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Enough of all these never ending tales biko.

All die nah die.

This case don tey o.

As long as the boobs are beautiful no wahala. Most ladies have unattractive b**bs.

Olalan:
Yes she should direct her grievances to her husband but we also need to condemn this seeming craze of young ladies dating married men. People who are in the know will tell you how desperate young ladies are to date married men by all means.

If it is ok to marry a second wife then what is the big deal if a single lady dates a married man?

lefulefu:
could be the husband the money he ought to spend on his wife and kids he is spending it on the side chick.thats what makes most of these wives angry.

Probably

I don't understand three things.

Why will a married man keep a side chic when he can just marry her?

Secondly why will a lady bother her head over her man having a second lady when a man has every right to marry another lady if he so desires?

Why do ladies frown at becoming a second wife or concubine yet they are ok being a side chic to a married man.

These things don't just Add up.

In a sane country, the guy ought to have been isolated for at least 2 weeks to see if he will develop any symptoms knowing fully well that he was arriving from Italy but trust the Nigerian system to give crazy excuse.

Could the wife be circumcised?, could she have been a victim of rape? could it be that she does not like the guy at all hence her lack of sexual enthusiasm?, could it be that the guy has done something to hurt her so much that she decided to switch off?.... Many of the answers to this I may not know BUT ONE THING I KNOW, If you meet a lady with bedmatic skills, your life will never remain the same again cos you will be hooked for life and if you marry a lady who is not good in bed then I feel serious pity for you.

Ladies please i eg you..learn that skills, it is a lifeline for men.

technicallyrich:
liars.
Then let tosyn2much tell us how he stole sexybbstar heart away while under employed and searching for jobs all around lagos.because then he has not been employed in the bmc crew.
Some girls dont look at your money.but yoir character and vision.
My own style then is take her number,start to sex chat with her.promise to suck her towtow until she release in your mouth and fuk her until she faint.
Most girls will want to give it a try,when she comes around fuk her mercilessly,the way no man or woman has ever done.
Then she will be addicted to you,
or rush down to ijebu ode the home of different wicked juju.
And tell the dirty babalawo to make you hansome in the eyes of girls.
Finally we need testimonies of girls and guys.
Girls like sexybbstar,what did the then brokke tosyn2much tell you that you accepted.
Tosyn2much then you were very broke how did you do it,i seriously like to know.thank allah that you are doin quite well now.

You must have been fantasizing about bbstar for you to rant like this Lol!

As I wrote, you need to be super cool for ladies to overlook your financial ineptitude and Tosyn nah fine bobo with bright future so bbstar fell like a pack of cards.

technicallyrich:
Is not all about the money but your style and packaging.
Eg Tosyn2much works with the bmc and he is been paid peanuts,just like the fol manabbqgrills,and was able to date a our lovely sister sexybbstar.
From tosin,i learnt if Just try to sound intelligent,look posh and try your best to smell nice.u might get your own bunmi.
You also need a mentor,if you are afraid to seduce or ask a woman out.
Toks2008 who is the oldest nairalanader can help you out.
Tonyebarcanista.or iamj the nairaland billonaire.
My bro.there is nothing as sweet as a woman suckin your pepee and anus,until you release your hapiness.
Allah bless us all.

You don craze finish. Who tell you sey Nah me old pass. Me that I am just 30+.

In Naija if yiu are broke, no matter your packaging, you may find it hard to be with your choice woman except you have the looks to cover your brooklyn situation or maybe a stroke of luck. But if you are still in your early 20s you just might still have some young girls around you just for the fun but once you are about 30 or more bro go Hustle o make babes no dey tell you sey "I just love you as a friend" as in just friends with no hope of accessibility

Be as it May, you can look for your level like find a lady from a very lowly background and try your luck.

My opinion

noblealuu:
The power of the tongue

Which power of the tongue? Did he write "I can die at anytime"?

I have written worse several years back and I'm still alive till 90 so leave all those talks.

Maxymilliano:
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), our soldiers need proper evaluations, especially those ones fighting war in the North-East, these are signed of PTSD.

This is why I'm very careful with Naija soldiers cos they don't think straight most times especially those that have gone to war and back.

N1800 sef too much in some areas.

It can only happen in Osun lol!

writetopoker2:
Forever young
Geneviv wanna live forever young
Forever young

Do you really want to live forever young
Forever young

Nah this word they deceive many people

Very hilarious.

cococandy:
No matter what your personal experience is, for you to say that satan is from Africa when you’re African, is plain ignorant.

Oh That! So you took that literally lol! I was only trying to state how Evil Africa can be.

See some people have curses on them and that is why we must be very careful who will sleep with or who we marry.

cococandy:
Only in the ignorant minds.

Let me not bore you with my personal experience.

You don't know what you don't know.

Handsomejok:
I opened my shop in 20012 everything was moving well , during this time I was with my ex and we broke up in 2014 ( she is now happily married with kids) my shop was still moving well ,never had any problem. Then I met my wife December 2015 we started dating things were still fine , we got married June 2019 just two months everything has changed from good to worst. I strongly believe that my wife is responsible for my misfortune, she came to my life to destroyed me , which she has succeeded . . My family hate her nobody want her in this house , even myself I don’t want her anymore am only keeping her cos of my unborn child , as soon as she put to bed she must leave. Wish I never wasted my time with her. She is a bad luck. I’m sorry I’m broke and depressed right now

Bro I feel your pain but biko calm down a bit.

What if you are actually the reason all this is happening to You? What if it is one lady somewhere you jilted in the past that is responsible and wants to make it look like the fault of your new wife.

What if it is even your family members that are behind this just to make you regret your disobedience regarding your marriage to the lady?

cococandy:
Why only Africa?

It's a crazy dark evil continent. Headquarter of Satan.

cococandy:
Sorry for the woman who married an obviously low-intelligence fellow like you.


Because rather than analyze what actually caused the fire in your store , you’d rather lazily blame in on your wife. What do I know? Might be another rant and abuse thread. So many of them running amok in this section nowadays

Coco in all honesty shits happen in Africa and YES a wife or husband can bring ill -luck but for him to conclude that his wife is responsible is lame except he has a very very compelling evidence to show.

Juliusmalema:
I don't know how these guys used to think..

Davido as it stands now is not the rightful owner of that child.

How can you claim a child you've not done anything on the mothers' head.

Chioma's father has greater and 100 percent claim on the child than Davido...........Thats just the fact.

Crazy tradition i must say.

maasoap:
What are the advantages? Zero. What you see as advantages can't really be classified as advantages.



It looks like you need more knowledge about this topic, it is more than of mind. It is physical, it is psychological and it is emotional. A simple Google search of disadvantages of girl circumcision will enlighten you about the dangers and effects of circumcision. Many women have died during child labour and the cause of deaths were linked to terrible circumcision. Many circumcised women don't feel anything during sexual intercourse simply because all the nerve endings in the private part had been completely removed, almost.

Guy relax, I have been with over 4 circumcised ladies in my life and I can categorically tell you it's more of the mind when it comes to sexual pleasure.

thalpy:
No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution. And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.

That is false. Circumcision has nothing to do with ability to give birth easily infact their is a myth that uncircumcised ladies may give birth to a strange child if the uncircumcised clitoris touched the head of the baby during child birth which is also part of the reasons they circumcised ladies.

seedorfg:
What's the reason for female genital mutilation.


Becsuse I don't understand the rational behind it.

It reduces promiscusity to a great extent.

Most circumcised ladies are sexually decent as they can stay for years without sex unlike the uncircumcised ones who get wet easily ad even when they sit their vagina brushes easily with their undies which makes them crave for sex often

AjalaTemitope:
so sorry about that, like someone said Ky gel would help, and there are other lubricant you can get as well not so sure of the name

A good MouthAction will do especially mouth action on her as well as good gspot stimulation.

personal59:
It's a good post and also she won't like sex.

If you don't ask for Sex for months she won't bother nor feel the absence

Circumcision has advantages though just that it diminishes the pleasure for some ladies while some still enjoy sex. It's more of the mind.

What a cursed Country.

Peaceful Disintegration is the only sure way forward.

Scripted...anything to trend.

attacker321:
Is it okay for a husband and wife to stay in separate rooms in the same house?

Some married couples operate like this and I am wondering why.

Let's discuss.

I prefer this cos it allows for privacy and even makes sex more kinky.

chibike69:



The best way to stop masturbation is to have real sex.



go find girlfriend.

simple

The best way is by getting married but if after marriage you still do it even when your wife is available then seek help fast.

i know men who masturbate with the video of their wife whenever their wives travel or whenever they travel. So masturbation as a sin is a very very complicated discussion.

Sunnyvision:
The act of mastrubation is a sinful boundage, even if you use any tragedy to battle it you will end up going back either days or weeks later. If God can show me love & mercy he his always ready...

If you are in any boundage of sin Jesus Christ is always ready to save...

Submit yourself to Jesus with all sincerity (not half hearted) and he will break those boundage in your life.

Masturbation is an act that can easily be addictive and any addiction is sinful but the act in itself is not a sin. Pornography is a big sin cos when you watch it you lust after the actors and that in itself is fornication.

Congrats bro and i pray that the holy spirit strengthens you so much that you will never return to the act.