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 Romance › Re: Ladies, Can You Fight Over A Man? : Vote by Theblessed(f): 5:13am On Nov 14, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] Do I blame them? No! I don't blame the d e s p a r a t e s rather, the culture. A culture that raises women to believe, a man is all they need to breath, that's to blame! When marriage is made compulsory for women in a culture, what do you expect. Everyone want to hook up with anything that has a tail, at all cost!  Sooner or later, women who could not find husbands, would be marrying their blood brother in other to be Mrs Somebody this culture is advocating for and pressurizing them into. lt will soon happen and failing that, some would commit suicide due to the name callings and stigmatization of the unmarried that exists in this culture. Wait, you'd see it happen! As years goes by, more baby girls are born and those that are unmarried now would have a lot to worry about - as these little ones come up to age to compete and then you'd know what is called battle and not fights, anymore!  Generally, I can't just imagine why once a woman slept with a guy down the road, she automatically claims him as her husband, why  Soon after that, she is barking mad at other women staring at him in the public 'Don't you dare touch my man', her body language says it all. And I ask, when did this casual encounter propelled you to the alter, Mrs? I need to know, fighting tiger!! An unmarried man/woman is like a clothe in the market, any one can price it yet, it's not theirs until they purchase it, gorit To claim a husband, get his ring in you 3rd finger first, plus the Certificate and videos to prove the occassion - shameless idiotic man-eaters! Now you heard it, next time, go throw youself in bed for a man that is not interested in making you his wife for a second let alone making you his life partner then, come back and claim he's yours, foolish thing. And for the men that ends up marrying this sort of women, I'm sorry! For no responsible guy would bring this sort home to mama except sugar daddies - who would be delighted in making them their 2nd, 3rd and wait for it, 4th wife - as if this sort mind? No, why would they, when they are this desparate - it will soon happen here, and we will all witness it! Shameless loosers!!! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: -- by Theblessed(f): 3:53am On Nov 10, 2011 |
cynthiafred67:[b][size=16pt]Why not first discuss it with them to know the reasons and then, inform them of your plan and if possible, give them a target time (i.e. between here and there) instead of rushing out to make them look like fools! And Yes, life na turn by turn but with this selfish attitude and lack of consideration for the feelings of others in your lifeyou could end up on the shelf for quite a long time, pray! You should be supportive of your elders and not competitive. Competition in a family can bring nothing good but jelousy, chaos, destruction and to some extent death - as people began to plan, cunnive, ambush and set traps to hurt others, hmmm! You seem to lack empathy and compassion on others, but here's a word from the Bible for you ''Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy'' (Matthew Chpt 5 v 7). Sympathize with your sibblings in their difficulty, support them and they would rally around you in turn. In your greed to hook up at any chance and cost before you elder sibblings becareful, he who laugh last might laugh best in your face because, you're doing it out of selfishness knowing, not only the cultural implications on your elder sibblings but also, the emotional/psychological effects of such a move on their persona. Here's a story for you perhaps, it would teach others on here. It is 10 years now my female cousin got married to a hard working guy that loves family. This guy comes from a poor background and wanted the best for his family. He put his brothers and sister through school and University and even got his immediate junior brother work in the city. After just one year of working, he felt he's made enough money to get married to a colleague from work without notifying his senior brother on time who gave up alot to make him what he is. Obviously, father and mother supported the marriage but other sibblings were not happy as they felt, he made their senior brother look like a fool, for all he gave up for them. A year later my cousin husband married her and immediately they started a family and now, have 4 children (2 each) after 10yrs of marriage. For the younger brother and his wife, we are yet to hear the cry of a baby for they are having difficulty concieving- we are all waiting to hear a baby cry!!! Hmmm! An act of selfishness can bring misery: For God judges the thoughts and attitudes of the hearts (Hebrew Chpt. 4 v.12 - i.e He looks for motives - not necessarily our actions but the motives behind it). Becareful, it's not how we started that matters rather how we end up!  [/size][/b] |
| Celebrities › Re: Michael Jackson's Doctor Found Guilty Of Involuntary Manslaughter by Theblessed(f): 3:04am On Nov 08, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]But what can you do if you're naturally a compassionate person? Compassionate people are easily drawn to work of mercy, performing compassionate roles and, doing it out of sheer human sympathy - and that can be ruinous to their health, career and life and pocket. It's a pity what happened to Dr Conrad. Michael Jackson and his lifestyle has ruined a decent gentleman, who only went to help a walking ZOMBIE trying to take others to the abyss with him. Imagine, his home was nothing less but a Pharmacy? Is that a normal life? No wonder, he ended up that way. In retrospect, we wish Dr Conrad hadn't even heard of, talk less of seen and let alone touch that atomic bomb they called Michael Jackson, that was waiting to explode at the time. In Igbo language we call his kind, 'Ocho nga na oko'.  And that means, a dangerous and risky individual!!! Not quite sure if I got the interpretation correct but anyone can help here!Well Dr Conrad, experience they say is the best teacher and that's also, a learning curve for everyone in Healthcare - to watch that compassionate Inner-man in them. You see, sometimes, that Good Samaritan Spirit in us all can be damaging to our health therefore, we must apply common sense in these things, by not letting our hearts rule your heads! It's a pity, it ended this way! [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Prophecy And Relationships by Theblessed(f): 2:58am On Nov 07, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]You see, I have nothing against any man/woman of God that claims to have the Anointing of Prophecy. However, I hold them responsible if what they prophesied did not happen - Deutronomy has given us the Authority to test them and it said, ''And if thou say in thine heart, how shall we know the word which the Lord had not spoken? When a prophet speaketh in the Name of the Lord, if the thing follow not - - - thou shall not be afraid of him'' (Deuteronomy 18 v. 21 - 22 King James Version). As you can see the Bible has shown you how to test a true man/prophet of God - use this tool to sieve off the 'FAKES' among true men of God. Personally, I have been a victim of these wolves in sheepskin and that was, when I was a Church goer not now I have given everything I have back to the maker and owner of my Soul. Please, guys, read your Bibles everyday, and your eyes will open to the word of God and you'd be able to absorb true messages of God when spoken to you. For all I understand about prophecy given to people I know, any prophecy our God has meant for you, will always come as a 'Package', there will be Healing, Deliverance and Abundance blessing in it - for our God does not do things in 'Halves'. HE IS A GOD OF COMPLETION AND THERE'S NOTHING HALF ABOUT HIM!!! Also, if the prophecy is going to take long to manifest, God will make you aware of the time gap e.g. from today until June next year or in 10 years time - the prophet of God will inform you also. Gorit Therefore go home and watch, it will certainly be fulfilled. But remember, God knows us too well - and knows that we are weak humans beings with very thin endurance threshold therefore, he would not unnecessarily delay the manifestation of his prophecy/blessings upon his children's lives - that I know! For me, I don't know of any prophet I could rely on his Anointing power of prophecy - for accuracy at this time in our lives, other than Prophet T . B . Joshua - God bless him and the Ministry! I can not wait to see the Anointing that is more powerful than his - I can't wait!!!!! Get me right, there may be someone, some where out there but, he/she is yet, to show up. The world is waiting! On the other hand, if I'm still single would I consult a prophet for marriage? No, I would rather pray and fast seriously about it every week, for at least 1 month however, if I happened to be in the Church on the day, and there is a prophecy for me about the issue then, I will hid to it completely because, I know it's not only a golden package coming, but it is a golden opportunity in my life for ever! So guys, beware of false prophets, the Bible warns![/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: A Bad Wife Makes A Bad Mother by Theblessed(f): 12:58am On Nov 03, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Ahrrrrrrh, so does a bad husband and those part-time dads, too! Are you one of them? Check and see! Perhaps, I'm talking to someone here! You see, there's no guarantee in marriage. You might think you'd got it right today and wake up the next day with a shock, beware!!! As we all know, it takes two to make a marriage, and it takes two to break it, you mustn't forget that! And for those who won't marry a woman from a broken home, I say too bad! The world is full of them, what are you going to do about it?? What about a guy from a broken home? Is he also included in this assertion or? And may I ask, would he ever marry someone? I could hear some unfair people on here, saying why not? Ahrrrrrrrr, double-standard stairing up once again! What a fair world we live in? [/size] |
| Family › Re: Buying A Car Or A Piece Of Land Which Is Better For A New Couple by Theblessed(f): 5:28pm On Nov 01, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Just get the piece of land please! What if the car smash into pieces just before the ink on your signature dries out, or even before the car leaves the garage, huh!!!  Your see, land is an investment forever - it never deteriorate, it's never obsolete in fact, it gains value as years goes by but, a car is a luxury you could leave without and it becomes obsolete immediately the ink on your signature could even dry out. So wisen up, buddy!!!!!  [/size] 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Kano Destroys 42,000 Bottles Of Alcoholic Drinks by Theblessed(f): 5:13pm On Nov 01, 2011 |
[size=16pt]As if that would stop alcohol binging out there. You see, this na Nigeria o o o! Nigeria is a stiff-neck nation, the more you ban it, the more it comes in therefore, Kano State I say brace una self! Na now una go get 24/7 underground BARRRRRRRRS! [/size] |
| Crime › Re: Frustrated Hiv Patient Bathes Counsellor With Acid by Theblessed(f): 5:03pm On Nov 01, 2011 |
[size=16pt] This is wickedness! How could such a person enter the Kingdom of God? No wonder, he or she is already rotten in hell with Hiv-Aids. Whoever did this, your master satan is at the hell's gate, waiting for you. There's no way such a person will smell the Kingdom of God, doing this. For the Bible has said, 'Evildoers shall be cutt-off but those that wait upon the Lord, they shall inherit the earth' Psalm 37 v. 9. And v. 20 confirmed it with a damning end for such a person, 'But the wicked shall perish, they shall consume into smoke, shall they consume away' (King James, authorise version ) Now, tell me how such a person shall see the Kingdom of God. Evil! [/size] |
| Career › Re: Ekiti Senior Citizens Get N5,000 Monthly Allowance by Theblessed(f): 11:36pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Well, it's a good idea! I hope the Governor had done his maths very well and not to have led these poor elderly to the middle of the sea and then, abandon them. How awful it will be!!! No African State is economically strengthened enough to sustain a Social Security hand-outs in this our time. Again, we hope the governor had done his Sums properly as we are not here to compete or brag about 'Which State' first introduce the Scheme rather we are talking about the 'Sustainability' of such Schemes therefore, we are all watching this space seriously and with great curiosity. Good luck, Governor! [/size] |
| Sports › Re: Siasia Says People Are Jealous Of Him by Theblessed(f): 8:35pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Of course! When you're skillfully and financially successful in life, there's bound to be some jealousies round the corner! But then, how many people on earth are this successful? Count them to verify why there ain't gonna be jealousy around successful people when poverty is everywhere you look. Imagine, a one-eyed man in the land of the blind scenrio! What did you see That's what I'm talking about!You see, successful people can still walk round the block and interact with common people if they could humble themselves and keep their big trap shut! Hey, other big fishes have done it before you all, and still doing it! Example, the Beatles, the Rollingstones etc - are still walking the streets without Bodyguards and Security following their tails here and there,huh! Therefore I say, humble yourselves, men!!!!! [/size] |
| Politics › Re: Okonjo-Iweala: Is She The Messiah We Are Waiting For, Or Do We Look For Another? by Theblessed(f): 9:08pm On Oct 22, 2011 |
[size=16pt]But, why don't you first set yourself ablaze so that the younger ones would follow your example instead of coming here, to rally and deceive unintelligent and weak minds in your struggle to right the wrong of our Country. Or you don't want to do it until you see your kids grow up and through school,huh!! Go on, do it if your life is that sad! It is called self-sacrifices or Martyrdom!Go do it for your Country, that way we know you love Nigeria too much instead of coming to urge poor souls to commit suicide for you, whilst you live! How fair, you are? [/size] |
| Sports › Re: Osaze Blames TB Joshua's Prediction For Super Eagles Nations Cup Exit by Theblessed(f): 6:51pm On Oct 09, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Please, stop blaming and put-in the hard work next time because, that's the only answer to success. Hard work, hard work, hard work!!! The footballers were not hungry enough to win, that's why they failed to qualify and started looking for scapegoat - someone to blame. They are lazy a - s e s! Beside that, for those who are still castigating Prophet T. B Joshua, I am very sorry for una. Everyone, all over the world knows that, the prophesy of the Man of God at the Synagogue is overwhelmingly accurate - you don't doubt it as it would hit you in the face - but who can beat his prophesy? Bring them on!!! And how shall we know the word which the Lord hath not spoken, some asked in the Ancient time Well, here is a bit of the answer God gave them to identify false prophets. For the Lord had said, 'When a prophet speaketh in the name of the Lord, if the thing follow not, nor come to pass, that is the thing which the Lord hath not spoken, but the prophet hath spoken it presumptuously; thou shall not be afraid of him'. Deuteronomy Chpt. 18 v. 21 - 22 (King James version). Read the whole Chapter to get a gist of what the Lord is teaching us. You see, for those of you who are bent on blackmailing and covering up the truth that is flashing right under your noses - I say, your blackmail can't make any impact on the powerful Anointing on his life, for he is loved all over the world by those who have taken the trouble to get to know him therefore, if you can't beat his gifts just join him - come to the Synagogue and confess all, you will be forgiven. You see like most Nigerians, the Man of God enjoy Football games beacause, Football is a way of life for a Nigeian male. In this matter, the Man of God did not say he was predicting in the Name of the Lord, did he Rather, you all assumed he prophesied, was it not the case He only spoke his heart. Prediction is different from Prophesy p l e a s e !!! He revealed 'the thought of his heart' and it came true, just think of when he actually prophesy with a touch of heaven on it, you will pooh!Please, stop your blackmails - you can't change what we know about him because, we love him dearly. [/size][/b] |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Indecent Dressing In Churches Worries Nigerian Pastor by Theblessed(f): 12:50am On Oct 08, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Every Christian man/woman knows very well that inappropriate dressing is not acceptable in Christian Churches. Christians should understand that any woman that dresses inappropriately to Church is nothing but a STRANGE FIRE! These are ungodly women whom satan had entered, and use them to distract the Children of God from receiving the Gospel - they shall not succeed! Where a Strange Fire (a seductress ) is in the Church, the best thing to do is to treat her like you would treat her master satan. Disgrace her in public - get the ushers to show her the door - she won't come looking like that to Church again and others like her will learn their lessons. Some of them are p r o s t i t u t e s - they are not there for God rather, looking for pundits therefore since they want publicity, expose them so that people would know they are on the game - they won't come back again. [/size] |
| Family › Re: 3 Caeserian Sections, 3 Girls -Should I attempt a 4th? by Theblessed(f): 1:49am On Oct 06, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Yeah, yeah and yeah! You're absolutely right, thanks for spotting the error! I was not thinking straight in my categorisation of X and Y chromosomes in men and women (imagine the time of the posting? Far gone midnight - typing away with one eye shut). Well, it's up to men to do their Arithemetic and analyse critically before shooting their X and Y - to ensure they hit their target, abi? [/size] |
| Family › Re: 3 Caeserian Sections, 3 Girls -Should I attempt a 4th? by Theblessed(f): 3:19am On Sep 30, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] Since you asked for our opinions here, I have to be blunt with you and I'm known for being blunt but, who cares! You see, you're not God and your husband isn't either. It's a pity you had to go through 3 Caeserian sections yet, a boy wasn't forth coming and you hope to try the 4th time and what if it's another girl Huh!!!! Failing that, what if it's the boy you hope for, and he turned out with Physical/Mental Disabilities or any kind of disability you can not cope with e.g. Downs Syndrome, cripple, blindness etc - would you consider it a success story, then? There are thousands of couples who would give their arms and eyeballs for what you've got, still you're not satisfied. Why can't people be thankful for what God has given them - why do you all like to re-write God's story You are trying to please your husband because he's been a good boy, EXCUSE meeeeeee! Is it not how he should be to you, in the first place? So you have to give him a medallion for being a good boy, really? If he wants to cheat and destroy his family, let him get on with it and don't you risk your life for that, in trying for a 4th baby that could even turn out to be another girl. Now, let me tell a little but sad story, I'm sorry. You see, 3 years ago, I lost one of my first Cousins through ignorance. My Cousin had 6 daughters and one son but she and her husband were never satisfied. I understand, alot of pressure was piled on her by Society. She decided to try one more time and it turned out to be twin girls (the genes/twins runs in her mothers side of the family - her own mother had 7 daughters and a son). The babies where delivered naturally and there were no complications but, she was discharged home from maternity earlier - 3 days after delivery considering she had twins and should have been monitored a little longer before being discharged, home. On the 4th day as she went to bath, she collapsed and died leaving 8 distraught under 13 years old daughters behind - how foolish! Does it worth it ? Now, she is up in Heaven answering God's questions and with the way you're going, be warned!Don't be selfish, think of your daughters and their futures as well - for girls are more than blessings if you don't know it, yet. I could hear some say, tufiakwa, it will not happen to me and I say, wait till it does!!! Your see, the husband she left behind has since re-married and still looking for a son perhaps, he hadn't learnt his lessons, he would soon. So, my dear sister, it doesn't worth sacrifcing your life for a man, ok! A man would cheat whether you like it or not. If you like, you could be or win the world's best wife of the year for him still, he would still go out with other women and marry them if it comes to that. The pressure should be on him to produce a son and not you after all, he is the one who failed to give you a son you'd always wanted - pile on the pressure instead of the other way round, if you like!!! Women, we are Goalkeepers, keeping 2 balls namely, X and Y at any one time and Men are Strikers with only one ball X, to shoot at our balls. Depending on what they want, it's really upto them to hit our X if they want a boy or our Y if it's a girl they want - its really upto them and they should be doing the crying if they miss their target and not us, please! Now, let me be a little gentle with you. Here is a 'Pre-conception Diet' for you to try if you're still considering the 4th baby and a baby Boy for that matter. First of all, both of you should prepare your bodies at least, to avoid any birth deformities. For you, take your 1 per day Vitamins e.g. Salium, Pottasium (8 weeks before Conception) and Folic acid (3 months before/3 months after Conception. In addition, you need to gear your diets towards ALKALINE oriented foods e.g. eat regularly: Bacon, Sausages, Roast Beef, Fish and Prawns etc at least 8 weeks before trying - avoid Acid oriented foods, And for those, trying for a baby Girl I suggest, in addition to taking I per day Folic Acid, they should also eat Acid oriented foods e.g. lots of Vegetables, Lean meats, Milk, plenty of Fruits and avoid Alkaline oriented foods. This is just an idea, it's not tested or proven but I know some people it worked for and I suggest, you research a bit further, about them before trying. Good luck with the baby Boy you hope for! [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Blackberry Fever And How It Affects Relationship? by Theblessed(f): 3:25am On Sep 24, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Well, you ask for our opinions and I'm known for being blunt here. Anyway, here is mine. Heart ache, Heart ache, Heart ache!!!!! If you don't want to suffer the above in future, just dump him now!! But, considering husbands are too scarce your end, I suggest you pray, fast and get him delivered if you decide he is the one. Obviously, he has an addiction problem and who know what other addictions/issues you could be dealing with in future - alcohol, women, food, p o r n o g r a p h y etc? Addictions are demonic therefore, he need deliverance from a reputable Ministry - go seek help for him! Imagine, your story! You went out on a date after hounding you for over a year and when you got there, his mobile phone was more important to him than you!! Excuse, me! Did I hear correct ? Babe please, look further than you nose 'cos, all that glitters are not gold! This guy, is not really a boyfriend material let alone a future husband. However, it seems he's crying out for help, by asking you to take hold of the mobile thus, shows he can't help himself. That aside, the verdict is: He might be looking for a Sex partner and if that's what you want, good luck!! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Can You Share Your Toothbrush With Your Spouse? by Theblessed(f): 2:57am On Sep 20, 2011 |
[size=16pt]What? What am I hearing here? And, why would a decent and well informed person ever, do that? [/size] |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Chris Oyakhilome's House And Jeeps (Picture) by Theblessed(f): 2:45am On Sep 20, 2011 |
[size=16pt]But, we could all believe every and any thing we read on here, but my question is: How are we sure the Estate and the fleet of cars on show here belongs to this man? It could be a public car park for rich and opulent people in that environment and there's nothing wrong, is it? However, if actually this is his, I'm so sorry for his congregation! This is a typical example of a wealth idolater - worshipper of material wealth that is contrary to the word of God - where is the god they supposed to be worshipping? Perhaps, one day the Congregation will get their brains back from the brain washers out there in that Ministry but, its too late as the damage has alreay been done - so I say, go leak your wounds, in shame !![/size] |
| Business › Re: 'RUNS' Business In Nigeria: A Multi-billion Naira Industry? by Theblessed(f): 5:13am On Sep 18, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] How pitiful!!!! The urgly side of it is that, some people on here couldn't see anything immoral and sinful in this trade called game/fun/run, that these girls indulges in. Sorry!!! Imagine, these girls going about sleeping with so many men and any thing with a sausage in between his legs - for material gains and fashion that comes and goes within 4 months, is beyond me - pity! Among all the places in the world, is it Africa in particular Nigeria, that one would take such risks?? A place where, almost all of them are infected with Hiv Aids due to the level of promiscuity, I wonder! In fact, the women are catching up too, if not worse and I ask, such a place, is it where one should risk his/her life on 'death roll'? Generally, 95% of African men are ignorant when it comes to protecting themselves, their wives and girlfriends from s e x u a l diseases. Majority of our men never 'think' protection in their promiscuous pursuits and the girls themselves would not even suggest of it, for the sake of loosing trade/their men - it stinks! They won't dare touch condoms even when given free of charge - they won't use it - they rather die catching the nonsense and infecting un-assuming and innocent people in their lives, than use something they consider a hinderance to attaining the apex of s e x u a l pleasure. Imagine a 5 minutes pleasure and that's the level of ignorance, I'm talking about here. How silly!! May I just say girls, good luck with your 'Blackberries'! When your time is up, just go and meet your maker and, don't forget the Blackberry! Whatever your pursuit in life is - money, fame, material wealth, designer cloths/bags and Jimmy Choo shoes remember, we came to this world with nothing and we all, will leave with nothing - as you can see, it doesn't really worth it, does it? [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Why I'm Being Attacked By Detractors - Okonjo-Iweala by Theblessed(f): 9:18pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] Anyone can believe the dead on here, if they wish! The wicked are only ploughing to uproot Ngozi so that they continue with their evil ways - but they shall not succeed unless, this Administration was not ordered by God - it is God's will, and his will must be done in Jesus Name, Amen!! The word of God told us in Psalm, 'The wicked draw the sword, and bend the bow, to bring down the poor and needy, and to slay those whose ways are upright. But their swords will pierce their own hearts, and their bows will be broken', (Psalm 37 v. 14 -15). So Ngozi, 'do not be afraid or discouraged because of this vast army attacking you. For the battle is not yours, but Gods (2 Chronicles 20 v. 15) Therefore sit tight lady, and watch your victory over the enemy!!! Afterall, who's on that CHAIR? It's still Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala and not all these block heads on here spewing out their wickedness of heart! Demoncracy demands transparency and accountability in all areas of government dealings, and I support that. If Ngozi is found guilty of malpractice as alleged which in my view, are nothing but wicked smears by enemies of progress, lying in wait and setting their wicked traps to discredit her then, she must face the consequencies, as no one is above the law. However, if innocent after this trial by the media (of course, she is innocent!), and Ngozi is still sitting tight on that CHAIR, you should all eat your own pooooooooh and die! Shame on you lot!!!! You're the evil dragging our Country back and the Lord will cut off, the wicked! (Psalm 37, read all and see what God proposed for the wicked/evil people). The wicked should remember that, 'the word of God is living and active, sharper than any double-edge sword, it penetrates --- it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart (Heb 4 v.12). I'll leave you all, to chew on that. [/size][/b] |
| Fashion › Re: Must A Lady's Wedding Dress Be White? by Theblessed(f): 1:37pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Not necessarily! One can wear any colour they are comfortable in. White Wedding gowns by tradition signifies virginity - purity of a maiden, are you?? This is because, in the olden days, ladies kept their virginity until they are married. That meant, leaving their Papa's house, straight into their husband's family. They did not leave home or work like we do today and never had boyfriends. And their mothers were absolutely, proud to show them off as true virgins on their wedding day. But today, all we could see in our Church Isles and Alters are ladies in white who are not virgins - that's hypocrisy. Hey, are you a virgin yourself? I would be shocked, to hear that! However, if you're, that's fantastic - what a lucky man, there aint many around you know? Why? Because, Nigerian men have deflowered them all, yet, they want to marry a virgin girl, in their dreams! For they can't eat their cake and have it, as women would pretend it if they want to. When I got married I wasn't a virgin either. Ashamed?? Why would I when they stole it, abi? Therefore, I was not caught in that white thing but boy, I wore a very rich Ivory colour decorated with matching lace - it was beautiful and still is after all these years.  So, if you're considering a wedding, go for ivory or light cream you'd look fantastic in it - it's a sumptous colour than white. [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Ladies Can U Marry A Well-educated Man Without A Good Job? by Theblessed(f): 12:37pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Well, can't see why not! Yes, if he has the potential and aspirations for life - to develop and achieve in life and not the kind that hide behind his laziness and give millions of excuses that prevented him from becoming our president then, go for it! You need a hard working man, a go-getter plus those colourful certificates and skills, whom you can achieve together with. And, not the kind, that accumulate colourful certificates with no prospect, no ambition or drive - a dreamer, that you can do without! Good luck! [/size] |
| Travel › Re: Coming To Abuja In Nigeria? I'm @ your Service: Car Hire ETC by Theblessed(f): 11:25am On Sep 10, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Hey Pamcomps, I must say this if you don't mind! You see, it's one thing placing an advertising in the media but another, getting noticed. Just gone through you advertisement there - you're offering a service to both Nigerians and foreigners (planning to visit Nigerian perhaps, for the first time) there's no need saying to your prospective customers, 'you want to know what type of service they're looking at'. That's too crude and shows unprofessionalism, on your part. In fact, knowing Nigerians reputation abroad, that could cost you more as some people could be put off using your service and suspecting that, you might not be a genuine taxi company they could do business with thus, they won't use your service. Why not list all the services you offer in your business so that, customers have choice of what they want instead of you trying to find out by querying them. Get me right, there's nothing wrong in finding out what a customer need as long as what they need, is not on your list of services at least, you could assist in locating it. I think, setting it out in your advert would help your business, Good Luck! [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Okonjo-iweala Vows To Tackle Corruption by Theblessed(f): 1:41am On Sep 10, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Good! Noticed some don't like that, tough!!! Abi, someone go first sign the cheque before, the corruption go begin, huh? Well, if she hadn't sign the cheque, make una come corrupt! We the public, are watching, una! For the first time in Nigeria, there must be accountability of what we earned against what we spent. We are fed up of watching these rogues earning #50 Naira a month but live a billionaire's lifestyle they can not defend, based on what they earn. No, it's got to stop! Good, everyone is now going to live within the remuneration package we promised to pay them, and which they signed to - it's called 'your Employement Contract'. Adding to this, I should suggest, they go back and re-read it once more, to get use to the figures, the Nigerian people promised to pay, maka ndi uta! And, if ino big for them eyes sorio o, na so we go kuku ma pay o, or find another job You see, oyibo them call am 'living within your means'. But, the Nigerian public say na - 'cut your coat according to your size', and that's what Mrs Okonjo Iweala is saying, too. So, what's wrong with that? He who does not like the idea, can quietly move back to his village.huh? This ogbu opi ga ezi imi wey the Nigerian people dey suffer for this country, must stop - as anyone with integrity knows that there's pride and respect in earning your income, than not only stealing from the public you suppose to be serving, and acting as if, the money you stole, is earned by your own effort, really? [/size][/b]. |
| Travel › Alitalia Or Luthansa - Which Appreciates You More? by Theblessed(op): 5:06pm On Sep 09, 2011 |
[size=16pt]'The taste of the pudding is in it's eating, they say', can anyone tell me as I'd never eating these two puddings, how tasteful they are, and why? You see, I'm planning to travel soon and I'm considering these two flights - Luthansa or Alitalia to Africa (don't suggest any other flights. pls!). In terms of security, safety and hospitality and considering that, nothing is 100% accurate or safe - what's your experience with them? Don't mind how long the journey took, so far as we arrive safe and well that's my concern please, help if you can! [/size] |
| Family › Re: Why Cant A Lady Return To Her Parent's House After A Fight With Her Husband? by Theblessed(f): 11:20pm On Sep 08, 2011 |
blacklion:[size=16pt]And what's wrong with being a divorcee-in-waiting? That's even better than the dog fights, some experience in their so call marriages. Women are not scared of divorce - men are, and that's why they are always the first to hook up when it happens. In fact, its FREEDOM! Nobody would query where you've been or what you've done! You're your own BOSS, right? And who would say no to being BOSS, only a fool? That aside, but who say marriage hasn't got it's own woes? You see, there's an error in your thinking! Because, one chose not to include all issues in marriage in his/her writing, does'nt mean they do not exist, ok? It would be nice you learn to think logically, before challenging other peoples ideas/views, that way, you perceive things broadly. [/size] |
| Family › Re: Why Cant A Lady Return To Her Parent's House After A Fight With Her Husband? by Theblessed(f): 3:47am On Sep 08, 2011 |
[size=16pt]How do you mean - verbal, psychological or physical push and shove kind of fight with the hubby, you mean? Depend on what kind of fight o o o, man dey pass things, you know? If na psychological warfare kind, to a degree, the lady can deal with that and if the body language gets hotter than necessary, as long as l remain my Papa's daughter, me don go home o o o and never return (unless my kids insist I return - not him!!) because at home, my room still dey vacant and I have peace, and where to stay no go be palaver at all, trust me! Marriage suppose to be full of joy, love and affection and not, battlefield of any kind. And when it becomes a constant battlefield, love is out of the window as damage, had already been done! Only sorry for the victims - the kids. [/size] |
| Politics › Re: Jonathan Was Ineffective As A Governor? by Theblessed(f): 12:44am On Sep 08, 2011 |
[size=16pt]Oh, same old story! That's an old hat. Thought you'd come up with something new! But, whose finger is on the 'red button' in this Country obviously, not the complainant! Yawn!!!!!!! [/size] |
| Politics › Re: Has Any Nigerian President Ever Worn Suit? When? by Theblessed(f): 4:23am On Sep 07, 2011 |
Eziachi:[b][size=16pt]Do you mind ignorants that have no shame and never put their upstairs to task. Just as their previous lazy brained leaders were, so are they. Lacked foresight and only think with their a r s e s! Hypocrits!!! They curse oyibo but they no shame wear oyibo cloths, oyibo shoes - carry oyibo mobiles, use oyibo video camera to shoot your Nollywood. Drive oyibo cars, fly in oyibo Aeroplanes and screw oyibo women. HYPOCRITS, I dey ask una - which one una made - sure na AGBADA, how fantastic!!! Una make me sick when una bring, una s t u p i d ideas on my Nairaland!!! Yes, before you start, it's mine!Agbada na im be your contribution to world civilisation, shame on you all!! Abi, nobe your fellow men invented those smart phones wey you carry for pocket, huh? Don't just make me talk - go task your brains, ignorant lazy a r s e s!! You came here, to abuse serious contributors without making any solid contributions of your own, what could we learn from you, if not verbal abuses? [/size][/b] |
