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 Politics › Re: 5 Reasons Why America Is Worse Than Nigeria by Theblessed(f): 6:56pm On Jul 23, 2011 |
norrisman:[b][size=16pt]Hey, Mr Norrisman there's no need to be insultive and we all know how to do so, but restrain ourselves from it. You too, can exercise some restraint here. The writer had not insulted anybody here. To you and others in your shoe, all he did wrong was to ask your opinions and you should not have given it if you felt, his asking was too irritating, than embarking on your trailer load of abuses. The writer has a point - some I agree with him and some I don't but that does not mean that he is what your claim he is. You see, I am not here to address that rather, an issue I'm passionate about - SLAVERY AND OPPRESSIVE PRACTICES. And I ask, you who claim to have the spark of Solomon's wisdom, the writer hadn't - why is it you'd been unable to see the evil your own parents are perpetrating on the poor who are serving them? Is it because, they have the power - the money therefore, they can enslave  You, yourself knows that they are enslaving them, don't you? You even talked about people working long hours and knows it's wrong that your parents servants are subjected to this kind of slavery yet, you support this wicked and evil act of your parents. By their fruit, we should know them, don't we Look, I don't even blame your parents rather, you who claim to be smart but unwise. Imagine, someone working from 06.00hrs to 23.00hrs for just under #13,000 (13,000 Naira or whatever!) and you are here, proudly telling us about your fathers ego, to be driven somewhere he could not drive himself and your mother's entrepreneurship at the expense of the needy, shame unto you! You can drive your own father, can't you? Obviously, you can't even get out of bed at that crock of dawn - 06.00hrs to drive him where ever he directs you, and then come home at 11pm and be happy, would you? To that I say, may be this Scripture holds both you and your parents guilty unless you all repent and treat people well. "Do unto others the way you'd like them, do unto you." Would you or parents like to be treated that way, just because, somebody has 'power' over you Your parents could easily give them the money without even asking for their service - think about that!It's all about doing good and doing the right thing. And I don't think they are doing good or even the right thing enslaving their servants with these oppressive terms/conditions of Service that, they imposed on them. The poor servants work and live in bondage at the mercy of your parents who are taking advantage of their weakness, needy state and poverty stricken life. But, can't you help them? Of course you can, at least by highlighting this evil to your parents, maybe, they'd change their ways. However, you chose not to do something rather, came here and sub-consciously promoting your parents financial powers, in their oppression of the poor and needy. But, here's the promise the Lord made to the needy perhaps, your would now, do something. "For he will deliver the needy who cry out, the afflicted who have no one to help them. He will take pity on the weak and needy and save the needy from death. He will rescue them from oppression and violence, for precious is their blood in his sight" Psalm Chpt.72 v.12 - 14 Obviously, you can see what your parents are doing is wrong and according to the above Scripture, they are guilty. So help get them out of this behaviour, if you love them for there is nothing fun in abusing another human being simply because, you can. Remember this, the Lord, gave us the skill to make money and he can equally take it away, at will.  [/size][/b] 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Nigeria In The 60s/70s. Sights And Sounds by Theblessed(f): 9:00pm On Jul 21, 2011 |
[size=18pt]Imagine how beautiful our country was at the time and can still be, if we put our hearts to it. First time to see, authority, order and respect for the law - yeah because, the British were around! From the pictures, all can see that almost everything was in its place and, rightly so. Lagos was clean I had never known that Ancient city to be as clean as this and now, imagine the chaos we have today.Pity!!! [/size] |
| Politics › Re: Interesting Picture On Lagos-ibadan Railway by Theblessed(f): 2:07am On Jul 09, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]How so ignorant, very shameful!!! Whatever happened to Nigeria's Health and Safety Legislations in this Country, may God help us? Imagine, how people are risk their lives along this dangerous and thin railway lines without appropriate railway slippers fitted on them. People are trying to make a living, selling 50p vegetables at the expense of their lives and that of others along these dangerous lines yet, no one gives a hoot over the risk posed to both traders and travellers - what a pity! And people of the world are asking whether Nigeria has a Minister, responsible for Transport in this country and what he is doing about this? Is he crippled, blind or asleep Yeah, we know it hadn't been long since the new government took over and it's gonna take some time before everything is put right. However, before they start to embark on these ambitious projects, theyshould have done their home work properly in order to engage with every aspect of it e.g. from the look of things, the old railway tracks had not been adequately maintained for years yet, trains are sitting on them probably carrying passenger to and fro until disaster happens then, the Minister for Transport will wake up! Lord have mercy on us, in this country! [/size][/b] |
| Health › Re: Fashola Celebrates Birthday With Physically Challenged Children. (pics) by Theblessed(f): 1:16am On Jul 02, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Yeah, we should all clap for him and say, well done! Shall we?? Shame onto them all! All along, they knew the right thing to do but chose/ignore to do so. God will judge them! Imagine now, they realised we have disabled men, women and children up and down the country who have no one to care/support them in this tough/difficult life and thus, need our help. Life is tough as it is, for a physically able person let alone, one with disability. Thanks to the Man of God at the Synagogue for showing the initiative and leadership to these evil men we have as rulers in this country, showing that, what it's all about is, 'Doing good' and 'Doing the right thing' for this country and helping the poor, people with disability, widows and widowers in society - that's what it's about! It is not about, having Mansions in every city, driving the latest 4X4's, having your aeroplane parked at the tarmac of airports, stealing our money and hiding it away in the wholes in Switzerland, ok! It about doing good for mankind! For this gesture, I'll say to him and others contemplating this idea - thanks but, no thank! It's a gesture, too late for for us to praise - stuff it!  [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Women: Can You Marry A Pastor by Theblessed(f): 2:36am On Jun 28, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Yes, I could marry a pastor - just, a simple pastor. As simple as Jesus Christ himself was - rich in God's spirit and not in material gains, ok! Not interested in material pastors who are consumed with material acquisitions of this world but not following the examples Jesus Christ had set for us all. Remember, Jesus had no shoes but a pair of slippers, or abode i.e. a place he could call home. However, as I write this, some of these pastors and bishops including their wives and children are rolling on 4 x 4's, Benz and some even have Aeroplane packed at the tarmac of airports around the world, and their members are paying the salaries of the pilots and petrol cost of running the Aaroplane. How could this be Godly? Is that how Christianity should be? Here, you hear them trying to justify their immoral gains by saying 'God does not want us to be poor', really? But, he did not say we should saturate ourselves in material wealth/gains of this world, gotten through subjugating the poor and brain-washing them, did he? If he did why did he say, you can not serve God and money at the same time, for you'll either love one and hate the other. Usually, it's money they love and not God! Again, why did Jesus say that, it would be difficult for a rich man to go to heaven - in fact, it would be easy for a camel to jump through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to go to heaven. In short, it meant - no rich man will ever smell heaven because there's no way a camel will ever jump through the eye of a needle, understand? And he concluded by saying, 'for they'd already received their worldly rewards or pleasures'! Sorry, for them all. In addition, Apostle Paul in his preaching said, we should all be contented with having enough food to eat, clothing to wear and where to sleep - but how many of these pastors are? Very few! And, how could they be contented when they are busy bleeding their congregations - taking every penny they struggled to make. Some members even go hungry trying to meet the demands of these wicked pastors. I was shocked when a guy that attends one of these abundance churches said, his pastor even asked him to tithe/give offerings from his unemployement money and I ask, what happened to the EQUALITY principle the Scripture teaches? How could these pastors justify their actions in the presence of God - when Corinthians urged us to give generously without compromising our own well-being and thus maintaining the EQUALITY principle. You see, I don't blame these pastors rather, the mumus that worship in those churches. [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: $9000 Engagement Ring: Give It Back Or Keep It. by Theblessed(f): 9:38pm On Jun 23, 2011 |
Natasha,,:[size=16pt]Well, we don't know who the lady is but, the poster seems to be their messenger. Maybe, he/she could convey my opinion on the subject to them, ok! But, can you guarantee that the lady/guy in question is not aware of Nairaland and what it's all about? They could even be here contributing ideas without you knowing or it could even be one of them that posted this topic. So, you can't guarantee who is who on the Net, ok! We all hide behind the screen and vomit any thing we like, on Nairaland , that's the nature of:wwwdot.  [/size] |
| Romance › Re: $9000 Engagement Ring: Give It Back Or Keep It. by Theblessed(f): 8:45pm On Jun 23, 2011 |
[size=16pt]'Yes', save your dignity and give it back! If you've broken up, its customery to return the stuff whether he/she ask for it back, or not - just return it. After all, it's his/hers property and not yours. At the end of the day, it was he/her who bought it and has the receipt to prove it. Have you considered the fact that, he/she could even get you arrested for keeping the item and thus, could label it a stolen item. Na there the trouble go kukuma develop K-leg. Also, you wouldn't want to be black-mailed with that kind of thing, would you? So, for peace sake, just give it back for good and move on!!![/size] |
| Family › Re: Guys, What Do You Consider To Be A Fair Dowry? by Theblessed(f): 2:11am On Jun 23, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Isn't time they stop this Dowry nonsense? When will this slave trade of women ever stop? This is evil! The cost of the dowry on a lady's head has priced some men out of the Customery marriage market thereby, led some girls who can afford the price pay their own bride prices so that, they could become Mrs Somebody, what a shame! Isn't it evil? And some girls whose boyfriends could not afford it ends up getting big belly to end the story of bride price. Obviously, once they are pregrnant, their families won't be asking for much. In fact, , that should have been a good lesson for families to stop asking for dowry yet, they don't learn! This nonsense tradition must be stopped. No one should be sold even if the groom is asked to pay only 1 kobo as a symbolic gesture to show that the groom actually paid something for her. No, the principle is wrong and it should be stop! There are other ways to show/confirm that a marriage actually did taken place between two people e.g. what happened to the traditional wedding feast/party where people and the elders come together to bless the marriage and there's lots of foods to cook, eat, drink and dance in support and honour of the marriage, instead of asking for money. It's shameful and it's time to dump this urgly tradition.[/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Fra Williams' 4 Sons Fight Over Father's N26b Estate Gets Messier by Theblessed(f): 3:17am On Jun 22, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] Bobajo:Look Mr Educated illitrate, I suggest you go back and re-read my essay as you'd already been there and got a shock of you're life! Why upset over my essay? All the people writing and commenting here, were they all writing from the point of view of having full knowledge about this family? No, people are making general comments and, so did I! What I did wrong was that, I showed much insight into the topic and that pissed you off, no be sooo? Jealous git! There you are attacking me because, you can not control your jealousy and insecurity, weak man! You can't stand a smart and assertive lady - can you?? Thanks for expressing the depth of your ignorance here, by consciously displaying your need/hunger for self importance/grandiosity and, showing us how knowledgeable you're about this all important family. How ignorant, as if we care! Do we really want know Mr Family friend? Sure, you were at theirs for dinner last night, weren't you?? Look, we don't care who you know, and who you don't,ok? Honestly, your behaviour fell short of nothing but, that of un-learned man - a Bushman of Hottentot, gruntled pig! Just the response you'd been waiting for! Sure, I rattled you and if you're upset about my contribution here, jump off the cliff and die, as you won't have to read my essays anymore, would you?! The Forum is for everyone to learn/share knowledge and I'm glad my essays here does achieve that aim, including this one otherwise, why this attack? Glad, I have opened a few eyes and that feels goooooood!!! Now, go hang yourself![/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Fra Williams' 4 Sons Fight Over Father's N26b Estate Gets Messier by Theblessed(f): 4:26am On Jun 21, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] Well, that's how he wanted to be remembered. His kids breaking each others head and some would even go as far as planning evil, to terminate each other - hope this doesn't get to that. It's the way the dead man set up his family - probably married 130 wives with trailer load of children. Let's pray there aint any born outside the marriages, have we considered them? Well, if they'd not shown up by now, wait they are coming to fight for their own. You see, men go about complicating their lives because of their own selfishness - eat your cake and have it after all, I made the money, I brought everyone here and I'm gonna call the shot, in the end they get drowned in their own selfishness. Rarely, would you see son and daughters born by the same parent (mum and dad) kill each other over their inheritance as there's always a way they'd resolve the issues. If ever there's a quarrel, it's usually caused by their wives, those married into the family - bringing in jealousy and envy they have on each other and that can be an agony for the family/children. However, when it comes to different mother's, a lot of damage would have been caused and they are usually irreparable. But one would like to ask, after the funeral and the quarrels did anyone ever learn from their father's mistakes? Well, some do, but there are one or two that never learns and would even be too happy to repeat their father's errors thus, continuing sowing the seeds of discord in their own respective families. Glad this family is killing themselves over their inheritance. In fact, it's even better that way, other people would learn - won't they?? The will of God is that, parents should leave inheritance for their children but if it is going to cause trouble due to one person/the other side of the family wanting it all for himself/themselves as its usually the case then, the best thing for the parents to do, to avoid this nonsese is to: [list] [li]Will out all your stuff accordingly. [/li] [li]Sell off the whole lot, give away substantial amount to charities - the poor, the disabled, widows/widowers etc. Make your pre-death funeral arrangement with your Solicitors/Insurers and the Church and settle your funeral cost (as your children might object to performing this duty if they knew they are being dis-inherited) and live off whatever is left with your wife until your last breath. Of course, it's quite understable if they refuse to over-see your funeral. Naturally, anyone that's dis-inherited will feel the same - jealousy and anger but don't let that faze you after all, it's your hardwork and if it's gonna cause trouble and dis-unity after you'd gone, you might as well give it away! Even when Wills are drawn, sometimes, a family member still do feel unfairly treated and start causing trouble in the family. Parents should not bother about that after all, they'd given everyone of them a Net to catch their own fish, and they should go and catch it or drown - it's up to them! You made yourself, let them go and make themselves for their own families, simple![/li] [/list] Money can cause a lot of trouble in the family, and I don't think rich people should leave any for their lazy offsprings, only for them to either break their heads for it or waste it on crazy lifestyles. It's strange what happens in families. It hasn't been long here when a rich mum dis-inherited her only child (son) because of his attitudes towards her - he got a shock at her funeral when her solicitors read her Will, and he was dis-inherited. He rarely visited his mother at home, rarely called and when he did visit, he's always inside the car in the drive asking the servants about her - according to people, he seldomly comes in to see her. Personally, I will do the same - if a child does not bother about me when I needed him/her, I will not leave any thing behind, honest! I will settle my own funeral, every thing they wouldn't have to bother. Everyone knows that unlike us, White people don't mess up, they are not like us who are burdened by our moral and religious beliefs- but I think sometimes, our families need a little guidance regarding inheritance. It's good to make them aware that, leaving anything behind is at your pleasure and not a right!! [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Guys Are Too Controlling For Me: by Theblessed(f): 3:09pm On Jun 18, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Don't you know? Whether you pay your own bills or not Nigerian man want to be in-charge all the time, gorit? So, if you don't like to be controlled, you're better off without them therefore, look elsewhere and stop complaining! However, it you insist on having them for life then, go for very enlightened ones among them then, you could have your peace! Else, beware! You might end up with one that will give you daily bloody nose, when you complain.  And when you threaten to resign your housewifery appointment, his threats and violence will be your nightmare for they can not handle rejection, and walk away. If those in power could abuse their wives publicly and we all read and watch it here, think of others! Some of them in the West, has the same nature too but the laws of the countries they are in has an upper hand on them - they can not sh-t, abroad.  The laws are here to gag them, if they disrespect you - that's the difference and which woman would say no to that!! [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Do You Know How 'well-Educated' I Am? (video) by Theblessed(f): 2:26pm On Jun 18, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]But who is this, that is full of him/herself with this kind comment, 'Do you know how educated I am?' Soooooo Shows all the hallmark of a person that has no fear of God in him/her.If this is true - this person is a big headed pig. Hope, he/she is not a Nigerian and if the person is - are they blind to see that in Nigeria, we do not lack educated and intelligent people? Almost every family in Nigeria has produced a graduate or two at least. Besides, Nigeria has the greatest number of educated people, the whole of Africa so, where is the person coming from Wait, I've got news for you! Whoever you are, humble yourself because they say, 'Pride goes before failure.' You might think you've stood but watch out!!! You might have money and everything it could buy you but, you might not have HEALTH to enjoy it tomorrow, as money can not buy health, and of what use is it, then?? Some rich people will tell you money can not buy health rather, it will pay for your health care - where someone else will put food in your mouth, wash/bath and wipe your back side for you. Now, tell me, what kind of life is that? You might as well be dead! Therefore remember this, God is he owner of everything we have - we only borrowed what we claim we have from him and he can take it back, at will, any time. Because of our pride and boastful nature, we bring suffering to ourselves and family if only, we could humble ourselves. The Bible tells us, in the book of Proverbs that, there are six things the Lord hates; seven that are detestable to him, and the above topic or comment seems to be one of them: [list]1) Haughty eyes (meaning arrogance, having high opinion of oneself) [li]2) A lying tongue 3) Hands that sheds innocent blood 4) A heart that devices wicked schemes [/li] [li]5) Feet that are quick to rush into evil. 6) A false witness who pours out lies. 7) A man who stirs up dissension (i.e. trouble, disagreement) among brothers and that includes, sisters, the family and the entire society, too. Proverbs Chpt. 6 v.16 - 19[/li] [/list] To you all, who are proud and boastful - now, go read it and stop boasting about your wealth and knowledge for what you claim you have is not yours but God's. [/size][/b] |
| Food › Re: Do Women Even Cook Anymore by Theblessed(f): 9:02pm On Jun 17, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]How stupid!!! Black men take pride in re-inforcing negative labeling about their own being. If White people have posted all these negative pictures/caricatures up here, you all would have been up in arms cursing your hearts out but imagine, how idiotic you all are? Going about putting yourselves down and thinking that you're cool and smart. Ringworms!!!! In making caricatures of yourselves here, not only expose your stupidity, ignorance and idiosyncracies, it also shows how think your brains function! Instead of bringing fresh ideas that would put blace race on top of Everest among other races and make us proud, all that your lazy brains could do is reinforcing Darwin's negativity about our race, shame on your all! Now, does it surprise anyone why black men have no respect from other races, if they think this way? All of you who posted these nonsense here on Nairaland, and think it's fun, should be ashamed of yourselves! Thick, ignorants!!! Mumu them!!! [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: "get Married To Someone Who Loves You And Not The One You Love" by Theblessed(f): 8:03pm On Jun 17, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Neither!!! Boyyyy, for me to be in it, it's got to be equalized! It has to be reciprocated - for it to be sweet, romantic, lasting and endearing! I can't have it any other way! Rather lonely, than in a relationship where I give 110% love and receive less or nothing at all! To me, love and romance is the key! It has to be whole or nothing! And, why would anyone tolerate a one sided love? After all, God did not intend us to be slaves to love, did he And, if he did, why did he say "Love your neighbour as yourself', eh? So, don't be a slave to love!Romantically loving someone who does not give a sh-t about you is mental and, unhealthy as it can cause emotional pain and psychological difficulties/complex for you, in the long run. Besides, it is not natural to give, give and give without rewards! Even our Lord Jesus received a gift of love and kindness when a woman in Bethany, anointed his head with an expensive perfume, abi? (Mark Chpt.14 v. 3 - 9) As you can see, everyone needs love! Think! |
| Romance › Re: Can You Date A Lady/guy With A Very Poor Command Of The English Language? by Theblessed(f): 6:23pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Tolulop001:[size=16pt]Look satan! Kiss my a-se. Since you came here to look for my trouble, that's an appropriate response for you, professor of online ettiquete. But, who invited you to my doormot? And, is it only now, you discovered that I write in colour - PURPLE? Too bad! You see, next time I find you on my doormot - you'd not only be suffering from glaucoma, your eyeballs will be plucked off their socket, in your skull, bagger! Now next time, you know where to get off! Profesor of ettiquette - jealous git!! [/size] |
| Food › Re: Do Women Even Cook Anymore by Theblessed(f): 5:33pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]You see, you are looking for our trouble by asking such a question. How so brainwashed! But who say, it's only women that have hands to cook and mouths to eat, I need to know? Glad you all are getting the message, that women do not want to cook anymore unless, you'd help peel the onions and washup afterwards otherwise, what are you here moaning about, then? You have to change, your behaviours else, the train will leave you all behind! Now let me ask, have you got a stomach?? Then, the kitchen belongs to you too, gorit Because, when you're hungry, certainly, you'll discover the kitchen, abi? You all want modern lifestyle but won't let go, of values that went with Noah's Ark. A modern man cooks for his family, wipes, carries his children on his back and changes their nappies, what's wrong with that? Are those children not his? Likewise, he should cook for his children - his family. And to answer your question, yes, women still cook but they cook for the sake of their young children, and at their own terms not because of you. You see, in our grandmothers' days, it was meant to be our role, and the only role it seems God created us for, in life - not anymore! You have two hands and know exactly where the kitchen is therefore, it's appropriate you cook, feed and water your family!  Now go do it and stop moaning![/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Can You Date A Lady/guy With A Very Poor Command Of The English Language? by Theblessed(f): 1:04am On Jun 15, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Absolutely, and stop being shallow my dear! All things being equal, why wouldn't I go out with someone who had made such an effort with another persons language and you're here trashing them? May I ask, can the English speak our Language? What makes anyone think theirs is a superior language and ours isn't? You see, complex is a chronic disease. Imagine us making an effort to learn/speak English language and the English don't even bother with other peoples language and there you are, talking down your good friend - that's not smart, is it? Should well spoken English language be a problem in your relationship, why not register your friend on an English Language Training/Elocution Courses, and that will help resolve your own inadequacy for not accepting them for who/what they are, how shallow? Until I see the English make an effort towards learning other peoples language then, I will know what to tell you and others like you maybe, with time, you'd realise how small minded you'd been. Until then, I urge you to ignore irrelevancies and appreciate the good friendship you have with this person. [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Now Who Should Sacrifice Here And What Is Sacrifice Anyway by Theblessed(f): 3:28pm On Jun 13, 2011 |
otokx:[b][size=16pt]Oh! This is for you and the poster! Just want to know, is it how short, your own short-sightedness is? You are here accusing people of being short sighted and am telling you now, if anyone is short sighted on this N/L topic, it's you and your kind who could not see the trees from the forest! Look man, he who dares wins! This is why, our country is not moving ahead and no development in Nigeria because of lazy thinking and short sighted Leaders who think the way you do. Leaders who dare not speculate in order to accumulate - who are frightened of getting out of their comfort zone because of their inability to tackle the demands and challenges of modern politics and hence, push their people, backwards. We do not need such intellectually lazy men to lead a progressive and ambitious country as Nigeria likewise, modern women do not need such men as husbands, too. We need, strong and bold husbands not wimps! Look man, wake up, wake up! If you're still living in the 1950's and 60's, there's no such thing as job for life in this modern times ok? You, who go about thinking because, you got a 3 year contract as you said, you've got a job for life therefore, fold your arms, and sit on your lazy bum working 9 to 5 untill the contract runs off and then, begin to wonder what happened to you and your job. How, silly! Naturally, in such situ, it's obvious you'll head home to Nigeria, blaming everyone else except yourself for your sudden unemployment because, you failed to realise/foresee the furture that, whilst holding down a job these days, you continue to Network for a better and glorious future for your family! Do we need to tell you that, do we?? That's how things are done in this modern times, ok! So, when you get to that your Rwanda Contract, immediately you take your luggage to your room start making enquiries, searching and Networking for jobs further afields, ok?? Don't just sit on your lazy bum and relax, like some people do in Nigeria because, they have Abraham as father. Now that you realise, how short sighted you are, go preach the news and tell others how things are done but remember, where you first heard it - in Nairaland! Finally, I suggest you wake up and grab this marvelous breakthrough God has given you else, there will never be one like this for you, again! Hear it!  [/size][/b] |
| Romance › Re: Now Who Should Sacrifice Here And What Is Sacrifice Anyway by Theblessed(f): 2:16am On Jun 12, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] I think both of you should go. Whilst there, he could even find a more suitable and better job than what he's doing at the moment there in Nigeria. In addition, the move could even open up more and further opportunities for both of you to aspire to other parts of the world. This is why I get upset with the unsupportive and controlling attitudes of the sons of Adam, African Branch. Because, they married you (and you married them as well, since it takes two to get marry) they think you are their property therefore, they can make decisions about your life/future - not these days, gentlemen, you just have to compromise, else!  Also, it seems your husband is a home boy and perhaps, felt the move could threaten or dis-stablize his secured home life. It could be he is not aggressive/confident enough in handling the challenges of starting a new life in a foreign land. But hey, there's nothing there to be afraid of, just following the crowd - whatever others did to survive, join them as long as its legal. In life, you have to take risks, and this could be one of those you have to take. However, if he continues to reject the ideas, just go it alone - your future is as important as his simple, and he will eventually come round to your thinking and realise that you meant well for the family. Failing that, and he's still adamant, tender your resignation of the job of a housewifery and make out a cheque worth of the dowry he paid, to gain your freedom. Our men need to wake up to the realities of modern marriage/life He will find plenty of women who will be begging him to marry them in Nigeria and you will have plenty choices there too. It's a win, win and everyone is happy, abi? You can't because of marriage blight your own future - you are an individual and you're gifted and talented in your own right so, use the skills God gave you to better your life and the life of your family. If he doesn't want a better life for himself, that's his own choice but he can't make that choice for you, Look after yourself and your career! [/size][/b] |
| Travel › Re: Voided Green Card Winners Sue State Department by Theblessed(f): 9:19pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Amhatu:[b][size=16pt] But, how do you mean by 'misguided English Terminology'? I could not see any mis-guidance in their language. Every language of this world has its grammatically correct, pigeon and local ways of saying and using it. If anything, it's the non-indigenous users who are confused with the language because, it is not ours and we lack understanding of the language as we try to interpret it, based on our various mother tongues. For example, different countries in Africa and the World over, have different interpretations, intonation and accents/pronounciation of particular English words therefore, it isn't their fault if we have difficulty grasping the language and it's phonetics by claiming 'mis-guidance'. After all, English language belongs to 'The English' and it's up to us to make the effort to learn the language if we so wish instead of, changing and twisting it to suit us. As an African, I empathizes with the English as I would not like my language be messed up. I consider this behaviour not only irritating and dis-respectful but also, an abuse of a peoples language therefore, there's no such thing as 'mis-guided terminology' rather, our laziness to learn how to/use of the language. With respect to the Visa issue above, people might have mis-understood the legal terms used in drafting the Visa programmes as shown by their unsuccessful submissions. They should have consulted their Solicitors to help them make sense of the legal terms they could not understand before completing the application forms. After all, it was the same Visa programmes that America issued to all eligible countries that participated in the programme and these countries didn't complain, why Nigeria? You see, it is an offer and they are entitled to withdraw, counter-offer or do whatever they wish with it. If Nigerians are considering suing American Government over this, I prophesy they will not only loose, but will have massive legal bill awaiting them and only the Solicitors and their Barristers that will be laughing all the way to the Bank yet, they failed to achieve their objectives and, America they did not get to see. Unfortunately, their action could lead to Nigeria being dis-qualified from participating in future Visa programmes thereby, causing more sufferings and hardship for innocent Nigerians, hoping to emigrate via the Visa programme - too bad! [/size][/b] |
| Family › Re: Married, Having An Affair, Hubby Also Having An Affair: What To Do? by Theblessed(f): 2:42am On Jun 10, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt] To answer your question, 'Yes'. Why?? Some would ask? Well, to start with, pot won't call kettle black now, would it? And, there won't be anymore animousity in the home - people feeling cheated, hurt, humiliated and the scores are correct and equal at the time of going to the press, abi? That's what we call happy family. Every family in this country whose leader is straying I suggest, should try it maybe, they would find the peace and hapiness they've been looking for. You see, when a man goes about humiliating his wife this way, it would be nice at some point to rub it, in his nose and down the throat, in fact, ladies if you can bring your sweet hearts home so he could see, how well you too can 'pull'. You see, you can not change an adult but, you can change your own behaviour that way, you could change theirs. If you condone bad behaviours in your marriage, wait for it! However, if you don't and stand your grounds, then you're bound to receive the respect you deseve. Try it - it works, trust me !!! And, what if hers breaks up the marriage completely? Good!!! It wasn't much of a marriage in the first place, was it? A marriage based on lies, deciet, stress, High Blood Pressure and sleepless nights - is that what you call marriage?? Get a life!!! Change your own behaviour to be able to change others, it works![/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Picture Of Nigeria Police Officers Drinking Beer On Duty by Theblessed(f): 7:48pm On Jun 08, 2011 |
Toaskarity:[size=16pt] You lack manners! But, who asked you to read my work? Na force? I suppose you live in free society so, why not accord the same to others? So, you find it difficult to practice what you preach, hypocrite? People are free to do what they like, eat what they like, wear what they like, write what they like, design what they like even if it leads to you developing glaucoma, abi? Now, let me remind you next time, just paaaasssss my domot, ok! But would you? No, I know you would come back again for more, and complaining like an fool! Bye! [/size] |
| Politics › Re: Picture Of Nigeria Police Officers Drinking Beer On Duty by Theblessed(f): 12:00am On Jun 08, 2011 |
Koikoi:[b][size=16pt]You are absolutely, honest - police is the system! But, what can we do to better our system? In my view, it would be nice to dismantle the whole Nigerian Police force (as they did in Haitie in the early 2000) and then recruit fresh bloods - young men/women between the ages of 18 and 20yrs old and raise them from scratch with modern values! We should then, ask for secondments of high calibre police officers from the British Police Authority in whose tradition, Nigerian Police Force was formed, to mentor our fresh bloods until they are capable of handling the responsibilities. But, it will not be easy and will take time to achieve, I could hear some people say. Yes, but who say it will be easy? Training takes time, and time invested in training pays dividend in the long run at least, we would begin to trust and rely on our own young and educated police officer who understands the needs of a modern society and what it, expects of them. In fact, one that believes in hard work and takes pride in his job, not voraciously ambitious group who wants to own aeroplanes whilst on a police officers wage. On the other hand, in line with their jobs, we have to offer them good/attractive salaries and make accessible to them, training and other incentives. In short, make the Police Force an enviable career as well as difficult to enter so that, anyone who wants to take up a career in the force will seriously, consider whether it is for them and the mountains he/she has to surmount to get in, just as it is with getting into the British Diplomatic Service. In my opinion, that will enable us recruit high quality and skilled officers this country has been missing for a too long time and thus, kill the bribery and corruption that are wide spread among our current police officers. Let's be realistic, there's going to be some that will slip through the net, abi? Let's try it, and if it didn't work (of course, it will work after all, similar scheme worked in Haitie Police/Armed Forces and still working) then, we know we tried and we will be in a better position to try something else, or call back the old thieves, abi? Sure, they would all run back to their old jobs like a rocket, trust me! Nigeria has to try new ideas after all,'He that is down needs fear no fall', what are we going to loose now, we hadn't already lost in the past 50 years? Tell, me, we shouldn't be afraid to explore new and farther seas, my people! [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Picture Of Nigeria Police Officers Drinking Beer On Duty by Theblessed(f): 9:24pm On Jun 07, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]This is highly an unprofessional behaviour. A gross misconduct and, on the spot sackable offence, no two ways about it! Imagine, seeing British Police Officers or their American counterparts sitting je je je drinking alcohol in Uniform, in full view of the public in the street, whether on duty or off duty? Disgraceful!!!! Sometimes, one happens to get sudden visits from the Bobby on the beats and when you offer them an ordinary drink as a cup of tea/coffee, they usually decline - as it could be seen by the public as blurring the boundaries between professionalism and personal relationship let alone, something heavy as alcohol, otio! Na him be say, one don sign their last pay-check be that, and to find another job? How easy, it would be for you!!! Certainly, the references from your last employer matters a lot and, will remind or alert your propective employers of the dangers of employing someone like you - bad behaviour thus, put you in the dog house of job hunting for a long time. You would be there imagining what sort of references your previous employers had given to your prospective employer? Obviously, under the Data Protection and Confidentiality Acts, they will not reveal it to you because, if they do, you are in a position to sue your previous employers for breaching the laws and they in turn, will sue your prospective employer for the same and that will be a win, win for you and loss, loss for the employers. Now, tell me, which employer would want to do that? Shey, you go tell them in your application form and at job interview about you previous Employments, and why you left them, abi? Therefore, if you love and respect your job then, you 'MUST' respect and comply with the Code of Conduct that governs your profession. Like most Nigerian professionals in the offices up and down the country, who abuses their positions every day, might not understand the policies guiding their work environments and thus have no clue, these two police officers obviously, are un-informed and needs further training if they weren't sacked on the spot. Please, Mr Commissioner of Police send these two home immediately so that others will start learning the professional way of working/doing things. There are no, nos people should not mess with at work, this is certainly one of them - in Nigeria anything goes and after this, what next? Perhaps, SEX in the full view of the public assuming, that hadn't been done already will be next, how about that? [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Should Ojukwu Apologise For The Civil War? by Theblessed(f): 2:43pm On Jun 07, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]No, and why should he? He hadn't done any thing wrong! In fact, he saved our a-ses from the evil and weakedness of the Hausas colluding with the Yorubas to anihilate us, that was their plan. But, God's plan for the Ighos was different - he sustained us, using Ojukwu - as his an instrument to keep the Igbos thicking for those horrible 3 1/2yrs of silly Nigerian war against us. God disgraced them, in the end, they could not anihilate the Igbo just like Hitler and his Nazi were unable to anihilate the Jews. Igbos are the Jews of Africa - whatever wickedness/negative intentions any of the other tribes have against us, shall not prosper! We are gifted, hardworking and industrious people with foresight. We are prosperous in everything we do or set our hearts on therefore, no one can blight us! They had and still have been weakedly manipulating the system to deprive the Igbos of their rights in this country yet, we survived without their support and conquered all. No one can stop us! Our children were deprived University places in Nigerian Federal Universities because, they felt threatened by our intelligent and smartness. And, how about government jobs, we were also, excluded. How could we survive then, if not by sheer determination, focussing on the economic side of things to better ourselves instead, of dying and burying ourselves which is what they all wanted - for the tribe Igbo, to disappear. Na lie, for una! Yet, the Hausas and Yorubas continue to abuse us , saying, 'the Igobs love money, they don't like going to school'. And I say, really? Who were at the fore front of Education, Finance and Administration in this country/after the British and before your stupid Nigerian war against the Igbos? Was it not the Igbos? The British left it in the hands of the Igbos because they believe, we are intelligent, smart and capable people and we can look after the country, which we did until, your jealousies came in. Was that not what you guys saw as threats after the Nigerian/Biafran war thus, set up structures and manipulated the system to prevent the Igbos from accessing and benefiting from government facilities, alongside you guys How evil! You forgot that this country belong to us too, when you go about controlling structures/facilities as if, your personal property. To those of you who have no clue, it was the Igbos who first held these positions - The British enthrusted it in our hands because of our intelligence and smartness, which can be seen in the following sectors: Education - Dr Nnamdi Azikiwe was the first Doctorate holder in this country - you mustn't forget that! I now, leave you guys to name number 2. In Business and Finance - Mr Ojukwu - Odumegwu Ojukwu's father was the first self-made millionaire, this country ever produced and since him, there hadn't been many rather, thieves that ransacked our treasury without shame and now, deny that! What about Administrations? Major General J T U Aguiyi Ironsi was Nigeria's first son to lead this country yet the Igbos no, no book and love money and you don't! If you don't, I wonder what happened to Nigeria's billions missing in the treasury Who stole them? Abi, na the Igbos??Look at the state of Nigerian today after more than 40yrs of your evil Administration - see how backward she is. You see, since the election, I thank God every day for installing one of Igbo's extract in Aso Rock, you will not only see now, the difference an Igbo man can make in this society but also, what you've been missing for over 40 years of your evil Administration and, the blessing the tribe Igbo is, to you all. And, for those of you calling Ojukwu to apologise, hear it now for the last time, Ojukwu does not need to apologise for anything, the Igbo tribe owes a lot to him. The Igbo tribe, couldn't have had it any other better way, at the time in question. You see, we don't blame you because, they say," Hindsight, is the best teacher" because, it is in a position to see and analyse all knacks and cracks but, we are asking,'Mr hindsight, hindsight', where were you in the 1960's when it all began? Ojuwku gave us everything, we should be thanking him, his family and hamlet above all, we should continue to thank God for his life! May God bless you, Odumegwu Ojukwu- Ikemba ndi Igbo, we love you and will always love you! |
| Politics › Re: Should Ojukwu Apologise For The Civil War? by Theblessed(f): 11:01am On Jun 07, 2011 |
No! But, why should he? Was there any other person who could have done better for the Igbos at the time ?Let the Igbos point to the person and let the person come out and tell us what he would have done to keep our race out |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Ryan Giggs Branded 'dirty Dog' by Theblessed(f): 12:12am On Jun 07, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]Evil!!! You see, that's what happens when one has too much money and no fear of God in them, satan enters an empty house and take dominion, the result is, you and your entire family - everyone is a victim. Ryan, is demon possed and needs deliverance. Now, imagine, another demon possed moral-less woman entering the same family - bunking two brothers and having their babies. What a katakata!!! Satan, likes that doesn't he? I can imagine what's going through Ryan's wife's mind at mo. over this double betrayal. Everyone is hurting and family shattered because of a weak man, isn't it nice? Just where now, would he run to? Only, to Jesus Christ the forgiver of our sins - no other person - for 'The Lord is compassionate, and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love' (Psalm Chpt. 103 v8). Obviously, family won't have him, now. Friends might not have him either, as that's a no, no in most societies however, in some, once your brother is dead and gone, that could be a possibility if both consent with family support but not when your brother is still alive and healthy no, no, no!! Also, the scripture condemns it and made it clear where a man is late and left a young wife that, if the widow is still young, she should marry someone else (not her brother-inlaw, father-inlaw, cousin-inlaw, right?) and have children to avoid giving satan this kind of opportunty to cause trouble in the family and that includes, village, town etc (1 Timothy Chpt. 5 v. 14). That's what you get mainly, in a moral-less Western world, and for those who married them, hmmm, watch out!!!! They could secretly be bunking your brothers, friends, fathers and having their babies wthout you knowing a thing and left you claiming babies that are not yours! Quick, quick, go do your DNA's now!!! Imagine this devil woman had already planned out her smooth and safe exit before, digging in and twisting the dagger on foolish Ryan. Imagine, how quickly she called in the ATeam guy - Mr Clifford to rake in the shock absorbers: £££££££££££££££ so that, should poverty ever strikes, she's already on safe ground and on time.At least, she could take consolation from the blood money thus, raising her status quo in a moral-less Celebrity world - and that's called, looking after 'Number 1', abi? And what's wrong with that, her kind on here, would ask? I say, a lot! Because, a contrite and broken heart, God does not despise, gorit? What a conscience-less evil woman! In her evil and deluded world, she thinks she's home safe and dry? But, wait don't worry, her day shall come, when a head cutter would get his/her own head, cut! [/size][/b] |
| Celebrities › Re: Tvc Newscaster, Bukola Ore Dies At 29 by Theblessed(f): 3:53pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
zstranger: zstranger:[b][size=16pt]Oh, we can now see what happened to your intelligence perhaps your common sense actually, it is = zero, zuch!!! In short, there is non there in the first place, since this idiot fail to realise we live in a globalized world where, people can travel in a short notice, and flights leave Europe to Nigeria and other parts of the world every seconds, carrying people who might be infected with this or any other disease without them knowing it yet. That's how HiV Aids quickly spread to all over the world, idiot ! Big time ignorant, listen, will you get out of here and stop spreading your infectious ignorance on people with lesser minds here. A blinded foolish looser! There are people here who have no clue and with comments like that, you're not helping, actually, you're keeping them in the dark forever, na lie for you. They must know and we are here to educate them about Environmental Health and that, diseases spread much quickly now, the world is globalized! Blinded fool! Let me warn you now, next time you prowl near my essay again, you'd be damned! Now, get out of here and stop polluting Nairaland environment with your ignoble, ignomba! Thick head!!! [/size][/b] |
| Politics › Re: Read El-Rufai's Brilliant Take Down Of Gej's Administration by Theblessed(f): 3:07pm On Jun 05, 2011 |
[size=16pt]But, who is this one criticizing? Where has he been in the past 40yrs his cronies have been devastating this country? Oh, please give the President a break with your unfair criticisms! He'd only started Breakfast and had not even tucked in propertly, talk of Lunch and then Dinner, abeg! What margic is Mr El-Ruffai proposing for the President after only 1month of getting the mantle? Look Mr, please don't delude yourself, this over 40yrs damage that has been dealt on country will take another 40yrs if not more, to repair completely and that is, minus greed/corruption stairing their urgly faces again in government. So, stop moaning and start contributing to help build back our country and, that's the way to go! [/size] |
| Romance › Re: What's Wrong With Marrying An Older Woman? by Theblessed(f): 3:37am On Jun 05, 2011 |
[b][size=16pt]To start with, mere coming to seek our opinions here suggests you have doubts and if you have doubts when you’re up to do something, don’t do it! Personally, I suggest you pray hard or even fast over this issue - asking that God's will be done in this important matter that has taken your heart. You see, you sounded like someone from a good home. Imagine you first and foremost, considered the peace you have in your family right now, and the distrust, disappointment, resentment and chaos that might cause to the unity of your quiet and peaceful family. That's commendable, considering that men are generally, very selfish being until they're given a bloody nose, that's when they remember family. It's good thing you thought about your family peace and unity along your infatuation for this woman. To answer your question, first remember and before any of my critics begins to shower me with their abuses as well as alleging how jealous I have been of your catch, listen - I am not going about looking for husbands or wanting babies, ok! Being there, done that and there's a medallion to show for it! Serious now! There's nothing wrong in marrying an older lady - nothing wrong! The issue is, there’s an age gap we mustn't ignore but, what is she doing all these time, until now the biological clock has started ticking - waiting for you? Its true she is kind and loving to you but remember, she has a target and this is her chance - she wouldn’t want to loose it. Would you? At 34+ with no obvious serious boyfriend until you came along, abi? You see, when a woman targets a man, he is game- President Clinton would vouch for this, honest. lol!! We, have our trick that would mesmerize you and, you give us your heart on a platter.lol! Yes, she looks averagely young now, give her another 10yrs after a couple of babies, when grey hair starts appearing with great alacrity, and for some women, hot flushes begins and there's the 'fat' thing she's unable to shift for some time now - would you still continue to fancy her? That's the question! You see, the sex is hot now, as she is almost at the peak of it for women - keep your eye on that number 10, you will notice the rate of depreciation!lol!! Remember, I did not say she would not function rather, at a slower rate when you will be racing like a steam engine - can you handle it? Reason, am saying this is, you're younger (26yrs) and full of energy/confidence climbing up the hill whilst she's almost at the apex (35yrs) and about to descend the hill. She might not be able to keep up with you in 10yr time, when your ‘roving eyes’ begins as you start checking every skirt to see if they fit and wondering what happened to the woman you married? ?Trouble and family katakata! Definitely, that’s when you need your back bone - your family/friends some on here say, you can do without. And, to all those here urging you to disrespect your family, I say, shame! You see, you’re not the first to go for an older woman - remember, Madona and Guy R. did it too and it hadn’t been long they untie the knot? You saw how it ended in tears after the 10yr itch and Guy is now, going out with a younger woman! I suggest you write to him, asking for his thought on this important matter maybe, he has an advise or two for you. lol!! Certainly, people on here will agree with me that if it was the other way round, it might have worked and there won’t be much problem as that’s the natural course of action - check the Bible, all men there married younger women than themselves, na lie? Marrying older women is mainly a rebellious idea from the West, this modern time obviously, their forefathers married younger women and now they are changing - as you can see, in Hollywood most of the Actors are now in their 2nd marriages with younger women e.g Micheal. Douglas, Tom Cruz, Brad Pitt etc You don’t want a 2nd marriage do you? You can try that out too! Get me right, I did not say it won’t work and there are instances where this kind of relationship is still working probably, very rare but it’s good you start your life on a safer ground with someone nearer your age - with whom you can grow old together. Please check carefully, and don’t let infatuation cloud your judgement! Good luck with your plans! [/size][/b] |
| Celebrities › Re: Desmond Elliot Defends Deposed Nigerian Ambassador To Kenya by Theblessed(f): 6:19pm On Jun 04, 2011 |
Anaegboka:[size=16pt]So, you couldn't see he too has got interest. He is a chief stakeholder in the family fortune, can't you see that? Money rule this world and where the honeycomb is, there the bees will be, also. Yes, he loves his mother but money/status speaks and mother hasn't got a bob as much as father, has she?? Remember, judas iscariot sold for 30 pieces and what will stop someone with the biggest stake in family fortune not selling his soul to keep it?Perhaps, he is the first son and after daddy, all authorities fall on him and you expect him to side with mum now? No, maybe, after daddy has done! Did Prince William side with his mother (Princess Diana) when it was obvious to the world that Charles was hurting her and breaking up the family? It's called MONEY, INHERITANCE at stake, don't you forget that! [/size] |
| Celebrities › Re: Desmond Elliot Defends Deposed Nigerian Ambassador To Kenya by Theblessed(f): 5:53pm On Jun 04, 2011 |
bidemi12:[size=16pt]I noticed, you love reading a logical and clearly written essay - don't you? That's why you keep reading work from theblessed, no bi so! Now let's get this straight, since you can't make sensible decision about your own health, I suggest from now on, you stop reading theblessed work, alright? Sure, you'd be back again reading and complaining and that would make you, the last hypocrite on earth, shame on you! [/size] |
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