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Crysallis:
The Bible says that fornication (or adultry) is a sin against God and our body. (I Corinthians 6:18)

Masturbation is a desire of the flesh and it is not right in the sight of God. According to 1 Corinthians 10:13, no temptation has overtaken us that is not common to man; God is faithful and will not let us be tempted beyond our ability and that God will always provide a way of escape that we might be able to endure the temptation.

1 Peter 2:11 clearly warns us against the passions of the flesh.

So dear OP, Juxtaposing two wrongs while providing a choice between them does not make indulging in one seem right.

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If I'm masturbating while thinking about MY OWN WIFE and her sexy physique, how is that wrong? Oga please!

daretodiffer:
Are u you crazy? If you want a head, go meet your momma at home. I bet she will be so willing! If she had raised you right, we won't be having this BS!

Nah, your father wants your friend not your fvcking asshole



Unfortunately for you, I don't have a soft spot for moro..ns(including you). I will rather see them used as lab rats, their organs havested etc etc, than have a positive feeling towards then

Morning babe...or b1tch which you prefer. Mehn, I was thinking about you all night. I find biatches like you addictive. Please don't stop now, at this rate you'll soon be BAE. Something sexy about emotionally abusive relationships (which you've probably had your whole life), there's no dull moment. Of course, I'm preaching to the choir, how stupid of me.

But seriously, do you have mummy issues? Did she fvck your bfs? You know, not all mothers are like yours. I'll introduce you to her when your bae. And if she likes you (obviously, you'll have to pretend not to be a slvt)...I might actually put a ring on it. What do you say?

daretodiffer:
Look who is talking about selfishness? Your mother is dead as in GONE. They are no longer together yet you don't want your poor father to move on with his life? You are the definition of selfish. It is not going to kill you if they were together, stop getting all teary and move on with your fvcking life too!! You are not going to depend on him for the rest of your miserable life, are you

I am sorry but if I decided to marry my father's friend. He is not going to like it but the father that I know is not going to stop me.


Your mother is the FVCKING SLUT!!!

Lol What a dirty mouth! I won't let you gimme head with that mouth, no hard feelings.

LMAO! Momsi is a good, kind woman. You'll love her.

I'm the one being selfish? My father wants to fvck my friend for his own SELFISH sexual desires, I disagree because I expect my father to show some dignity and respect for himself and his family. Btw, there are thousands of other slvts (including you) for him to fvck. But on a real though, stubbornness aside, it's kinda sad being in "Ebun's" shoes. You can't be a bitch to the very core of your heart. EMPATHIZE!

Btw, I'm starting to have feelings for you. I have a soft spot for feisty b1tches.

Kpako life, smh.

We had video games like Nintendo 64, Sega. We played board games like snakes and ladders, monopoly...NOT LUDO OH! We visited amusement parks and theaters.We played on the playing ground with proper swings, seesaws, bouncing castles, trampolines etc

...then my mum would wake me up from the sweet dream.

I was a champion in Tinko (won six tournaments)...and also rolling tyres (was the best in drifting).

Vikky014:
excellent post. Thumbs up

Pleasure!

daretodiffer:
You would know she is a slvt, aren't you a product of a slvt too.

If you had any brain, the first thing you would of his your father's fvcking happiness. However you are sick, keep on thinking about the sex part. She is your fvcking friend not your blood sister!?

Okay, so you're saying you would be cool with your father fvcking your close friend because of his own selfish desires? And please, stop mixing sexual needs with happiness. Let's assume you wanted to fvck your father's close friend (which I'm sure You have done before) and your father being a man with morals (which I highly doubt) stops you from fvcking his friend. Would you look your father in the face and say "why did you stop us from fvcking? Don't you want me to be happy fvcking your friend?" But we all know you would say something like that...FVCKING SLVT!!!

Helloflife:
Is it that none of you nairalanders have ever been in this situation before,i need advice and not insults.

They just looking for a punching bag to vent their frustrations before work on Monday. The easiest way is to pretend you're very engrossed in work and slowly distance yourself from him (hardly pick his calls, late text msg replies, cancelling dates etc.). Then when he wants to have "THE TALK", tell him you need space for awhile that the relationship is getting harder to maintain with all the pressure. He'll kinda get the message except he's a clingy, soft, low self-esteem nigga. If he is, then it ain't gonna be easy dear.

Babes keep scaring me off with that line...CRINGEWORTHY!

The idea of love is relative. The common conception is someone that makes your heart pound, gives you butterflies blah blah blah. I differ. For me loving someone are the actions you take to be with the person till the end NOT the temporary excitement you feel in the early periods of the relationship. So saying "I love you" is reassuring your partner you'll NEVER LEAVE. If everyone sees love this way, some will realise the really don't love their partner.

Mostly women are a victim of this ignorance and they jump from one guy to the other believing the initial lust or aching desire (aka ''falling in love'') is the TRUE LOVE. It's usually like this:

- Babe meets guy
- They have serious chemistry
- They spend time together
- Babe "falls in love" and they become serious
- A year later, babe realises there's no more spark like before
- Babe takes the frustration on the poor guy
- Babe is introduced to new guy at a friend's party
- They have serious chemistry
- Babe breaks up with the old guy
- Babe spends time with new guy
- Babe "falls in love" again...

The pattern continues till she has had 10 bfs. This is VERY come with extroverted females. That's why I find them appealing for flings than serious relationship. The chill babes are usually the keepers.

Females here are at best, hypocritical biatches. Okay, it was immature for "Ebun" to cast her friend on Twitter. But to support her FATHER and FRIEND boinking...you must have had a horrible childhood or y'all are being hypocrites for 'likes' or your ability to empathize was lost when you were dropped as a baby.

The man that MARRIED YOUR FREAKIN' MOTHER and with her brought you to this world, you'll be cool with him exploding inside your friend? YOU PEOPLE ARE SICK!

And that slvt deserves all the shaming she can get. Shamless dog from a horrible home. She would have probably killed if its the other way around. Chatting sh1t there.

ShakurM:
. There's no guarantee? Really nigga? If I sha collect ur gf, no cry oo . I go show you this msg

We go see. Good luck sha.

wristbangle:
Even though your comment sound a bit harsh, it bears atom of truth.

You never can say after reading this article, a lady can amend her wrongdoings.

Good point tho. There might be a few contrite babes truly looking for the way forward...probably my future wife. PREACH ON, NIGGA!

Takim107:
now that you spoke responsibly I understood you....

Touche!

ShakurM:
The BEST WAY to get at your ex....IS TO GET RICH! You welcome.

There's no guarantee of being "rich"...and I was speaking for both sexes.

Why are you guys always trying to help them? LEAVE THEM THE WAY THEY ARE! Let them learn the longer, more painful way. That way it'll stick well...then they'll rise their daughters right making the future brighter for the unborn Nigerian men.

Guys, do it for the future AND SHUT THE F@#K UP!!!

Hahaha. The breaking up picture is the funniest. After a while, forming tough guy wears off, you start to miss her, you find out she has moved on with a new guy, then you start to imagine the new guy constantly drilling that sweet cooch you once enjoyed...THEN THE DEPRESSION BEGINS.

The BEST WAY to get back at your ex...IS TO MOVE ON.

Takim107:
I won't take off any pix. ..it's my opinion if you don't like it go kill yourself...The bible didn't say if we ladies don't get married we won't make heaven...even so many marriages can lead one to hell...I won't marry a poor man that's final...I don't depend on you guys at all but I'm not going anywhere near a poor dude...I'll rather stay single than hook up with a guy I love,because of some mess my love begins to drop and I hurt him by walking away...The goal this 2016 isn't about more money but living life on my terms. Period! !!!

Nothing wrong with not wanting to marry a poor guy. 99% of Nigerian women think that way. You advised women to marry "rich men" like they're enough to go round. Btw, not being rich doesn't mean being poor. There is wealthy then rich then comfortable then middle class then hustling then poor. Cool.

Takim107:
hahaha...If you are successful that's cool I won't mind...that's if you are oh...is dsame thing I'm saying I'll rather be a s** toy to a rich dude than 2 a poor dude...don't you think so? Smh...just look around you and see the shit we're calling love this days.

First, At least take off your pic. Coming out openly as a gold digger can mess your future up. THINK!!!

Second, stop talking as if all woman has to do is decide to marry a rich man. In this broke-ass country? And who told you a rich man would marry your cheap, lazy, thirsty, desperate ass?

To a rich man, there are about 200 fine women to pick from. Godspeed.

So many cuckold niggas nowadays. I'm not usually insulting...but you're a DUMBASS. How can you "passionately kiss" the same lips you just discovered kissed another nigga?

This story can't be real, you can't be that retarded.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Pls someone should educate me
How does one weep internally
and how do you know someone is weeping internally

Mehn, I was wondering the same.

Nah, he was wasn't mad because you didn't take Olamide's side in that overrated publicity stunt. He's mad because of your mentality on forgiveness. Who the hell wants to spend the rest of his or her life with someone that doesn't forgive and FORGET? Big fvck ups are bound to happen, so the capability to forget and look forward is intrinsic to a successful marriage.

Btw, his usual passiveness is a bad sign. Every woman wants a leader as her man. Not good.

You two need a long, completely open conversation on each others flaws. You NEED to make it work.

Leriebloom:
You know its true. You can take the trash out of the gutter but you can not take the gutter out of the trash #word.

That speech tho...

RadicallyBlunt:
NL is one of the marriage breaking social media. Someone would ask 4 advice and get jests, bashings and confusing advices just becus of 'likes and shares'. Only 10% of d contributions usually make sense.

You're on point. Most here are so desperate for 'likes' to the point of looking stupid, slutty, hypocritical etc. Guy, less than 10% of posts are smartly written, so sad. Not saying every thread and comment should be intellectual and deep, it would take away the fun part. At least, 50% of contributions should show intelligence.

Oliviaarims:
Hehehehe. "Chyk the the hell outta tha Nigga." How about we start with you?

Give it to me, waiting.

Please, stop lying to yourselves ladies. You lack the communication skills to effectively woo him. That's it. You'll be utterly unwise to be completely upfront in your intention to date him. You need to have a lively, interesting first impression so he can open up and enjoy your company. I think that's the problem; 78% of naij girls can't create and maintain an interesting, intellectual conversation. It's always the man's job. Oh, except when it comes to gossiping.

Develop your communication skills, dress attractively not slutty and chyk the hell outta tha nigga.

I thought "LOVE IS BLIND"? Lmao

They commit to guys with all the signs of a player/bad boy and be shocked and heartbroken when they get cheated on. Then they'll come out and say "ALL men are dogs".

The problem is do you DESERVE better? Babes be chilling for a perfect man like they waiting for a bus. Babes who put a lot of work into themselves and grow in every aspect of their lives will attract the same kinda man. Trust me, losers shy away from successful women. You don't believe me? Try being successful and independent, see if I'm yanning dust.

Bus conductor: CHINESE!!! CHINESE!!!

Passenger: CHINESE wa ooo!!!

When the bus conductor says it with his yoruba agbero accent I can't help but chuckle.

Why would a young guy wanna marry in this bad economy? I've got to be financially secure to even THINK of marriage, as in I have my big house, 4 mad rides, a high position at an internationally renowned company, lucrative side businesses, 3 lands on the Island, 8 on the Mainland and a minimum of 100 milla in my account. Don't care about age.

prettytasha:
Looks like a gold diggers list to me

Lol same thoughts. At a time when gender equality is more prevalent and women can be just as successful, SMH. Where are the divas aka female hustlers?

yinkeys:
This is vital in getting hot chicks. If you are emotional, you're in trouble

You sabi joor.