₦airaland Forum

midehi2:
for ya mind now, you have taught me something, go back and read what you wrote; trash!

Lmao. And the same babe will say she is attracted to an intelligent man that can challenge her intellectually.

Because I attempted to correct you constructively doesn't make it "trash". You feel me, babe?

midehi2:
tears of getting the right woman

There's nothing like marrying the right woman. There's only marrying a woman you love HOPING she'll be with you through life's challenges right till the end. He can have affairs because she became overweight and she decides to leave his ass. She can have affairs because he's too tiny, then he finds out and leaves her ass. So, anything can happen. Marriage is a long-ass journey NOT a destination.

You've been schooled today. Go spread my wisdom.

Joy1706:
Will u shut up. Maybe ur blind. What's the meaning of 'what can women do without men?' You haven't seen female doctors,lawyers,bankers,lecturers,engineers,accountants,business women? Mstchewwww.

I meant majority of women. Calm down.

In Nigeria woman are way too dependent on their husbands. Look around you. What can women do without men in this country? Take developed countries like US and UK, you don't mess with your woman, she'll kick you outta the house. In UK, it was hilarious seeing how Nigerian husbands who ordinarily would be controlling are gentle and passive with their wives. So, cheating on your wife is SERIOUS TROUBLE abroad.

In Nigeria, a woman's husband will boink all her housemaids, all she can do is cry and pray. If she fights him or casts him out, it'll be at her own risk because he owns everything. If She's caught cheating, it's automatic "GTFO of my house" with some black-eyes takeaway for free, lol. So, it's more shocking to Nigerians because she's worth little without her man. It's like "She had the liver cheat? She's finished"

So all you lazy, dependent, undereducated, unambitious "babes" with no value except your clothes, shoes, 1-karat gold jewelry and counterfeit makeup looking for a made man...get ready to be his eternal b1tch.

prettythicksme:
Tommy

Pretty

REALLY?! Good luck with that.

Wanting your change doesn't mean you're broke, it just means...YOU WANT YOUR CHANGE.

wristbangle:
FATHER OOO!

Lol, see your mouth.

tosyne2much:
hahaha


Bros, you just dey make me laf

Lol. Naija life is funny joke.

wristbangle:
Make dem don chyke me. Make I maga dem wella

Loool. Take it to God in prayer. Say "FATHEEER!!!"

wristbangle:
I know that area well. It's along Gerald road. After that round about that connects ikoyi to Lekki pennisula.

Bros, wetin those small pikin dey ride fit damage person esteem.

Lmao. I can't imagine how lonely they'll be when they intimidate 99% of naij guys. Dey go dey vex do d chyking sef.

And I'm currently working on a construction site in Parkview, Ikoyi. I'll be seeing babes in their mid-twenties cruising the latest Range Rovers, BMWs, Mercedes Jeeps etc. And I'm pretty sure you know the value of houses in Parkview. You now want to tell me she "hustled" for it...GUY, DON'T VEX ME O!

When I say someone is "broke" I mean the person doesn't HAVE MONEY at that point in time (fyi, money differs from assets). A man with a big house and cars can be broke. A businessman with no house or cars squatting with his friend, dressing like village headmaster can have a million in his account.

I think you're talking about poor guys with poor background who grew up in poor neighborhoods with a generally bitter mentality of wealthy people (not women alone).

And please, rich babes DON'T DO poor guys. You're watching too much Nollywood, bro.

YourMain:
Is it by force to like someone

I don't get these guys and their issues with being friendzoned. If a chick is with or unto another guy already, what's she supposed to do? Funny thing, these guys that complain are usually the ones chasing babes way above their league. Sorry niggas, females are wired to want men above them not vice versa. Deal with it!

How can you trust people here on NL especially the ones too dodgy to upload a pic of themselves? NL romance section is filled with lies and liars and shouldn't be taken seriously...AT ALL.

ronald4ever:
Those shoes there doesn't even translate to being wealthy. An average lady should have just same number of shoes or slightly more. And if we're to put into consideration the H&M bag in the pic then it could mean some of the shoes may have been bought from there. And their items aren't high-priced so anyone can afford to shop there.

It appears guys just pick on everything nowadays. You are broke they lament they don't want a broke babe who would leech on them. You're doing well and independent they tag you arrogant and all sort. Nigerian guys seems to becoming more confuse and complex to understand than the girls. Walahi.

The fact that she has stacks of shoes like that means she's overly materialistic. Have you ever dated those kinda girls before? I doubt, bro. What they have on their body DEFINES them, not what's inside. It's a relationship killer if didn't know or you're too nice to say out. The most annoying part is these girls are OBSESSED with looking the classiest (ridiculously competitive) even with limited resources. When a more expensive looking babe walks past you two, her day is ruined, then yours soon after.

I'm not saying OP's chick is already an utter fail, just saying what is displayed in her DP is a red flag. GUY! SHE'S CLEARLY SHOWING OFF. So, he should prepare for a shiit storm relationship but hope for the best.

The same female will be upset and feel belittled if a guy rejects her offer. Y'all are bunch of enigmatic creatures.

They were probably gonna give you charity sex so don't flatter yourself.

Toks2008:
LOL! Thats why im pouring them out to nairalanders make my brain no become super saturated.

Hahaha! Good for all of us then. A good case of mutualism.

Toks2008 that knowledge in your head is too much. You go soon run mad oh! Lol

To an extent women contribute to the act of philandering. It is very common amongst "modern women" to belittle men of minimal experiences with women. You often hear even female Nairalanders say "abeg abeg, I don't want anything to do with inexperienced men". In the eyes of many women nowadays, if you have a record of being with lots of babes you're a "catch". Quite shallow, innit? And the same set of women will cry about the man's infidelity.

It's so bad that it's a game plan players use nowadays and it hardly fails. Players role with their finest female friends. When his target sees him laughing and playing with babes, she'll be thinking "This guy is with babes and he is eyeing me? OMG, he wants me to be his no 1". ICE BROKEN!!! Even my female friends suddenly show interest in me when I'm gisting them about my adventures with babes. I don't take advantage though, I value their friendship.

I've also read articles by researchers in US that sexually active women are more attracted to men who have had lots of women (aka bad boys) than single, inexperienced, good men. This is one of the main driving factors and if ALL WOMEN start to show MASSIVE RESPECT for men who respect their bodies and others then we'll see a massive drop in philandering...But I doubt, slvts won't let it be.

AnakinSkywalker:
Very true. Funny enough genuine interest can hardly be defined in Nigeria. At least here I can say they are genuine. In Nigeria you can rest knowing that if you were as ugly as an Ogre but with the right cash and crew, they will drool over you as much.

Guy! You would be amazed to find out that average looking, comfortable men get more action than attractive, comfortable men. It's Nigerian women's mentality of thinking she's smart for choosing the lesser attractive guy and focusing on his assets. Mentality that almost every Nigerian women have leaving average looking, financially secured men as the most sought-after men in Nigeria.

Twaci:
Please first of all, he should stop smoking

Then you suggest he go to a doctor for a proper prescription. He should brush his teeth frequently, say 3 times daily and also use mouthwash after eating.

All these won't be easy, but if he is really concerned about your marriage, he should try....

You too should aid him through as a loving wife

Smokers can't just go cold turkey. Its a serious addiction. She shouldn't have married a smoker and an alcoholic in the 1st place. Ah! Lemme guess, he was richie rich and could take "good care" of her. She didn't remember bad breath when he threw her a big wedding. She probably munched his lips that night. Now reality has slapped her face.

In fact, how can a woman marry a man she can't freely confront about serious issues? From her description of him, he seems inconsiderate. He demonstrates a bad husband so far.

My advice, she should get used to it, in fact, get high on it sef. Give it that good sniff regs and embrace his flaw, her body will adapt sooner or later.

OP LISTEN! I get you partially. My observations from my days in UK is that white babes are more polite, it's their culture, one of the qualities they obligatorily exhibited since their ancestors. Not saying all but majority.

However, the twist is politeness isn't friendliness. White people especially from outside multicultural regions like London are less likely to move around with other racial groups not because their racists but...communication. Due to minimal experience with other races they lack the skills to develop proper friendship so most can't be bothered trying. Black british people there have this arrogance towards black africans due to feeling kinda superior to africans. I think they're just taking out their frustrations of feeling oppressed by the majority (caucasians). Funny thing is these black fools have african (mostly nigerian) parents so what da hell?!

TrapLORD:
Nobody believes you're single (If you are)

Fagguts will disturb you.

Ugly girls will disturb you

Pretty girls will think you're a player nd they'll hardly wanna date you.

Most folks will objectify you. They'll think you've got nothing but a handsome face to offer.

Niggaz will hate on you for no tangible reason

Niggaz will always see you as competition

You most likely might end up introverted or really-really shy.

People will mistake your "reservation" for pomposity.

Man, you killed it! Story of my life. Especially people mistaking being introverted for being a snub.

I actually think tall guys with proper physique (not with ugly face tho) suffer more than just facially attractive guys.

But y'all should know, Nigerian girls are mainly gold-diggers so at the end of the day, it's your assets that determine the effectiveness of your game not looks. Too many hungry girls.

Because of the bunch of low self-esteem guys that keep taking their BS just because she's fine.

Damn! I'll gladly beat up my father, break some ribs and jaw bones, bust them lips and eyes...some mortal kombat flawless victory brushing.

Why? Because I expect more from him. "These hooees ain't loyal" is my national pledge, so imma assuage the heartbreak by finding a rebound bae. Think about it, you can only have one father but umpteen GFs. Deal with the father and ex the babe.

There's something commonly said by the locals: "who no like better tin?". It's understandable to be drawn to 'the good life', it's human nature to want it. But can you blame a nigga for deciding to mistreat his babe knowing she was using him only as a means? She decided to gold-dig, he decided to treat her like one. They deserve each other.

It's a nigga or a babe's responsibility to see through the superficial attributes, if they can't then too freakin bad. No reward for foolishness, they deserve what they get.

Then it's safe to say Nigerian men and women have a lot in common.

daretodiffer:
*yawns*

Lol Whats your own with my mumz? Babez, if you wanna talk about your horrible childhood, I'm all ears. I can be sweet you know.

daretodiffer:
*yawns*

Awwww, You dulled. Pretty weak! Now, I hate lazy, dulling b1tches. Chao!