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Platini7:
That was a bad error on my part. I retained just one. The rest i lost the passwords. Should've deleted

Ok.I modified above so you can go through my posts again.

You should have eleted those fake accounts when you got married.
Well,you will need to make contacts with your wife and try to convince her it was in your past and it was all for fun.Try to reach her through people who have access to her.
It might take some time before she changes her mind but keep pushing it.

She had so much to live for,she just didn't know.So she didn't think she had value to give?She claimed to love her family members yet she didn't think they are worth living for?
She was obviously suffering from depression and no one around here knew.
She's left her family in sorrow.

Marriages fail even when she is not a single mother.
The key is not to rush into marriage but study each other very well while dating and see that you can really work together and there are no baggages.
A lot of single mothers will really try to make the marriage work with the benefit of hindsight.This one just didn't work.

I don't believe this story....



,....or the man is utterly stupid.

AirtimersSport:
at this point what type of hiv test should I go for,

What is mantoux and vd test

Tuberculosis and run a blood/urine culture test.

This is pure evil.....just outpouring of frustration.

Why burn him for stealing?

Run the HIV test again.
In addition,you could do Mantoux test and a VD screening.

Bat ke?
Looks like a flying squirrel.

You people eat just anything.Odiegwu

taneez:
You can date an extrovert. Not an extreme one though. You also date an "introvert-extrovert.
But seriously the guy wasn't meant for you extrovert or not

Only extroverts who understand her nature and is willing to work with her.
Not an extrovert who thinks she should be like him or some other girl out there.

The mosquitoes were biting the others,they just didn't wake up.There are some deep sleepers.

Successful01:
Thank you thorpido. Actually Uba is my father's name and not the compound name.

Do I need to swear an affidavit and do a change of name on the newspaper too for my daughter since her's is just the birth certificate?

I plan to do a change of name on the news paper for my wife.

You will do a change of name for everyone including you if you have been using Chinedu-Uba.It is the same column in the paper,you will just put the name of everyone in the write-up.
You don't have to worry about what is on your daughter's birth certificate.The newspaper takes care of it going forward.

You are incompatible like he said.It is no fault of yours,it is just who you are.You're an introvert while he's an extrovert.

Don't ever make the mistake of dating an extrovert again.It will wear you out.You'll forever be dealing with trying to catch up while he's seeing you as inadequate.

Have you spoken to your dad or family about your decision to change the compound name?It's your decision but let your family be aware.
What you need to do is swear an affidavit and do a change of name in the newspaper.
'My family formerly known as Chidi Chinedu-Uba,Constance Morenike Chinedu-Uba and Mary Chidinma Chinedu-Uba now wish to be know as Chidi Chinedu, Constance Morenike Chinedu and Mary Chidinma Chinedu.'
That settles it.

TellMeTheTruth:
If they're sets of twins why then are there differences in their heights?

Mccullum:
It is good to have twins with enough money, it seem both twins are not identical facially and height

The boys are not twins and the girls neither.
It is actually boy-girl,boy-girl twins

missimelda01:
Questions like this comes at the early stage of meeting a lady, sometimes they have no idea what the family's financial status is like.. they just assume nonsense and that's what is annoying.

Well you can't really blame them.The idea of investing so much into a relationship only to find out it is not really what you want is heartbreaking.It is like dating someone for a while and getting to know the person is AS genotype and you are also AS.
Before they get to meet your family will be after spending much time with you except they know you beforehand.
Personally,I like to know what challenges or responsibilities are ahead of me before venturing into something.
I married a first child and first daughter anyway.

missimelda01:
But that shouldn't be a problem if both the husband and wife are doing well financially

It shouldn't be but still the man would need to have an idea how much responsibility (financial) he would need to bear.

The bride price in some cultures but mainly the 'responsibilities' such child is expected to have ...........help in training the younger ones if the parents are not well to do,might have to house one or two of them too

cococandy:
The doctor is supposed to explain to the patient/s what she suspects to be the possible cause/s of the symptoms. The patient then gives the doctor the permission to carry out the tests and treatments where applicable. Remember the bill is going to be paid by the patient. You don’t carry out tests willy nilly as if you will be the one to pay.

There’s something called autonomy. And it’s the cardinal rule in medicine. The patient has autonomy over their own care. If they don’t agree to any test, then you don’t proceed with it. However YOU HAVE TO educate them on the importance and risks versus benefits of compliance. If the patient is an adult and deemed capable of making their own decisions, then the patience decisions will be followed.

This doesn’t apply in the case of a mentally deficient patient or a minor. Or in a case where the patient poses a contagious/infectious risk to others around them.

Well said
The doctor wants to run tests but will inform the patient and obtain consent.

LadySarah:
Which parent teaches her child to say I'd rather die than something else?

That statement bothered me too.A careless statement to make
As parents,we must speak the right words and teach our children to speak right too.

Senseless

Outcast ko,Tupac ni.

Cheato64:
it's a risk I will take

Well,I hope she doesn't.Women are the ones who spend time more with sick children.She should be wise.

How did you calculate your possibility of the first two children not having sickle cell?
The very FIRST one may carry the sickle genes.

If you like travel to go and propose.The girl should be wise and not listen to you.

Hmmmm,this your article is the 'red pant and bra' advise.

If you have dewormed her,is she on any multivitamin or appetite stimulants?
If everything is okay,then just let me be.
Hope say food dey house?

Nmezor:
He was really loved, see crowd

They probably have a herd mentality.

The way some of you guys are raised(not raised) sef.
You can't wash your own clothes?

See what anger has caused her.
She's not the first wife,she should have prepared for issues in a polygamous home before venturing into it.

This one is psychotic.