot my hospital bill cos I had emptied my account for him and he had no money.
He has his good points but this particular bad one makes me wonder if I would do it all over again. As for now, i have laid my bed so I am making it as comfortable as possible so I can lie in it.

my dear i realy feel for u, my little advice is dat u can help ur husband save hismoney.

1st sit wit him n tok abt it, once he gets his salary,let him give u at least 20% of it,keep it in a new bank acct preferably a fixed deposit were he wunt gain much acess in his name to erase all doubt.

2nd do 95% of all d buyings dat he needs,up to his undies.
My dear am sure u know how to put dis discussion with ur hubby down so he dosnt feel u are being rude or prying too much.
I do not suport a joint accout but i tink u both will need it,cos no one can get acess to d mony axcept d oda party signs.
I hope my little advice would make a change... Goodluck

Johndoe100: By now should have understood Jenny. She is a woman with a very bad case of inferiority complex. She comes from one of those lower middle class Ibo families, and has probably always envied those around her who had a degree of luxury. Still living almost at the same level, her complex has taken the form of extreme radical feminism. Most women from well to do families have less radical views. They are too self assured for all that. They forgive, I have never heard anyone who has money hold views like she does. It’s a sign of a complex.

GBAM!!! Ododo oro.

Mayflowa: @ Jenny
I see you had issues with the OP before. I just went through that thread. IMO, Tay was somewhat wrong in her post and defense in that thread by saying women are not equal to men. I can never agree with that even though they have different role they play as husband and wife and as sister and brother. But in this thread, I believe is will be a greater wickedness to wish death on anyone especially your husband that you bore children by. You can go file for divorce if you so wish later.
I am sorry for my utterances. Just take every thread differently so that no one will miscontrue you.

its so unfortunate u are read a diffrent meaning to my thread as alot of pple also did on dat thread just as alot of pple who understood my points on dat same thread saw reasons with me.

As for jenny,na she sabi wetin dey pain am. She is by default a SADDEST and everyone on nl knows her for being a SADDEST.

ronkebp: Ose dear....that Mr. Coogar is something else, see as he analyze my 'kolo-menatlity'' with a picture!!!! first to do no dey pain now....na second to do, eye go red!!!!

i hope mr coogar will remember to take his first aid box which should also include SUPER GLUE to glue his broken ribs back cos am sure his own episode of kolo laff go get serious injury wey go join am.

ronkebp: Coogar, i am literally sitting on the ground and laughing my a/r.se. out...........you gat to be kidding me.....you are a proper agbaya!!!!

I Can't get over this...someone please help!!!!!!!!!!![my stomach ooooo]

pele my dear..
Pele shogbo??

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]E se ma. E ma binu o.[/quote]nahhh,not angry at all. Just pulling ur legs.

jennykadry: Another poster with a low self esteem issue. Ode

low self esteem or no low self esteem,i still better pass u in a zillion ways,i better pass u in everyway u can ever imagine or think of and e go dey pain u till eternity,till u leave d surface of dis planet earth.

Pele shogbo? Lol

Abali1: God forbid it, but you will agree with me that you still want him alive, even if you guys are seperated or divorced. At least, he is better off alive, for the sake of the children even though you will not wish to share your bed with him again.

No woman wants to share her man with another, also many women will not want to be widowed at a young age. Thus, what the op said has little to do with low self esteem.

my dear u too make sense.. God bless u and yours...

Johndoe100: Iya aje. Ka bo.
See our "christian lady". Orishi rishi. O shin wa eje to ma mu ati ile enyo to ma fo?

Lol

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]A man that has been secretly sharing his life with another woman? A man that has disrespected his wife emotionally and physically?

Honest to God, such life should not be spared. But who am I to decide?[/quote]my dear u said u aint married,u just wait till u get married n start aving kids then u will understand wot am saying.

For those saying i av low self esteem,na dem sabi. Me don yarn my own. If d man was caught on a neutral ground would av been a diffrent case but with d circumstance surrounding d issue,haba am sure 99percent of woman will b overjoyed at first. WHICH SANE WOMAN WOULD WANT TO MOURN HER HUSBAND IN BLACK CLOTHS,WHICH GOOD MOTHER WOULD WANT TO BE CALLED A WIDOW AT AN EARLY AGE

Read this from somewhere,would av put d source but i cant get to do it.

A wife dropped her husband off at the airport thinking he was goin to lagos as he told her. Unknown to her,her hubby had turned back after she bidded him farewell,he went to his mistress house to spend the night. The wife and lovedones on hearing the ill fated dana plane crash that ad no survivours cried so bitterly over the loss of her husband. While mourning and planning on how to get to lagos to identify her husbands corpse, her husband came home and confessed and also gave a testimony for his saved life.


As a woman wot would u do?

If it were me oo,i will give a testimony o to God for sparing my hubby,i would be so happy so much that i would forget to be angry to fight him for cheating on me. But then after it as all died down,we would talk to ensure such never happens again.

ronkebp: My dear it is not a good idea oooo, no matter how much you trust your other half, it is better to avoid fire instead of looking for an extinguisher when it happens.

Personally, i would pray and fast and fortify my house with nails and bullets, before i allow any friend to stay with me and that would be only for 2 weeks tops.

Lol

ronkebp: I don't see anything wrong in telling your daughter when she is of age some personal things, (and underline ''some''), it gives her an idea of what to expect, there are so many ladies that are just figure heads in bed, and their sexual life is nothing to write home about, there is a limit to things, and it is not that one will divulge everything to her, but some things in a very matured way. My mum told me that her hubby was the first in her life, did she tell me how my day did the shege No nAAA!!! but majority of what she said, has been very useful. Sex education goes beyond telling a child to use condom and birth controol pills.

i agree with u jare,ur head dey dia.

@gaggi
nawa for una,y are u exagerating things na, telling ur female child abt dis dosnt mean to tell her everything in details. I for one person would teach my female children all abt sex,tell her abt all my mistakes in life and how to prevent it from hapening to her, i will tell her the excact age i lost my virginigy without any lies. I would rather her learn most of d sex education from me rather than from her friends or in movies. My daughter is gona b my best friend and i her best friend where she wunt feel shy to discuss anything wotsoever with me. Shikena!!!

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Do I share myself with the public, you ask?
I share my smiles, that is enough



KK, topic, back to topic [/quote]eku igbadun oo. Hope u guys ad alota fun

Tinkybabe: honeric01 and Ileke-IdI have suceeded in derailing the topic *flogs both of them outta the thread* *feeling of satisfaction*
Now back to topic
I can imagine the feeling.hmm,can't wait to experience it too

Lol. My dear dont mind the both of them o jare,i av been watching them both all d while,theyare just catching their fun.