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Dreamsinbc: @George, lol! No o, I didn't. Just took off time to travel for some training. You can reach me on Glo. Do you still have it? Let me know.
@Geminilove, I only teach people how to make flowers of all types for now. I'm fully focused on gumpaste flowers.

pls would u be kind enough to post the recipe and measurement for gumpaste? Would realy apreciate it.tnx

[quote author=Joel.]i was in a church one faithful sunday and preaching was going on, there was a girl who sat very close & next to me. At first i didn't take notice of her but not until she started staring at me from side, each time i tried to look back at her she quickly look forward, while doing all this she was using her body to touch, rob & relax on my body from side. Then i decide to check her out, Wow nice big breast she has gotten with shape, i was just thinking inside my heart men if i rush this breast, blow nonesense and air out of her, although she was a little bit older than me, but i was really attracted. at this time i was reckless, lost focus, my body beggan to charge so hard, for crying out loud it was a seduction abuse inside the church. my mind was like, What to do, what if i talk to her, not inside the church are u mad, church ke? wot different does it make, men it count don't do it, oboy don't lose this babe oh, but what if this was an evil plan, i was confused and don't knw what to do. While resisting her she keep doing it. It got to a point i Couldn't bear it anymore. I confronted her, hello, u live around here? She kept quite, i repeat again hello, i'm talking to u, what your's name, do u live around here? This time I didn't realize it was a bit louder as people seating at the back, side & front just turned to us & start looking at me. Then she replyed with a fran face saying, any problem? can i help u? & people around was just looking at my mouth, i was like short of words. But as a sharp guy i just buned them, hard up and started talking to her and ask for her number but she just gave a deft ear, i tried talk to her, convience her, make her see reason why i need to get her number. Why i was even doing all this was that i aready ve started it, so just want to make sure i finish it to avoid fuc.ked up. but the impretion she was given me was not encourraging. i was really embarrassed. Later After some time she started doing it again. This time i just stand up dress my chair away off her and sat at a convenient place although she keep staring but not able to touch me anymore. My question is to Ladys in the house what is wrong with her?[/quote]Lol
bros, odi qwa risky oo!!!

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Na wa for you o!

Na so, so woman full your mind today sef. The one wen you do for church nor do you? [/quote]LWKMD..


@op,guy nawa for you oo. If you like go chop your younger sister friend finish and clean mouth,na kasala you enter so as you go just turn father begin to wash baby cloth and change diapers.... Pele oo, ori obirin loni

jennykadry: Tell your friend that jennykadry said she is not serious. Mschewwwww

Lol....

@op indeed your friend is not serious at all. I just hope and pray for her own good she dosnt catch any of those STDs since she has refused to use protections knowing fully well of the risk she is exposing herself too.

jennykadry: Tell your friend that jennykadry said she is not serious. Mschewwwww

Lol....

@op indeed your friend is not serious at all. I just hope and pray for her own good she dosnt catch any of those STDs since she has refused to use protactions knowing fully well of the risk she is exposing herself too.

Divepen: my grandmother took me to a pastor who said i must not collect anything from my mother
my mother and propietress said i my paternal grandmother, who i live with is a witch.
HELP

how old are you that you have already filled your head up with such toughts and even visiting pastors You havnt even faced life challenges at all,what will you now do when yoy become a full grown man with family and start facing varous challenges U better go and beg your mother and grandmother for forgiveness,u realy need thier blessings and support.as mac as said,get busy you are a man...

Richvkunt: OP,
There comes a time in every mans life when performance MIGHT/WILL decrease.The wise wife knows how to handle these issues.It is quite possible that your husband has noticed his declining performance and purchased these drugs to boost his performance and satisfy YOU.
Men are egotistical animals and it is equally possible that his ego would not allow him to discuss his shoddy performance with you and as such has resorted to taking these booster drugs to satisfy YOU.
How you as a wife handle these issues now could determine if his performance would improve or decline,because right now i feel he needs your understanding in order to boost,rather than shatter his confidence.Tread carefully in discussing the issue with him and you can even in a coy manner suggest the usage of performance enhancing medication without giving him the impression that you already know he is using such drugs.
Stop thinking the worst of your man and encourage him to regain his confidence through open lines of communication.
He is your husband and you know him better than anyone on this forum.The greatest enhancement drug to boost his libido is YOU,if you know what I mean.

very nice one

Wow
op if i was in your shoes,i wunt confront him cause i might be wrong in my assumptions. What i would do is quitely take d drugs and keep it were he cant find it,and if he gets another one i would take it again and keep,if he keeps buying i keep takin them,while this little game is goin on i would keep record of our intimacy.if our intimacy is normall and he dosnt come home late from work and also continues his responsibility as the man in the house,then i would just keep quite and watch and pray to God,cause i dont have tangible evidence to suspect my man,i would also remove the thought that he might be seeing anothet woman from my head so i dont get myself to blame if he turns out innocent. Although the pill will keep me up but i would find a better and aprioprate way to discus the issue with him without it sounding like he might be cheating on me now. As a woman i should know words to use with my hubby and words not to use else i would be sending the trust and peace in my home down the drain, all you need do is apply the wisdom of a good and responsible wife that you are. Good luck

weselove: Good day all,
am so very sad and wants to talk to someone,
Iam married with three beautiful kids, work in a commercial bank which prevents me from having quality time with my kids, i really dont mind cos we do not have another option for now, my annoyance lies in the fact that even though i work very hard and also do my work deligently to the satisfaction of my internal and external customers, i rarely get promoted, a recent promotion list just came out and my name was not on the list even though my appraisal score was perfect, i feel so demoralised because even my juniors have rissen to higher level, i do trust in my God but then it is just so painful.

my dear u had better not injure urself oo, where does ur husband work?does he earn more dan u do? Well i think u should worry more abt spending more quality time with ur kids and ur husband.worry more abt how to manage finances with ur hubby so u can raise ur kids in d best possible way. U are a woman and ur no one priority should b ur home not ur job. Tnk God u av a good job,concentrate more on d lovely family God has blessed u with. Remember d live spam of a job is much longer than dat of we human being. Goodluck

weselove: Good day all,
am so very sad and wants to talk to someone,
Iam married with three beautiful kids, work in a commercial bank which prevents me from having quality time with my kids, i really dont mind cos we do not have another option for now, my annoyance lies in the fact that even though i work very hard and also do my work deligently to the satisfaction of my internal and external customers, i rarely get promoted, a recent promotion list just came out and my name was not on the list even though my appraisal score was perfect, i feel so demoralised because even my juniors have rissen to higher level, i do trust in my God but then it is just so painful.

my dear u had better not injure urself oo, where does ur husband work?does he earn more dan u do? Well i think u should worry more abt spending more quality time with ur kids and ur husband.worry more abt how to manage finances with ur hubby so u can raise ur kids in d best possible way. U are a woman and ur no one priority should b ur home not ur job. Tnk God u av a good job,concentrate more on d lovely family God has blessed u with. Remember d live spam of a job is much longer than dat of we human being. Goodluck

sweetcocoa: What is this OP saying?

What did he do to his daughter please?

my sister i tire oo

@op if it was ur daughter or wife or any relative of urs,u just simple pull him or her with d hair while his or her body tags along with u,hopefully by the time u get to the oda side of d flood,he or she wouldnt av drowned,infact dey would reay tnk u and crown u HERO.

anitank: I dated this guy for 8 whole year and I loved him wit evrything I am. I could tell that he even loved me much more. We have a son together. Our wedding date was fixed for d 9th of april dis year and I was particularly very excited because I was finally goin to get married to d only man I ever loved. After d most magical vals day we spent together, he was travelling back to abuja, had an accident and died! Now dat dream of marrying d man I love is gone.
If I decide to get married tomorrow, its neva goin to be for love but because I have to get married. If I end up loving the man,then he's lucky.

OMG!!! Accept my heart felt condolence dear,God bless u and ur son. God will surely give u strenght and see you tru it all. Pele my dear..

Very lovely

UncleN: This happened to you barely a year ago, you have a baby who is currently 6/7 months old, where is your baby and its Mother (your ex-wife) whom you tricked into returning to Nigeria JUST TO PUNISH HER, knowing she had mental problems?

Who in their sane mind would allow you to marry their daughter "knowing" your history?

You are deeply in love indeed!!!

wow... U never even knew of dis tread u quoted, dis world na wa o

Some men realy deserves to b roasted and diced into cubes for vultures to feed on. If he is cute and hardworking nko Does he have a brain at all

Op i think you married this man cause of his money,if not u wunt leave ur job now there is no money you dey vex. Did u say boyfriend Which right thinking sane man will date a lady nursing a newborn baby?

Instead of u to fashi dat ur hubby for now,be strong forurself and ur unborn child,run around to friends,familymembers and see if u can raise some money to set up a small bizness to hold u and ur child in place till dis man relises his mistake....

Op i agree with ify,or betterstill rent her an apartment not to far from u to prevent any futher baetins from her mum and so u can visit as often as u can.

Steal or took

Johndoe100: Sorry oh, I have to ask this: what is wrong in fuvcking a woman? The last time I checked they opened their legs because they enjoyed the activity.
Please you women should free the brother. Women were born to be fuvcked both literaly and figuratively.

its a difrent tin wen u pik a prost to bleep. Am sure dey av been comunicatin for 1 year keeping d ladies hopes up....

ifyalways: Inexperienced to marry her but very experienced,skillful and sharp in fvcking her,right?

i agree with u.

Infact op i wish she hooks u down sef, so u dint know all dis befor fuvcking her abi? What a wicked soul u are, would u allow a man treat ur sister as such

NnamdiN: Abi I dey see double, in ur oda thread u were molested as a kid by ur dad(female), and here u are a married man ?

for real

Confilass: @ taryour, we're saying same thing.

I've seen a mad woman in Ajah with two kids (a boy & girl). I do c how caring dis lady is to her children talkless of a mother who is not insane with two legs and hands coming after 23yrs to tell u stories (dat's bullshit man).

Stay with ur adopted parents and don't make dem feel bad, they deserve ur love now (let dem reap what dey sow).

GBAM!!!

eduson33: ABEG OOOOOOOOOOOOOO,NO BE ME THE THING HAPPEN TO...I REJECT IT CAUSE IF ITS ME,I GO USE CUTLASS CUT THEIR LEGS!

but u never indicated dat,u typed it like it happend to u. U should go and modify ur post

if this story is tru its a big shame on ur biological mother.
its so painfull. If it were to b me oo,as far as am concerned, d ones who adopted me are my real parents,and d odas can go to hell.
For 23years they forgot u existed or what? Most especialy d woman who gave birth to u am sorry to say she isnt a good mother, where was she wen u were growin from infant to tenage to adult, tru all ur teething periods,all d while u ad cold,all d while u fussed as an infant,tru ur thick and thin as a child,all d nyts ur kept ur adopted mum awake,all d times she nursed u. I am a proud mother so i know wot its like,no reason is good enuf for a mother to leave her child no matter d circumstances. Lots of women are out there suffren to keep thier children close to them,even if it means sleeping under d bridge n hawking pure water with d same child on their back in very hot sun.

For 23yrs dey dint look for u,pay visits to know abt ur welfare,now u are a fullgrown man and workin they want you back and reap fromwhere they NEVER sowed. Oga oo

agiboma: @ op my heart really goes out to you cause i been in your shoes. I know there are some things you left out in your original post, but ill comment on what you have shared. Look, at the end of the day no body can tell you to go or stay. Its a decision you got to make. If you decide to stay look for ways you can survive in the marriage. Like doing your hair, reading books, playing internet poker etc. Try to find a hobby or a job if you dont have one. Also are you still interested in sharing intamacy with your husband?
Even after five years it still possible to get it back if you are wanting to go their with him again. You mentioned getting a boyfriend well when i was in your shoes i wanted to do the same thing, but i realised that it would solve nothing and i had to work on the heart of the problem to repair my marriage. I did this by communicating more with my husband and fighting less. I also started my own business and wow that was a major turning point for us, my husband began to see everything differently and he has changed. Your hubby can also change if its what you want, you just got to work on it, but first you need to work on you. Its not doing your kids any good seeing mommy sad all the time.When i was going through my difficult time i was also sad, but i recovered and found ways of making myself happy, i became my true source of joy and was not looking towards my husband for anything emotional, thats how i regained my sanity and was able to put my house back in order. Look OP you can do it too! Today my home is differnt my hubby is a wonderful father to our son that loves him dearly. Just a few days ago he told me ?you gave me a beautiful son, i did not see it before, but i see it now". I smiled and said thank you. But in my mond im thinking our son is 2 years old and you are just seeing it now. What im trying to say is that it takes some men time to realise and appreciate what they got in their home. No circumstance in marriage cannot be worked out with communication IMO.
Are you in Nigeria? Divorce with 4 kids in Nigeria is not easy!!!!! Especially if you are divorcing looking for love. If you divorcing to have your fun and not look for something serious then thats more realistic in Nigeria. Their are many men that would have you as a girlfriend, but i dont think you will find one to marry you with 4 children in this Nigeria, sorry to say. So before you leave look at the realities of your circumstances and environment.
OP what ever you decide to do, good luck

i couldnt av said it better than this...

[quote author=Busy_body]Have been weighed down by a friend's MH issue but don't know how to proceed morally whether to keep quiet or scream out. I think her family has succeeded in removing her from here and dumping her in Naija, and why if not because of the perceived shame they feel she has brought them . . . [/quote]Eiya pele my dear shogbo?? But wait o BB abeg wetin be MH i don search dictionary tire but no find d meaning oo. Anyways i no go skul well so no laff mi.

Her own daughter inlaw too will definately hack her to death too,even before she sees her grandchildren.

Tgirl4real: Thanks guys.

I couldn't put my thots together when I created the thread.

I had a chat with a friend who thinks that long courtship is important for marraige to work. Claiming that marriages in her father's side last cos they usually court for long, like say 6 years, while those in her mum's side end up in divorce cos they don't spend time in courtship.

Thatz the story. So, what do u think about this train of thought?

for me its a capital YES, my hubby n i were friends for a year before we started dating,we dated for 5 years plus before we got married.and now our marriage is built on a solid foudation,i know him more dan he knows himself and he knows me more dan i know myself, we can even predict eachoda actions, we av become one body,soul,mind and spirit so much that we look alike u did think we are brother and sister. I will encourage my kids to court long before marriage just as i advice my sisters and friends too.

DeCleff: I wonder what this world (especially Nigeria) is turning into with all kind stories everyday due to the wickedness of man. If Jesus Christ could call the people of His days "Generation Of Vipers" what do we think He would have called our generation?

Can someone please tell me how a persom could vanish into the air just because she picked a call that came to her cellphone?
Since the past 3 days my cousin's wife vanished into air immedately she answered a call that came to her cellphone.

On that fateful day, she went out to buy something with her friend, leaving her husband and 2 kids behind. Suddenly as they (my cousin's wife and her friend) walked down the street, the strange call came on her phone and immedately she picked and said hello, she disappeared before the eyes her friend and other people.

The worst thing was that she vanished with her phone and nobody can tell the very number that called her and since then her cellphone is switched off.

Her hubby and kids has cried their eyes out.

God please save your people.

are u supposed to be kidding or something