She did not confirm if She and the first Man were legally married. If they were under the marriage act and they are not legally divorced or if under native law and custom and She has not returned the bride price, then She is not yet free to marry. And can be charged for bigamy.
If you are not married, I advise you do not think about marriage for now. Focus on enjoying your single hood. Stop looking out for someone that fits your spec, it is only then that you can see clearly to know “The One”. I often tell people there is nothing like late or early for anyone of marriageable age. The right time to marry is when you see the one and the one sees you and you are both ready.
larryeffizy1: Hi folks, I'm Sure we're doing good in our respective places.? Quick one pls, I really need the help or rather a piece of advice from whosoever has been in this shoe before...; Because it's really affecting my marital life negatively and that's why I'm here if I could get a cool counsel on this platform bikoo; as we all know that a problem shared is half solved... The question is "How May/Can I get rid of Marriage Phobia...?
I'm above 30 and I'm really scared of MARRIAGE... A candid advice from you guys will go along way... Hence, if you have had the experience before, kindly share with me how you go about it and overcame it....
The mother of Tina Adeeyo, the new wife of Pastor Moses Adeeyo, General Overseer of World Bank Assembly, has spoken about her daughter's recent marriage.
She explained that her daughter's first husband, Bright Ben, didn't pay bride price when he married her daughter 12 years ago, despite doing the traditional marriage and church wedding.
She also referred to her daughter with her new husband's name, "Tina Adeeyo".
Tina and Pastor Moses Adeeyo for married on Sunday, August 8, 2021.
Constable Sarah Adjei, a Ghanaian policewoman working at the Quarter Master Stores at Nkawkaw Divisional Police Headquarters has reportedly committed suicide, Reports.
From The Information Gathered By , Adjei was found dead on Saturday August 7, after checking into a room at Misiho Hotel which is located at Akwasiho.
Manager of the hotel told the police that he found the policewoman dead in a prone position on the floor while carrying out a routine check on guests around 7pm, Learnt.
The policewoman who had a swollen right cheek, was also oozing blood from her nostrils. A suicide note where she blamed one Mr. Timothy Dampare for her death was found in a bag in the room.
She said the man who promised to pay off some of the people she was owing, reneged on the promise.
The Suicide Note As Obtained By , Read;
“Dear Mr. Timothy Dampare, I told you that I owed people money and you decided to help me, and you have been with me in my house for one week now and you have refused to help me, so if anything happens you have caused it Mr. Timothy Dampare. Thank you."
In a press release obtained by TV3, Eastern Regional Police Command spokesperson DSP Ebenezer Tetteh said an investigation into the case has been launched.
The hotel manager and Timothy Dampare have also been arrested. They are expected to assist in police investigations.
Body of the deceased has since been deposited at Nkawkaw Holy Family Hospital awaiting autopsy.
I am really worried about these mass repentance’s. Why is no one talking about their facing a judicial process, even if it means a reduced sentence? Are we just going to sweep all of those innocent lives under the carpet? What is really going on?
Over one hundred Boko Haram fighters with their families, who surrendered to the Nigerian troops, have offered their unreserved apologies to Nigerians for all the evil they've done.
Was He building the House for Himself or His Father? What was the discussion between Himself and His Father? If His Father had not died, will He ask the Father to move out into a rented apartment.
This kind of families that value material things over maternal and paternal relationships sef, I no understand.
A friend of mine needs urgent advice before taking a bold step.
He relocated to south Africa 6 years ago, and since he traveled he has been sending home some amount of money to help his father complete his house.
So last year, unfortunately his father died and has since been buried.
He just arrived from south Africa since then. Now he wants to renovate his fathers house to 3 bedroom flat because he's planning to marry next year, He's not returning to south Africa.
But, his mom declined and said she won't allow him take over the house from her, though he promised to rent an apartment for her but declined.
Now this has caused a lot of problem between the mother and son, because the son claims he built d house to that stage but the mother is claiming she is his mother and the wife to the late owner(father).
He's planning on taking drastic steps which I have advised him against, but he seems not to understand everything I'm saying.
I told him about nairaland, that there are experienced people who will give him d best advise and he's given me a go ahead.
I will be sending these page link to him, so he can hear from d public and then know what to decide.
DanielAlhassan: Please I need your help according to doctors report she 3 month pregnant and i calculated the period we had sex it was 2 month ago Am confused if am responsible for the pregnancy
She has been swearing that for the pass 6 years now she has not had sex with anybody until 2 month ago which she had sex with me
Don't know what to do or believe I need your advice
If one is driving recklessly, in such a way that it is reasonable to expect someone else can be harmed e.g on a crowded street, and such a one in the process kills someone else, they can be charged for Murder or Manslaughter.
GeneralPula: If one mistakenly hit and kill, is it a murder crime or what?
Ok, maybe you are not frustrated and desperate. No vex.
Jaqenhghar: Mr. Man. The major thing is he is leaving that dump. Once he gets there he will be just fine believe me. Frustrated and desperate? LOL is that what the truth sounds like to you?
Yes, you and millions of us have been canvassing for this.
PediakAuthor: It is always hard to have a sustainable development if the gross importation of a country is more than its exportation... The manufacturing sectors of Nigeria should be revitalized for national benefits.... I've always canvassed for this notion...
I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem. Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.
Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem
Did you read the part where the OP (& I )said “Multinational” company ? Or the part where they said there is opportunity for training and travel in Europe within the company? Or do you think a Masters in France automatically qualifies one to live and work there? Or are you so frustrated and desperate to escape that you are not thinking straight? (Like the average Nigerian youth you described?)
Oga calm down so you don’t jump from frying pan to fire.
Jaqenhghar: Share where? What experience from a third world shithole do you have that you think oyinbo will find valuable? How to ruin a country? My guy when you there that's when you will realise how backward your country really is. A 30 year old in Niggeria behaves like an 18 year old in a developed country
I usually advice people to get work experience first before pursuing a Masters, it makes you more ready and informed about the relevance of a Masters to your career path.
Except maybe you are research inclined and want to pursue a PhD and Academic career...
Go for the job, you will learn a lot more than a Masters will teach you in a MultiNational. And when you finally go for your Masters, you will have some real world experiences to share.
Please I need your advice on this, which do you prefer and reasons if possible. A job in a multinational that pays 300k and trainings in Europe and the other opportunity is a Masters degree program in France.
The goal of this is to silence critics. We must all stand behind this young Man at a time such as this. Cases of known criminals are being dragged on for years and a critic of Buhari is arrested, charged , tried and sentenced in 3 days or less. What a shame. He should appeal.
Cultists kill final year Benue varsity student and Anti-cultism campaigner Suspected cultists have killed a 500 level student of the Federal University of Agriculture, Makurdi, Benue state, Igyagher Isaac, Reports.
It was gathered that the Agricultural and Environmental Engineering student was killed on Friday night, July 31, in a lodge around Gabiz Hotel, opposite Benue Judges Lodge, Makurdi.
According to an eyewitness On Facebook, Isaac was shot dead and his corpse put on a pile of his clothes and burnt by suspected members of Aye and Vikings confraternity.
Details of the incident are still sketchy. However, close friends and colleagues said Isaac was not a cultist, adding that he was at the wrong place and wrong time.
It was further learnt by , that the deceased had organised an anti-cultism campaign in 2020, as confirmed by one Japhet Terseer.
Meanwhile, friends have taken to social media to pay glowing tributes to the young man, As Obtained By Below:
One Ongolo Neville revealed that the deceased had planned on empowering some women in IDP camps in the state and was seeking for sponsors before his brutal murder.
"I went for wedding today @ Sheraton today in honour of my long time friend. While at the wedding I met CJ and he show me a picture of one guy who was murdered yesterday. Lol and behold it was my very own JCINFUAM IPP Igyagher Isaac. Still I didn't believe until when I called my JCINFUAM member and he confirmed that is true, that's when I believed," Ongolo wrote in his tribute.
"I knew you are a phenomenal personality, you have always ensure to put smiles on the crying faces. I can still recall when you called last month, you said Neville How can we engage those idle able bodied women in IDP camp. We suggested it is good for us too look for means how we can skilled some of the women through fashion designing. Immediately, you begun looking for partners to fund the project. Not knowing Mr dead will come uninvited to sweep you away like a flood.
"Igyagher Isaac you made me act in great strength, a reserve me became open to easily reach out to people through one word you said to me. You said they are people just like me don't fear to reach out to them.
"You lived your life on purpose. Whatever that surrendered surrendered your dead the good Lord know. May your soul rest in perfect peace. I will forever remember you."
You seem to be hung up on car ownership; is that your concept of achievement for a Man?
Meanwhile, multi billionaires, like Musk, Bezos and most recently Gates , have shown us that even monetary and material achievements are not enough to hold a marriage down.
they're better than girlfriends that will sleep with every car owner that toasts her without protection. All she gets sometimes is just sit in front seat, not like we are giving them money.
An average Nigerian girl will sleep with at least 2 different car owners every week except when she's on her period
Pastor without conviction. Full of prevarication. Saying one thing this Sunday and another the next. Excusing behavior that contravenes the laws of the Land. Which scriptures did He use to support His initial dis-agreement and which did He use for His subsequent apology?