₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
Does RMD qualify as this generation again?

No,but he's associating with the fad.I can understand he's into showbizness so he needs 'every' publicity.

NaijaRoyalty:
If you can't beat them you join them .

Not everyone joins them.

Bob Marley I know(talented, inspirational),da fk is Naira Marley.

This generation...........smh

Alooone:
Sir I sent u a pm

I replied you.

pocohantas:
He always has ladies for pickup. Maybe na syndicate im dey run.

Did you confirm them physically? You would have been met with some chick ready for hookup.

Let him continue with the fraud then.His time will come.

I didn't see any of them physically.I just went with my gut.The end of year rush and traffic couldn't even let me look for anyone

pocohantas:
It has been long and I really do not have that time or grace to dig it out. Seems he partners with females, they own the numbers - he handles the NL account/posting.

Two of his alternates have been exposed and he deactivated them, only to resurrect another.

Hmmm.I hope the bolded isn't true.The monikers that contacted me had female names on their bank accounts(Iya Tola was not one of them).
Anyway,scammers do not know their losses will be greater than whatever 'gains' they may think they have gotten.Even their health will suffer for it.

middlebelter:
Diminishing Marginal Utility.

Ah ok.

His son looks like Alex Iwobi.

Economists call it the law of diminishing returns.

ginaolo:
We have been together for a year plus. For how long will this continue? When you marry, in my culture you marry the family and it’s very important that you can relate with each other’s family well. I’m just concerned honestly.

Taking an appraisal of your relationship,I think you should let this girl go.
She's not going to change(or maybe just little) and 'what your family and friends think about her' matter so much to you it will likely affect your marriage.
They won't understand her nature(maybe just the enlightened ones will do) and think she's a snob or doesn't like your family.That will bring about gossips and stir up unnecessary hatred.

justwise:
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That is my view as well but recently i was invited to a church where the pastor was going high on it claiming that one can not argue against the bible.

It is either the pastor is ignorant or just wants the money to come into the church.

justwise:
I genuinely want to know more about this issue of first fruit as regards to giving your Jan salary to church.

Is this specifically mentioned in the biblel? I know that the bible talked about first fruit offering in old and new testaments but so far i'm yet to read where money was mentioned.

Anybody with a pointer?


Thank you.

@bolded,in the old testaments,they were mainly farmers and usually brought the best of their harvests.
In this generation,'professions' have simply been monitized and that is why most bring their first salary.

I personally do not believe it is a law and compulsory but if your faith agrees with it,you can do it.

The mama nko?
Mothers should be observant around their daughters.Such things should not go on under their noses undetected

sassysure:
This man has gradually evolved the nairaland way

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I didn't evolve.Just being sacarstic or having fun throwing jibes.

That's sure a huge loss.Be comforted and bounce back.

This lady used to be dark complexioned.Now she's fairer.

Looks like garden snake.

ambassadorgozie:
always unserious

You mean the Op's husband?

That must be his own way of celebrating Christmas with you.

I thought they said this Gwoza road is Boko Haram territory.Why do people still take the risk going there?

Ishilove:
Is sperm flowing out normal?

Yes,a lot of people experience that.It depends on the viscosity of the semen too.

Mindfulness:
Buy one get one free.
But honestly such men are disgusting.

He simply preyed on their....... don't even know what to call it.

highbee02:
Recently, a friend complained bitterly. Sperms usually flow out of the vaginal after sexual intercourse, now he's regretting marrying the lady. Though, I advised him to take her to a Federal Medical Centre where the cost will be relatively cheap since the husband is a federal civil servant.

It is normal in most couples after intercourse.They should go and dig out the main reason for their infertility.

Did they have to marry the same man?Na so two of them mumu.

uninspired07:
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Mine has even given up. She only comes to beg me on special occasions like Christmas. I know she will beg me again this new year.

It’s well sha. But the zeal to do the hard work is gone.

God will help sha.

Well,I'm telling you not to give up on Nigerian women There are still very inspiring ones out there.
It is key that you make yourself available too.There's no way you will get that good one by not being patient with her,allowing her to have her way(not all the times,of course) and exercising some chivalry.
There are of course women who somehow do not like that behaviour in men though.

uninspired07:
Where are the women who look out for such?

They are there if you really look for them and ALLOW yourself to be found of them.Start by exercising patience with women,you need it and will need it else you will not be able to live peaceably with a woman.

Let me tell you my story,when i met my wife,she was dating a guy who worked in an oil company....good job,nice car etc.
I didn't have a car then but I got a good sense of humour,good character,'i let her be without trying to control her','i'm a peaceful person'.
She didn't think twice.........she said,'the money will come later'.

Make I no lie o,I don dey give up for Nigerian girls then too o so tey my mama no wan make I travel out say she no say I go marry oyinbo.

I find it hard exercising patience with,indulging and begging a woman

While I do not support begging for love,your first few words imply that the 'begging' here is not begging for love.It means more like deferring to someone.

What you actually mean to me is that you find it hard exercising patience with,indulging and deferring to a woman.
Something is definitely wrong with your perception of women and your position in a relationship.

Like someone already mentioned,money is good but the values and character of a man also matter and there are still Nigerian women who look out for such.

The father was even thinking of letting go of the snake.Oyinbo people sha.
Kill the snake sharp sharp.

Odikwa egwu.

Massey27:
Yes I have. Results shows fibroid and weak cervix.

See a gynaecologist preferably at a teaching hospital.They should do what is called a cervical cerclage for you.

Let your hubby go and see the child.He might need to do a DNA if he really cannot confirm if the child is his by appearance.

Do you still want this marriage?You have a choice if you can forgive your hubby and try to make amends or you want to leave.
You do not need to play any role in the child's life and the child DOES NOT have to live with you so don't bother about resenting the child.Let your hubby deal with that.
Your recurrent miscarriages,what are you doing about it?Have you seen a specialist?

If you want healing and closure,then you may look for him.
If I was in your shoes sha,I wouldn't bother.For me to get to this stage in life without a father who I was even told did not want me will just make me move on.As far as I'm concerned,he 'died in the civil war'.Mcheeeew.Well I don't know if things will be different if I was really in such situation.

SLAP44:
That's an insult. Ndidi is worth at least 60 million

That's the problem with Arsenal.They keep making low bids until some other clubs snatches quality players from them.