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This ungrateful boy is about to dig his own hole. The same afrobeat that brought you to limelight is what you denigrate? You are just a prodigal child who uses his left hand to give directions to his father’s house!

This hungry looking religious hypocrite too dey threaten?! Nothing wey person no go see for this highly religious but ungodly country!

Your weakness and her strength in the separation shows it all. She was always in control!
Oga simp, abeg continue to miss her. Infact, drink sniper to prove your undying love, Ode!
She had always wanted to leave your weak ass, you just gave her an easy and good reason. I am sure she always saw through you as a weakling pretending to be an alpha male.
Please continue to beg her until you develop high blood pressure or you miss the opportunity to get better women that are worth more than her in real femininity. Simps like you deserve what you get!

manoflove22:
my girlfriend broke up with me after catching me cheating on her with her friends, i have been begging her since weeks now, she said we can never date again.

And this is what i saw and emulated from red pill thread that a girl get attracted with you more if u have other option and she knows other girl want u

now I'm badly missing her we haven't call since weeks now

please how can i get over thinking about her, please alpha males skip this thread i don't need ur abundance mentality jargons make ogun no kill una, lovely relationship omg

Wasn’t it last week that they kidnapped and probably killed a Yoruba man? This week, it is a herdsman likely Fulani. Just look at their reactions to these unprovoked assaults?
When retaliation starts now, they will be foaming in the mouth with their victim propaganda!

Don’t worry, with this your attitude & delusion, time and age will teach you the lessons you need to learn… mark my words!

Goodlady:
There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bake should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?

I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhoea!

Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blv he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. Always asking if I v eaten, slept as if I m barbie. What broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.

I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

arejibadz:
edo airways isn't number 1 this list is fake

Silent treatment bawo?!
I will kick your toxic ass out of my house and life!
Only simps tolerate you lot & get this kind of outcome. At the first sign of madness from you, I will kick you out. No apologies, no excuses!

IconicR:
Kai I'm tire of all these kind of stories
All these because of sex sex sex
Imagine what their parents will be going through.
That's why I hate childish relationship, I like them very matured so that when I misbehave they'll handle me well with silent treatment and not retaliate with his own misbehavior

Women, your past matters! Know this and know peace!

This one doesn’t look 29 o! Maybe 39.
Madam, beauty and career success CANNOT get you a husband !
1. Youth,
2. Good character like respect and submission
3., Temperament
4. Past history of no slutting around, drugs, tattoos, kid(s), etc
5. Homeliness or ability to make a house a home
6. Loyalty or fidelity to one man
These will get you a husband faster.
Even at 29 you are about to hit the well known 30yr brick wall & you have already lost the advantage of youth, so work extra and harder on the other 5 factors. If you can’t, you better consider buying a dog for company and vibrator for satisfaction.

Sometimes I don’t pity these Northerners when they are invaded, maimed and killed by foreign fulanis from Niger and Chad.

I have a feeling you will understand the general point of view of men much later… trust me.
I didn’t say sex is the only thing a man can teach his long term partner, but trust me sex and financial stability make up 50-70% what makes or mars a relationship, especially long term relationships. That is why discussions about relationships always revolves around sex/romance, then money.
Asking a man not to explore opportunities for sex is like asking a woman not to explore opportunities to be spoiled silly with money and luxury.
I agree, Being a freshly deflowered woman doesn’t mean the woman cannot end up being promiscuous, but most times the man who deflowered her usually has a special regard for her remaining a virgin. That is why women are advised to keep their virginity for as long as possible or for their husband, cos if carelessly lost, it increases the chance that future men in their lives won’t regard her with as much high value as possible.
It is nice that women want men to think and behave like them, but this is an impossibility. Low value men with few to nil options with women can concede to a woman’s demands. But high value men that most women desire, have so many options that they don’t have to bend for women. So, these high value men will always have a high body count. Those other average to low value men are usually friend zoned or ignored by women. Y’all are just sharing a few promiscuous high value men. Some of these men are also reckless, they catch a disease from the high pool of women chasing them, & recirculate it to other women that desire them. The smart high value men ensure STD/STI tests are done before raw sex. Others wear protection for flings and short term relationships.

Little21:
so what if you are the one that dis virgin her... It has no meaning just because you are "her first" doesn't mean she wouldn't have sex with tons more. Is it only sex you can teach your wife..? Must you lives revolve around "sex".? Must you sleep with tons of woman just so you can teach your "so called wife" in bed..?? That mentality is wrong. I can never settle for a Man that is "body count' can't be named. He has nothing to offer you than disease.

This is correct for MOST high value men. Tattoos on a woman is usually a tell tale sign of a reckless past and a woman who does not properly process the consequences of her action. Tattoos on a woman is a clear red flag for the discerning man.
Women with tattoos are usually great for a fling or short term relationships, but most men know they come with a lot of baggage that will definitely not suit a long term relationship.

Nelson21:
I saw this on X today. Is it true or false?
Also, to the married folks, if your wife suddenly gets a tattoo, how will you react?

Comparing Male & female promiscuity is more complex than that.
I agree that you should not deliberately pick up women, deceive them into loving you and giving you their bodies, then dump them.
However, one of the key qualities women desire in men is sexual experience. This experience is acquired mostly from having real time sex and voraciously learning about the body of a woman. No woman likes an inexperienced man in bed.
On the other hand, men love when a woman is sexually inexperienced, but willing to learn from her man. Too much sexual experience from the woman is usually a turn off for most men. Simps don’t really mind, because every sexual encounter is like they have won a lottery. But for high value men, they cannot deal with a woman with a history of promiscuity for long term relationships. Women usually love a man they can learn new things from… especially in bed. On the other hand, a man will feel insecure if it is his woman that keeps teaching him stuff in bed. Even the woman will get tired of teaching.
So my dear, you see why men may want virgins or sexually inexperienced women. It boosts our ego to be the teacher and leader. It does not look fair that promiscuity is judged differently, but it is what it is.

Little21:
You are right. As a women you can't allow just anyone inside of you. Like why the hell would you get inside of me..?! But you forgot something as a man.. you can't just have your way with a lot of girls.. do what you want with them and dump them when you want, and in the end when you want to get married you are looking for a virgin.. You can't see that cuz "what goes around comes around" And Note* no well trained woman and respected one would ever settle down for a man that you no he is the worst asshole ever in the past. So any man that sleep around with anything that has skirt can't expect to marry a good woman cuz in the end you only attract your like.

Males & Females can not be held to the same sexual standards because we are different. Women are supposed to be the prized and valuable party that men are supposed to pass a hurdle to get. Will you go through thick and thin for junk?
As a man you are expected to
1.Make enough money and status to be attractive to women
2 Initiate conversations with women
3. Develop the skills to woo the girl to like you
4. largely fund the relationship
5. take the lead when it comes to how to make the relationship interesting, progressive and worth it for the woman.
6. Be ready to protect and provide for the woman, even at the expense of your life as a man.
7. Accept many rejections from women regardless of these efforts.
If you can’t do these as a man most women will leave you. Some women are masculine enough to take the lead in getting a man, however, such dynamics doesn’t make a healthy one because it is unnatural. Most simps loose their women eventually, because women quickly get tired of playing the masculine role.
Now imagine going through all these hurdles as a man, only to realize that the woman you slaved to get was a community tramp?

jaeyking:
Hmmmm

What about the guys

Why are they looked at as top guns but the ladies as a bad egg

Different scenarios prove that we are not equal before the law

A man with a high body count is given a high rep
A woman with a high body count is seen as a slut

A woman screams sexual molestation, quickly the man is manhandled and quickly put on trial

A man screams sexual molestation, he is laughed upon by the society.

Imagine going to school and u were called that your 16yr old son is banging his hot female class teacher, (i know most of us guys will be extremely proud and happy)

Now look at it that you were called that a male teacher was banging your 16yr old daughter. The teacher has signed his death warrant.

So it's more or less what the society approves or see fit

But above all PLEASE BE MORALLY UPRIGHT

Oga, you have an entitled manipulator in your life. Tell her how you want it & she MUST abide. Make effort to spice it up here and there. If she is not willing to comply, send her packing and look for a better girl. Unless you are not a high value man that women will want. Then manage her demands with simping.

Brokeandnolove:
Hi fellas, I will go straight to the point. My girlfriend of over a year hardly ever initiates sex, so sex between us strictly depends on when I make a move. Sometimes it might coincide with when she's Hot and everything goes well. Again I don't like going for more than one round of sex because I hardly cum during the second round till it eventually turns to hard work. She will still be the one that will complain that she's tired. I believe that sex is meant to be enjoyed and not stressful.

Now I am not a freak for sex, and can comfortably go for a week without sex depending on the situation of things between us even though we stay together for now. I don't initiate sex if we are having issues and sometimes she complains that other men come crawling to their women for sex at night after an argument with most times leads to reconciliation but I always lock up as if I am staying with a man thereby making some of our issues linger longer than necessary.

She gets moody each time she's Hot and I don't make a move, I simply told her to initiate sex anytime she wants because with the economic situation on ground sometimes sex is the last thing on my mind.

We had sex yesterday afternoon and later that evening we were gisting and we talked about early morning sex, she pointed out that I hardly initiate early morning sex and I told her it was because she hates being disturbed when sleeping. I proceeded to tell her we will have early morning sex today. Unfortunately I worked all night and slept around 4 am so I couldn't initiate any sex. She woke up moody and angry which made led to an argument that culminated in her leaving the house.

While chatting on WhatsApp she told me not to carry my boring sex life into marriage. So guys is there anything wrong with a lady initiating sex when she wants it I am pretty sure if she initiated sex this morning I wouldn't have refused.

At least we have seen what ‘ironu’ people are doing. What has your ‘alainironu’ people done for you?

TINUBUISMAD:

They even tagged it food bank.
Las Las, na hunger and depression go finally quench and finish ironu people

Fools

Una think say una wise. Now who is feeling the heat more?

This one don chop boko haram prick and lost her brain!

This MFer should just STFU. I hate this loser so much. I have never seen an individual destroy undeserved goodwill so callously.
Buhari almost made me lose faith in Nigeria!

After you have looted the country blind?!

Omo Oko! Omoluabi rere!
No be some omo ale wey dey use left hand to give directions to their father’s house.
Proper fulani slaves!

Abegi! I have no pity for these slay queens. They live their lives hard and fast, so they should deal with the consequences.
I only have a soft spot for really conservative and feminine women who encounter male monsters!

Beautiful!
Unlike some descendants of fulani slaves who have decided to denigrate their ancestors!

Nigerians and hypocrisy. These same muslims who forbid their ancestors religion still find solutions from traditionalist under the cover of night.
Nigerian religiousity without true righteousness is the definition of pure evil!

He honestly didn’t need the unnecessary appearance!

I absolutely support the separation. Marriage should NEVER be by force. I am one of those who think this union was forced and not Divine. However, pending when those who want to leave can, it is better that the current politcs and power play is done in a way that will favor you.

M4A1carbine:
Support their BIAFRA so they leave you to go and suffer in their land.

Igbos are not my problem. I only gave advise on the debacle. Igbos have only 5states, the region is also the least populated, because the indegenes keeps flooding out of the region. This puts the SE at a sharing disadvantage. Unfortunately, Nigeria has been structured as a unitary, resource sharing system from the central. How does a region with the least number of states and least populated region want to get what is equal? The SS, SW and the SE can never get what is equal if the narrative remains the same for the SE.

M4A1carbine:
The Northerners are everywhere
Other tribes are everywhere
Yoruba are also everywhere (in small groups)

but na IGBO be your wahala...

IGBOs are too much abeg...

What is wrong with this Linda Ikeje wannabe?? Why won’t we break your heart? You want to slut around, yet you want a dumb man to reward you with faithfulness and long term relationship? It will NEVER happen!
As long as women decide not to be loyal, submissive, respectful, homely, less slutty, resourceful, fertile and hook the highest value man they can get before 28-30yrs old, they will continue to experience their delusion of male heartbreak.
Women are MOST TIMES responsible for their bad experiences with men, yet they always refuse to take responsibility. Instead, they turnaround and blame men! They refuse to give men what they want, yet they want men to give them their desires. Women always want to impose their version of what is desirable in a relationship on men, but most men don’t do this. Men are built to resist domination from women and their fellow men, no wonder why there is friction in a relationship where the woman is trying to dominate and manipulate the man. This is where the so called heartbreaks come from.

Says a selfish woman who gets everything from government!

Onigbo dey hate on Onigbo senior.
This chic dey blaze like anything, those who know, know!

Excellent advice. They should invest and live in the SE. With increased population, they can demand for an extra state, allocation and political positions which they will then deserve. But when they all decide to run to Lagos and other states they indirectly add to the disadvantages the SE gets.

I think some interests are bent on destroying Tobi Amusan!
I don’t know what she did to offend them, but looks like they ain’t happy with her winning streak.

fergie001:
The AIU confirms on July 19, charged and provisionally suspended Tobi Amusan (NGR) for 3 Whereabouts Failures.

The Charge will be heard by the Disciplinary Tribunal and determined before the World Athletics Championships which holds on August 27-29, 2023.

The AIU has promised to head to CAS to appeal the decision.



Athletics Integrity Unit

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