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I am about to start HOMELAND season 5.

I am about to watch CREED and SPOTLIGHT. All reviews have been very good so far. Spotlight is even nominated for best picture (Oscars). I should enjoy.

I just finished watching THE REVENANT! What a beautiful movie. The director, Alejandro G. Iñárritu, is quickly becoming one of the best directors. I love what he does with the camera. He loves to make his scenes flow with little to no cuts. Just like he did in BIRDMAN, another epic movie.

Leonardo DiCaprio must win best actor (Oscars), he deserves it after such meticulous performance. His acting was perfected in the tiniest details. This movie wasn't mainly about dialogue, it was more like acting with the whole body, complex body expressions.

Tom Hardy was outstanding too as a supporting actor. However, I struggled understanding his accent though.

GREAT MOVIE!

The man who tweeted was guilty for publicly declaring his nasty proclivity BUT he's not guilty of statutory rape.

And the guy y'all are crucifying was suggesting to tackle the problem from the source: Bad parenting. There will always be predators out here in the wild, it's the job of the parents to guide their children...not the predators. Most men will always be instinctively sexual predators just like most women will always be instinctively gold-diggers. Sad world!

Summary: Blame her parents.

What if her ass-cheeks end up taking the shape of the containers? Lmao! Justice will be served.

KashyBaby:
Well u cant blame this girl why she doing it...coz most men got a type...big boobies, huge asses, flat tummies, long hair, fair skin...blah blah blah...

If men only knows how to appreciate these women who has flaws physically & embraced instead, then maybe juz maybe these type of women won't undergo surgeries juz to look perfect in the eyes of their man...

Hitting the gym and dieting to look fit and rigid is what really matters most. Getting a slimmer waist by losing weight or waist training will bring out a woman's figure, accentuating her curves. She could do squats to build her lower body too.

The subject is simply taking the easy way out. That's laziness or utter ignorance, nothing else.

These JAMB questions...

THIS IS WHY I HAVE TRUST ISSUES!

In a way, she slvt-shamed herself in the process so they're even.

Diddyydiva:
women are the most confused being I have ever met.


The way they gets emotional and makes worst decisions freaks me out


Op you fvcked up

Let's be truthful you lack self control and you are kind of dumb too.

And I think the dating site was an excuse to break up with your boyfriend just to have your way with your friend you are crushing on.

You think your friend will be all you wanted but compared to your boyfriend he is way below , that was while you felt bad.

You are the reason some nonentities here call us names



Tell your boyfriend what you did? how bitchy you acted. Its his decision to either forgive you or not.


And hey !! take down your picture for now

Chick is just slow. How can she post something like this without going incognito?

Females ehn, dammit.

A bit hypocritical, innit?

These JAMB questions tho. He's probably giving it to your brother atm to say "thank you" for the favor. Jk.

I actually can't think of an advice because I can't relate (i.e. perspective take) to your predicament. Oyo lo wa.

Clearly a troll...because I wanna believe you can't be that messed up.

Switzerland ko, Congo ni.

I feel sad for people who believe love is what stops their partner from cheating on them. Nah, it's SELF CONTROL. One of the major signs of people with bad self control are people who can't cut themselves from friends, from social interactions. They just can't say NO. Follow follow up and down. People with self control will easily cut themselves off when necessary. If it's them and there partner against the world, so be it, they down.

Haven't you noticed most men who cheat are the ones constantly rolling with their guys. They just can't turn down parolz. Everytime, FUN! FUN! FUN! Same with women, Owambe every week. They're highly prone to be influenced by bad friends.

I'm not saying people who can't do without lots of social interactions are cheats. I'm saying the aforementioned people lack self control and a person with low self control is most likely to cheat.

So, summary: follow-follow is a massive red flag. Don't ignore it.

Are you close to the guy, friendship and distance wise? How can you expect your close friend to be comfortable with it knowing he'll be hearing about her or seeing her with you occasionally? Put yourself in his shoes.

Even if he says he's cool with it, HE'S NOT. Don't do it if y'all are main guyz.

Worst part is these babes extending their slvtiness to social media. Like, don't these girls care a little about their future? Don't they think for a second "this might mess up my fam in future, my husband or my kids might see these derry pics"? If you wanna feel like a slvt, at least do it with sense.

These narcissistic babes are usually only good for one night stands, a nigga's side chick or one of the mistresses of a fat, rich, old man. They hardly graduate to main chick, and if they do...give it a couple of months. Like, who can stand a whole day of BS for just 5 minutes of balls-deep action? You?

Plus, these chicks will never understand getting attention and getting respect are two different things. They keep "dressing to kill". Nah biitch, you're killing your future. For some dumbass reason, they think guys wanting them for a night equates wanting them for a lifetime. HILARIOUS!

Like I always say, let reality give 'em a dirty slap. If you keep tryna change these mess-ups, there'll be no drama, no gists. Just grab your popcorn and watch.

What the hell? Lol. Cut your post to like 12 episodes.

From the few lines I read, it's well written...just too long.

She believes his "love" for her would change him while she enjoys his money. Then reality gives her a dirty slap.

She will watch a dysfunctional family develop before her eyes. By the time she realises a big house and flashy cars don't guarantee PEACE OF MIND, it will be too late.

But I am wasting my time, innit? Let reality tear her a hottest slap.

Isn't that meant to be a rhetorical question?

"I'm watching my weight...so I'm just gonna eat half of this big chicken wing". Is it you or me your deceiving? Lol

ariyike23:
im in my mid 20's and the youngest i have ever dated is 29, but right now i wuldnt date anybody less than 30. asides financial stability,emotional stability and security too is key,i dont want someone that wont be able to handle our issues maturely except we fight and scatter evrywhere.i hate stress,so i definitely hate to nag about the same thing evrytime,i like wen you as a man sees sumfing av done wrong and simply call me and point it out instead of acting out on it,same with me.PLus the fact that i hate clingy men,Be in a relationship where both of you are fused into each other but yet independent of each other.

29? Lol, you really stick to your taste. I get you though, maturity is a lot in a relationship. I'll admit sadly many guys up to even their late 20s still play the blame game and lack the ability to lead the relationship. Clingy partners are very appalling, dammit! Like, I want a chick to know she owns me because of TRUST, not because she has to hear my voice every 1 hour or know where or who I'm with. I've suffered from the hands of clingy, game playing, spoilt twats lol. That's the reason older, busy women are much more appealing to me even though the feeling isn't mutual .

An advice tho, you shouldn't forget COMPATIBILITY. You might have that mature, responsible nigga, but he might not click with you along the line while getting to know you more. Then it might appear he isn't mature enough to accept you. It might be him just wanting to be comfortable and free with who he is and want he wants. So, maturity and compatibility is the way forward.

ariyike23:
i quite agree wid u.. the thing is she is still enjoying the attention she gets from those chewing gum boys,trust me in 4 to 5 years from now,she wuld die to have his kind of person,its just the phase.one thing we ladies fail to realise is that stability and security is the most paramount in a relationship,i prefer olda guys but not my daddy's age oo because i want peace of mind.

Hahaha @ "not my daddy's age oo". That would be disturbing, innit? What's your limit? As in, the oldest you can marry? I'm more attracted to women around my age even older (2 years max). Sucker for a matured mind. Love the challenge. Sad part, they prefer older men for the reason you said, financial stability.

It's definitely a phase SHE MUST pass through IMO. She might lose this great guy (OP) but she needs to know his worth and what she really NEEDS or else, throughout the marriage she'll keep wondering 'what if' she should have explored which lead to frustration, even cheating. There are just some things you just can't get into a young mind, mainly relationship advice.

My guy don turn Sylar for Heroes.

ariyike23:
i used to surf this forum as a guest,jes joined today when i saw ur post. Yur gurl is onli bored of the relationship and has found sumone thats tickling her fancy because his still new to her,its better that shes showing all these now,because what i can decipher from here is that shes not psychologically ready for marriage,she still feels young and wants to explore, and the idea of been stuck to one man is scary to her. Your best option is to give her space,i mean real space,dont break it off with her,but start going out with other gurls,dont date for now because the probability that any gurl you date now will be a rebound is very high,you may just want to use her to cure your heart break which isnt fair to the gurl. with time,if your relationship isnt meant to be,you"ll find yourself withdrawing from her gradually. One thing is if the trust has been destroyed,dont bother going further,because no matter what she does,you will always doubt her fidelity and thats bad for your health. You'll be fine,it will only hurt for a while..i promise

I was nodding to everything you said like we shared the same brain but you didn't mention he needs help. Trying to leave someone you truly love can be a very dark, depressing place, worst for men because the don't express it or vent out their pain so they form "tough guy". For me, a best way to get over someone you still love, is to have a very mature female friend (a single female in the case of a man) who is a very good listener. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND a new female friend after the break up. Reason is, the thrill of getting to know someone new can also be a very good distraction from the break up. Be honest with her that you're tryna to get over someone, that you need a GOOD FRIEND. From my experience, women enjoy this role because the can really empathize with you.

Scantee, you best listen to ariyike23 and give her space. She's young and still highly susceptible to peer pressure. I even made a thread about trying to marry younger females:

https://www.nairaland.com/2774510/stop-dating-way-younger-girls

Now, guys here are gonna play the "love your body" card and start forming good friend. The next time a curvy babe and her shapeless friend pass, these guys here won't even realize the shapeless one exists. Same thing with females, do you think they'll notice you if your friend is tall, dark, handsome, rich and you're short, fat and broke looking? They'll go after your friend like bees. You soft niggas here will be analysing and empathizing as if women won't give you yawa if you don't fit their own standards. Chatting sh1t there as if it doesn't go both ways.

SOFT, CONFUSED, CONFUSING, NAIVE NIGGAS!!!

Listen, petkruz. Maybe you THINK he's obsessed with you to the point you're getting paranoid about his actions to have you badly. Why else would you think he TURNS OFF all his electronics to eavesdrop? How can you perceive him trying to listen to your moans? How do you know for a fact he dumped his ex for you? Relax.

Yes, he might be attracted to you if indeed you're attractive. Isn't that normal? Babes show noticeable interest in me or my goons if they want to, it's their choice. I have no right to judge her about it assuming she's unattractive and I'm not feeling her vibes.

Just embrace the fact he's interested in you (if he actually is) and focus on your man. DO NOT and I repeat, DO NOT make it a serious issue to the point your man sees your neighbor as a serious threat. Whatever happens will be on you.

Happy Sunday.

EVILFOREST:
I Love U.
Happy Sunday to u

GUY!!! She's my bae. I hope you mean in a friendly way?

Tbh, I'll advise to train yourself to appreciate all sizes. You just can't make breast size a deciding factor. Kinda shallow.

bettercreature:
Any booob More than handfull is a waste

Lol, so we should choose according to the size of our hands? Because my hands are pretty wide and I deserve my handful grabz.

Whatever size she's packing though, the fitness of her waist will always be the most important.

midehi2:
still trash!

Hopeless.