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Dupalmer:
Few years back my ex fiance had told me that she'd be participating in a Christian camping program the coming week. I was almost fooled but what gave her away was my laptop that she was using to watch movies before the battery drained out.

When I later made use of the laptop at work, She had logged onto her Facebook account but was unable to sign out before the battery drained. I passively went through her wall and chats and noticed that the supposed camping date was a ploy to have a free weekend with a guy who she'd been communicating with online.

The guyman is based in Germany. He had already spent close to 2 weeks in Nigeria since he came back and was ready to travel back to Germany but scheduled being with my Girlfriend for the weekend.

I foiled the "camping", I sent a friend request to the guyman with a message, he promptly accepted and we started communicating. Luckily he's not a woman wrapper. I told him my history with the girl and how she's trying to play the two of us. We agreed to meet and our meeting sparked a wonderful friendship and trust that is still in existence till today. For me I was done with the relationship. Though it really pained me but I needed proof.

We agreed to play along. He invited her to where he was lodging. I had wanted her to pass the night in my place but she said it will ruin her program that she and her fellow campers would take off to Camp of Faith in Okigwe before noon. I "bidded" her farewell for the camping programme. She even called me to tell me that they were taking off and 3 hours later she called to say that they had arrived. She sounded so convincing that you wouldn't believe that she's not in the same city with me. The more she lied the more I am ending the relationship in my mind.

Well I kept tabs with my guy. They had agreed she'd would come over to his hotel at 6pm. I was at the bar of the same hotel trying so hard not to get drunk. My guy chatted me up around 7.40pm signaling me. I went and knocked, behold my fiance opened the door she was wearing her finest nightie, without bra, flaunting her fine legs and hour glass shape. My pain was nothing compared to her shock.

In summary she lost the both of us. She tried everything possible to get back into my while blaming the devil but her efforts were futile.

Here's the solution :
The solutions to not being a victim of their dissimulation is:
IF SHE'S NICE TO YOU PLEASE GO EXTRA MILE TO TREASURE HER BUT IF YOU SENSE ANY TRAIT OF SUBTLENESS:
1. Learn not to trust them.
2. Tune your level of emotional attachment to them so low.
3. Invest little or nothing in them so you don't have much to lose.
4. Sex is not worth paying for and don't get hooked to any particular hole.
5. Always have a spare tyre.
6. Pay back in their coin whenever possible the most effective way is to fvck her friends, relatives or colleagues. If she does same to you don't be pained, you have nothing to lose, a key that can open many doors is a master key.
7. Pay more attention to your hustles. HUSTLE hard, make more money and even more money and even more
They are terrible liars and con artists.

Na wa ooh

Bros insult na part of moving forward for life ooh but still on still sorry for the insults just use it as an encouragement to be a better you.

China112:
big bro. good morning

search for the Moniker Ovaltine

after reading his posts... you can be the one to decide if to give him or not

E collect your money? Can u pin point anybody he has scammed? My brother before u pick perso eye pick ur own. From all the thread it was never stated or neither did anyone come out to say they were scammed by the guy. U just carry the matter for head like say 2mro nor dey. Bros u think sey e easy to beg? The guy removed pride and came online to beg for help e nor kill person. I nor dey like niggas like una wen dey wan tarnish person name. 2mro get belle! The guy dey beg now nor mean sey e go beg forever.

Henreez:
Men don't deserve more than boxers.

What exactly do they do other than sleep with us?
We give them our precious body

As if is easy to F*ck something that both the man and woman give each other precious body auntie go sit down.

The life is just some just the way a person dies now and you will start hearing nor be that person suppose die he/she is just so good. Mean while wen the person still has breath you nor go here remarks like that oooh! In Nigeria ppl are more appreciated wen dey are gone than alive which is bad.

Stories of rape issa serious something and issue. U just stated urz, party "B" is not here to state his. But nevertheless if truely you are saying the truth abeg kill that thought of suicide, report to the right authority. Very sorry talk to someone. No1 rule in life dont trust ppl that much and if u dey find true friend just go buy urself a dog reasons are dogs even clear pass some human. NOT ALL MEN ARE RAPIST OR LIKE THAT.

Mozino007:
What is sensitive about this topic or u dey whine me ni?...Yoruba people said n I quote"if u collect kobo be ready to receive koboiru(gbola)" so what twisting is all about...

So in essience what you're saying is she deserved what she got? Bros you big pass this kind thing na. C'mon do you know what it feels for someone you trust to mess you up to this point of rape?

Zzor:
Na wa ooo,why didn't he check well before marrying her,most men are very careless with selection of a life partner now see the result

You just heard a story from one source and gbam here is ur conclusion. What if duncan is the major problem in the marriage?

That is what is bound to happen wen you are over familiar with a friends girlfriend/fiancee or even friends female family member. You messed up shall weda consentual or rape for f*cking ur guys fiancee. what if it was his wife?shebi na same story of i dont know what came over me u for still talk. Even me nor believe you or her cos i nor dey there it could have been rape, it could also be consentual only God knows.

This life na wa oooh man unkind to fellow man life..!!

I commend this man na "man e be" Moral of the story who dey cry dey see road.

This guy thinks cow is the only source of animal protein is alright!

Knsley:
Please show me some love with your likes as i celebrate my birthday today.

May Gid grant you all ur heart desires bro happy birthday.

MostImportant:
Which one is the trending cases of people dying in their sleep? Abi make man no close eyes again say him wan sleep?

Fear dey catch you? Perfect way to go painful loss but peaceful better pass sey u hear trailer crushed, stray bullet killed, electrocuted,gas explosion e.t.c.

If only he had honourably respected himself and marry and a Nigerian woman when go dey loyal, No Nigeria women are not good see the ones their women go now Ms. Spikes dey use am catch cruise. Dangote fall e hand chai!

Beremx:
Nonsense and Ingredients. Once again, focus on the message and leave the messenger out of your madness.Is there anything she has said that isn’t true? You that have a career, you’re nobody!

Hahahahaha word!

sandymikky:
Worst days of my life, the days I lost my parents. Even 16 and 6 years after I can't stop grieving.
May the souls of my parents, John Ogu's mother and the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace.

Amen.

AlhajiImam:
Allah owns every land. If we are to pay, we use the money as alms to help our people and the almajirai.

People should stop claiming ownership of lands. It's a natural Allah given resource to be used by all.

So Allah owns everyland and as such anybody can just come into your community rape your women, kidnap ur child or anyone for ransom and kill too? You see this una mentality and know know is the reason behind the backward nature of your ppl if you are an Hausa man. Allah owns all the land, but the lands are in ppl's State and community, villages e.t.c and these ppl in question are caretakers of this land by such doing u do not invade put take pernission before use.Bros think before u open ur mouth dey talk anyhow.

And as big as u are you believe she still loves you but getting married to someone else she doesn't love? Bros ur head must be paining you.

you urself nor know waitn or sure of what you want why involve nairaland? You said she ticked the boxes ehen wat validation are you looking for? After all na u wan stay wit her not me or society.

750k in 6months then after 6months whats next to get work nor easy oooh, guess it will help boost ur c.v or mayb through there better opportunity might pop up. Its better you make do with the gold you have while chasing diamond on a platter than loosing at both end. Tell ur school sey u deh go for one course for six months without pay make u weigh ur options.

Boxer007:
please can i date u so i can get free kudi?

No bro but you can date Jesus.

Bornsinner7:
Ok..

Verse 2
Ogini (Atchaka), ogini na fia
Ogini (Atchaka), ogini baby?
Ogini (Atchaka), ogini Remy?
I get-e plenty money, oh
Ogini (Atchakatchaka), ogini na fia
Ogini (Atchakatchaka), ogini baby?
Ogini (Atchakatchaka), ogini Remy?
I get-e (Wait) plenty money, oh, ah
Toke Makinwa
Where Omotola?
Mercy Aigbe oya kpalanga mommy ijo ya
Sade ijo ya
Jeka wole patapa
All my sexy mamama

This guy u nor good at all but imagine lyrics

What if the guys have succeeded in killing you and yet still empty the same pocket? Life na brain brain nvr u struggle with a man that has an edge over you especially wen u see a gun, knife or anything because at the end of the day u still got injured and obtained. Sorry for everything and be careful too na one life.

Nor be to go school na to dey educated thereby thinking beyond the box. Everything is self discovering in life just know where your hidden talents fits in. You acquire certificate nor mean sey u must be billionaire. I have never seen anyone tore his/her certificate to back this school na scam concept.

Movies:
Face Off
Hotel Rwanda
Mr. Bones
Anaconda
Transporter.

Series:
Prison Break
Teen wolf
Blind spot
Lost
Power

Silent night that year that film make me cry chai

Na wa oooh you've been in a relationship with a girl for the past 3years and you're still not sure about getting married to her and you talk to her everyday(u get double mind for the girl) why then are you now wasting her time?

Secondly, if you claim you love her why not help her grow? Since she can't help herself to grow?

What would she have done if the reverse was the case?

We have good and bad women like wise good and bad men. Dissapointment as dey call it exist between both sexes, this whole idea of women are bad bla bla nor make sense,help ppl and expect nothing in return.

My advice to you bro is simple when you're in a position to help ppl forget about gender thing we all na human being, please help them to grow. It doesn't matter the level at which you struggled before you became comfortable. You suffer before you make money nor mean sey if you dey position to help you nor go help just because you suffer so that person must suffer.
WE ALL NEED EACH OTHER TO GROW "ONE LOVE"

Honestly speaking shall na sey this guy dem dey wealthy i guess is the reason you are contemplating to stay or live which is why i feel you are confused not uncomfortable.

Bros keep praying for God to take away spirit of anger and destruction from you. Bros if ur wife too vex your as a man just strol out but when you feel its late, you can move to anoda room key the door put some music on and let her be.

"without a silver spoon"

My phone is always open not a fan of using security on phone. So yes!