123guys: Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:
1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.
She's not hiding anything, she is trying to be careful. Most serious Christians want to lose their virginity ONLY to their wedded husbands. If you don't have this same value, please move on with your life. Once you sleep with her, it is impossible for her to regain her virginity.
123guys: 2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.
Because she cares for you and hope to be married to you in future. She has no alternative than you for now
123guys: 3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.
Since you are not the religious type, please move on or get your own acts right with God through Christ. In a conflict of Light and darkness, one must break for the other
123guys: 4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.
I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.
This is normal for EVERY woman on earth. Their cycles put them in several mood swings within the month. Until they hit menopause before they acquire some form of mood stability.
I repeat, every woman is like her in this respect!
subsidywise18: So companies should sell at a loss to help the poor?
I like your funny and inefficent economic policy. We have tried and are.trying it. It isnt working because even monopolies need to make money to buy stuff to improve their service.
I'm sure you should run your own business at a loss or let government set the price since you think it is good.
Good morning
You didn't listen one bit or your bias is pushing you to the other extreme end.
1. I never said companies should sell at a loss. No company can survive that! 2. I've only said that some companies are monopolies over their market AND such companies must be made to supply goods and services at FAIR price. 3. I mentioned the fact that government agencies are complicit in the corruption that prevents fair pricing of goods and services by companies 4. This corruption still does not absolve the government of their responsibility to ensure fair pricing.
My question all along had been: Which parameters had been used by the electricity generation and distribution companies to determine fair pricing knowing that they are monopolies in this business?
Are you saying that the cost of electricity generation in Nigeria should be the cost of Generation in USA (for instance)?
Also, would you support a government agency setting prices for your business?
Both references are saying the same thing without an OBJECTIVE reason.
It's a pity that our government agencies are complicit in the corruption of price setting.
Unfortunately, for monopolies like electricity generation and petroleum supply services, a transparent means of cost estimation must be ensured as a DUTY by the government on behalf of the people!
Market forces play well only when there are alternatives. It brings to mind when telecommunications lines of MTN was sold at N30,000. Now, we buy the same SIM for N200.
Until electricity generation is completely decentralised, price control is a necessity!
subsidywise18: All very well, but so long as power is sold at a loss, so long as government sets the price, not the acutal companies, and so long as some people, rich, poor, government and private agencies and companies do not pay their bills.....all these are dreams, not reality.
We are shortchanging our power sector. Have been for decades.
Has anyone truely calculated (independently) the cost of electricity generation by Hydro and by Gas?
What is/are the major components of this cost?
Is electricity generation performed at less than optimum capacity? What is/are the major components of this cost?
Only after these are done can we conclude that cost of electricity is sold at a loss! Until then, it's just mere speculations
x123xlolls: What I will say is that, the Quran says:
“[w]hoever kills a soul unless for a soul or for corruption [done] in the land - it is as if he had slain mankind entirely. And whoever saves one - it is as if he had saved mankind entirely.” (5:32 – Saheeh International translation)
Adeleketoyin: My people please I need your advice.
I'm having a lil loggerhead with my Fiance.
My fiance works in a company, which doesn't give him time to come home or live in his rented apartment for long. I currently run a confectionery shop in my father's house.
My Fiance however wants to have a joint account with me when we get married soon in this my confectionery business. According to him, he'll support me, to help him get free in the future to stop his salary work and probably start another business without affecting the family.
But I don't want to have any joint account or partner with anyone in this my confectionery business. I want my business without any check or partner. He's insisting on joint account to run the business and its getting into our relationship.
Please what do you advice?
I run a joint purse with my wife, however a Joint Purse must be separate from a Business account.
The proceeds of your business account is what goes into your joint purse except it is a joint business.
Melvinbenggy: Hello everyone Good day, please I am having issues with honda eod 4 plugs anything I go through erosion the car turns off automatically and refuses to start till after some hrs please help me out what is the solutions engineer in the house.
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Do you mean road flood waters? If it is, check the sensor at the exhaust. Removing it or protecting it from water will cure the problem permanently!
TenQ: Why should you choose to live in denial? The truth ALWAYS set free: what other things have you truthfully but erroneously believed as a good Muslim.
hopefulLandlord: First off, this topic is directed at those Christians who believe aborted babies definitely go to heaven to enjoy forever and ever. if you're a Christian that holds a different opinion to this then this topic is not meant for you
This topic is based on 4 premises
1. Abortion is murder 2. Aborted babies go to heaven 3. many/most of the babies who get born into this sinful world stand a chance of falling away from God/Jesus or living a life of sin 4. Christ came to die for the sins of the world because he desires humans to make heaven.
If you are a believer in premise 2 then it makes sense to encourage abortion as a way of saving many souls that may end up perishing in hell. Of course I need to point out this only focuses on the aborted baby not who's doing the abortion. a "Christian" doctor who performs about 200,000 abortions in his lifetime would've automatically ensured salvation for 200,000 souls even though he (the doctor) doesn't make heaven in the end it's still a worthy sacrifice of one for 200,000
if you're a Christian who believes in all these premises and have no argument against it then you should encourage abortion rather than preach against it.
When did you decide to stoop this low?
Your self contradiction is not even evident to you!?
Under what circumstances is it legal for a Christian to commit MURDER?
Janosky: You are confused by the English you think you know. Your fellow 3 deities devotees Trinitarians acknowledge JWs are correct. Hebrew lexicon 259, haahat translated as "the one" or "one of" , actually meaning "First/Senior or leader @ Daniel 10:13, Genesis 4:19 and Genesis 10:25, use Biblehub to check out the Hebrew lexicon. Jesus is archangel Michael.
You have come again with lies
הַשָּׂרִ֥ים literally means "The ministers" (plural) Google translate is your friend.
The Interlinear bible translation ALSO prove your lies again. See the attachment! Where הַשָּׂרִ֥ים is translated as "of the Princes"
Repent of your deception.
One of the Princes mean that Michael is just one of several Princes
This is why i chose not to respond; going in circles. You have been answered on this.
Just believe what you want to believe about the Qur'an, while i hold to mine.
No problems! My objective is bringing out the TRUTH whether the truth is received or not is another thing entirely.
The standard Islamic Narrative of only ONE Qur'an that is word for word exact word of Allah is demonstrated as FALSE!
Islam usually fail under close SCRUTINY, therefore ask Questions for the sake of your eternity. I asked questions at my moment of decision and so, I know now where the truth that gives life lies.
Don't accept any religion (Islam or Christianity) without asking Questions . What is your greatest objection to Christ?
DeepSight: .... All of the above and much more grounds my belief that if a God exists who created this world, he/she/it can only be a cold and maniacal sadist of the worst kind imaginable.
I hope you are a vegetarian!? If not, how can you justify your conclusion?
My response might generate another argument that would not benefit us.
I am glad you are trying to understand Islam, but you are learning from the wrong persons and groups.
I don't have any doubt on the truth of Islam.
I think that's the sheik's opinion.
Okay! True, It's the Sheikh's opinion. But I've listened to him several times and he seems truely knowledgeable in both Islam and Islamic Apologetics!
I actually downloaded the Warsh Qur'an and Qaloon Quran from the Google Playstore in addition to the Hafs Qur'an that I had on my system. You might want to download them if you are concerned for the truth. I can point you to differences if you care!
Examples between Hafs and Warsh 1. Qur'an 2:184 Feed ONE one person or feed poor persons? 2. Qur'an 3:146 Fought or Killed?
You can check the difference between the Hafs Qur'an and the Warsh Qur'an (both Arabic Qurans).
At the end of the day, the question is Which Qur'an between the Hafs or the Warsh is the exact word of Allah AND Why?
seunny4lif: Oooh but Israeli is also grabbing lands. Israeli have not returned Syria land to Syria government and Jordan land to Jordan government or is it only Russia is bad Stories
Anyway my own is fuel prices are all time high with the massive billions euros on oil subsidy as in £2 per litre for fuel Electricity bill in summer is €300
German Economy Minister Habeck complains that restrictions on energy deliveries from Russia are political, not technical as Russia have cut off supplies through NS1 by 20%. But isn’t that what you wanted?
It would be suicide for Israel to release the Golan heights to Syria. I don't know if there can ever be a kind of guaranteed friendship between Israel and Syria.
GoodMuyis: Background Story My mother's name is Khadijat Yusuf, born to Muslim parents, and at a point raised by a Muslim cleric, married as a Muslim, but in her 30s, got converted to Christianity. In the beginning, she had attended some churches (2-3), but about 4 years after her conversion, she finally settled down at Deeper Life Bible Church. language class before reading to understand.
Shalom Alaikum
Muslims have always been hostile to both Jews and Christians and there is nothing anyone can do about that.
To effectively preach to Muslims, you have to know what they believe. From infancy every Muslim is inoculated against the Gospel of Salvation through Christ. 1. They teach that the Christian and the Jews have corrupted their religion BUT Islam is the corrections to the corruption 2. They teach that Christians and Jews have corrupted their scriptures BUT the Qur'an is perfectly preserved exact word of Allah 3. They teach that Jesus did not die on the Cross (of course no resurrection) and salvation does not require any from of atonement BUT observance of the five pillars of Islam and good works. 4. They teach that Christians and Jews are polytheistic BUT Islam is the only pure monotheistic religion in the world. They manufactured three god's for the Christians by deliberately misrepresenting the Trinity
For Muslims themselves, 1. They abhor questioning the Qur'an (even when it contains errors and fallacies): Allah knows best 2. They feel that God will respect them for their zeal for Islam
With these above, it takes pure grace for a Muslim to come to Christ.
So, how can Christians preach to Muslims 1. By EXPLAINING the Gospel of Christ to them 2. By EXPLAINING and ANSWERING their Questions about the doctrine of Christ to them 3. By FORCING them to question their Quran, Scholars and Islam. 4. By PRAYING for them to encounter Christ by themselves.
The worst thing Christians can do is 1. Give in into Islamic blackmails and Threats. 2. Keeping quiet and being economical with the truth of the Gospel 3. Assuming that Allah and Jehovah are the same person.
Islam thrives on ignorance mixed with deceptions. Their Scholars actively decieve Muslims Just as they try to deceive others especially Christians
subsidywise18: 1.Nigeria is not supposed to make profit from MTN and company. MTN and company are making enough profit to operate here...because they are not subsidised.
In return we get jobs, direct and indirect, tax revenue, etc.
2.Because we are a resource dependent economy. Have been since independence. We sell raw materials whose prices we do not control. As a result we don't earn enough money, and have to borrow to make the difference. Associated looting...since most of our money comes from revenue from selling raw materials, not from taxes....looting is made easier...makes the matter worse.
And yes, it annoys me to no end that Nigeria does not want to get off oil, and industrialize.
I'm done here.
1.MTN virtually collects money in Naira and the government has to convert the Naira to dollars which end up in South Africa economy! It's a net loss relationship even though we gain services and fringe jobs 2. I agree perfectly with you. However, Only the government can kickstart this industrial revolution. The business environment has to be made right.
1Tax income is too low to produce good enough supporting infrastructire..we rely on oil money which is not enough (and the looting makes things worse).
2.Power is subsidised to a point it is not profitable ...and thus they cannot pay for things that would improve generation, and suchlike.
3.We import. And it stifles job creation
4.Police has one tenth of what the NYPD uses to police 25 million people to police 200 million people.
Either way, government cannot set prices below the cost of producing power....and expect the companies to have the money to buy turbines..whether produced at home or abroad.
Oga, you don;t get it. Government is setting the price of power at a price the sector cannot afford. As a result they lose money.
Compare with GSM...GSM companies can set whatever price they want...and they have enough profit to import all their equipment, which they use to provide service.
WOULD YOU WANT GOVERNMENT TO SET YOUR PRICE AS A BUSINESSPERSON (and I insist you answer this question).?
So long as government sets the price, there is a subsidy.
Don;t live in denial. I know
And yes, the government is bad. I am telling you why they are bad. Setting prices for business is not good economic practice
You want cheap, without any thought for how it is paid for. That is wishful thinking. Sorry, but it is wishful thinking.
Good e'en.
I will answer you by siting just one example you yourself raised.
1. Is Nigeria truely making profit from MTN, Airtel and 9mobile telecom industry? (I delibratly excluded Globacom) 2. Why is the Naira getting devalued everyday since independence?
subsidywise18: Well, it isn't government that would produce the consumer items, it is people. And as someone said here elsewhere...people aren't interested in setting up industries.
Also, for industries to run well, you have to set up small scale industries that would build the components...for the big industries.
But when people aren't interested in doing that, buteither want to import or to get government job.....
What you failed to factor in is the cost of production of goods in Nigeria: it is far much higher than most countries of the world. The cost of diesel per litre is aost N800 Multiple taxes you pay will close up your industries unless you know how to settle FIRS and other agencies. You generate your own power, produce your own water, provide your own security etc All in a country where insurance is a scam and lending rates of banks are up to 30%.
Tell me why it is more profitable to manufacture pencils that import pencils from China at half the cost and not more stress?
subsidywise18: Also, power supply is poor because power has been subsidised to the point where it cannot make a profit.
Power generation had been poor because we depend on importation to service and maintain the Turbines and the Alternators!
Our technological poverty is destroying this nation but our economic experts seem not to understand.
Take for instance, transformer steel is the bedrock of electrical engineering. You cannot manufacture Transformers, Alternators, Electric Motors, Generators etc. Without these there is NO development.
subsidywise18: Subaidy removals in the past, are partial removals (It took me some time to understand this, so I am not defending government...I had the same question over 12 years ago).
At some point it becomes difficult for government to maintain petrol at price A, so, they reduce the amount they spend subsidising petrol , and this manifests as a rise in prices to price B., which government subsidises to. Once it becomes diffiuclt to stay at price B, rinse and repeat.
That's been happening since the 1970's. It's why petrol no longer costs 15 kobo per liter, like it did in 1981.
So long as government sets the price, there is a subsidy.
Subsidy removal is subsidy removal whether full or partial. The problem is that they keep destroying the fundamental indeces of our economy and Rob citizens to pay up for the damages
subsidywise18: Well most Nigerians love imports more than exporting. And yes, tax collection in Nigeria is poor
Nigerians do not have much alternatives either from the consumption point of view or production point of view.
We do not produce yarns for weaving clothes, so we import all our clothes and clothing materials. We have iron ore, yet we import our pins, needless and sewing machines. We import all our chemicals including cooking salt.
Nigerians don't have alternatives due to bad governance!
subsidywise18: A reason why i support aubsidy removal is that it would make our refineries profitable enough to export refined products. More money and jobs and tax revenues
Experience has shown us all that corruption will take up any money saved.
What had been the results of all subsidy removals that has been done till date? Can you honestly point to one?
subsidywise18: Well such things as inflation happen because when you subsidize fuel you render the refinery incapable of makong a profit
Once that happens, goverment subventions become the major source of income.
And that encourages corrupt practices like price inflation among other things ( it's government money after all. Chop chop money). And since the money will always be there. .
No subsides means that refineries can be run at a profit, which won't allow for that kind of price inflation or other forms of corruption. Eats into profitability.
Inflation in Nigeria is caused mainly because we run an import dependent economy. In other words we import virtually everything we consume. Our government is happy with this model because it is easy for them to generate money from Forex, import tax and custom's duty. This put pressure on our currency with respect to the dollar. Our economic experts seem not to understand this simple rule of economics: unfortunately, their big grammar have only plunged us into more economic woes!
This economic model is a disaster to Nigerians BUT our government is comfortable with it.
Your government cannot even think of an efficient TAX policy that will make ALL Nigerians pay equitable tax
subsidywise18: Our refineries broke down in part because subsides made refining petrol at home unprofitable, leading to our importing fuel
No sir! Corruption and our procurement policies made our refineries non-functional.
A spare part of $10,000 is purchased at $800,000. How can such refinery make profit? Intentional sabotage so that parts can be purchased will cause any company to run at a loss. Staff being paid in millions for producing NOTHING will kill any country!
Finally, when you are import dependent will destroy any nation
1.It is chopping all the excess dollars we should be getting from the rise in oyel prices, on top of the debt we have to pay off due to 8 years of low oil prices from 2014.
2.It is stifling investment in the petroleum sector. If it costs over N300-400 to refine one liter of fuel, and one has to sell it at N165 per liter, why invest in a refinery.? The hardy few that are investing in refineries are taking a big risk.
3.We are essentially subsidising fuel not only for Nigeria, but for other African countries.If petrol costs N165 here, and N300 and above in all our neighbours, why won't people smuggle.?
Yeah, inflation. But the truth is, we don't have the money. Yes, politicans, but what we are spending on subsidisng petrol this year is more than what any pol can loot this year. And yes, Buhari, APC , PDP etc are bad leaders, and yes, I don't like them as much as you do.
Nigeria has spent 413 trillion naira on fuel subsides between 2006-19.That's money that could have been used for education, health, transport, etc etc. And the more the oil price rises, the more the cost of producing fuel rises, and thus the cost of subsidsing it.
PPS: By supporting subsidy removal....it does not mean i deny the existence of , or the negative effect of corruption on this country. So stop quoting me about how corrupt this government is. That government is corrupt does not mean we should throw away trillions on corrupt subsidy monsters. And yes, I don;t vote for APC, PDP, or any of them.
Come back in exactly TWO years after the final subsidy removal and I hope you'll be able to tell us what Nigerians have gained!
It is only a stupid country that will have crude oil but choose to import refined petroleum. No one is thinking about this!
LordReed: Which is exactly what 99.9% of the universe is. The 7 other planets of our solar system cannot sustain life as we know it.
But here we have you AND An amazing "coincidence" of hundreds of interconnected cycles that made life on earth possible.
The universe isn't exactly chaotic in anyway except that they don't have the complexity available on earth. The laws of mathematics, physics and chemistry still holds on the planets, solar systems , stars and galaxies!
Just change one physics universal constants and predict if atoms can result!?
kimco: According to science, in the human body, the nervous system is responsible for feeling pain.
The bible claims that sinners will suffer forever in the burning lake of fire. And that the body will rot while the soul faces judgement.
Now my questions are simple:
1. Does the soul have a nervous system which is an attribute of the physical being?
2. If not, how are we to register the pain of hell forever.
John 5:29: "And shall come forth; they that have done good, to the resurrection of life ; and they that have done evil, to the resurrection of damnation."
Your nervous system will be in good functioning order sir!
reigncalif1: According to my little research about life including science and co , I came to conclusion of two theory 1 Life is too good to have been evoluted from nothing
2 life is not too perfect to have been created. I don Know if there is a theory out there that support this but I can call it created evolution mean in a way it seems we are created to evolve something like that
because life itself looks so reduculos to be created in the first place for instant Fate and survival of the fittest which exist among us is not a part of supposed creation because they lack purpose which is creation
Creation= purpose Evolution=lack of purpose
Why is there fate ... Why did our creator choose survival of the fittest method does it means out creator is more ruthless and partial
How can we evolve from nothing If ACTUALLY nothing can come outa nothing then evolution is useless
Design is based on the law of conservation of Energy. There must be a primary replenishable energy source: Plants There must be Cycles through the energies. There must be consciousness chairmanned by Emotions