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RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Sent Me Packing After Infecting Me With HIV; Pregnant 19yrs Teen by Tzar(m): 8:47pm On Sep 24, 2023
Only if he is the sole sex partner who deflowered her, can I hold the boyfriend responsible. If she has multiple sex partners like most girls these days, I can’t believe the girl.
These days, one has to be careful what story to believe when told by a female!
TV/MoviesRe: Meet The Bbnaija All Stars Finalists (Top 6) by Tzar(m): 8:38pm On Sep 24, 2023
Rubbish show!
FamilyRe: After Dna The Child Is Not His. by Tzar(m): 8:19am On Sep 23, 2023
Yes, your brother should demand a refund of money he spent. That is the right thing to do.
Your brother should also thank God for exposing the fraud!
PoliticsRe: Fear In NNPC As Dangote Struggles To Get Approval To Operate Refinery by Tzar(m): 4:01am On Sep 23, 2023
Any news of this elusive Dangote refinery no longer excites me!
It looks like a scam to me. Especially knowing how much Dangote got from the FG & favors from Lagos State for this refinery that has refused to kick off.
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad: Mary Njoku Knocks Those Asking Singer’s Wife To Submit Son For DNA Test, by Tzar(m): 3:56am On Sep 23, 2023
If she has nothing to hide, SHE SHOULD DO DNA TEST FOR THE CHILD!
Why are Nigerians like this? We love darkness, secrecy and falsehood so much! This attempt by people (especially women) to demonize men who demand for DNA test MUST stop!
If we really want justice for Mohbad, a DNA TEST MUST be done on the child.
The truth hurts nobody but the evil!
If the child turns out to be for Mohbad, then the wife’s conscience will be clean. If not, we will know the wife is not benefiting from a lie. Mohbad will also get justice there!
PoliticsRe: DJ Switch: Clips From Lekki Toll Gate Yesterday Gave Me PTSD by Tzar(m): 4:39pm On Sep 22, 2023
Crazy people! It wasn’t really about Mohbad!
Y’all were just & are still hungry for chaos. You just want a revolution without reforming your values.
You people are so corrupt, immoral, ungodly, promiscuous, selfish, greedy, untrustworthy, deceitful and disrespectful. Yet, as bad as you are, you want the beautiful change good people deserve… what an irony!
PoliticsRe: Re: Crowd Dispersal At Lekki Toll Gate by Tzar(m): 10:12am On Sep 22, 2023
I hate how Nigerians initially sensationalized this!!!
There was a clear instruction that the candlelight should end at MURI OKUNOLA!
But overzealous people and people with a clear agenda decided to converge at the toll gate!
What do you expect?! Why trying to push your luck too far only to claim victim… after poking the alleged aggressor?!
The ‘protesters’ broke the rules set for the candlelight and became a threat to public peace.
PoliticsRe: Mohbad: Sympathisers ‘Dispersed With Teargas’ At Lekki Tollgate by Tzar(m): 10:05am On Sep 22, 2023
I hate how Nigerians sensationalize everything!!!
There was a clear instruction that the candlelight should end at MURI OKUNOLA!
But overzealous people and people with a clear agenda decided to converge at the toll gate!
What do you expect?! Why trying to push your luck too far only to claim victim… after poking the alleged aggressor?!
CelebritiesRe: Verydarkman Gives Reasons Why DNA Test Must Be Conducted On Mohbad’s Son by Tzar(m): 3:43pm On Sep 21, 2023
Emotions aside, I absolutely agree with doing a DNA test.
CelebritiesRe: Hilda Baci Receives A Range Rover Gift For Her 28th Birthday by Tzar(m): 9:11am On Sep 21, 2023
So, the person that gifted her the car that can feed a whole community for a week or more no get name abi?!
I swear, Nigerians and those popularizing this useless post no get sense. Most Nigerians deserve what they are going through, because honestly we are mostly not good people.
I have never seen a more entitled bad people demanding good to come their way! The delusion is phenomenal!
PoliticsRe: I Was Misquoted For Eight Years – Femi Adesina by Tzar(m): 8:56pm On Sep 20, 2023
This man is really the scum of the earth!
You think you can distort reality & history?
Not all Nigerians are stupid!
PoliticsRe: Presidential Poll: Abuja Can’t Be 37th State, Atiku, Obi Tell Supreme Court by Tzar(m): 4:33pm On Sep 20, 2023
So it is what? A capital city where superior human beings live?
I guess Abuja residents are two headed aliens walking around?
PoliticsRe: Florence Ita Giwa, A Phenomenal Woman Of Substance – Donald Duke by Tzar(m): 5:46am On Sep 20, 2023
Mama awon boys!
Cute boys who knew how to please mama enjoyed ‘under’ her those days o! Those boys have now become men!
Thank you ma!
PoliticsRe: "I Acted In Self-Defence": Olumide Awolumate Explains Attack On Commissioner by Tzar(m): 5:45am On Sep 20, 2023
Werey! You go explain tire!
Unless you can produce the video where she assaulted you first, then you responded, walahi you don buy market!
PoliticsRe: #Mohbad: Ned Nwoko To introduce bill on "Mandatory Autopsy" before burial by Tzar(m): 5:43am On Sep 20, 2023
Excellent idea. Better late than never!
CelebritiesRe: Zinoleesky Deletes Marlian Label From His Bio, Replaces With Zinonymous Sounds by Tzar(m): 5:43am On Sep 20, 2023
I pray you don’t find yourself in his situation.
It is not easy to carry other people’s load on your head, while you drag yours on the floor. Only few people can do that, and most suffer for it. It couldn’t have been easy on Zino too seeing what Mohbad (who took a beating for him) was going through. However, his young mind must have been too scared to act, knowing those involved were older, richer and more connected than him.
westlius:
Ode that chicked out when Mobad needed him d most
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad’s Spirit Strong, I Can’t Sleep – Davido by Tzar(m): 5:37am On Sep 20, 2023
That boy died very painfully and his spirit is not resting.
His spirit is crying out to be avenged!
He remains strongly in the consciousness of most people, refusing to move on until something is done about his untimely death .
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Consoles With The Family Of Churchill Enyia by Tzar(m): 5:36am On Sep 20, 2023
I think Obi should stop wearing black!
He is doing more condolences than congratulations these days!
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad: I’ve Been Receiving Death Threats – Daddy Showkey by Tzar(m):
Daddy Showkey should list the names & phone numbers that was used to threaten him. He should also write a petition ASAP.
That boy died painfully and his spirit is not resting.
His spirit is crying out to be avenged!
He remains strongly in the consciousness of most people, refusing to move on until something is done about his untimely death .
PoliticsRe: It's Conjecture To Claim That Tinubu Won The Election- Barr Kenneth Okonkwo(vid) by Tzar(m): 7:42pm On Sep 19, 2023
Barrister thick lips has finally found his voice again!
Foreign AffairsRe: Inside Soweto's First Government Gay Clinic - LESSONS by Tzar(m):
So LGBTQ+ are a special breed that need special treatment?!
What kind of equality is this? They claim they want equality, yet they impose special treatment and special recognition?!
Music/RadioRe: Peter Obi Mourns Mohbad, commiserates with family by Tzar(m): 7:38pm On Sep 19, 2023
What kind of nonsense is this?
Why not commiserate with the parents?! Na only the mother born the boy?!
All these unnecessary separation of the importance of each parent is what causes the gender strife in families.
Anyway, the condolence is better late than never.
chokekachy:
Source: Peter Obi
PoliticsRe: Oba saga: She is not my wife, I won't issue apology - Obasanjo disowns Taiwo by Tzar(m):
Shebi inaki ni baba re!
Iwo omo ale jati jati yi. Iya re to fi obo jona, koti so baba re fun e.
Shebi Obasanjo ndo asewo iya re lo fi n gbeja re
Iwo omo aja lasan lasan yi!
Iku ngbona ni iwo ati awon ebi re ma ku. Aisan ti ko gbogun ati Akufa koni kuro ninu ile yin!
You uncouth, mindless slowpoke. Who asked you to respond to my post?! Keep putting your dirty mouth in matters that don’t concern you and buy other people’s market.
Oladeji245:
Wherever olusegun obasanjo speak shey baba eee oloriburuku lee duro nibee?
Okan family e onii balee
PoliticsRe: Appointments: You Are Favouring Yorubas, Christians, MURIC Knocks Tinubu by Tzar(m): 9:02pm On Sep 18, 2023
Did they criticize Buhari when he was fvcking around with nepotism?!
PoliticsRe: Oba saga: She is not my wife, I won't issue apology - Obasanjo disowns Taiwo by Tzar(m): 9:00pm On Sep 18, 2023
I knew Obababoon won’t apologize!🐵
PoliticsRe: Osun: Gov Adeleke Declares Curfew In Irepodun, Orolu Lgas by Tzar(m): 12:06pm On Sep 18, 2023
Ok o! But in this context I can only identify one coward cheesy
Sultanofpiglets:
Even NIGERIANs know the tribe that are Generational COWARDs. I don't even need to advertise them. cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: Can I Still Go To Church After Having Sex On A Sunday Morning? by Tzar(m): 3:18am On Sep 18, 2023
I don’t think there is anything wrong with making love to your WIFE prior to being in the presence of God. Just ensure you take a bath after, ref Leviticus 15:18.
The only time it is recommended not to have sex with your wife is when you are fasting. This is just to demonstrate your sacrifice in seeking the face and mercies of God.
It is unmarried people who fornicate & go to church that are doing everything wrong!

stanlink:
Hello I'm just think if I will get salvation if I indulge in sexual activities early on a Sunday morning before going for service, the thought of guilt is all over my head although I'm married someone please advise
FamilyRe: Am I Being Unreasonable Or Is My Wife Selfish? by Tzar(m):
Don’t mind those asking you to simp for her.
Try to talk sense into her. If she doesn’t listen to you, then it is a sign of more trouble to come in your marriage.
If she doesn’t follow your lead and advise, it is because she does not respect you or your opinions. She is definitely also not submissive. Respect for and submission to the husband are two of the most important characteristics of a wife that will make you a fulfilled husband long term… she apparently lacks this.
Involve her parents and if nothing changes, return her to her father’s house to go and relearn the basics of how to be a good wife. Staying married to a woman who won’t listen to you is a recipe for disaster… don’t let her make your life miserable o! A lot of men are terminally depressed and drop dead before their time, because their women have made them feel effeminated. Women will continue to test your resolve as a man, so you better learn to continually manage and control her innate reflex to test you.

EkelediliBuhari:
Let’s agree this is my story….

Pardon my long write up but I needed to get a perspective from a fresh eye/mind. I’m married for 3 years now with 2infants.

Am I overthinking or does my wife have other plans?

My dad is an established accountant with over 3 decades of experience at the highest level of his occupation in 2 multinationals. He is now retired and consults. Presently, he lives a day at a times cos he barely has plans for his firm (he is over 70 and doesn’t have anybody he’s training his my mom).

I have a good career earning almost a million monthly with side gigs that keeps me liquid (meeting all my family’s basic needs). Monthly upkeep of 200k mainly for feeding while I pay utilities and still bring out cash (no fixed amount) from time to time. Presently am setting up a firm for contracting and consultancy.

My wife is a caterer (she loves cooking and baking) whom I have supported over the years. She has gotten much better and I have invested in her business. Presently she has all the basic requirements for her work and she works from home. We live in a 4 bed and converted one to her studio (fully furnished - AC tables shelves etc).

Over the years I have encouraged her to focus on entrepreneurship. This will give her total control of her time. This way the kids get her attention while she handles business which I hope to one day retire into. I make sure she doesn’t contribute her personal funds to the home as I advise her to save for rain days. I have encouraged her to work closely with my dad to earn experience as they share same profession hopefully take over the firm in time while I groom mine for which she is the major shareholder (I’m not even a shareholder).

Overall, do not look for a 9-5 like me, let’s grow a business.

However, she applies for jobs here and there. Just this morning she woke up as early as 4:30am applying for a customer service position and had to wake me up to correct her cover note.

At this point I feel like giving up on her. I feel she just wants to have a paying Job for whatever reason. But I know know the downsides; no time for the kids, 40-80% of income goes on expenses, work stress, regrets - now you can’t quit because you have to prove you can do it.

Am I being unreasonable telling her not to work and focus on developing her business skills?

NB: I have never discouraged her in her business rather encouraged/ advised and funded.

Modified: for those insisting I let her be, how do we plan our future if we share separate visions?? When has working ever made anyone rich??

If she gets an IOC opportunity I’ll definitely support tho, but these are not the toes she’s applying for 100k -300k
CelebritiesRe: We Never Arrested Or Detained Mohbad Anytime - NDLEA by Tzar(m): 2:39am On Sep 18, 2023
CrimeRe: NDLEA Seizes Illicit Drug Consignment At MMIA, Intercepts 5 Pregnant Teenagers by Tzar(m): 2:36am On Sep 18, 2023
This same NDLEA that still has Naira Marley as an ambassador?!
PoliticsRe: Osun: Gov Adeleke Declares Curfew In Irepodun, Orolu Lgas by Tzar(m): 2:34am On Sep 18, 2023
The coward in you won’t even let you mention their tribe! grin

Sultanofpiglets:
The LOVE themselves so much that its ONLY Igbos that kill eachother.

Worthless people.
cool
PoliticsRe: Taiwo, Obansanjo’s Wife Begs Obas, Yoruba, Says ‘Forgive My Husband’ by Tzar(m): 2:30am On Sep 18, 2023
Igbe kinkin leti obe gbegiri…
How can anyone overlook tiny feaces on the edge of a plate of delicious beans soup?!
You cannot praise the speech of a man that decided to denigrate his tradition in public. The arrogant, narcissistic and egocentric old man should be apologizing profusely.
Obasanjo ought to be excommunicated and punished by the entire Yoruba race for this sacrilege. Nigerians need to know that consequences MUST follow bad and good behavior. It is this lack of accountability in our actions that has made Nigeria such a bad country.
FreeStuffsNG:
This is a virtuous and wise woman.

If you are wondering why Pa Obasanjo is still alive, these are the people on their knees praying and interceding for Baba.

Those Obas will not forgive and forget.

Pa Obasanjo still has something to learn in this regard and I hope Baba makes amends.

Oyo state Governor, Engr Seyi Makinde, invited Pa Obasanjo to open the road the Oyo state newly constructed but not to create a sacrilege and humiliate the Obas. This is where Seyi Makinde must impress it on Pa Obasanjo to beg and apologise to the Oriades.

Pa Obasanjo spoke very very well and advised everyone there at that event like a true father but unfortunately this sad event with the Oriades just blighted everything. Check my signature for free stuffs!

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