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This story reminds me of a story my sister told me sometimes ago ,she had seen her boyfriends dad cuddling some girl that isn't his wife.She took some pictures and later her boyfriend saw those pictures ....anyways that's story for another day.

An anonymous user had shared online how she covered up for her dad she wrote :

My mother started screaming my name from her room so I ran in. I was only 15.

She found a condom behind her bed while cleaning and demanded to know if I was messing around with girls while she was at work, and in their bed.

I was not having sex at that age but I knew the only other explanation was that my dad was… with not my mom.

To tell her the truth would tear our family apart, put my mom’s finances in jeopardy and hurt and embarrass her with family so I lied and took a verbal beating and long lecture from mom. I grew hate for dad overnight.

I saw dad the next morning in the kitchen and I told him mom had found the condom. He just looked at me and said “what condom?” and I told him where and not to worry because I said it was mine.

I got a car on my 16th birthday which was not originally the plan, but now I guess it was. When my brother turned 16 a year and a half later, I asked my dad if he will buy him a car too.

To that he said he could not afford, and as we sat on that living room couch I looked at him and said “I think you can find a way.”, which he did. It is years later but whenever I go visit I still look at him to let him know that I know what he is.

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Amber Chadwick-Ellis a direct support professional had reveal the biggest secret she discovered about her husband and his famliy just few months after their wedding. Before I continue I'm going to issue and disclaimer and notice to people who comment on my thread asking if the stories I post here are fabricated because of traffic ..The answer is No ! these are stories shared by online users ,some wants to be anonymous while some don't mind .Thanks

She wrote:

It was at a Sunday dinner after church, a month or so after our wedding, that I started to notice that my father in law and mother in law looked an awful lot alike.

They had the same nose, the same chin, the same complexion.

I was startled when I noticed the similarities. I asked my then husband what his thoughts were and he said that people just tend to gravitate towards those that resemble themselves.

I agreed and let it go. Briefly.

Once I noticed how similar they looked, I couldn’t ignore it. I started wondering if they might actually be related.

So I started a genealogy project under the guise of having something to give my daughter when she got older. I didn’t have to go back very far…

My mother in law and father in law were first cousins.

They’d grown up together in the same town. They’d initially married other people, but when those marriages didn’t work out they married each other. They tied the knot in 1982 and a year later my now ex husband was born.

I told him what I’d found out and he already knew. He said that it was a big family secret and it had alienated them from their respective families for awhile. But at some point everyone got over it, as all the extended family was closely involved with each other when I came into the picture.

I know that cousin marriage has been something that’s occurred throughout history, but it just gives me the heebie jeebies. How hard is it to find a mate that you aren’t related to and marry them?

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What could possibly be worse than having your groom ditch you on your wedding day?

Having him ditch you in front of thousands of strangers watching live on Facebook.

It sounds like a bad joke, but unfortunately, it was the reality for one heartbroken bride, who had decided to live-stream her wedding only to have it end in disaster.

Manow Jutathip Nimnual was waiting patiently for her husband-to-be Phakin Junjerm to join her at the aisle in the Thai city of Ratchaburi on Sunday, July 22, according to The Bangkok Post. But the young man never showed.

Thousands of people were watching at home as the 24-year-old announced to family and friends that he had “run away”.

The saved version of the five-minute video has since been shared by more than 30,000 people on Facebook and viewed more than five million times. Thankfully most were sympathetic and shared supportive messages with the bride.


So what caused the no-show?

The Post spoke to the bride’s cousin, who told the newspaper that the romance was a whirlwind – but everything was going fine until a week before their wedding day.

That’s when Manow learned Phakin was having an affair with another woman. When the young woman confronted him, he apparently insisted he still wanted to get married.

Then, just a few days before the wedding, he told her he couldn't afford the 200,000 baht (approx. $6,000) in cash and gold ornaments her family expected his family to pay in dowry. But the bride said her family could loan him the shortfall and he agreed to go through with the wedding. Obviously he had a change of heart.

The scorned bride has threatened to sue her former fiance for 600,000 baht (approx. $18,000) to cover the cost of the ceremony and reception, the Post reported.

She's not the first partner left at the altar to demand to be reimbursed for their expenses.

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O.P two things are involved
1. Its either you genuinely love that girl or you love the sex with her
2. She's a happy girl and what i mean by happy is you like her company ,she's jovial,not easily offended ,has a easy going habit and simple kind of girl.

If your situation is 1 then critically look into the matter and make a fast decision,if your case is 2 run as far as your leg can take you ,this type of girls are good for nothing as they would also do same for the numerous guys they are dating ,they don't have any conscience as they rarely see what they are doing as bad,they are just having fun and are time wasters.

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An Anonymous User shared this story ,He wrote:'My parents still don’t know that my sister and I used to have sex all the time'.

We were always home alone and are very close in age. She is actually the one who started things. She used to love to flash me when she started getting breasts, and then she taught me about masturbating, which led to oral, which led to intercourse.

Because we had so much privacy we were having sex often more than once a day throughout our teens. We would look up all sorts of things online and then try them. There wasn’t much that two people can do that we didn’t try at least once.

I think our parents were happy that we didn’t date, we were both straight-A students and I think they just thought we were nerds. They used to brag about how well we got along. We rarely tempted things with them around, no intimacy or anything, even though we would cuddle and hold hands and what not when we were alone. My sister did love to flash me when they were there and she knew they wouldn’t see, because she loved to know that I would have an erection and be trying to hide it. We had sex a few times with them home but decided to stop because it was too risky.

The year my sister went off to college was very difficulty for me, because I had been used to such frequent sex I was basically addicted. She struggled too, we would video chat a lot and she told everyone at college that I was her boyfriend. My parents allowed to me to take their car up and see her a few times (about 3 hours away). She shared a room so we would always end up having sex in the bathroom or in the car up a canyon or going camping if the weather was good.

The next year I moved up there and we got a place together off campus. It was amazing, we lived like a couple and only had to weather a few awkward visits from our parents. Then we had a pregnancy scare and things started to change. We agreed to start seeing other people, although we would still end up sleeping together all the time. Eventually we both had relationships with other people, and I decided to move out.

The worst part though is that she got married and in pre-marital counseling she told her husband (then fiance) and he did not take it well. Still married her but blames me for everything and doesn’t want me in her life at all. My parents were upset that I wasn’t in the wedding, and he didn’t even want me to come but respected my sister’s wishes that our parents not know and that would have tipped them off. The tension is palpable so she just told them that he hates me because I told him he wasn’t good enough for her.

I still love her like a sister, so it’s hard for me and hard for me not to hate him, although I understand I am more like an ex to him than her brother. Now she is pregnant and I know that I’m not going to get to be a fun uncle or anything.

So now even though I loved it for so long, I wish it never happened and we never crossed that line, because I miss my sister way more than I miss the sex.

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An anonymous user who was molested by her pedophile dad shared this story online.

she wrote:

My hands are shivering while typing this and my mind is saying No! No! No!

Its harsh truth for me to accept until now. I try to convince myself daily that it was some kind of illusion or something but not real.

Like other girls, I grew up like papa’s princess. My father was always my idol. We are middle class family so I always believed in hard working and making me parents’ proud in all fields.

But it was one day that changed my life completely. I was in my engineering then. We three were sitting in our room. Me, my mother and my father. I guess he was drunk. I was chit chatting with them and suddenly i noticed my father was rubbing his erected penis while looking at me. My mother could not notice it as she was facing me and her back was facing the father. I could not believe my eyes first. He was continuously staring at me and rubbing his penis. I got too shocked and was looking at my mom if she is noticing that too? but she was just talking to me unaware whats happening at her back. I wanted to tell her, to show her that look what papa is doing but i could not do so. I was not brave enough to ruin their relation or could not imagine what worse will happen if she finds out.

I don’t know if he remembers this?(as he was drunk). But yes that day beautiful relation of father-daughter died. I am working with MNC currently. I never talk to him on call. When i visit home, i never stay with him alone for a moment too.

He is the bestest father (when he is not drunk) any girl can get. He has done lot for his family. He is great soul but I do not know what caused him to do that.

While writing this, whole scene is in front of my eyes and again am thrown back to that one hell moments of my life.

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My friends told me what masturbation was all about. They told me it would be fun.

“You will feel like taking off in a rocket, soar higher, higher, and nosedive at a point. That point, my friend, is heaven,” he said with excitement.

I was in grade 8, maybe.

“So what should I do? Where should I start?” I asked. He told: “Think of a girl you find very attractive. Imagine she is there with you. Right there. Right then. What would you do?” he rolled his eyes with an evil grin.

“Ah, I get it…” I replied with an emphatic assurance.

I went home that night. I tried. I felt a tsunami of emotions washing me away.

It was heaven descending upon me. It felt amazing.

The habit stuck to me. Imagination with wings. Objectifying women. Gratification.

It was an addiction setting upon me, gradually, yet steadily.

One night, I was in the middle of the act. No mattress to cover me up.

Mom walked in. She saw me. My breath almost stopped. The ninja in me squealed and leaped into action.

Within maybe five seconds, I put my candle inside, jumped out of the cot, threw myself under the cot, and slapped myself. Thrice.

She hurried out of the room, shutting the door behind her.

I wanted to kill myself, come back alive, and kill myself again. Twice.

My heart refused to beat. I could not sleep that night.

The next evening.

Dad started talking to me. He spoke of the Bible. He spoke of what 1 Corinthians says. He never spoke about mom seeing me, but he was speaking in general.

He spoke of sins. Hell. Heaven. His eyes were concerned, perturbed, and full of love. Helpless love.

Love was oozing out from every word he spoke. It made no sense. It was love, nonetheless. I nodded to everything he said.

That night, at dinner, no one spoke of that. After dinner, it was prayer time. Dad prayed.

The prayer was full of “God, help us be free from sins. Help us be pure. Help us fight the temptations of the living world. Help us identify satan’s evil ways…”

Prayer got over. Dad went to his room.

Her hands over my shoulders, mom walked me to my room, kissed me, and opened the door for me.

I could sense an air of discomfort. She had not said anything yet. I was not ready to listen to what she was to say. “God no no no no no!!”

I jumped onto my bed, exclaiming “Mom, I am tired. Could you turn off the lights?” I pulled the blanket over me quickly.

She said: “Sure. Remember, always lock the door.”

She smiled, shut the door, and walked away.

When I look back, I have received numerous advices: how to objectify women, how to restrain from sins, yada yada yada. The one that showed me the way was however this: always lock the door.

She knew I had the right to do whatever I wanted. She wanted me to live my life the way I wanted.

She knew I had to have my privacy. She wanted me to man up and take charge of my life. She put me on my vehicle and let me drive.

She took her hands off the wheels. How brilliant was that!

This has made me the man I am. Whatever I have chosen in my life were never induced or influenced. I chiseled my life, fearfully and wonderfully. Every day. I carved my days with my very own hands.

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I guess every child growing up one way or the other has been exposed to been sexually molested ,we all have our own story sadly

OneSentence:
sadly this is just so me...I got exposed by a house help at 8 and this went on for four years...attimes I had sex three times a day...being handsome didn't help matters...I got girls without having to spend much cos they'd just like me naturally...till now my sex drive is still very very high...I hope I marry a woman who can match me. th effects of early sex really took a toll on my mind...

An Anonymous user had shared this touchy story online how he was exposed at a tender age to sexual activities by his cousin,he feels less of himself now that he is of age due to the effect the action.Most people have encounter something like this but can't share.


He Wrote:

Warning : Incest !!!

I am fed up with myself. It is a long confession but I cant share it with anyone else. I live in a joint family in a town of Maharshtra, India and things which ruined my life are,

At age of 6, my elder cousin sister A, aged 14 that time used to play “Ghar-Ghar” with me. All she did in the name of playing was to UnCloth me and her completely and used to lie over me and rub her body against mine. Later, two more elder cousin sisters B&C, B was 13 and C was 10 joined us. We did it daily for 2 months during our summer vacation. I didnt understand what they are doing to me but it felt good to be with them. I felt loved.

It stopped after that vacation.

When I was 8, a girl who used to help my mother in household chores aged 16, asked me to lick and suck her breast and she bit my lips.

I was exposed to all these things at very young age and all my childhood innocence fed away. I used to fantasize cuddling, kissing and naked bodies of my sister's friends, school senior girls, female teachers who used to love me as I was a cute kid. All this was at the age of 11–12. I didn't use to see my cousin sisters as sisters anymore due to childhood experiences, given that I am a Hindu.

When I turned 13, the cousin C who used to sleep naked with me, now ageing 17 started to give me hints, like to sneak in the same blanket as of mine, lying next to me while watching a movie and caressing my back etc. I was lured by her signals and we ended up sleeping naked again. We didnt have sex but did kissing, pressing her breasts, she used to caress my body. We didnt use to talk while doing this and neither we used to discuss it or plan it. Things use to led one to other and we used to do it. It continued for 2 more years. It stopped because one of our younger cousin saw us and complained to her mother who was close to C. She put all the blame over me. Luckily things didnt turn out to be ugly and all that drama stopped.

I was later introduced to the porn and erotic literature on internet. Again I found incest sex with cousins very interesting, may be due to my childhood experiences.

At age of 19, I was travelling in public bus. It was overnight bus. A girl ageing in her early 20s sat beside me. After 1–2 hrs, my leg touched her legs accidently. But I didnt take them back. Later I rubbed my feet against her. Yes I could be accused of molestation that day. But that girl reciprocated my actions. She rubbed her legs against mine and gave me a smile. We put a jacket over ourselves and gave eachother a pleasurable time.

Today I am 24, I don't think any of my cousin sister as sister anymore. I have had 3 girlfriends and had sex with 2 of them. I had some casual flings with seniors, friends, neighborhood girls. My sex drive has became very strong. I m Hot 24x7. Every girl or woman I see, I imagine them naked once. I consider myself a threat to society. I dont think bad about my sister or mother. I love them and respect them very much. But since I am very bad with other women and an ugly creature, I don't talk much to them too. I cant face them. I keep them distant from me.

I am ashamed of what I have become. Why the hell I was exposed to the sex at that young age? Why the hell this sex exists? Also I am sexually attracted towards a cousin of mine who is 2 years elder than me. We have been very close since our childhood. I know this is wrong and this is why I am not making any attempt to do anything with her. I don't wanna spoil our relationship. I use to think bad things about her like how fat she is, her stretch marks, her rude behaviour, so that I can distract myself but attraction is very strong and I can't help myself with this. I keep myself away from her.

Recently Cousin C pinged me on whatsapp. We talked for some time. I was furious over her. I asked about why she did all those things with me when I was young. To which her reply totally shocked me. She said that she was not responsible for what happened. She blamed me for all those things and said she never enjoyed or wanted that. I did bad with her. I was like, I was 13, new to these things..she was 17 at that time. She knew each and everything. What is wrong what is right. She could have slapped me.

I dont know what I have became now. I am potential threat to society and girls around me. I see them as sex objects. My experiences taught me that all they want is sex or a man touch. I know I am wrong and I am really ashamed of what I am today. How my mind developed. I want to get rid of this. I want to be normal.

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In a world where we all go about the daily business of looking for money and something to eat ,someones most depriving need is sex and intimacy ,sure there are a lot out there suffering same.

She wrote:

I’m extremely sexually frustrated and finding it very difficult to live with! I am a 51-year-old single woman, and the last time I had sex was 7 years ago (I can remember the month and year actually – February 2012!) I haven’t been in any kind of a relationship with a man since then, and it is getting me down so much. It’s not just the sex though (although I do have a healthy sex drive), it’s being completely physically intimate with someone that I miss so much, and the comfort and sense of connectedness which that gives. I’m so lonely, so frustrated, and men and sex are all I can think about!!

Ideally I want a relationship, want to meet my life partner, my soulmate, someone to share my life with for the rest of my days. But if I can’t get that, I would have a fling or two, if the opportunity presented itself – that would be better than nothing. I just feel that I am missing out on so much by not being sexually active for years (especially since I have been on my own and celibate for a great deal of my life anyway. Relationships and sex have never played a very big part in my life, sad to say – I have been mostly alone. Not through choice, but circumstances – having a lot of psychological problems when I was younger which made intimacy very difficult, as I found it very hard to trust and get close to people. Now that I have got over all of that, I just can’t meet anyone – no one wants me at my age!

It’s even more galling because, although I am ancient, i.e. in my fifties, I look young for my age and I know men still find me sexually attractive – I get quite a lot of them giving me lusting looks, flirting, making comments. But that is all they do!! Why is that? Am I so intimidating?! There is a handsome young man at work (very young, only 25) who makes it clear he finds me attractive, with all of the eye contact and body language, and I definitely would date him, given the chance! But he is in a relationship, way too young obviously, and we work together (sit opposite each other), so that is no doubt a complete no-go.

I am in very good health and could well live for another 30–40 years, and can’t stand the thought of being on my own and celibate for the rest of my life. I often think that if I could have just one wish granted, it would be to have some sex again before I die!!! Preferably within the context of a long-term relationship, but I would settle for a fling, if that was all I could get.

Anyway, that is my burning issue, that I needed to get off my chest! it’s difficult for me to talk to anyone about it, as I find it quite embarrassing and shaming. So being able to share it here gives me a bit of relief. Thank you for reading.




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In the core of this world lies deep secrets that can't be let out in the open .When asked on social media what secret you would be willing to share but anonymously ,this woman had this to say...Read 

Secret 1: I have sex with my husband's friend whenever we find time.

Secret 2: My father-in-law used me for sex many times.

Now don't judge me before reading my story.

My husband, I and my father-in-law live in Chennai in an apartment. I and my husband are married since 2 years. It was an arranged marriage and my parents live in Kanyakumari. We were happy for the first few days until I found that he was an addict to alcohol. He had just given up drinking for few weeks before and after marriage after his dad constantly persisted him not to drink saying that the girl and their family would reject the proposal if he drinks. But he was not able to give up for more than few weeks after marriage. He started drinking again because of course, the marriage is over.

He came back home unstable most of the nights. Sometimes he even feel on roads and in the bars and I used to take autorickshaws to bring him home. Initially I believed that I can change him. I tried understanding why he wants to drink. He sat near him in the morning and asked politely. But he said it's none of my business. I tried all that I could do. I tried taking, I cried, I even said that I will go back to my parents. But he never changed. On the other hand, my parents never knew any of this. They were thinking that I was happy with my husband.

While all this happened, my father-in-law kept quite the entire time watching them politely. He never cared. I once talked to him as well saying that he is coming back home drinking every night and we should take him to rehabilitation center. But he just said “why should I care about him? He will never change. I tried all I could. He killed my wife because of his attitude and now he wants to kill both of us with the same attitude. He will never change”

I asked him back “Then why did you marry me with him?”

He started crying pleeding me too forgive him and even feel in my legs. I felt very bad for him. But I was totally frustrated with my life. On the other hand, I was a working lady and the work pressure was also killing me. So I decided to resign my job and try to change to husband by caring him full-time. But that didn't work as well.

I took him to rehabilitation centers. He didn't stay there for more than 2 days. I even followed him whenever he went to bars and pubs for few days. I used to sit in a different table right in front of him in the pubs. He never cared but drank. I took my friend with me everytime since I was too scared to go alone. I and my friend were even molested by the other men in the bar. One rich guy even approached us asking us to have a party with him for 15000 rupees each. He called us “bitches” when we refused. He kept abusing us that night with all possible ill words that you could imagine. My friend who is actually a very brave girl gave up and refused to come with me after that incident. I had to give up too.

Then one day it was 11pm at night and I got a call from an unknown number. I picked to hear my husband's friend Shyam’s voice who said that my friend had drunk too much and fallen in his home. He asked me to bring my car since he don't have one to take him to our home. I know Shyam very well as my friend's husband and he is a very nice guy.

He don't drink. My husband had drunk too much and gone to his home and fallen there. I went to his home and found my husband lying flat on the bed. I tried walking him to the car and he was not conscious. So Shyam suggested to stay at his home that night. I agreed and left my husband on the bed and went to the living room to sit on the couch.

I and Shyam were talking about life and began crying at the peek of my voice. He tried consoling me but failed. Shyam is the first person to whom I have shared all my problems. I cried and cried and cried for more than 30 minutes and all the time he was trying to console me.

He was too nice to me. He cooked food for me and we had dinner together. At the end of the dinner (I still crying slowly), he got up to cross me to go to the wash basin. I grabbed his hand and hugged him tight. He was shell shocked. But he believed that I wanted a hug. So he hugged me back. And I then asked him for sex. Yes I was deeply wanting it and yes I was not ashamed. I wanted sex. After a huge silence for about 20 minutes, he proceeded and 'that’ thing happened between us. We continue it until now and no one else knows.

On the other side my father-in-law used me for sex too whenever my husband was not at home. He pleaded me for sex saying that he is also a human. I refused at the beginning. But he forced me at some time for which I had to agree. I don't like to go in details about it since I know that it is awkward and wrong!

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A man who choose to be anonymous has shared online his experience with an ex who had a smelly vagina.If you have had similar experience don't hesitate to share your own in the comment section

He Wrote:

I lived with a woman. She was 36 when we got together, and the sex was amazing. We averaged about 3 – 4 times per day during the entire time we were together, but our record was 14 times in 24 hours. However, as she approached and hit 40 her body began to change. She started to smell differently downstairs , to the point that doing oral was very difficult for me. (performing oral on a woman has always been one of my favorite things) I tried to ignore it, tried to just keep thing going, but it got worse and worse.

I didn’t know how to bring up the topic in conversation. I could only imagine how embarrassing it would be for a woman to be told that. I would leave websites with adverts and coupons for feminine cleaning products open on the computer. I tried other ways of dropping hints, even buying some feminine soap and putting it in the bathroom. She didn’t get any of the hints, but she did notice that we were having sex less and less.

Finally, I came right out and told her, as nice and as gently as I possibly could think of. She didn’t get upset, and said she understood – but nothing changed. I observed no change in her hygiene habits, etc. The final straw for me was when we were getting it on and she turned around for doggy style, and I looked down and saw poo still in her butt.

After that, sex became more and more difficult for me, and the frequency of it decreased significantly – from multiple times per day, to a couple of times per week, to eventually once or twice per month. I’m sorry to say the relationship went downhill from there and didn’t survive much longer.

I know this makes me sound like an a##hole, maybe I am one, IDK.

I’m sorry.

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A man named Jacob Field has shared his bitter experience after his wife denied him sex.Are you a man ?have your wife denied you sex ?you can also share your experience or how you felt in the comment section.

He wrote:

I am one of those husbands who have gotten angry when denied sex.

And I will share with you why. I will probably get a lot of hate for this but I will state my truth.

Too often women use sex as a way to manipulate men and treat them like dogs which is sad. If you are a good boy you get a treat, if you do something your wife doesn’t like, you can forget about it. This is the attitude I dislike.

Men are usually taught to hide their emotions since they are young and sex with a loved one is a way to connect with the person we love.

When sex is used as a tool to train your man like a dog, it backfires because your man is smarter than a dog and will really figure out that they have a highly conditional, manipulative relationship where love, touch and affection are denied them for reasons that may not entirely be obvious to them.

I was not angry because I felt entitled to my first wife’s body. Being entitled means that I think I have a right to do what I want whenever I want. There was always consent and any man knows that they can only control their actions not their partners decisions. In other words it is the woman’s choice, men have zero power here.

When I got married for me it was an agreement between us that we would try our best to fulfill each other’s physical and emotional needs. That we would care about each other and do our best to help each other. Yes showing love and affection and having sexual relations are a huge part of this.

I felt angry for being denied one of my main outlets for showing love and affection. But most of all I felt lonely and unloved.

What still upsets me is the double standard women have for men. If I was a woman who stated that my man had denied me love and sexual relations, there would be many women saying that my man should “man up” go to his doctor to be checked out for medical issues and perhaps psychological issues. Maybe even go get a prescription filled if he needed help.

Shouldn’t women be held to the same standard? I certainly believe so.

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A Middle-Aged Lady Name withhold has come out on social media to reveal how lack of pre-marital sex is ruining her marriage.

She Wrote:

The incompatibility is killing me. I have thought of getting divorced several times because of this issue.

Same background. We were both virgins when we got married, at 23 and 28. We talked about sex before marriage, but because we are both somewhat religious, we didn’t have sex. In retrospect, I should have seen this coming. When we did talk about sexual desires, it was obvious that I masturbated a lot more than he did. While I did it almost everyday, he only did it once a few months.

Within the first week, we were already not having sex as much as I wanted. But since our honeymoon was exhausting and multi-continental, I didn't say anything.

Then, when we settled in the place where we spent the most part of our honeymoon, I mentioned it but he said he was stressed.

Then we get settled in our home, and I'm still not getting as much intimacy as I would like. He says he is stressed with his job and the fact that I didn't want to move doesn't help.

Eventually, reality hits. The level of intimacy that we are having is the level he is comfortable with. It's not as much as I want, but at least it happens almost every week.

Thing is that by the time this occurred, I have begun having serious self confidence issues. I've never felt worse about my body even though I am more fit than before.

At some point during our disagreements about sex, he said it wasn't his fault that I have high libido that may be caused by my illness. (I have non-classic congenital adrenal hyperplasia, commonly mistaken for PCOS, which messes with your hormones a bit. Combine that with hormonal birth control, it made me very Hot. ) That hit me very hard. I have since been trying to prove to myself that I am "normal".

And in the process, I've lost all sexual desire for my husband. I've lost the emotional connection I had to him.

We’ve been married for about 6 months now, and I’m tired already. I don’t even know if I should even keep trying. I love my husband, but it gets downright depressing that this is the only person I’ve ever had sex with, and potentially may be the only person I will ever have sex with, and I’m already not enjoying the sex - at all.

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After Stephanie Maynetto-Jackson lost her 28-year-old husband, Stuart, in a tragic motorcycle accident on Dec. 14, 2017, her world came to a standstill.

As a decorated military veteran, Stuart's death took the community by storm. And as a mother to son Dominic with another baby on the way, she admits she was lost without their father.

But rather than become mired in grief, Stephanie decided to honor Stuart by reaching out to photographer Phoenix Sipin to take maternity photos and photoshop Stuart into them.

Although the grieving widow admits that the photo shoot was beyond bittersweet, she's happy she made the decision.

"I was overwhelmed while we were shooting because as I held onto my growing belly, I knew that he wouldn't be there to watch our children grow older," she said

. "I kept thinking about everything we talked about as far as how we would raise our children."

Rather than dwell on her current situation, Stephanie decided to conjure up some her fondest memories of Stuart during the shoot, like when she told him she was expecting.

"I kept thinking about what it would be like if he were there taking the pictures as well."

"He was so overjoyed when he found out we were pregnant for a second time. I kept thinking about what it would be like if he were there taking the pictures as well," explained Stephanie. "He always loved to laugh and have a good time, so I knew that he would have probably pinched my butt in order to make me truly smile."

Stephanie admits that doing the maternity shoot made her feel like her husband was back with her again, even if only for a brief moment. She ended up naming her new bundle of joy Stuart Jackson II in honor of his father, as reported by Love What Matters.

This maternity shoot allowed our family to have a piece of Stuart back. It helped me realize that he is always with me even if that meant he was no longer physically there. It also let me know that Stuart Jackson II could have some photos with his father and know that he was not only wanted but planned for. It did help me because it was such a beautiful and thoughtful gift. When I first reached out to Phoenix, I had a different vision because I didn't think that what she did was even possible. What she provided for us was amazing.

Scroll through to see the gorgeous photos, and try to fight back the tears.

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STD: An Anonymous user has tagged this as the toughest experience in his life.

He wrote:

When I had sex with my teacher.

It was the time when I was in final year of my college. I was a very good student , one of the toppers of the college. Actively participated in all the college level sports or debate.. I was lovable.

During final year, I was in daily touch with one of teachers (call her M) because of some event and our college was participating. We were working together on that event.. And for the same, sometimes I used to go her home. During this time I and her developed friendly relation.

It was our third meeting at her place and it was Sunday evening. She asked me if I liked to eat something and then we ordered pizza from Dominos. After pizza we were talking then suddenly hold my hand.. For a while I thought it's okay.. But then she came closer and kissed me on my neck. I was not ready for this..

We ended up having unsafe sex…

After sometime all went normal in my life. But I caught with gonorrhoea, one kind of STDs.

Life after this was hell.. I was not able to concentrate on my studies, stopped taking participation in all the events… I was all alone, I never felt like that. I was suicidal.

Then I consult a doctor .. I was in medication for six straight month and this six month took a lot from me..

I can't forgot that patch of life.. Still haunts me.

Guys and girls.. I request all of you to use precaution during sex, you can't know what can happen to you.

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Life after death has been a topic of argument for many even thought leaders ,as some believe there is an eternal life while others don't.This story shared by Robert Zhaiac might be convincing but yet not to many.

He wrote:

I seldom tell this story because of the fear that people will think me crazy.  But here goes.  I had a high fever when I was 25 years old.  My young wife was un able to cope.  She repeated several times that if my temperature went up another degree, she was calling an ambulance.  This happen four times and I was really burning up.

In desperation, with only the thought of getting the heat out of my body, I staggered to the bathroom to take a cold shower.  When the water hit me, I collapsed and fell face down on the floor of the tub.

The next thing I knew was that I was looking down at my body from near the ceiling.  Before I continue, I want to make it clear that I had never read a thing about near death experiences.

My first reaction what that I was so relieved physically.  I remember sighing before I realized that I had no lungs.  My thoughts went something like this - "Uh oh, Now I've done it.  I think I am dead.  Hey, this not so bad."  I was happy that I still had consciousness.  It was not the dreaded non existence.

I then looked at my body laying below me and realized that I had never seen myself from the back before.  Very fascinating.  I stared at it for a minute or so.  I also felt that I was free to go anywhere I wanted.

I then felt that there was a tunnel behind me and turned to look down the tunnel.  I had an impression that there would be light at the end, but I did not actually see it.  I was tempted to go down the tunnel to see it, but the thought hit me that if I did, I would never be back.

I then looked at my body and asked myself if I was ready to leave it forever.  But it was a young body and I decided not to go.  I felt that I could find the tunnel again if I died.

I hovered down to position my self, entity, spirit, soul, what every you want to call it, and then took a moment to prepare to go back into the body.  I knew it would be back to the pain I had just left behind a few minutes earlier.

I ducked my spirit head into my physical head, kind of like an old Topper movie, and I was back.  Back to the fever and the pain.

I told some people about the experience an got quite a few theories about it ranging from a dream brought on by the fever, to a belief that I had actually died and come back, plus a few in between.

It was years later that I walked by a paper book rack and saw a book about near death experiences.  I picked it up and read accounts of other who had similar experiences.  I thought "Yes, this is like what happened to me."

But when I read about the tunnel and the light, I was shocked.  Since that time I have read a bit about theories others have expressed ranging from scientific to spiritual, and still do not know what really happened.

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Life after death has been a topic of argument for many even thought leaders ,as some believe there is an eternal life while others don't.This story shared by Robert Zhaiac might be convincing but yet not to many.

He wrote:

I seldom tell this story because of the fear that people will think me crazy.  But here goes.  I had a high fever when I was 25 years old.  My young wife was un able to cope.  She repeated several times that if my temperature went up another degree, she was calling an ambulance.  This happen four times and I was really burning up.

In desperation, with only the thought of getting the heat out of my body, I staggered to the bathroom to take a cold shower.  When the water hit me, I collapsed and fell face down on the floor of the tub.

The next thing I knew was that I was looking down at my body from near the ceiling.  Before I continue, I want to make it clear that I had never read a thing about near death experiences.

My first reaction what that I was so relieved physically.  I remember sighing before I realized that I had no lungs.  My thoughts went something like this - "Uh oh, Now I've done it.  I think I am dead.  Hey, this not so bad."  I was happy that I still had consciousness.  It was not the dreaded non existence.

I then looked at my body laying below me and realized that I had never seen myself from the back before.  Very fascinating.  I stared at it for a minute or so.  I also felt that I was free to go anywhere I wanted.

I then felt that there was a tunnel behind me and turned to look down the tunnel.  I had an impression that there would be light at the end, but I did not actually see it.  I was tempted to go down the tunnel to see it, but the thought hit me that if I did, I would never be back.

I then looked at my body and asked myself if I was ready to leave it forever.  But it was a young body and I decided not to go.  I felt that I could find the tunnel again if I died.

I hovered down to position my self, entity, spirit, soul, what every you want to call it, and then took a moment to prepare to go back into the body.  I knew it would be back to the pain I had just left behind a few minutes earlier.

I ducked my spirit head into my physical head, kind of like an old Topper movie, and I was back.  Back to the fever and the pain.

I told some people about the experience an got quite a few theories about it ranging from a dream brought on by the fever, to a belief that I had actually died and come back, plus a few in between.

It was years later that I walked by a paper book rack and saw a book about near death experiences.  I picked it up and read accounts of other who had similar experiences.  I thought "Yes, this is like what happened to me."

But when I read about the tunnel and the light, I was shocked.  Since that time I have read a bit about theories others have expressed ranging from scientific to spiritual, and still do not know what really happened.

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The tips below were shared by an anonymous user on social media and are worth trying as there are exception about sex life in it

She wrote:

Speaking as an older woman with 37 years of marriage and two husbands, there are usually four reasons why a wife would avoid sex with her husband.

1.)  Poor personal hygiene on the part of the man, or having to remind a man about his personal hygiene.  (This includes bathing daily, deodorant daily, brushing teeth daily, flossing teeth daily, and washing hair at least three times a week.   Most women do not like mustaches they often smell bad and feel bad) so if you have one, you should shampoo it twice daily.)  Women also like their men to dress nicely and look well-groomed, just as men appreciate women who take time to look nice.  (I assume you don't have a weight problem.)

2.)  She is ANGRY.  Most common reasons to be angry are a man not pulling his weight in household chores (he should be spending as much time as she is on household chores, and yes, yard work does count, but if the hours on indoor chores are more, then you need to help).

Another reason she could be angry is that you might not be treating her right.  Are you putting down her opinions, or criticizing her, or insulting her?  Are you trying to "control" her?  If you are doing any of these things she is not going to want to have sex with someone who is not KIND and THOUGHTFUL and ROMANTIC.

If you have children, are you leaving her to do all the child care?  If you are not doing 50 percent she is probably angry.

3.)  Lack of intimacy in the marriage.

Are you spending 1-2 hours a day TALKING to your wife about events of the day, or any things which you are thinking about, etc?  Women are not interested in jumping into bed with a husband who doesn't give them plenty of TALKING time DAILY.  Women don't create intimacy by having sex.  Wives want to have sex after there is intimacy created and sustained through lots of regular TALKING.

You need to SPEND TIME with your wife (and that does NOT include TV time, although there is nothing wrong with watching shows you both enjoy together, but if your WIFE does not enjoy the show, then you can't count that as spending time together, even if she is present in the room).

4.)  If your wife is TIRED she will most definitely NOT feel like having sex when she is tired.  If you are on different schedules (such as lark married to night owl) this can be a problem.  People like to have sex when they feel good and have some energy, and if they are tired it is MOST DEFINITELY NOT at the time you retire to bed!  If you stay up later than your wife, how about after she gets a good three or four hours of sleep, or how about early in the morning?  Heavy work schedules can contribute to this.  (Also, you could take a nap or try to accommodate the time to when your wife might feel like it if tiredness is a problem.)

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An Anonymous user had shared this story about his personal experience on Masturbation online.There's been no scientific backing on how healthy it is to masturbate.But religiously and morally ,a lot of people have condemned it tagging it an act of immorality.

He wrote:

This happened to me 4 years back when I had a fling with a girl. I was attracted to her but that attraction didn’t help me one bit while having sex with her.

A little background- I was 25 at that time and I had been watching porn and masturbating for more than 10 years. It started with double x porn then tripple x then followed by hardcore, BDSM and when nothing could get me an erection then I started watching gay porn. I am straight by the way but I wanted to exploit my expectation to enjoy masturbating.

Back to the story, while making out with that girl I couldn’t get my penis erected. She was very pretty but I was converted to a zombie who had over used his ability to enjoy the pleasure from sex.

For past few months I have been researching on this topic and I found the reason why it happens. It happens because whenever we feel happy there is a chemical released in our brain which is called dopamine. This is the same chemical which gives you pleasure after you have ejaculated, snort drugs, drink alchohol and much more unnatural things. Ejaculation after masturbation is an unnatural reward for our natural body. Real reward is ejaculation after having sex with a female. Since we are addicted to feel this chemical in our brain we over do it. Take the example of drugs. Every time you need more of it. Porn as well. You exploit your expectations over a period of time just to be able to get your dick hardened.

Once you have a habit of watching porn and masturbation you fail at enjoying real sex. Real sex is not what it’s shown in porn movies. Your partner might not have the perfect curves but smile. When you were a kid, watching a kiss on cheeks gave you goosebumps but now not even fifty shades of grey can give you that. I had violated my expectations hence I failed at enjoying sex with her. I could not ejaculate either. We tried everything but nothing cured my ED. Once I was back at home to my type of porn I was able to masturbate and ejaculate.

Now it’s been few months since I have realized this and have quit watching porn, masturbation, orgasm, alchohol and many more things. It took a very strong will power and lot of control but I am on it.

Recently I was watching an old movie in which the hero kissed his girl on cheeks and it gave me goosebumps. My brain receptors are fine now. It takes time but it will become natural and worth it.

Masturbation is not natural and is very addictive. Anyone who says that you will get prostate cancer by not masturbating is lying to you because of lack of knowledge. There is no research that proves it while it is proven that no flapping gives you a lot of benefits.



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[b][/b]What is it like to be married to a sex addict?

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op, what was the question asked, I want to search it on quora

Sex in Marriage is important as it beget the fruit of the womb and it is the production process of a test result of the agility of the couple.But what time is too much sex too much ? When one of the partner becomes an addict.Below is the story shared by an anonymous user on social media.

She began:

Its a bit hard to explain.

My husband is a sex addict - something I realised a couple of years into my marriage when I caught a string of exchanges with multiple women on his phone. I was angry, and arranged for us to go into counselling, where it became apparent that his need to have incessant sex was more pathological than immoral.

Divorce was a tricky option for me, as it would destroy my social standing and affect my career. He too was quite keen to remain married to me, and claimed to love me. At the same time, he realized that his dick did more thinking than any of his other body parts, and was not able to promise me fidelity. Instead, he offered me sexual freedom.

He said he would have no objections to me satisfying my sexual urges as I saw fit, as long as we both remained married and held emotional primacy for each other.

It has turned out to be a very questionable but satisfying arrangement. I have been able to expand my sexual repertoire immensely since, as has my husband. We still remain bonded to each other, but are not exclusive. I am not a sex addict like my husband, who still goes through a box of 20 condoms in a week, but I am happy with the opportunity to have sex with men (and women) that I feel attracted to, without suffering from emotional trauma.

It's not the way I imagined my marriage to be, but oh well.



If you have a similar experience don't hesitate to share or comment below


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An Anonymous user shared this story on Social media and its been trending ever since,he wrote:

It all started during my final year of engineering and she got admitted to her first year of commerce graduation (girls college). We belong to Bhopal, MP. We met in a get together.

Things went well for first few months, I felt emotionally loved and supported too.

Due to my Job I moved to Gujarat in 2011 right after Diwali, salary was quite moderate but I did supported her throughout from 2nd semester till last by paying her full fee. (I regret it badly now)

Coming from a conservative family her parents were least bothered about her college education. So, she excused them about a scholarship being offered to her. (minorities)

Though I had to clear my educational loan, my brother’s college fee and my sister was preparing for medical entrances. I kept on grinding myself so that I would be able to pay for them too.

As decided, she will get me introduced to her parents after college course to make them aware of us. Of course, it didn’t happen because of her extravagant and out of the orbit excuses. I thought of shifting to my hometown by then.

Meanwhile, I did get a better work opportunity outside the city so I went and she convinced me to get her admitted to a bank exam coaching to which I readily agreed. Again, I paid whole amount to Mahindra’s Coaching for the course. Although, I used to apply for all the relevant govt. bank examinations. She couldn’t clear them initially. Again, I paid for the next course, and use to guide her by solving sample paper for her and discussing the same. Though I was in IIT-JEE coaching industry, we get paid a decent amount for mental burnout. She did manage to get selected in Bank PO programme, Nov 2015. I was very happy for her. (inside in my mind I thought now she can take stand in front of her family that this is the guy who stood by me).

It Never happened.

She wanted to use WhatsApp, so I gifted her Moto G2. Let alone counting these many things, I have crossed the level of pampering by then, like buying clothes, bearing expenses, phone recharges, traveling etc.

1. I Use to buy sanitary napkins for her and even downloaded an android app which notifies about her menstrual cycle.

2. I took cared of all the things a girl would need.

3. She was having my bank ATM card. (one can guess the level of stupidity).

I hate myself now…for doing every bit for her.

She went to Bangalore to pursue Bank Academy for PGDM course and then 2 months Internship at Indore (I arranged food and lodging). She finally got posted in Mumbai. (I supported throughout, even for every small things.) Meanwhile I also got a decent appraisal, we then decided that after her two-year work experience she will take transfer/promotion to hometown and then we will get settle.

Now this long-distance relationship started taking the toll on us. I admit it, I often considers this as my fault, if I have been in front of her then she must have felt more loved.

I did whatever I could do being in long distance relationship. (ordering Dishes, Sandals, Dress, Pizza, Flipkart, Amazon and what not)

During her internship, she use to explain things to me, that how low is her stipend only to get money transferred in her a/c. but within 6 months of moving to Mumbai things changed. Her asking rate lowered.

I started getting those red flags but I kept faith in her. Fast forward 1.5 year, I started my own Ed-tech company and started working almost 80-90 hrs a week. I did manage to make it profitable. Meanwhile she got involved with her senior at the bank itself. One mutual colleague opened it up for me.

She had boyfriends here in Bhopal too, she was caught many times. I use to forgive her against her fake tears.

and now I realize, I was only an ATM card for 7 years of validity. ‘now’

After a year in Mumbai our daily talks reduced, and every time on the phone we end up with an argument. Always praising others. Always pointing flaws in me. I took all those.

As decided I was about to shift to Bhopal again, but this time I was too scared, because it was not a job or an overnight transfer. I got my company with me. (the decision seems wrong to me now).

I started asking her to take transfer, we have a lot many Bank branches here in Bhopal, but who cares, and a list of lame excuses explodes every time I asks this.

After Oct, 2017 I realized that the excuses for money transfers are getting lower from past one month and the call duration too.

(intuitions never lie) So, I decided to peak into her email a/c

Which I had made years before for her exams applications but never checked after that.

I got stunned to see the lavishing life she was enjoying.

Dominos, pvr, daily debits, ola, uber, salons, UPI, IMPS, so many names and what not.

She used to say, ‘RXX’ I only get 23k as salary and with your support I am just surviving here, commuting through local and all the shit about communism. I have lived in Mumbai earlier for work and totally respect the work culture and amazing support of people.

She would create a fake exam, party, office task and asks for heavy amount and then immediately withdrew it.

If cheating is as art then she is a Picasso of it. (I can say it now)

My suspicion grew but I kept holding my emotions and keep on asking her to take transfer.

(I will get judged here that I should have moved to Mumbai, like I said taking job transfer and shifting company are poles apart.

She would go straight unavailable on weekends (almost every), if I send her WhatsApp on Friday evening, it will be seen only on Monday morning at her office desk with a ready excuse.

1. Cell was dropped in water

2. My home didn’t have network connectivity

3. Sim card was stopped working

4. My senior ma’am was delivering a baby

5. I had fever ‘RXX’

6. I had to go to Ahmadabad for official training (only to enter in a dry state by buying alcohol from Mumbai wine shop)

Finally, I downloaded few months a/c statement – (password is a/c no. itself.)

This made everything clear to me.

The transaction amount was thrice her salary. Looks like a current a/c with so many unknown number UPI and IMPS. Irregular transactions only in a typical manner like 3000 or 5000 (fixed amounts)

I lost it completely. (Even a fool can understand it)

I told all this to one of my friend to which he said brother she is into prostitution for sure.

(High class Escorts is what people say nowadays).

I felt guilty, and it puts everything into question. That why I was doing all the things for a girl like her.

After few week, I again checked her email id. (GPS movement and location)

I cried my heart out after that.

E.g. just a week info of her night stays.

Thursday – Lonavala resort

Friday – Mira road, Bhayander, some apartment

Saturday – Chembur, apartment

Sunday – Century bazaar colony

Imagine an outsider girl with so many residences. You can figure out the level of Escort services she is into.

I used to order pizza through domino's frequently at her place, therefore having her exact address, I went to Mumbai after 2 days, got stunned to know that she has already moved out to a new place.

I called my friends to help me out who once have worked at her branch, I got to know the ugliest truth what her colleagues have spread, she has moved in with her new boyfriend.

I located her new place and stayed there for about 4 hours just to confirm the live-in relationship. And yes office rumors were true. My guts use to say me because she had stopped talking to me in nights, a few weeks before.

I returned the same day, didn’t let my tears fall that day.

After reaching Bhopal, I went my office, and intentionally searched about on porn sites, keywords – Mumbai couple, Mumbai escorts, Bank, Hotels etc.

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David Wills a relationship expert has said guys find thigh gaps attractive in women for 3 major reason see below

1. Traditionally, a woman’s thigh gap has only ever been shown to a man behind closed doors.
2. It shows that she is a female because there are no hanging balls.
3. It looks good when coupled with another one of her feminine features; her hips.

Comprehensively he continued !!!

1. Traditionally, a woman’s thigh gap has only ever been shown to a man behind closed doors

Traditionally, women haven’t shown that area of themselves before.

It has always been covered up by a big dress in most cultures around the world.

If you look at 1500s fashion, you’ll see that it’s covered up

If you look to the 1600s, you’ll see that it’s covered up, the 1700s, it’s still covered up the, 1800s, etc.

Women haven’t been showing that area of themselves and it’s only an area that a man usually gets to see when the woman is naked in his bedroom.

In other words, when the man is about to have sex with her or he is having sex with her.

So, when a man sees a thigh gap, it’s like he is almost there to getting to have sex with a woman.

Even in some tribal cultures that still exist today, you’ll notice that women cover up that area of themselves with a long dress and some cultures cover it up with a short dress.

Some tribal women may have their breasts on display, but they usually make sure not to show their thigh gap because showing that part of themselves, showing the vagina area gets the attention of men and makes them want to have sex.

Just looking at a woman’s thigh gap can make a man want to have sex.



2. It shows that she is a female because there are no hanging balls

The male and female body is actually very similar apart from obvious feminine features from the woman and obvious masculine features from a man.

For a woman, some obvious feminine features are her hips, her breasts and if she has a thigh gap, her thigh gap.

A subtle feminine feature can also be her face if she has a very feminine looking face.

To be clear, the attractiveness of a woman’s thigh gap has more to do with what is going on above her knees.

It doesn’t matter if her knees touch or even if her thighs are slightly touching because the most attractive feature of a thigh gap is the pussy gap.

What attracts men to a woman’s thigh gap the most is that flat line in between her legs or the subtle mound.

Since there are no hanging balls, no bulge from a dick and it’s just flat or a slight mound, a man’s primal instinct of attraction is triggered because she’s obviously a female.

The way that a man’s attraction to a woman works is that men are attracted to feminine features about a woman, things about a woman that make her look different from a man (e.g. her breasts, her hips, the shape of her butt, her face and if she has a thigh gap, that as well).



3. It looks good when coupled with another one of her feminine features; her hips

The angle of a woman’s hips is an obvious feminine feature which automatically attracts men in a subtle way.

If she also has a thigh gap that showcases the fact that she doesn’t have balls and a dick in between her legs, it’s a double attraction hit.

To be clear here, there are men out there who prefer a woman without a thigh gap.

There are men out there who prefer women with thick legs and there are men out there who prefer very skinny women.

Men prefer all different types of women and a woman doesn’t have to have a perfectly shaped body and a thigh gap to be attractive.

The truth is that all types of women will have men that find them attractive. However, the thigh gap is something that attracts men to women because it’s an obvious feminine feature.

It shows a part of her that a guy doesn’t normally get to see.

Traditionally speaking, a man has only ever seen that part of a woman when he’s in bed with her or having sex with her.

However, in modern society, thigh gaps are often on display.

It’s sort of like when women started wearing dresses that showed a little bit of her ankle.

In the past, that was seen as shocking and some people thought that the world was going downhill because women were showing their ankles.

Eventually, when the mini skirt came along, that was seen as shocking as well, but it was very attractive to men because men didn’t usually get to see those parts of a woman’s legs unless they were in bed with her or in a relationship with her.

These days, when a woman has a thigh gap and she walks around in tight pants or in a tight skirt or in a bikini, men cannot help but feel attracted to that.

It doesn’t mean that a woman has to have a thigh gap to be attractive, but it’s simply one of the things that a woman can have that will attract men.

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this write up is sensible and on point

my advice for you would be simply....Go out there and do your own research ,farming is profitable but without the business knowledge you will not say the success story. Dont expect anyone to handle your money to farm when you are not there.You have to participate in the process.I will give you few ideas below:

i am a farmer and i have a farm in ondo state. in my first year,i tried maize farming and groundnut farming on a 10 acres farmland...it wasn't very profitable as i spent alot on manpower because the land had so many trees in it,and tractors couldn't reach the farmland because the terrain wasnt ok for people at the ministry of agriculture then.when the product was harvested ,i sold it dried and shredded form and that covered for part of the expenses for manpower not all,i made loss on maize not to mention groundnut...before the season went of i decided i was going to quit maize farming because of the farm size ,i ventured into plantain farming which was my sure bet.

first year i had 1500 suckers planted ,constant manpower and farm maintenance was paid for the next year from the scattered harvest i made.
second year was a bumper harvest because i didnt have to buy suckers any more,i started selling some suckers too to my farmer friends.I made 2x the harvest from first year on a single row.
third year i had to expand the farm has the plantain farm kept on growing and doing well.
This might sound like a magic but it wasnt ,there was dedicated times and commitment...

If you cannot supervise your farm yourself i will advise you venture into buying farm produce for sales or better steal invest in farm production.

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PurplePatch:
The travails that come along with ageing are just too numerous and scary.

Getting older unfortunately comes with the possibility of declining health and many different diseases.One of the scariest is Alzheimer's disease, a common and severe form of dementia that results in memory loss, confusion, and decline in cognitive abilities.

Although there is no cure for Alzheimer's, catching it early can be helpful during treatments. Unfortunately, it's easy to miss the signs of early onset dementia, especially when it happens at a young age and you aren't looking for it. Younger-onset dementia can occur to people who are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s, and doctors still do not understand what causes the disease.

It's easy to dismiss symptoms like memory loss, general confusion, difficulty with directions, or losing things quite often as just someone being flighty or ditzy, which is even more true if they aren't happening all the time. But if someone is experiencing unexplained memory loss in any way, it's time to head to the doctor. There are some more symptoms you should also be aware of:

1. You Feel Depressed

A common symptom of dementia that isn't often talked about is depression. Many patients can feel sad and discouraged because of what is going on with them: they're starting to feel more dependent on others, more confused, and less sure of themselves. It is, understandably, going to impact their self-esteem and self-worth, leaving them showing depressive symptoms.


2. You're Anxious All The Time

As symptoms of early onset dementia get worse, it's not uncommon for patients to experience a lot more anxiety. This happens when they start to be more conscious of what's happening and the difficulties they are having, and can make them feel anxious about their situation. That anxiety can turn into anxiety about more than just the disease.

3. You Find it Difficult To Concentrate On Movies or Books

Dementia isn't just about losing your memory. Those who suffer from early onset dementia will also find it difficult to concentrate like they once did. They'll find it hard to stay focused on, say, a movie or reading a book, even if these were things they once really enjoyed. If you notice yourself, or someone else, acting this way out of nowhere, it could be cause for concern.

4. You Can't Think Of The Word You Want To Use

Many people who suffer from early onset dementia will experience, anomie, or difficulty finding the right word for something. If you often forget the word for something, don't panic unless it never comes back to you and happens often. Another sign is using long phrases to explain just about anything, which often don't really make sense, or contain a lot of vague vocabulary (words like "thing," "it," etc.).

5. You Hate Change

It's not very surprising that people suffering from dementia have trouble accepting change. They get scared and anxious about what is happening to them, and crave comfort. They don't want to try something new, they just want their routine, which can often make them feel more comfortable. You might notice that someone with early onset dementia never wants to try anything new and is completely freaked out by the idea of changing things up.

6. You Can Never Make A Decision On Anything

You might notice that someone who is early onset dementia has trouble making any kind of decision. While indecisiveness is not always a sign of dementia, it's often difficult for patients to plan, organize, and agree to something. Dementia affects the ability to reason and focus, meaning it's harder to come to a decision on something.

7.You Just Don't Feel like Doing Anything

Sadly, many people who suffer from early onset dementia will feel a lot of apathy — it's actually a common early sign of the disease. This person might show a loss of interest in things they typically enjoy and love. They might not want to go out and do things.

8. You Have No Desire To Be Social

Similarly, someone with dementia will not really have the desire to be social. The Alzheimer's Association says, "A person with Alzheimer's may start to remove themselves from hobbies, social activities, work projects or sports. They may have trouble keeping up with a favorite sports team or remembering how to complete a favorite hobby. They may also avoid being social because of the changes they have experienced."

9. You're Easily Frustrated

It's not hard to see why someone with dementia would feel easily frustrated — after all, they feel confused and have trouble remembering even simple things, and they're finding that their behavior and personality is also changing. That's not easy to deal with!

10. You Feel Suspicious Of Others For No Real Reason

Among the many behavioral changes that come with dementia, one unexpected one is that they feel suspicious of others. This could be because they're often confused and have trouble grasping a situation. It could also be because they don't fully remember the person they're around or the situation they're in.

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