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Most definately,when d need arises,i dont see any big deal in that cos she is gonna b a woman too someday n av her own kids.

OMG!!! Last time i checked dis thread was yestanyt around 11pm n it was just in page one, dis morning its in page 7. I was lookin foward to learning from dis thread,how am i supposed to read all dis pages. POOR ME. think i will just fastfoward it...

WOW!!!!
Dis story got tears roll down my cheeks... To God b d glory

A very nice thread,am looking foward to learning from dis topic.

penelope9: Hey Everybody, i do not understand my friend anymore ever since she meet this highly intelligent guy.What do i do.

Are u still typing or is dis d whole srory?

bukatyne: so d man can't sacrifice too? u don't believe a woman should have a career b'cos of insults? can't she be insulted in her own biz or wateva? wat if her neighbor insults her? so a hussy has d 'unreserved right' to insult his wife? it is well!

my dear we av diffrent pespectives and mentality to how we wana leave our lives, u av urs and i av mine. Am living mine as it siuts me and i av never ad a reason to regret it,so if u dont like my way dosnt change anything about me or u so leave it at that....

ronkebp: With all the job wahala people are facing in niaja....you expect her to quit the job and move, so that her next story here on NL will be how her hubby is amltreating her....you have to think outside the box, Someone asked, what if she is the breadwinnerand so many of her family memebers are depending on her? you know how Naija is now....moreso she is still young, it is still the men that will come back to say, the woman is eating him/them to the bone. Let her work. And just so you know, the times women will seat and fold arms, while the hubby does every thing financially is past.

my dear ronkus i get ur point perfectly well. As it is d op asnt returned to tell us weda she is d bread winner or not. But if dat is d case den they both need to reach a compromise,she still as 3monts to work n save little befor marriage,her hubby needs to agree to set her up in biz in abj is she decides to quit d job so she can still make her money n takecare of her siblings,if he truley loves her he wuld do dat but if finances is available then they can both reach an agreement to shift the wedding till things are sorted out.

JAMILO2020: OUR FELLOW NIGERIANS WANTS TO LIVE IN THE MODERN AGE, BUT YET THEY STILL PREFER OUR PRIMITIVE WAY OF LIVE.

MY ADVICE TO THIS WOMAN IS TO ASK YOUR HUSBAND-TO-BE, TO RELOCATE TO LAGOS IF HE REALLY REALLY LOVES YOU.

DONT DESTROY YOUR CAREER BECAUSE OF ANY MAN OR WOMAN. DONT ALLOW THE SELFISH MAN DECEIVE YOU.

NIGERIA WILL SOON ACHIEVE CORPORATE STATUS, YOUR SKILLS WILL DETERMINE YOUR VALUE IN THE SOCIETY.

OUR TRADITIONAL VALUES AND CULTURE HAS BECOME OUR SHORTCUTS TO FAILURE AS A NATION.

I AM A MAN, AND I WILL NEVER EVER ASK ANY WOMAN TO MAKE SUCH A BIG SACRIFICE ALL IN THE NAME OF MARRIAGE

would u also quit ur job and relocate to lagos cause her job is in lagos and u become jobless.


@op,if u truely love dis man and u are sure of his love,then u would quit dat job and get another in abuja. U only searched for job for 7months after service and u are complaining so much, so wot should men not even women dat av searched for job for more than 4yrs and above do? As a woman i realy dont believe in women pursuing career,cos dats were u get all sorts of insults from men(i personally cant stand a man dats not my hubby insult me witout me dishing him d trash he deserves),i prefer a woman in bizness or her using her handiwork or talents to make her money, if u quit dat job n relocate to abuja,while searching for anoda job u could learn diffrent skills and make more mony out of it. My dear sit down n av a rethink. At d end u rule ur world...

Tgirl4real: Ile-Idi, all these? For Naija?

I dey come back

Lol

jidegirl12: I guess you are right T, I have been planing to go home this year with my 3 girls and I don't know how I can manage 3 under 8 kids on a bus ride to Abuja back and forth, the best convenient way is to fly and now I am very very terrified to fly in Naija, I don't want to die o T, my kids will suffer especially if we don't die together (but it's true), and as per the thread, I just needed to talk to somebody at that time besides my shrink, you know that hunting feeling, I hope I can get my mind off it, thanks and I am done derailing this thread.

my dear if only u will av JUST A LITTLE FAITH AS TINY AS A MUSTARD SEED,, u will not die n ur kids will not die either IJN. NO ONE IS READY TO DIE.....

michelin89: This poster must be taryour's husband!

very funny,catch ur fun while it lasts

[quote author=Busy_body]Err. . .gulps. . . Aunty mi. . . erm. . .let us just thank God for God and His unrelenting love for us His creation - I am now a new creature in Christ, old things have passed away/are passing away and all things have become new/are being renewed. . . And now I understand the "special patience and gift of the spirit" God has bestowed on people like you to make sure not only you, but your Hubby and children make Heaven too.[/quote]my dear God bless u and ur home,May God continue to give u d grace to keep ur home and be a VIRTOUS WOMAN in ur home and ur environment. And may u and i reap d fruits of our labour over our children and husbands IJN,, AMEN..

[quote author=Busy_body]Yes I will over and over and over and over again. What is there not to love. He is intelligent, tall, brooding, reserved, mature, dark, deep, has a good sene of humour, caring, loving, handsome but only cos I take eye go market oh nothing to do with his good genes at all at all, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera

But I bet if asked if he feels the same way about lil modest Godfearing angelic me, he will carry his shoes on his head and run a mile [/quote]ha ha BB, na so u bad reach

[quote author=Busy_body]God made man and woman equally in His image. THIS THREAD CAN CLOSE NOW [/quote]

mutter: We Hear OHHH.
Don`t worry we are trying hard to conform to your standards.
We will soon get there.

Only silly women struggle for equality with men.
As for me i am a woman and totally submissive to my husband.
That is why I just get into my car and drive. I do not even tank. That is the job for the superman.
What is the point struggling for equality?
You just end up getting the ass card as a woman anyway and are also allowed to do the work of a man.

i agree with u my dear. I av also started a thread on dis topic too and my stand still remains that A MAN AND A WOMAN CAN AND WILL NEVER BE EQUAL....

Johndoe100: She either killed him herself or helped those that did. This is an old scenerio with local flavoring. Under proper interogation she will confes.

like seriously are u kidding me


But come to think of it,its possible oo

Hmmmn

Hold ur man tight my dear,jobs will always come but husbands dont. If ur hubby dosnt love u he wuldnt tell u to resign but rather tell u both to mantain a distance affair which isnt healthy for ur early union. Be wise my dear.

[quote author=mojo_jojo]Lol!!!...you are so stupid for accepting to be her chief-brides maid!....you should have replied her and said "i will never forgive you both and never contact me again fools!" Let them live with the guilt all their lives...plus the stupid man isn't worth it anyway...if he cant see that ur so called best friend married him because of his money then he's a fool, dont worry he will also cheat on her soon...just watch and see..what goes round will come back around!...plus he isnt met for you anyway, God doesnt want you to start you life being a step mum to anyone's child u deserve better(did u ever ask why his former wife left him) so be sure there is something wrong with his life, trust me!, u will see in due time and you'll come back here and thank me!..by the way you need to move on with your life dont waste ur time on two useless people!..she was never your best friend and he was never your boyfriend!...simple! [/quote]ol'boy why ur own vex come pass d writer own na

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Girl you ARE sooooooooooo naive!!

What sort of woman would walk into her matrimonial home, find her hubby doing the nasty on their matrimonial bed, and then:

* Say "excuse me"
* Walk out
* Disappear (you nor go fear? Where she disappear to? Wetin she dey plan / do?)
* Comes back, smiles, watches TV with the sk@nk
* Gets intimate with him that same evening (na craze??!!)
* Cooks his favourite meal
* Cheerfully accepts his gifts

Either she's not human (afterall, our good lord showed some emotion of anger at thieving traders in his temple!), OR wetin she dey plan, i.e her come-back-revenge must be something else.

Abeg shine your eye jor![/quote]u can say dat again my dear.. With that kind of a woman i can bet the man will forever leave to regret the day he meet d oda lady....

This man is in BIG S.H.E.E.T, He is totally FINISHED. he even ad d liver to still av intimacy with her d same night.... Foolish man...

chaircover: Tayo did you say poor guy?

BTW someone got killed defending his shop from the looters. He was run over by the looters when he chased them down the road trying to get his goods back. Not all shops had insurance and many of the smaller businesses never recovered.

you needed to be there to see the mayhem that they caused. They tried it in my city center but thankfully our police force was ready for them, caught them and they too are enjoying free food at her Majesty's service.

The guy and his family are and rightly so, ashamed of what he did and he/they will get over it in time. If you cant do the time, then dont so the crime simples.

my dear pls dont mind me jare,gues i let my emotions take d better part of me, right i weep for does involed in dis plane crash. Kids av been rendered fatherless,motherless,husbands losin wife,e.t.c God pls av mercy....

eiya poor guy.

talina: It IS very exciting to hear those first words. When my daughter was a baby she hardly ever cried. She just smiled all the time! One day when she was 4 months old, she woke up from a nap and rather than fuss, I heard her calling... Ummma Ummma and it was so obvious she was calling me. She continued to call me after that!

wow at 4 months... How nice

Omololu na correct sharp lagos babe. Writer sorry o,in ur next life dont play to hard to get. Pele shogbo

Btw,the topic of this thread ought to be "HOW I LOST MY PERFECT SOULMATE TO OMOLOLU MY CORRECT FRIEND WAY SHARP PASS ME"

Thats not true.....

bittyend: Let me paint a perfect picture:

A guy was with a girl for close to four years but they broke up last year. The relationship wasn't a perfect one but they loved each other.. Had marriage dreams, and the girl suffered two miscarriages for the guy.. Things went downhill for the guy, and he hasn't been the same since then. They broke up but still link up from time to time for se/x (the sex is great).. But the girl is holding back to commitment, she wants the guy to get back on his feet before letting him in again.. Ol'boy is tired of having to add extra pressure of meeting up with the girl's standard again, and dealing with the misfortunes in his life at the same time... But it's difficult to let the girl go because she's the only upright person in his life..

Why can the guy do? Please advise!

My darg will be monitoring this thread closely..

are u d lady in question and who is your darg?

^^^^^^ una weldone oo.

For me i think its between the ages of 14 and 21.