₦airaland Forum

everybody now has an opinion on tiwa's marital crisis.
it is well. the guy made valid points though.

it's as if I will also close my windows at night too. no time for stories that touch especially as I wear next to Nada to sleep as a result of this yeye heat.

Lushka:
From the tone of your write-up, you are a trouble maker. Why stretch the incident to that extent?

you did not just say what I just read.

it is an intrusion of her privacy for goodness sake.

if she kept quiet, na your kind go say she encouraged him and gave him leeway to peep at her.


by their posts you shall know them. association of peeping toms.

Adeevah:
Another olosho sighted...

stale......try harder.

Adeevah:
Next...tonto dike vs churchill next...nairalanders can't waait

bad belle

enemy of progress.

coming from a woman, later when boys begin to bash your gender, you will be the first to scream blue murder.

what a shame.

crimes more serious than this are committed on a daily basis and they are always scared to arrest anybody.

it is now crimes committed in the confines of the bedroom that a public disclaimer is being issued.

real wa to the Nigerian police.

hmmmm
why am I finding it soooooooo hard to believe this post.

some of them can be verrrrrrrrry agile.

*runs away*

I got the same message yesterday morning.

immediately I knew it was a scam. used my ATM card this morning and it wasn't deactivated. then my annoyance grew.

called the number, and the background was noisy. explained my mission and the person at the other end was all formal and saying that he needed the last digits of my ATM card.

told him straight up that I used my card to withdraw money and it wasn't deactivated, therefore he should try his scam on someone else.

called him a thief and hung up.

it's Really pathetic.

marlockj:
So Wat does Dat tell u...

Dat d landlord shut dwn Cuz ur dad wrote a letter.....it has Neva occurred to u,that a landlord who needs money desperately is different from those who Jst wnt to try and see...

Or are u also aware that d landlord has d right to do Wat Eva he wnt wit is property?

am Nt a landlord doe, Bt Ppl view abt landlord is very wrong....some of u ur father's are landlord....

Some of u,ur Dat use tenant bills to pay ur fees tru school.....

Alwys endeavour to gv a good advice....

Someone wnts to rent ur car for xampl.... u say u no wan rent am again..accept him increase money.....u begin tell am say u no fit pay d rent Bt u wan use d car....Lik say Na by force....

I barely understood what you wrote.

can you reduce the short hand. I use glasses and I can barely read what you wrote.

I don't take my phones to church because it can be very distracting. let the messages wait.

also, sitting with familiar faces can cause distractions as there is the tendency to chit chat.

but what's the spirit behind sleeping once the sermon starts?

marlockj:
Funny girl the owner of the house said u shuld pay this or leave....your wasting money on a lawyer tell him you can't pay n unacceptable... in someone's house?

this is hilarious.... when you knw the landlord will still throw you out...

Instead of you to advice him to pack out ur telling him to use a lawyer...

A lawyer Dat will alwys tell u Dat Dat is a good idea,even wen he knows d other of the house will gv him notice and move him out....

What do you guys think...

Op shuld save money move to a smaller house n also build his own house...
when he finish buying,he shuld increase d rent wen he needs money let one of his tenant write through a lawyer saying he can't pay also.....

Funny Ppl wen Ppl are looking for house everywhere.. ur telling ur landlord Dat u can't pay....

Sometimes I wonder Wat Ppl take landlords for...someone building his house for business, Wich has option of pay or leave....someone hard earn money ohhh....

all this sermon on the mount for a three lined post.

Choi. the struggle is real though.

I gave him the advice because it happened to my dad few years ago and he replied back through his lawyer and nothing else happened after that.

calm down and stop hyperventilating biko.

write back to your landlord that you cannot afford the rent and the increase is unacceptable.

can be done through your lawyer if you have one.

comparison be it in all relationships, marriage and life generally is one dangerous way to reduce ones sense of worth.

why not run your race and let the other person run his/hers. at the end of the day we would reach the finishing line albeit at different times.

emusmith:
It's true! It still doesn't change the fact that SOME girls should STOP demeaning womanhood at the age where they should be focused on preparing for marriage and building their careers.

I modified my post and added few things.

it is nobody's business what she does with her life provided that she knows the repercussions of her actions.

we are her yarning and she's somewhere probably catching her trips.

at the end of the day, we are responsible for our actions.

God knows I have stopped commenting on topics like this but I need to make something very clear.

why are you guys like this? a woman takes this advice, no show. she takes the next persons advice yet no headway. do you know the kind of pressure she is to conform to what society and your likes say all the time.

she decided on the kind of guy she wants to settle down with, you people will be the ones to shame her and her choices. she sleeps with someone, everyone joins the band wagon to slut shame her. she is expected to do this and do that not for her happiness but because of the notion that she will end up in a man's house.

she takes all advice given from boys like you on the internet, from her friends, relatives, siblings and parent. she goes on that date and starts acting all fake. haven't you realised by now that a guy can spot a fake person from afar and by body language. ever wonder how she ends up in a relationship and it looks like she's acting out a script based on all the advice she has gotten. tell me how that relationship is expected to last long when she's acting like a robot that has been programmed to take in information both the good and the rubbish.

I am no feminist and I keep saying that I am all for equity and not equality because I recognise that there are specific roles for each gender to play. I am an advocate for her to do what she wants provided she is able to live with the repercussions of her actions later and it's what makes her happy. you have absolutely no right to tell anybody how to live her life by way of the non- existent advice you give her. a man who sees her will be with her if he wants to and not because he's doing her a favour.

anyhow, I have always learnt not to take anything I read on the internet especially nairaland seriously because more often than not, people would come online and say things to feel good about themselves or contradict themselves and in reality, they shovel and grove for the next girls attention.

women, be yourselves. do things because you want to do them not because of what the next person will say or think. for all you know, you have no idea what goes on in their lives. if you keep living according to the dictates of what people think you will be the one miserable at the end of the day and guess what, these same people will be the ones to gloat.

I am out. going through the comments on this thread so far, my post is more than justified.

RoyalRoy:
Send me a PM with all your details. Do it soon as possible.

you still dey this planet?
na wa oooooo

jaybee3:
The idiotic SAN obviously didn't want to get thrown out hence why he kept on shouting sorry like they put a glock on his balls

How Sarathief can still walk with his head high is what i'm unable to comprehend. A mighty number 3 citizen being dragged through the mud like that is simply shameful and he simply doesn't care about his legacy (That's if there is anything left to hold on to)

Nigerian politicians don't know the meaning of the word resignation especially when the office comes with some good perks.

good morning.

Flets:
Buhari is trying really hard to muscle the judiciary through the NJC. Silencing the judges to play by Buhari's rule is bad for our democracy.

Definitely, I trust the judidciary to fight back. The NJC himself is more corrupt than most, singling out few scape goats to intimidate the judiciary is unacceptable. If there should be a fight against corruption, it should be wholistic.... NJC inclusive.

what nonsense are you talking about.

those judges were sacked because of falsification of age as well as abuse of court process.

how is Buhari intimidating the judiciary that has an independent body to check the activities of judges as these..

the judiciary will not fight back because they have gotten rid of part of the bad eggs giving the judiciary a bad name.

jaybee3:
Where do i even start with you?

start with the badly written English.

in saner climes, a normal person would have resigned but not in this our Nigeria.

like someone rightly said, he dug his grave the moment the plans to amend the CCB act became public knowledge.

I believe there is something he stands to benefit, has benefited or will benefit this one he is still holding tightly to that coveted office.

whatever be the case, we dey watch.

Joel3:
craps as usual, he would have written it as a novel.

this government forget what they criticised the formal administration on. oil price is falling every day in international market but yet its going up in Nigeria. true federalism and let state control electricity. as fashola once said.

keep quiet if you have nothing sensible to say.

delishpot:
If reverse was the case would you say the same thing? If they reject a guy because he is poor, you come here to cry foul and say they don't see potential. If they follow the one with money, you cry that they are gold diggers. If they hang with broke on who finally gets rich, you say it was a gamble and they should not expect any reward for staying with him when he was poor rather they should have worked on themselves. Na wetin dem go do wey boys no go cry foul?
If a woman does this same thing, una go rain abuses on her.

by now, you should be used to the set of boys we have on this forum.

I was told that most of the male/female argument that goes on here is for ego trips. that most of the things they say here are very contradictory to what is done offline.

so my dear, simply read take what you can and pass.

choi.

stomach infrastructure. ponmo and booli.

fayose should refute these allegations, but I doubt he will do so. instead he will start the character assasination.

I am sure ekiti people are biting their fingers in regret for electing this oponu as governor.

tueh.

office politics is something I dread the most.

hearing the tales of a friend of mine who works in a law firm where the office politics thrives, it is not something I dabble in.

God help me when that time comes especially as I am the kind of person who would want to be overly friendly with everybody I work with. that thing can backfire seriously.

Naijasinglegirl:
Google aunty gwegwege. You'll understand

somebody has been frequenting SDK's blog a lot.

looool.

but China has given Nigeria the loan na so this your letter is dead on arrival.

this man should stop all this propaganda and focus on governing his state. better still, he should become president, let us see what he will do differently

I wonder what will happen to this his freedom of speech by the time his tenure in office ends.