₦airaland Forum

Oga marry her! Simps like you deserve her kind to teach you a good lesson.

I agree we should train ALL children well.
But primarily, we need to teach the female child that they are the main gatekeepers of SEX. Males always want to access that gate. Therefore, they should not create a vulnerable situation where their strength, which is access to sex , is used against them.
To a very large extent, females controls access to sex, males control access to long term relationships/marriage.
Our girls need to know that how they dress, speak, behave, who they relate with and where they go, compromises their strength at controlling access to sex. Don’t go into a hotel room with a male if you are not ready to have sex with him.

obaidan:
You are right, but we should also train our male children to understand that they should protect themselves from these kind of stories. Train all kids what consent age means, train male kids the consequences of not getting consent.

Werey ni gbogbo yin!
He lured her into to hotel room abi?
If there was no sign of murder, this was clearly an accident or a drug overdose that should be investigated properly.
They may have had sex, but this looks mutual. Everyone knows what a male inviting a female to hotel room mutually wants to do.
Train your female children well. If they don’t intend to be sexually active, they should focus on their books and God until they are ready.

Without filter and MAKEUP!😅

This wicked and selfish man! How has the ban on poultry for several years made local poultry less expensive than the imported ones?
You few wicked Nigerians will form a cabal to cheat and exploit poor Nigerians at every opportunity given to you.
I think the import restrictions have just benefitted a few greedy Nigerians. If local producers cannot make their products cheap and available after so many years of protectionist policies, let the government open the borders and flood the market with cheap imports.
Let us all become traders of cheap imports instead of producers of unnecessarily expensive local products.

We already know the people! Awon developer isonu!

I don’t understand, was Nigeria ever refining oil before!

So? Do you think they just pick those buses off the shelves?! These people should just stop being petty!
If they don’t buy the buses una go talk, if they buy the buses, una go still talk!
What brand of humans are these Nigerians for Pete’s sake?!
Nigeria needs to close her huge infrastructure deficit across ALL SECTORS so that production can improve, and some clowns are trying to score cheap points with the kinds of buses bought.

OMG! God MUST have a purpose for your lives.People have died from less serious accidents!

Tinubu should focus on turning around the dire situation in Nigeria instead of these childish photo ops in the face of poverty in Nigeria. Why behave like a child looking for validation and legitimacy? Your good works will legitimize you, not the desperate attempt to be accepted as Nigeria’s president!

Nigerians and their stupid comparison!
Is wages and access to jobs the same?

Nigerians are more unruly than their leaders. Evil deserves evil!
Until you hypocrites change your ways, you deserve the Nigeria you have!

Davido clearly senior you na! E get money pass you. E even be like e get sense pass you!
David don get son/ daughter to carry his lagacy.
You still dey childishly play around as lesbian upandan!

You clearly ain’t an alpha male & don’t even see yourself as the prize in a relationship!
Your solution is easy. Just read voraciously about how not to be a SIMP!

GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

Now I understand you.

codemaniacs:
Keep deceiving yourself...

I will not use my own eyes to brainwash myself.

Did you even read the links?

codemaniacs:
I am not arguing in ignorance. You're the one deceiving yourself so I'm just watching you repeat yourself over and over again.

Please educate yourself, instead of arguing in ignorance.

This was how Yorubas set up Benin monarchy / Benin Empire

https://www.nationalgeographic.org/encyclopedia/kingdom-benin/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ife_Empire#:~:text=Benin%2C%20one%20such%20of%20the,1250.

This was how a faction of warring Aworis in Lagos invited the Oranmyan Royal House in Benin to help invade, prosecute a war and win .

https://www.edoworld.net/THE_BENIN_FACTOR_IN_THE_HISTORY_OF_LAGOS.html

https://onelagosfiesta.ng/history-of-lagos/#:~:text=Under%20the%20leadership%20of%20the,of%20Benin%20at%20the%20time.

codemaniacs:
Binis can never annex anywhere in Yoruba land.

You have a right to Keep deceiving yourself.

This was how Yorubas set up Benin monoarchy / Benin Empire

https://www.nationalgeographic.org/encyclopedia/kingdom-benin/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ife_Empire#:~:text=Benin%2C%20one%20such%20of%20the,1250.

This was how a faction of warring Aworis in Lagos invited the Oranmyan Royal House in Benin to help invade, prosecute a war and win .

https://www.edoworld.net/THE_BENIN_FACTOR_IN_THE_HISTORY_OF_LAGOS.html

https://onelagosfiesta.ng/history-of-lagos/#:~:text=Under%20the%20leadership%20of%20the,of%20Benin%20at%20the%20time.

cooljude:
Citations? Or Should I believe you because of your Infallibility.

Correction:
the annexation of Lagos island by Binis predated the mass dumping of freed slaves in Lagos island. I just reconfirmed this. I can see your need to argue tho.
Please note that AWORIS were already in Lagos & Bini annexation of Lagos was a conquest not a newfoundland.
There was a dispute amongst the Yorubas in Lagos & a faction requested the help of Oranmiyan dynasty in Benin to help. This group won & this is how Benin colonized Lagos island for a few years. This annexation was later FULLY relinquished.
Until recently when the people of Benin started dissociating themselves from Yorubas, we fully counted them as part of our heritage.
Please note that until recently, ALL OBA OF BENIN heads MUST buried in ILE IFE when they die. I like the way Yorubas are not struggling to beg Benin people to remain with us.

https://education.nationalgeographic.org/resource/kingdom-benin/

You said ‘ Yorubas occupied everywhere including the island that is why the portuguese never stayed long because the Yoruba warriors who were in those places were fighting them and that is why the SW does not speak portuguese.’
WHEN DID SAY ISALE EKO WAS NEVER OCCUPIED BY YORUBAS?

https://guardian.ng/life/the-story-of-the-afro-cuban-heritage-in-lagos/amp



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codemaniacs:
Your story is false...

Yorubas occupied everywhere including the island that is why the portuguese never stayed long because the Yoruba warriors who were in those places were fighting them and that is why the SW does not speak portuguese..

your story on "freed slaves" is alsl false.
to request help from the benin kingdom they will need cellphones because Lagos is far from the bini kingdom and that makes your story nonsense.

bini king will never help them because sending bini warriors to Lagos will be a suicide mission because to the right of Lagos is more Yoruba towns filled with Yoruba warriors and to the left of Lagos more Yoruba towns filled with even more Yoruba warriors. the bini warriors won't even reach anywhere near Lagos before they will be killed.

Whoever is too lazy to research history should STFU.
There was mainland Yoruba land that spanned current SW Nigeria, Kwara, parts of Kogi, most of Benin Republic and parts of Togo.
Lagos island (isale eko) which was first named internationally by portuguese and later explored by the English is 5-10% of current Lagos. This part was initially inhabited by very few wandering Yorubas from the mainland. Most of This parts was sacred uninhabited land used to worship OLOKUN and to do some sacrifices from Yoruba mainalanders.
When the FREED SLAVES that still remember thIer Yoruba heritage requested to come back yo Africa , they were dumped on LAGOS ISLAND.
When mainlanders invaded them, they requested Benin king to help them. This king from the last child of Odudwa who felt marginalized, sent warriors who conquered land for the helpless islanders. Then they set up an outpost called Eko. But when the rest of Yorubaland decided to challenge this, the Benin monarchy decided to relinquish total authority, but demand homage from the EKO (lagos island) king. Until this was stopped much later.
This was the history!

I don’t pity people with self inflicted problems.

Kids like you don’t realize you need multiple streams of income to survive in today’s self inflicted craze for wealth. You also need to know stress on a job is not as stressful as joblessness.
You won’t value what you have until you lose it

Just because APC supporters backed a non Igbo candidate for president? Who is tribalistic now?!

Nigerians are such funny people. This is an opportunity to be innovative. There are better healthier and more nutritious options in our local foods, but HERD MENTALITY won’t allow Nigerians think. Everyone wants to give their children foreign made foods with likely dangerous or genetically modified ingredients.
Most Nigerians were raised with cowpies, maize meal, amala and ewedu, mashed beans, mashed sweet potatoes, mashed plantain, egg yolk etc. All you need is to fortify these foods with multivitamins and super foods like moringa leaf powder.
But as usual, typically lazy and entitled Nigerians will not think their way out of this problem. Instead they will be wasting their destiny complaining and begging others for money.

This girl sha wan trend by force?!
No be by effort alone o, grace must be abound.
If your destiny is to be lowkey, but you wan popular by force, na disgrace you dey find.

My people say chicken no suppose chop each other intestines. What if the robbers are also ‘Chosen’.
Maybe that is why they let you go?

It will only make sense to me if the. parents also teach the child to recite the periodic table, otherwise, this is a waste of potential genius.

But the post says he is. Administrators should pull this down for misinformation.

sageb:
check the pictures, Diri is not there.

Is Diri not PDP. All these president worship MUST stop. The Nigerian president is too powerful! Why will we create such a monster and cry when that monster bite?!

This is what the person meant… If you like diversify into 10 different illegal/unapproved investments, the result will be tears. But with even one properly thought out legal investment, you will be secure more.

1TrippleCee:
Dont know what you are talking about. I only advicated the need for portfolio diversification

Ibo boy trying to use isis ?! Nothing wey Aboki no go see for gate o!

How does a state governor freeze a local government account?! This Yahaya Bello guy is the most useless, self immersed and clueless governor I have seen in recent times.
He is a testament to the fact that Nigerian youths and relatively young, but old are ALL the same as the old leaders they criticize.
The problem with Nigeria is with the entire chain of moral value systems and not with a particular gender or age bracket in leadership and followership!